Just a man trying to learn.
Thanks Stickmanfob,
I am no Korean but I have studied both the language and the culture for nearly two years. I can go anywhere by myself and I can have enough of a conversation to get by. I really appreciate a compliment from a Korean and you are right because alot of the KOrean guys I see when I am in these places are shocked to see my white ass there!
It is easy for a foreigner to get off in Itaewon or in the Barber Shop Poles but if you really want to experience the best that Korea has to offer you need to go where Koreans go.
I've managed to get a couple of freebies in places and I think it is because:
1. I go to places many foreigners don't go and
2. I can make the girls feel relaxed by speaking to them in Korean even if it isn't perfect. (in fact that is where I practice alot of my speaking! )
I always encourage the people who read my posts to study because in my experience it really does pay off. I know that white-guys usually don't go to the places I go but that is what I like about it.
IMO I recommend that more foriegners try out places just on a whim. Don't go to the places that you already know. Try a new dae-dal-bang or any place that has massage written in korean out front. Worst case scenario is the say that they don't take foreigners (though that has only happened to me in smaller towns outsie of Seoul). Good luck to all of you and please remember to be nice and polite so that we can keep a good name for ourselves.