More Pattaya Prognosticating
Mr. Goferring: "Two things that I enjoyed were making a night of it by joining a group of buddies and a gaggle of fun girls and bouncing from bar to nightclub and then waking up the next morning and getting rid of morning wood. With the focus on short time, both seem to be disappearing. Pretty girls are available but the market is moving towards a more mechanical and fast pace encounter."
I blame the bar owners for the difficulty finding girls willing to go out on the town or spend the night, or both. They want to sell drinks, and they know letting the girls disappear for some or all of the night makes it less likely guys will alight in their bar. This isn't going to change until the number of girls in town increases, and by a lot.
Senor Mexicant: "Last night I was at Pin Up for a couple of hours with another Pattaya long stay ISGer. We get these girls for 1500 2000ST on their days off. What say you now?"
I say that's possible for guys who live in Pattaya (and their wingmen) who play the long game. Eventually they'll find a girl they fancy who isn't a quick buck artist or princess, and who is willing to drop by for a short time during her "off" hours. For a guy on a two-week holiday this is very difficult.
"There are absolutely drink only hustlers there at Pin UP. Never call them from the stage. Wait until they get off and sit. Then approach and ask: Do you boom boom?"
I think guys are willing to pay for overpriced drinks during a Pattaya bar crawl because it's a thrill to think every girl he sees could be between the sheets in only a few minutes. Maybe she's not his type. Perhaps he's not ready to pull the trigger. But it's a rush to know the moment he decides to go the girl is willing. So this is what Pattaya has become? We have to "pre-qualify" the girls?
Mr. Roberts: "Accept that this is what Pattaya is for a while. Maybe it gets better, but I suspect that with all the sponsors and simps all over the world that live in our home countries where an endless war is being waged against men, there is a never ending pipeline for these girls to supplement their income."
I'll pass on the opening here to decry the "Wussification of Western Men." Instead I'll just say that women have made money off their looks for thousands of years. In Pattaya at the present time, lots of women can scrape by using their looks OUTSIDE the bedroom.
"I think the smartphone and internet has done more damage than anything else. One girl has an OnlyFans page, and she has over 100 people paying her USD $9 bucks a month. But 40,000 Baht a month puts her at three times what a factory worker makes."
What's the old saying? Don't hate the player; hate the game. Some of the girls may have a better head for business than others. But in the aggregate their economic decisions are rational. If there are "sex adjacent" ways to make money, if there are bar owners willing to pay them to increase drinks sales, if there are overseas sponsors with deep pockets and soft hearts, they'll stay out of the bedroom.
What will change that? As Mr. Roberts notes, if fewer bar and club owners were willing to pay them to hustle drinks that might help. A buyers' strike sounds great, but how realistic is that? Maybe competition? But from where?
My 3 day rule interpretation
[QUOTE=OlderMan4U;2745918]I've never heard of the 3-day rule being interpreted that way, but it makes sense. Typically, I understood the 3-day rule to mean that it is a way to help prevent a customer from falling head over heels in love with a bargirl, by cutting it off at 3 days instead of extending it.
But it is true, the more time you spend with a lady, the service goes down a lot. Their true lazy nature comes out and they do the bare minimum.
I can't believe how terrible it has gotten. It's so bad these days, that it's so noticeable when a girl does NOT have any tattoos! I'd say 80-90% of bargirls have tattoos, far higher percentage wise than any other demographic in the world. I really do not like them and makes me cringe when I see guys give likes and gushes over tatted up bargirls on Facebook or Instagram. And I agree about the boob job as well, total turn off.[/QUOTE]555 I always thought the 3 day rule was that you never take a woman you don't know well on a trip longer than 3 days, because there is a good chance that by day 3 you will be tired of her shit. LOL.