Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=Run Mann;1118313]Hard to feel sympathy for her, sad as her story is. A 47 year old Mother of 3 and she fell for this. She shares the majority of the blame for the position she's placed herself in.[/QUOTE]Some time ago when I lived in Malaysia I was chatting on YM with a Filipina and she wanted us both to go on video cam. I said no I'm at work. I can go on cam but not with talking. She then accused me a being a Nigerian scamster. Anyone who has seen me, would know I'm surely and certainly not Nigerian.

I was telling this story to another Filipina I knew there, and she explained that the scams involve a white guy, who goes on cam and pretends to be the one falling in love. He is then used on cam to many many woman, but the guy who calls them is a different guy, the scammer. Many women will spot the fact the guy talking is in fact a black mans voice but some don't.

The scam is often a " I love you and I'm going to send you a gift". Women gets excited. Then someone supposedly from a courier company calls and says that the scammer has sent a package, but before she can collect please deposit usually a few hundred US$ so that immigration " fees" can be processed.

The scammers will then call a day later and say that a bribe has to be paid but the gift is gold and jewellery.

Greed takes over and they continue scamming till they think they have all they can get.

I knew three Filipinas scammed out of a months salary this way.

I hope that one day a scammer gets caught and is strung up by his balls.

Do any of you fine gents ever wonder who Jackson is. Is he an individual, a group of like minded souls, an overweight fellow revelling in sleeze, a guy who takes his briefcase, pecks said wife on cheek and says I'm going to work honey".

We all sit here and revere his work in setting up this fine board, but who might he be.

Oh and does he need an assistant. ? LOL

Rampana,

If your dream is a one on one relationship with a filipina, do not give up.

There are many of them there, looking for you.

I can attest to that.

But you need to stay away from the women who present as sexy minxes on their profile, look for the quieter ones. Be sincere yourself. Look for sincerity in her.

Be honest, do not ask for sex shows.

They take time and patience, but they are there.

And the payoff is just wonderful.

G

[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1117883]. With the weird apologies. It is extraordinary how many girls are always chatting with sisters in Dubai, mothers in the province, uncles in USA etc etc. Silly excuses.

For girls who are just new or casual chat mates, then I am not too fussed about how much they are multi-chatting but I do get pissed off when they tell lies they are not. Even on webcam some girls insist they are chatting to you only but forget I can see them typing away and see them laughing at someone else's jokes.

As I have said before, it is all just a big game so we should just sit back and enjoy it. [/QUOTE]Exactly RK,

What pisses me off most is NOT the fact that they are chatting with someone else the same time BUT lying me bluntly into my face with all their lame excuses and telling they are chatting with you only.

Another lame excuse is: "Ohh, I am here only to help my sister with their assignments." or ". To make my assignments."

And when I am confronting them: " And for doing assignments you have to be online ym and also online in DIA, di ba?"

SILENCE AFTERWARDS.

Yes, it is a big game.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan; 1118358]Do any of you fine gents ever wonder who Jackson is. Is he an individual, a group of like minded souls, an overweight fellow revelling in sleeze, a guy who takes his briefcase, pecks said wife on cheek and says I'm going to work honey".

We all sit here and revere his work in setting up this fine board, but who might he be.

Oh and does he need an assistant. ? LOL[/QUOTE]If he needs an assistant FF there would an awfully long queue.

Am told by those who met him (and I know 5 people / mongers who claim they have met him. Mostly reliable mongers long time friends) that he is a nice guy.

But am in the queue before you LOL

[QUOTE=Rampana; 1118389]Exactly RK,

What pisses me off most is NOT the fact that they are chatting with someone else the same time BUT lying me bluntly into my face with all their lame excuses and telling they are chatting with you only.

Another lame excuse is: "Ohh, I am here only to help my sister with their assignments." or ". To make my assignments."

And when I am confronting them: " And for doing assignments you have to be online ym and also online in DIA, di ba?"

SILENCE AFTERWARDS.

Yes, it is a big game. [/QUOTE]For sure it is a big game and most of us are playing Rampana. A few who don't get some annoyed but I assume they are speaking to more than 1 guy so I try and get them to focus on me, my kinkiness and have fun, see how far a so called innocent will go with WR in chat on cam etc Make myself more intersting than the guy asking to see their susus, the boring old fart etc (not me I hasten to add LOL)

For me is is fun but then am used to ther games, I play myself and rarely do I chat with one girl only. Call me a naughty boy and I will glady accept the compliment

FreebieFan, I have met Jackson many times as well as rented his ST apt. in Buenos Aires. If you are interested in knowing more about him you can check out [url]http://www.argentinaprivate.com/forum/[/url] where he often posts. Very intelligent and a nice guy. Dealing with much of the "flora and fauna" who are ISG forum members is not an easy task.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan;1118356]Greed takes over and they continue scamming till they think they have all they can get..[/QUOTE]Yes but greed is what turns many people into victims by believing that they can get something for nothing or things are as easy as someone is telling them they are.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan;1118356]I hope that one day a scammer gets caught and is strung up by his balls.[/QUOTE]For every one that gets caught there will be many more standing by to take over and despite all the warnings and pleas to the public there will be other suckers waiting in the queue to get taken.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan; 1118358]Do any of you fine gents ever wonder who Jackson is. Is he an individual, a group of like minded souls, an overweight fellow revelling in sleeze, a guy who takes his briefcase, pecks said wife on cheek and says I'm going to work honey".

We all sit here and revere his work in setting up this fine board, but who might he be.

Oh and does he need an assistant. ? LOL[/QUOTE]Jackson does indeed exist, I 1st met him about 7 years ago in bsas. We have enjoyed (I think) each others company at boxing matches, Rolling Stone concerts, meals and many other monger get togethers.

Jackson is like myself a large guy over weight who enjoys life and enjoys women. He is very intelligent, well spoken on numerous subjects, but the thing that you come away with when you 1st meet him is how loud he is. But a real nice guy.

I got tired of YM. It was very irritating to be online doing anything other than chatting, and have some Filipina "buzzing" me over and over again until I would reply to her. Granted, I probably did this to myself. I am not even sure how many contacts I have on my list anymore. At one point, I was simply accepting add requests from anybody. I realized how much of a mistake this was when many of the messages were "Do you want to have some fun?" or "I'm American / British living in Ghana." I tried simply setting my status as "invisible" at the program startup. However, I have since learned about programs available for seeing when a person is logged in, but invisible. It is even more irritating to get buzzed when I am "invisible."

I have tried, in the past, to carry on chat conversations with multiple girls before. And, even though I can tell that they are also involved in multiple conversations, they profess to be chatting with only me, or get irritated that I am chatting with others. I personally get tired of the multiple chat windows, with each girl almost demanding my immediate attention to her message. I know there are some that are truly chatting with me only (at that moment). But I also know that these girls would not be online, if they were not trying to chat with other guys as well.

What is the programe.

[QUOTE=Paulr1950;1118614]What is the programe.[/QUOTE]You can try IMvisible or ydetector.

A simple google search will identify quite a few programmes.

[QUOTE=Paulr1950;1118614]What is the programe.[/QUOTE][url]Http://www.ydetector.com/[/url]

[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder;1118611]I got tired of YM. It was very irritating to be online doing anything other than chatting, and have some Filipina "buzzing" me over and over again until I would reply to her. Granted, I probably did this to myself. I am not even sure how many contacts I have on my list anymore. At one point, I was simply accepting add requests from anybody. I realized how much of a mistake this was when many of the messages were "Do you want to have some fun?" or "I'm American / British living in Ghana." I tried simply setting my status as "invisible" at the program startup. However, I have since learned about programs available for seeing when a person is logged in, but invisible. It is even more irritating to get buzzed when I am "invisible."[/QUOTE]Your problem can also be that even though you log in as 'invisible', Yahoo automatically signs you in to all their websites sometimes including various chat rooms. You can change that in your preference settings. Also, you can tell if someone on your YM list is online, even though invisible, through your yahoo mail address book.

[QUOTE=Flexible Horn; 1118581]Jackson does indeed exist, I 1st met him about 7 years ago in bsas. We have enjoyed (I think) each others company at boxing matches, Rolling Stone concerts, meals and many other monger get togethers.

Jackson is like myself a large guy over weight who enjoys life and enjoys women. He is very intelligent, well spoken on numerous subjects, but the thing that you come away with when you 1st meet him is how loud he is. But a real nice guy. [/QUOTE]Freebie,

I like Flexible, have spent a fair amount of time in the company of Jackson. I actually think we mave have been at a few of the same functions. I spent most of the years 2003-2008 traveling to Buenos Aires where Sir Jackson makes his home.

I have attended Thanksgiving dinners in his "home" and spent a few nights chasing some of the finest examples of femininity in the world (IMHO) , as his wingman as well as more than a few other mongers.

While he does like to enjoy the ladies, he is not also without a heart, as he and some of the other expats in BsAs regularly make donations to local food banks and toy drives for kids at the holidays. I suspect in many ways he is "all of us", he just happens to own this website.

The thing I have found about many of the more prolific participants on this board, is that deep down most of them really like women, and enjoy the company of a lady. This hobby allows them the opportunity to do just that in a very intimate way. I have also found that most are very generous with time and information if asked the right way.

And finally, I think many would be surprised at just how generous they are with the girls that truly need the assistance. At least that is my experience. Sorry if I went off on a tangent.

Sky