From a new guys perspective
Something tells me this one was bound to happen sooner or later.
Feeling lonely in Bangkok, more in the mood for a girl over night than a massage. So yeah let's go where the bars are, find a girl have a few beers and make small talk. She seems ok. At least she's young and looks ok even though not my preferred kind of look. After a while asks if we should go somewhere else, sure let's.
Go a few places just a little more to drink since I'm not looking to get wasted on a weeknight. Now the problem comes. This girl is an idiot. She seemed kind of sweet in the bar, but really. She is an idiot. And very bargirly and "unthai" in the demeanor, foul language, she is nice to me but just really not my type. I guess some guys like their girls rough but I am more charmed by the nice warm and friendly thai ladies that I've met on previous occasions.
So now what to do? Can I just ditch her on the street saying it's not my cup of tea or do I proceed. Well I decided to take her back to hotel even though not really feeling like it. Sex was okay, game for all except anal which I do not go for anyway etc. But man, even when taking a girl just for a nights fun a little more sweet personality goes a long way in my book. She left me thinking I never wanna take a girl from a bar again. Not sure if I explained fully about her ways to make it clear, but just trust me when I say she was a rough neck idiot who talked way to much with a way to foul mouth.
Better luck next time I guess.