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[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1254673]Preach on brothers. The guy has seen the girl twice and he is already asking how to bring her on his home turf. I'm going to dissent on this one though. You have seen the rules as MHL has laid out. But I am going to say that if this girl has never asked you for anything AND you have been to where she lives then you are in safe water as far as a relationship. I have been acquainted with many Colombianas. I can count the ones who have asked me for something on one hand and they were out the door from that point. Now if you have been knowing her a long time and she loses a job or something like that. Well that has happened to several of my chicas and they still didn't ask for anything.[/QUOTE]ANYBODY who expects a Colombian girl under 30 years of age and good looking to not cheat on you is fooling himself. Plain and simple. Enjoy her but don't expect monogamy.

And the rule should be quid pro quo. If you give money you should be getting something back besides a little stroke of your ego!

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1254673]Preach on brothers. The guy has seen the girl twice and he is already asking how to bring her on his home turf. I'm going to dissent on this one though. You have seen the rules as MHL has laid out. But I am going to say that if this girl has never asked you for anything AND you have been to where she lives then you are in safe water as far as a relationship. I have been acquainted with many Colombianas. I can count the ones who have asked me for something on one hand and they were out the door from that point. Now if you have been knowing her a long time and she loses a job or something like that. Well that has happened to several of my chicas and they still didn't ask for anything.[/QUOTE]I agree, and follow a similar guideline.

[QUOTE=Bango Cheito; 1254767]ANYBODY who expects a Colombian girl under 30 years of age and good looking to not cheat on you is fooling himself. Plain and simple. Enjoy her but don't expect monogamy.

And the rule should be quid pro quo. If you give money you should be getting something back besides a little stroke of your ego![/QUOTE]I hate to sound so cynical but I agree for the most part. ESPECIALLY if you don't live there and are having a long distance relationship. Some of these Colombianas are so deviant that they can get their mothers, brothers, sisters to lie for them quite easily to corroborate their outlandish stories. Mom speaking: "no she's sleeping and I can't wake her up" "She went to visit her grandma in a town with very little cell service" ha haaaaa lol

ALSO cheating can be defined in many ways where it becomes semantics.

There is the cyber cheater, the one who calls all of her facebook novios "amor" p. S. The guy who your girl is usually having the most correspondence on her wall is probably the guy she's fucking when you're not around."Oh he's just my amigo from the U" Then there are just the straight up PERRAS who do it behind your back period.

A Colombiana is a very SEE and WANT creature. She she's what she wants and will do anything she has to get it. If you can't get her the latest blackberry she will find someone who will. ALSO they are very party "Rumba" oriented and will do whatever they need to to go out and party and rub on some dick dancing while singing to the latest reggaeton. NOTHING stands between a Colombiana the weekends and when its time to rumba, don't kid yourself.

As usual (Your Mileage May Vary)

[QUOTE=Mr Sxm;1254074]We met 1st time on a Island. I've been to Bogota to see her once.[/QUOTE]Lots of guys who meet working girls in St Maarten, Curacao and Aruba have fantasies about them. But the girls have fantasies too. The idea of a nice gringo boyfriend is very attractive to them. Having spent LOTS of time with the girls in the islands and later in Colombia as well, including 5 months with one girl, I can tell you that the islands are a vacation fantasy environment. You don't learn much about her and she doesn't learn much about you either. Everything is too easy and exciting. Reality is living together in Colombia with all her problems right next door or on the the cellphone constantly. I would like to have a girlfriend in Colombia for personal reasons, but I am spending more than a year getting to know one before making a commitment; and I picked one who never asked me for anything and actually gave me things in return for the gifts that I gave her.

The first few years that I played with working girls, I thought the sex would be better if I focused on one girl and had a "relationship". But when I followed one home to Colombia (she wasn't the first, more like the 8th) I discovered that I didn't really know her at all. Why? Because the islands are vacation fantasies. When I went back to the islands, I stopped having fake girlfriends there. I treated all the girls like amigas but not novias. And guess what? The sex was just as good with 5 or 10 regulars as it was with 1 regular girl.

-zing

p.s. of the many girls that I have been involved with in Colombia, only one actually scammed me. most of the others eventually asked me for help with various items, but they weren't tricking me. I don't pay any attention to what they say, only what they DO.

[QUOTE=Bango Cheito;1254767]ANYBODY who expects a Colombian girl under 30 years of age and good looking to not cheat on you is fooling himself. Plain and simple. Enjoy her but don't expect monogamy.[/QUOTE]I've never been one to expect monogamy from any woman. What type of pot would I be to be calling a kettle black?

[QUOTE=MiamiHeatLuver;1254778]A Colombiana is a very SEE and WANT creature. She she's what she wants and will do anything she has to get it. If you can't get her the latest blackberry she will find someone who will. ALSO they are very party "Rumba" oriented and will do whatever they need to to go out and party and rub on some dick dancing while singing to the latest reggaeton. NOTHING stands between a Colombiana the weekends and when its time to rumba, don't kid yourself.[/QUOTE]Where are you finding chicks like this? I must be naive like you said because I don't know any Colombianas who fit this profile. I don't even know a Colombiana who has a BlackBerry. All the ones I know have the little cheap simple starter phone and they are far from party animals. Or is it because I have never been to Medellin?

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1254911]Where are you finding chicks like this? I must be naive like you said because I don't know any Colombianas who fit this profile. I don't even know a Colombiana who has a BlackBerry. All the ones I know have the little cheap simple starter phone and they are far from party animals. Or is it because I have never been to Medellin?[/QUOTE]Are you sure you've been to Colombia? LOL.

Those chicas are all over the country.

Or maybe you're just smart enough to avoid that kind, Like me LOL

[QUOTE=Ricker;1255083]Are you sure you've been to Colombia? LOL. Those chicas are all over the country. Or maybe you're just smart enough to avoid that kind, Like me LOL[/QUOTE]Well maybe my smartness is running out. A buddy of mine who lives in DR was telling me that the chicas are always asking for money. I said that is funny because I have never been hit up for money. Now all of a sudden during and after my trip 2 weeks ago chicas ARE asking for money and gifts. I just received this message from one 20 minutes ago.

S says: mandame 50 dolares tengo una sola hoya.

And I just replied with:

mrenternational x_x_x says: parece que solo quieres dinero y regalos
S says: si te lo pedi, es porque no tengo ni un peso para el pasaje de irme a mi casa. pero gracias que te aproveche tu dinero

I haven't been to Colombia since October so maybe when I get back there my streak will be ended as well.

[QUOTE=Ricker; 1255083]Are you sure you've been to Colombia? LOL.

Those chicas are all over the country.

Or maybe you're just smart enough to avoid that kind, Like me LOL[/QUOTE]That was a funny one by Mr E. The best one was "I don't even know a Colombiana with a blackberry" jejejejejeejejee ufffff LOL. These girls fall asleep by counting bb's jumping over fences!

[QUOTE=MiamiHeatLuver;1255127]That was a funny one by Mr E. The best one was "I don't even know a Colombiana with a blackberry" jejejejejeejejee ufffff LOL. These girls fall asleep by counting bb's jumping over fences![/QUOTE]I feel so stupid at this point. Glad it didn't go to far.

[QUOTE=Mr Sxm;1255166]I feel so stupid at this point. Glad it didn't go to far.[/QUOTE]Don't be too hard on yourself, just learn from your mistake and move on. This has happened to most guys on here to some degree when they were new to the game but won't admit it and boast that they are some kind of super monger or some shit like that, don't believe it for a second. It's like the kid in school that bragged he was getting laid all the time but in reality he was getting nothing, the quiet kid was getting all the ass.

[QUOTE=Manizales911;1255190]Don't be too hard on yourself, just learn from your mistake and move on. This has happened to most guys on here to some degree when they were new to the game but won't admit it and boast that they are some kind of super monger or some shit like that, don't believe it for a second. It's like the kid in school that bragged he was getting laid all the time but in reality he was getting nothing, the quiet kid was getting all the ass.[/QUOTE]Thank you so much for this. The sad thing is I still don't know for 100% sure if it's real or not. She started asking for large sums of money. So it's time to walk.

Hi guys,

I have a rather basic question here. When I take a DOMESTIC flight at JMC airport, usually I try to arrive at the airport 1-1:30 hr before the departure time (for an INTERNATIONAL flight. 2hr before the flight). So usually I leave a hotel in Medellin 2hrs before the departure time for a domestic flight. Am I doing right? Should I leave earlier? Thanks.

[QUOTE=Matt Psyche; 1255261]Hi guys,

I have a rather basic question here. When I take a DOMESTIC flight at JMC airport, usually I try to arrive at the airport 1-1:30 hr before the departure time (for an INTERNATIONAL flight. 2hr before the flight). So usually I leave a hotel in Medellin 2hrs before the departure time for a domestic flight. Am I doing right? Should I leave earlier? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Rionegro is 30-40 min away so I leave 2. 5ish hours depending on the time of day. Traffic in Bogota and Medellin can be brutal! I thought you have been to Medellin a bunch of times.

[QUOTE=Matt Psyche; 1255261]Hi guys,

I have a rather basic question here. When I take a DOMESTIC flight at JMC airport, usually I try to arrive at the airport 1-1:30 hr before the departure time (for an INTERNATIONAL flight. 2hr before the flight). So usually I leave a hotel in Medellin 2hrs before the departure time for a domestic flight. Am I doing right? Should I leave earlier? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Avianca, in some periods of the year, suffer significant and extensive delays on all flights, in particular on MDE-BOG due to traffic congestion at Puente Aereo. Leaving the city 2hrs before by taxi should be enough, but if you take MDE-BOG as first leg of a longer trip, you might check on avianca. Com since the early morning the situation of flight delays (real time departure times) and the decide, if it's a day affected by high delays, to anticipate your arrival to the airport to ask at the checkin desk to be put on a flight scheduled earlier.