Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2705252]It is too bad that that confidence is a feeling and not a fact. It is that feeling, that confidence that so many guys do not get. Sure, I am a nice and fun person but even though I am older and less attractive now, the confidence makes up for it.

It is funny how so many guys on here say, "Don't pay her and see how long she stays. " On my second date with my current gal, she fucked my brains out, and I paid her nothing, and she said nothing. I realized then that she may have been a rarer type of gal. We planned a trip to Cancun, went on it, and at the end of it, she was crying. She said, "Am I never going to see you again? And I promised her I would. After seeing her tears, I said to myself, "Holy shit, this woman is in love with me."

And she is not the only one. I have met at least 4 beautiful women in their 20's proclaim their love for me, and in each case, I think they meant it. Sure, there are a lot more women just out for a buck, but guys need to be open to the fact that there are hot women out there really interested in just being with us.[/QUOTE]So true, I was with a super Hot chick in CDMX today. I started getting nervous, but I calmed down. I could have blown it, but she was totally into me.

Holly shit what a date, we had sex for 2 hours and then went to dinner. She could not thank me enough. Truly an amazing day. Now, I also had a no-show and cancellation, but banging a hot 23 year old more then makes up for it.

The combination of SA and CDMX is so good, anyone claiming differently is just dumb. They can say whatever they want and make all the excuse in the world, but there posts make no sense unless you are into banging ugly girls and paying them.

CDMX Rocks! MDE sucks! Bad advice even sucks more, especially when others cover up for there crappy advise.

So, in the last 7 days, I have had 3 meeting set-up at my favorite Rest. , in CDMX. Unfortunately, 2 fat chicks, I could not have sex with them for free and now tonight a no-show, maybe it is time to move on. On the bright side, I spent the afternoon with a super hot 23 year old. Amazing sex and great company. More good then bad!

[QUOTE=DramaFree11;2705323]So, in the last 7 days, I have had 3 meeting set-up at my favorite Rest. , in CDMX. Unfortunately, 2 fat chicks, I could not have sex with them for free and now tonight a no-show, maybe it is time to move on. On the bright side, I spent the afternoon with a super hot 23 year old. Amazing sex and great company. More good then bad![/QUOTE]I love fat chicks. I like how they can handle long BJs. Could you please provide their usernames? Thanks!

[QUOTE=Simplii;2705642]I love fat chicks. I like how they can handle long BJs. Could you please provide their usernames? Thanks![/QUOTE]I do not normally share, but happy to provide there information.

Monday I have a great afternoon session with this hot 21 year old, from, Senora. Very nice, but maybe a little to calm for me, but great afternoon. I had an late afternoon meeting, the girl she made reservations, for a nice restaurant. I show up on time. She is very late. She say's she is arriving, great. Then she, said her friend is with her, I responded with a, "Hell No! Reminded of my Kiev dayes this happened all the time. She called me, asking if it was okay after I said, no. I hung up. I have another meeting a 9 pm. Life is good. Take the good, with the bad.

I had some successes and failure this trip, but one major step accomplished. My landlord on Airbnb has agreed to deal with me directly, so I cut out the middleman. This will save $100-200 each trip, so those that say I am reckless with my money, maybe you are wrong, just like most of your posts!

I am leaving tomorrow, and will be back Sunday. I wii go work my ass off and return to CDMX.

This place is amazing, you do need to be careful it can get expensive fast. Amazing how some leave this out of there reports.

[QUOTE=DramaFree11;2705705]I had some successes and failure this trip, but one major step accomplished. My landlord on Airbnb has agreed to deal with me directly, so I cut out the middleman. This will save $100-200 each trip, so those that say I am reckless with my money, maybe you are wrong, just like most of your posts!

I am leaving tomorrow, and will be back Sunday. I wii go work my ass off and return to CDMX.

This place is amazing, you do need to be careful it can get expensive fast. Amazing how some leave this out of there reports.[/QUOTE]Question:

Are you leveraging the differences in currency values and do the women in CDMX understand this nuance?

I was in CDMX back in January and I met somebody but she has physical ailments I am not willing to deal with, her one positive is that she speaks English very well.

Attractive women are all over CDMX not sure who speaks English (besides hotel and airport ticket desk employees).

Methinks I can narrow things down a bit with Seeking to get 7 or better on the classic scale, speaks English with minimal accent and under 30 (I'm 51) that may entertain a LTR if things go swimmingly.

I live in LOS Angeles making visits to Mexico very affordable, the conundrum has been speaking Spanish.

Thanks.

Curious: what kind of physical ailment?

Regarding language, it's really worth taking the time to learn Spanish. It's a Category 1 language, which is the easiest to learn. As someone who learned it, trust me it's not that hard once you get past the initial push.

[QUOTE=DJFourMoney;2705993]Question:

Are you leveraging the differences in currency values and do the women in CDMX understand this nuance?

I was in CDMX back in January and I met somebody but she has physical ailments I am not willing to deal with, her one positive is that she speaks English very well.

Attractive women are all over CDMX not sure who speaks English (besides hotel and airport ticket desk employees).

Methinks I can narrow things down a bit with Seeking to get 7 or better on the classic scale, speaks English with minimal accent and under 30 (I'm 51) that may entertain a LTR if things go swimmingly..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DramaFree11;2705699]I do not normally share, but happy to provide there information.[/QUOTE]Hey! Thank you! I just sent you a Private Message!

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2706074]Curious: what kind of physical ailment?

Regarding language, it's really worth taking the time to learn Spanish. It's a Category 1 language, which is the easiest to learn. As someone who learned it, trust me it's not that hard once you get past the initial push.[/QUOTE]I am open to learning, god knows I have plenty of opportunities to practice.

As for her physical problems:

A) She explained an inoperable back issue. At least she was told to give her relief from back pain, surgery was risky.

She opted for pain killers, I didn't read the bottle and it was injected.

B) Loose abadnen skin and stretch marks indicating extreme weight loss.

She has no children, that leads to issue #3.

C) Eating disorder. As in she is concerned about how much she eats to the point of having a smallish meal once a day.

I know fasting as become more in vouge lately but I don't think that applies here.

The positives:

29, no children, never married, European decent, English speaker minimal errors writing or speaking.

I met her walking into the wrong hostel where she was working.

She instantly liked me and it was mutual.

Yeah that's a lot to deal with.

I once talked to a SA chick in CDMX who said in our initial chat that due to a physical condition sex is not a possibility but she's a great companion and would like a SA relationship based on that. I was super nice about it. But I just wanted to say I don't think you understand how much you're fishing in a desert with that approach, on this website.

[QUOTE=DJFourMoney;2706256]I am open to learning, god knows I have plenty of opportunities to practice.

As for her physical problems:

A) She explained an inoperable back issue. At least she was told to give her relief from back pain, surgery was risky.

She opted for pain killers, I didn't read the bottle and it was injected.

B) Loose abadnen skin and stretch marks indicating extreme weight loss.

She has no children, that leads to issue #3.

C) Eating disorder. As in she is concerned about how much she eats to the point of having a smallish meal once a day.

I know fasting as become more in vouge lately but I don't think that applies here.

The positives:

29, no children, never married, European decent, English speaker minimal errors writing or speaking.

I met her walking into the wrong hostel where she was working.

She instantly liked me and it was mutual.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2704934]Maybe. But let me tell you my situation. I'm actually a fairly attractive guy and quite a good conversationalist. But my weakness is I like 20-25 year old women, and I'm mid 40's. I have to be honest with myself. No matter how good I am, they would rather be banging a 25 year old dude. So I can't just rely on my wit and looks to get a girl to elect to stay the night for free. If that's what I want I feel I need to make it clear that's the exchange I'm looking for. It works for me but it's unique to my situation.[/QUOTE]If all this is true about yourself, you should be fine with 20-25 women. Many women in their twenties like mature men in their forties for many reasons. I don't think it's just about money, but also how a mature man carries himself and lays out the date. When I was in my forties, I even had young women comment about my decor. A young man might have a good job, but not know how to carry himself and have post-college tastes. I would also add that in my opinion a fortysomething male is still close to his peak appearance if he keeps himself in shape and hasn't lost too much hair.

That being said, I don't think walking into a bar and hitting on young women is going to go too well. There guard is up. They are likely with friends.

I found that I met them through business, the gym, the coffee shop, etc. Anywhere, I could have a one-on-one greet and flirt. That's my take. I live in a large city. My neighborhood has many young women so the chance to interact is a daily, regular thing.

When I was in my forties, I have had young women literally say "you're fun and we don't have to worry about where this goes".

Not sure if you all are experiencing this. SA prospects have been relatively slow to materialize for me. Between Dec and Feb, I had met with 10 and fucked 6. Two were repeat. We fucked around a lot.

I got back on SA couple weeks ago. Yet to have even one turn to meet and greet. Wondering if it is to do with things opening up.

I am in Europe.

That's good input. Thanks for taking the time.

I actually do well going up to girls in my city, even young ones, and chatting them. I think I assume SA will be different because I'm not playing the long game. If I don't get into bed, tonight, the date is a waste. I don't need female friends who love going out to eat. I've got plenty of those. So then I just think if I'm being honest, a 20 year old girl is going to want to bang a young guy, if all that's gong on is banging. We aren't talking about relationships here.

But I totally hear you. And I appreciate your point. And I will keep that in mind as I pursue these young mujeres.

[QUOTE=WyattEarp;2706341]If all this is true about yourself, you should be fine with 20-25 women. Many women in their twenties like mature men in their forties for many reasons. I don't think it's just about money, but also how a mature man carries himself and lays out the date. When I was in my forties, I even had young women comment about my decor. A young man might have a good job, but not know how to carry himself and have post-college tastes. I would also add that in my opinion a fortysomething male is still close to his peak appearance if he keeps himself in shape and hasn't lost too much hair.

That being said, I don't think walking into a bar and hitting on young women is going to go too well. There guard is up. They are likely with friends.

I found that I met them through business, the gym, the coffee shop, etc. Anywhere, I could have a one-on-one greet and flirt. That's my take. I live in a large city. My neighborhood has many young women so the chance to interact is a daily, regular thing.

When I was in my forties, I have had young women literally say "you're fun and we don't have to worry about where this goes".[/QUOTE]

So after reading all about seeking on here. I had to give it a try for trip to Frankfurt this week.

I know a strange place, but I thought let me get the kinks worked out so I become more proficient.

Set up a profile, posted some hidden pics. And wrote 2 canned messages, 1 for Ex-US, and one for US.

Started making my favorite list last week, and started sending messages 4 days before my arrival on Tuesday this week.

Sent about 20-30 messages. Got 15 replies. Followed up with messages and they all wanted access to my pics.

Approved access to my pics. 2 didn't reply after that. 1 said she didn't believe my pics were real, looked way younger than my stated age of 48 and too attractive, LOL.

12 replied after pics and said they are interested in speaking more.

Sent them all my WhatsApp and switched conversations to WhatsApp. One said telegram. I deleted her.

Then then WhatsApp convos started. Was feeling really good. Was concentrating on the 4 hottest. Two 9. 5's, and two 8's.

Age range, 22, 23, 25, 33.

Set up meetings for lunch and dinner on Tuesday and Wednesday.

Tuesday 23 yr solid 8. Hit it off really well, but I was getting worried she was really thinking I would be more than a SD. Have been in that situation and didn't not end well. So after lunch, got her an Uber and sent her back. She was clearly disappointed. But has been texting me. She was a real German.

Tuesday 23 yr. Solid 9.5, she had initiated the arrangement topic. I did not initiate with any of them on purpose. She said after dinner if I'm as attractive as my picture she will stay the night of that was ok. But would like 400 and cover her taxi home in the morning. I said no problem.

But, then I started thinking how am I not going to go to an FKK. So I canceled last minute. She was cool and still texting.

Went to sharks. Report posted today in FKK thread. She was from some small town in France.

Wednesday 33 yr old. Solid 9. 5, probably 10. But this one caused me the most angst. Would not move to WhatsApp till today when she sent me her phone number at 7 am confirming our time.

We set for 2 pm and she then sent me text 2:20-2:30. I'm starting to think she will flake.

She pulled up to the JW Marriott and was stunning. Turned every head. But had a all business look. So angst again from me.

After 10 minutes the hair flips started, biting lip and blushing and body language completely opened up. Started telling me all kinds of personal things. She had said could only do 1 HR. I thought this was going to be a long courtship and told her I had a 8 pm dinner meeting and wanted to hit the gym and shower. So had concierge call her a Taxi.

As she gets in the Uber she asked again when I was leaving and I said 8 am.

20 minutes later she calls and said she coming back to finish what we started.

Full GFE, Bareback sex, leaves after 1.5 hrs. Called her another taxi and she was gone. She was from the Ukraine, been here 13 years. No other payment that 2 taxis.

Now I am running out of time. For my dinner meeting with the 25 year old. Solid 8. Her English is perfect. Went to school in Toronto. A lot of banter with her on texts.

Had 8 pm reservations at IWASE, best sushi in Germany. Real Deal. I get there at 8 pm. See missed 3 calls from her. I call her and she said can't get an UBer. JPmorgan marathon today in the rain fucked the traffic. She said she has been trying for 45 minutes.

I told her do what you need to do. I'm ordering and eating. They had Yamazaki so I was happy.

Calls me again and said ask them if they have parking. They said garage next door. She said she is driving to me.

Whatever. Don't believe her.

Halfway thru my sashimi course and excellent toro she calls and said come outside. Now I'm losing patience. I'm 48. Already blew one load.

I come outside and she is in a brand new Cayenne Turbo with Russian plates. Now I am worried.

She said I have to park the car because she will not maneuver it through the parking garage.

I get in and we park. I'm starting to think I have been set up. We go in she orders, we finish the bottle of Yamazaki and leave.

Now she says I have to drive her car back to her house? I'm stupid for pussy. I'm horny now with her big tits, red toes, so I do it like a dumbass. She lives in west end I think it's called near the city center. Pull up to her place, she opens gate and I park in the back and she said let's go drink in town. We find a bar, munchio? Or something. It's late now, I said let's get out of here. She said sure. She asked where, I told her I'm going to my hotel and she can join me. She played like she wasn't sure, we walked and talked right to the JW.

In the room, game over, just like I like, hardcore sex, bareback sex, bareback anal, choking whatever I wanted. Fucked her silly. She soaked my sheets. Thank you Yamazaki. She showered, then when I was showering she got dressed like a good girl.

Called her an Uber. She said let's do it again when I'm back. Total costs- Dinner and the drinks, plus 14 e Uber.

Now I see why you guys are so hot on seeking. I'm spoiled as fuck now.

Have a date set up with a 21 yr old in NJ who is texting me like crazy on Friday when I return.

Thanks to all of your tips.

FYI- I tried tinder also. Got a lot of matches, but I found it harder. So need to see how much effort I will put into tinder.