[QUOTE=PunkedLife;2437373]If Villainy has personality then great for him. Personality doesn't make grant you a discount when fucking with these girls no matter how many fantasy stories everyone here posts. It sure as hell doesn't make your experiences drama free. This was really more about women in general and kind of tied into my previous posts regarding slmpin. Either the point I was trying to make soared way over your head and there is no point in discussing it any further.
Maybe some of these webcam girls are doing real well but there are others who have to fuck like 3 or 4 guys every day before they are allowed to log in for a session. The webcam industry isn't as lucrative as you think. Unless you are part of the well-known studios you aren't making shit. And there are girls who make 1 k dollars a day while others struggle to make 500 pesos. Just like there are the unfortunate there are also the fortunate. And there are way more unfortunate and unlucky in this country.
Maybe a wealthy person that speaks multiple languages and has a visa and travels around because they took advantage of the opportunity that was given to them whatever that is might not seem like they lack common sense. But they might if you spend enough time around them and witness how they act in compromising situations. When you take away all that materialistic shit they revert back to how they were raised and who they really are. I have been in relationships with Colombian women where I interacted with their family, their friends, people all around them and within their communities enough to come down to the conclusion that these people don't have common sense. Yes, there are exceptions but I am speaking in general. My mind has been made up and it's going to take more than a few paragraphs to undo all the stupidity I have experienced. When you have to constantly explain the most logical and simplistic thing over and over to these people it just makes you give up. It's like you are speaking to a wall at times. Now if you need an example of the lack of common sense then we can take what probably been discussed many times before. I used to try and rationalize it and I can say that my last visit to Colombia has just solidified that theory for me. These girls whether they are in Centro or wherever really, they don't always have a date. Some of them go home hungry. Shit, they are probably going to starve during this quarantine. So tell me why would they choose to fuck up any future money that they may make? It's a simple concept. Do a good job on this date and I will more than likely get more dates in the future. Instead, they try to rob you, overquote / overcharge you, say they will do one thing then change shit up after the cita starts, etc. Etc. Yah I know a lot of them seem to have options and you have sumps that accept these actions for whatever reason. But not all of them continue to receive any dates. No, they are fucking starving but yet they continue with the same fucking games. Does this not scream a lack of common sense? To me it does. And I have had a lot of experiences big or small where I sit down and ponder wtf is going on in their heads. At the end of the day, I just can't accept stupidity and there is a lot of stupidity in that country. DR Tambien. That is why I have said its a cultural thing. How else can you explain it?.[/QUOTE]I'm not going to bother splitting it up. You'll have to figure it out on your own.
In April 2017, I came to Medellin to work for a webcam studio. Over the next 12 months I had some dealings with 4 different studios, around 20 models and 6 different webcam platforms. For the first 9 months I shared an apartment with a successful webcam model. We remain close friends. It eventually all fell apart and I went home. I've already told the entire story twice here, that's more than enough. I have slightly more insight into the webcam world than the average guy. Do we need to have this discussion.
I brought up webcam because you were ranting about girls making money with their premium Snapchat. Why does that bother you? There are women supporting themselves doing all types of jobs. If you don't want to help support them, walk away. There's no reason to get pissed because someone is making money without fucking you.
The next part is kind of confusing. I'll repeat this for you. In less than 24 hours you stated that the working girls are living lavish lifestyles, and you stated they are living on the bare minimum. That's a blatant contradiction. Yet, you want to claim the entire population of the country has no common sense. Stating two opposite claims about a group of people makes no sense. Until you can adequately explain the contradiction to me, I can't accept that you are a competent judge of common sense.
"We all know. "
No. Actually you don't know. You assume. You assume that because you have problems, I have problems. Let me tell a story.
There was a guy who, several years ago, was a frequent poster here and on another board. I read a bunch of his reports and I knew he was completely full of bullshit. There was no way this guy was telling the truth. He hunted me down in Medellin and introduced himself. Over the next few weeks he proved that everything he wrote was accurate. I learned a great deal. Mostly, I learned that you can't judge someone you don't know. Even if someone else is sending you PMs claiming they know the guy.
Rather than tearing apart each of your claims, I'll shorten this.
Everything you are getting so worked up about is subjective, not objective. You assume that everyone else is having the same issues, the same difficulties, and have decided, since everyone else isn't complaining, we must all be weak, scared, pussy blind, little boys that just let the women walk all over us.
What you fail to consider is, maybe it's just you. Maybe all the other guys are telling the truth. Maybe we don't have that many problems. Do you honestly think, if I had problems with anyone that I wouldn't write about them? I write about everything. Several people here, including the Admins, have wished I wouldn't write about so many things.
But I don't encounter those problems. Not every session is spectacular, but none are terrible. At first I had problems. I learned and figured out how to avoid the problems. Girls aren't in a hurry to leave, girls don't argue about doing the things I want and girls don't try to change the price on me.
Why don't I have those problems? The same reason why everyone was happy when I came back to my old job. The same reason why I get hugged at my favorite restaurants. The same reason why girls I dated 35-40 years ago write and say they have great memories of me.
I treat people decent. I smile, I shake hands, I ask how they're doing and I listen. I'm genuinely interested in the people I meet, whether it's the CEO of my company or a working girl in Medellin. I want them all to have great, interesting lives and experiences. I want to hear their stories. I want to know how they got that scar, or why they got this tattoo. I want to know their dreams. When they leave me, I want them to be thinking more about me and less about the money.
I don't want to piss or dump on them, I don't want to abuse them, I don't want to remind them that they are just poor trash. I don't want to argue with them over the price of a fast food combo meal and I don't want them to treat me as if I'm better than them.
Your way works for you. It doesn't seem to work very well because all you can do is complain about the outcome, but perhaps complaining about all the little problems makes you happier than overcoming those problems and having consistent great sex.
My way works for me. It seems to work well, since I have little to complain about.
