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[QUOTE=SJobs;2430097]My definition of Heaven: two 18-year-old smoking hot FB girls from 2 pm until 11:30 pm, Gusto from 12:00 am until 4 am (Thursday. Saturday), another threesome with two 18-year-old FB from 4 - 10 am. What's above heaven? A legit message from a super hot Paisa between 11 am and 2 pm. [/QUOTE]So you literally do not sleep when you are here?
This is the third time I have posted this report but its important.
Some years ago I was in Vancouver looking for pussy. I picked up a beautiful blond and off we go to my motel. In my room I pulled out 2 Hams beers from on top of my AC unit and we enjoy a beer and snacks and conversation before the deed. Out of nowhere she stands up and says I just can't do this. Sorry but I must go. I didn't have much of a chance to say anything and out the door she goes. The last thing she says is I will make my own way back to the city. WOW I ask myself what did I do wrong. OK so here me and Spike sit. Then out of no were there she is knocking on my door. I open the door and she says I really need the money, can we finish our beer first. Whats a guy to do. So in she comes and now she is unbuttoning her top. Oh lord, lets finish these drinks. Were right back were we were just a short time ago. We are laughing, joking, having a nice time when out of no were she stands up and says you son of the***** you changed beers with me. She staggers her way to the door, out she goes but don't forget we are on the second floor. So down the steps she staggers banging her nice, pretty butt on both sides as she descends. She almost made it but 2 steps from the bottom down she goes. So with that out of the car parked nearby comes a rather large black guy and hes helping her to the back seat of his car. Once in the car, my pretty blond disappears, or should I say passes out. This may be my first experience with this kind of robbery set up. I spent much time in Europe before it became too expensive. I would love to hear from other members on there experiences or their habits to avoid this situation.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2430017]If you do not teach them then they will never learn. You can change someone's way of thinking, but you can't change the weather. You don't think that if not anything else but having to pay that wasted taxi so many times they would learn to be on time? I do. If a chick makes me waste my money I can always get more of that, but if a chick makes me waste my time then I am just ass out on that front. They will learn to be on time when it starts costing them money as in his case.[/QUOTE]If the weather was a bad analogy then think of it this way, if you yell at her enough times in English, do you think she is going to learn English? Maybe, and I mean maybe, if you try this experiment with the same chica enough times, she might be able to be on time for you, but it's not going to change their nature.
[QUOTE=Lou32;2430176]
Use the Google Clock as the judge not her phone clock.[/QUOTE]What is the Google Clock?
One thing I hate about the tardiness is I never say can you be here in a hour, and then she says yes, and of course she is late because she wanted the date, but knew a hour wasn't enough. The way I do it, when I deal with a girl directly or an agency, is I ask them what time do you want to come tonight, and you hope she gives you a time that gives her enough time to get ready and uber over. After she gives me a time, if she is 10 minutes late I ask her how far away are you, at that point I will leave if it's "I just left sorry". I will cancel right there and tell her come tomorrow night I'm not waiting anymore.
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2430141]You don't have to take BS. Manage the situation. Find out her schedule. Allow some flexibility. Maintain communication. State your scheduling requirements. If you want her there at 7, because you've got someone else coming at 10, let her know.[/QUOTE]I agree with Mr. E and Turgid on their thoughts on this matter, and you as well.
Whenever I set up an appointment with one of my El Centro regulars I always inform them that they cannot be late as I will not tolerate it, but I do at times. If they are not on time, and haven't called me with a legitimate excuse and won't be more than 30 minutes late, I tell them I am not available. So after they have missed a pay day, and have been benched, they now pretty much show up on time.
For others, some of which that I schedule a day or too out, I am much more flexible as things come up regarding their kids or whomever (boyfriend).
Guys would have less problems with Chicas being late, especially with regulars who are repeat offenders by, 1) benching them when they are going to be late thereby missing a payday, and 2) communicating your expectations as you have outlined. Whether it be an El Centro Chica, or a FayBoo Chica, missing a payday is huge for them. For a Fayboo Chica who gets say 200 K, that's basically 4 days pay at the minimum wage.
I understand Colombians are typically late, and lot of guys who set up a meeting for 2 PM are thrilled if they show up by 3 PM, but I believe once a Chica has missed a payday, at least with someone who has communicated very clear what their expectations are, they will be more punctual. This is what I have experienced.
[QUOTE=MojoBandit;2430010]And you say you gave her a whole 20 minutes before you. What do you think happen next, think she got on the Medellin wide prepago group message and spread the word that "these gringos and mad as hell and they aren't going to take it anymore" and every chica in the city decided to fall into line and be on time. If you had seriously read this forum you would know that there are many guys on this forum who have logged many trips over many years in that city, and will tell you time and time again that these chicas have a whole different perception of timing than we do. Promptness is not valued by them. Would I get frustrated if a chica is late, yes, but I also know to expect it. I get frustrated when it gets cold in the winter too, but I expect it. It is not because of idiot gringos, it is the nature of things. She does not live by the same standards of timing because it is not in her to, she most likely thinks that you are just unreasonably impatient. I learned quickly that these chicas lives are not structured in the least, they are more like a tumbleweed caught in a hurricane as JjBee62 describes below. By proving you could cause her to spend money she probably didn't have, all you proved was you could cause her to spend money she did not have. Maybe I am an idiot gringo but I don't think I can change the lifestyle and habits of a bello chica anymore than my last girlfriend who thought she could change me. Could change me.[/QUOTE]Yes time management is something they need to work on but no point in stressing over this. What I can't stand is the fact that they feel like they can waste your time but the minute you waste their time it's the end of the world. I guess that comes with the territory when fucking with the spoiled ones. For example the first time I met Angie Munoz she was like an HR late but I didn't sweat it mainly because that's what I had been told to prepare for plus this is common ni matter what city you visit. But I had a second appointment booked with her and she waited until an HR before our appointment to tell me that she isn't coming. And that's after I texted her. I can imagine that if I didn't text her she probably would have just not shown up. Anyways I set up a third appointment with her the following day and I guess she was on time which I wasn't really expecting. I got caught up in centro and was in a taxi when she asked for my room number. So when I told her that she got all pissed off talking about that's a lack of respect and I'm wasting her time. She even initially blocked me and then unblocked me it seems because one of my messages never reached her but the message immediately after did. And I just thought that was very hypocritical. So I won't be repeating with her. She is good but I've found someone on another level entirely. And I'll be keeping this one around for sure. And that's the thing they don't understand is that they are easily replaceable. But then again someone like her won't be hurting because she seems to be very popular. She had an appointment scheduled before my second appointment with her and several after me. I highly doubt she canceled all her appointments due to a hangover like she told me. I'm sure some other guy offered her more than I was willing to pay.
[QUOTE=Surfer500;2430269]I agree with Mr. E and Turgid on their thoughts on this matter, and you as well.
Whenever I set up an appointment with one of my El Centro regulars I always inform them that they cannot be late as I will not tolerate it, but I do at times. If they are not on time, and haven't called me with a legitimate excuse and won't be more than 30 minutes late, I tell them I am not available. So after they have missed a pay day, and have been benched, they now pretty much show up on time.
For others, some of which that I schedule a day or too out, I am much more flexible as things come up regarding their kids or whomever (boyfriend).
Guys would have less problems with Chicas being late, especially with regulars who are repeat offenders by, 1) benching them when they are going to be late thereby missing a payday, and 2) communicating your expectations as you have outlined. Whether it be an El Centro Chica, or a FayBoo Chica, missing a payday is huge for them. For a Fayboo Chica who gets say 200 K, that's basically 4 days pay at the minimum wage.
I understand Colombians are typically late, and lot of guys who set up a meeting for 2 PM are thrilled if they show up by 3 PM, but I believe once a Chica has missed a payday, at least with someone who has communicated very clear what their expectations are, they will be more punctual. This is what I have experienced.[/QUOTE]Certainly. For those of us who have a collection of girls who we regularly see, there's no need to tolerate someone who is chronically late.
For the guys without a stable, or who only want new girls, it doesn't work. She's not going to learn from the experience and the next guy will probably have the same problem. And the monger will likely keep experiencing the same issue.
The goal is supposed to be getting laid. Whatever source you use, maximize your return by controlling the situation. When someone walks away from a session without getting laid, they've lost as much as the girl. We spent money to fly there, money to sleep and eat there, money to leave our car in a parking lot. Now we're spending half our time getting angry? I can go to work and do that.
If you're making an appointment, remember she has a lot more issues to deal with than you. Don't try to set up something last minute. It rarely works with your friends at home, why think it will be any different in another country? Try it sometime. Thursday night, 8:30 pm, call a friend and ask him to meet you at a strip club at 9:15. If he's got a wife, kids, girlfriend, dog, job, etc, he's not going to show.
Plan ahead. Find out when they can be there. If she can be there at 7, tell her 7 is perfect and plan on 8. Hit her up at 6 and see if any issues have come up. Hit her up again at 7. Meanwhile, enjoy your dinner, have a drink, catch up on email and chat up the girls you want for tomorrow. Chances are she'll be at your door between 7:45 and 8:30. You really didn't lose any time and you can enjoy yourself.
Meanwhile she's happy. She gets paid and she doesn't have to deal with an angry confrontation. Happy chicas tend to give better service.
[QUOTE=Hotrod10;2430242]This is the third time I have posted this report but its important.
We are laughing, joking, having a nice time when out of no were she stands up and says you son of the***** you changed beers with me.
So with that out of the car parked nearby comes a rather large black guy and hes helping her to the back seat of his car. Once in the car, my pretty blond disappears, or should I say passes out. This may be my first experience with this kind of robbery set up. I spent much time in Europe before it became too expensive. I would love to hear from other members on there experiences or their habits to avoid this situation.[/QUOTE]I get that you are saying that you would have gotten robbed if you had drank the beer that was meant for you? But fate had it that she ended up with beer that was spiked with the knock out drug?
[QUOTE=PunkedLife;2430278] So when I told her that she got all pissed off talking about that's a lack of respect and I'm wasting her time. She even initially blocked me and then unblocked me it seems because one of my messages never reached her but the message immediately after did. [/QUOTE]I can't argue with you, that is hypocritical.
[QUOTE=AdventureSeekr;2430222]So you literally do not sleep when you are here?[/QUOTE]I do sleep, just not alone.
[QUOTE=Hotrod10;2430242]This is the third time I have posted this report but its important.
Some years ago I was in Vancouver looking for pussy. I picked up a beautiful blond and off we go to my motel. In my room I pulled out 2 Hams beers from on top of my AC unit and we enjoy a beer and snacks and conversation before the deed. Out of nowhere she stands up and says I just can't do this. Sorry but I must go. [/QUOTE]LOL, had to read twice before I got the "robbery" bit. Hopefully, it was a memorable experience for her.
[QUOTE=Hotrod10;2430242]This is the third time I have posted this report but its important.
Some years ago I was in Vancouver looking for pussy. I picked up a beautiful blond and off we go to my motel. In my room I pulled out 2 Hams beers from on top of my AC unit and we enjoy a beer and snacks and conversation before the deed. Out of nowhere she stands up and says I just can't do this. Sorry but I must go. I didn't have much of a chance to say anything and out the door she goes. The last thing she says is I will make my own way back to the city. WOW I ask myself what did I do wrong. OK so here me and Spike sit. Then out of no were there she is knocking on my door. I open the door and she says I really need the money, can we finish our beer first. Whats a guy to do. So in she comes and now she is unbuttoning her top. Oh lord, lets finish these drinks. Were right back were we were just a short time ago. We are laughing, joking, having a nice time when out of no were she stands up and says you son of the***** you changed beers with me. She staggers her way to the door, out she goes but don't forget we are on the second floor. So down the steps she staggers banging her nice, pretty butt on both sides as she descends. She almost made it but 2 steps from the bottom down she goes. So with that out of the car parked nearby comes a rather large black guy and hes helping her to the back seat of his car. Once in the car, my pretty blond disappears, or should I say passes out. This may be my first experience with this kind of robbery set up. I spent much time in Europe before it became too expensive. I would love to hear from other members on there experiences or their habits to avoid this situation.[/QUOTE]I'm confused. When did she spike the beer. You pulled them out and gave it to her. Did you walk away for a bit and then she spiked it. How did you switch them in front of her.
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2430141]Do you honestly believe that's how you earn respect? For anyone who served in the military, think about the people who you respected the most. Were they the ones who were always yelling about everything? The ones just looking for a chance to chew someone's ass? Or were they the ones who made you feel appreciated?
At least in the Navy, your method of earning respect guaranteed at some point you were going to be drinking urine, from a cup that several guys had rimmed.
You don't have to take BS. Manage the situation. Find out her schedule. Allow some flexibility. Maintain communication. State your scheduling requirements. If you want her there at 7, because you've got someone else coming at 10, let her know.[/QUOTE]Americans take a lot of crap from the girls that's why the chicas don't respect them. Why do you think American women are the snottiest in the world? Because American men would eat their shit to try to boink them. Do you think the chicas would do the same thing to Colombian men? Hell no, they'll be on time.
I don't mind a girl being late. If we make an arrangement at 10.00 am to meet at 4. 00 pm and 4. 00 pm comes and you tell me you are in a taxi 20 minutes away, no worries. If half an hour after that I call and you say sorry you are about to leave home I say f..k that BS and have nothing more to do with her. Its a pity that American men accustomed to American women's haughtiness will put their tail between their legs and tell the chicas "okay honey" just because they're hoping get some tail.
[QUOTE=MojoBandit;2429589]As for apps, Duolingo is the best app I have found. It has a free version and an paid that works offline. It is designed for anyone (any idiot like me) it builds you up slowly from simple to complex sentences. .[/QUOTE]Thanks for the recommendation. Duolingo is incredible, I've downloaded it, and I currently spend about 1.5 hours a day on it. Little did I know, after spending 70+ days in Medellin in the last six months, I picked up quite a bit of Spanish already.
[QUOTE=KetoAndKettle;2429519]If you want to spend money, buy Rocket Spanish program. I bought the third level (last level) because I had already gained a lot of progress, but you might start the first level. Great program, but a little expensive at 150 a level.
Takes time. But so fucking worth it.[/QUOTE]Thank you so much for your advice. I don't mind spending some money to learning Spanish, and I will give Rocket's Spanish program a try, probably start with the trial version. I am debating between getting a private tutor, attend a group class, and assign up for an online tutor program. Regardless of which option I choose, I will keep practice daily on Duolingo.