Printable View
[QUOTE=Rccola10;3002124]Is the diving decent in Sosua? Who do you go with?/ decent spots? My last couple trips I went with Dive Cabarete and it wasn't much to see.[/QUOTE]You think the ocean around that area has changed for the better? You would be better off saving your money to drink, chill on the beach, and chase tail. I am planning a trip to Silver Bank with one of the Sosua shops.
[QUOTE=Blakman;3002234]Mostly scammers, some okay girls, low percentage of amazing performances. Unless you have a stable of repeats. Visitors should expect this. The volume, hunt, will be more exciting than the outcome. Its typical Sosua.[/QUOTE]I have to agree with this. Day 5 and I can't wait to get out of here on Friday, heading to Santo Domingo for two days and then Peru. Hopefully, Peru will be much better.
Yesterday, I had Ms. "I'm young" and Ms. "Leche" blow up my phone all day. In typical West Coast fashion, I just ignored them and hoped they'd get the hint. Nope, they both got me on the street asking to see me again. Both were very persistent, so I did something very un-Seattlelike. I told both of them they were terrible in bed and I wasted my money once, I'm not going to waste it again.
As expected, there wasn't a question of why or what could they do better. Simply "ok". I'm so done with this place. I ended up having a pretty decent time last year, but all those places I went to off strip are closed. Getting laid isn't an issue, it's all the stuff I like that don't involve pussy are gone. Which leaves me sitting around watching street rats act like street rats all night.
That does not sound too bad. You easily could have avoided the 2 young deadbeats and subbed in quality right? Do that and it goes from good to great.
I guess there isn't much you can do if they just get to the room and completely lie or rush but vetting goes a long way. My fear is getting there and finding that the pool of women is too small to begin with.
[QUOTE=ZipHead;3002151]Just got back from the Infamous Su, and I can report that after a 10 year absence, the "Su" is definitely not dead!!
I paid the two good chicas 4000RD, the street rats 3000RD, and I had a non cedula lady for 4000RD that my security guys help set up.
The beach scene is about the same, I did a training swim every afternoon and there are chicas available there, too.
I was amazed at how fat and unhealthy looking a lot of the chicas are these days, I don't remember that being such an issue long ago. What has happened?? Processed food, too much sugar?? A lot of these gals look terrible for so young!
I wanted to find some haitian girls but never found one until my last night and I was a little typsy then, so didn't pull the trigger. But I will look harder next time as I like really dark girls.
Overall I thought the Su is still a decent deal for being so close to the US and the prices are still good.
I brought a LOT of cash with me and STILL had to take a credit card cash advance at banco Poplar for about 12,000RD. Too much fun![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FlappyGilmore0;3002260]That does not sound too bad. You easily could have avoided the 2 young deadbeats and subbed in quality right? Do that and it goes from good to great.
I guess there isn't much you can do if they just get to the room and completely lie or rush but vetting goes a long way. My fear is getting there and finding that the pool of women is too small to begin with.[/QUOTE]I would say that on most nights there are probably lots of ladies to choose from. Daytime is less busy but actually I met my best two during the day! In the evening a lot more choices and all girls will share their phone numbers with you for later appointments. Interviewing is a must and making good choices is a must.
Definitely go with your "gut feel. " I knew my two street rats would be an issue but the little head was controlling the big head a bit.
I never could understand how some guys would come on a sex tourism website and brag only about how they are getting free pussy in area notorious for prostitution. For most that's the only thing they blog about.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;3001948]Does anything such as free pussy or meals or at least 1 free drink come with the attention and comments? Because I go out in jean shorts and flip flops and get the same attention and comments. It is a town full of hookers. Go down to Santo Domingo where there are a bunch of normal people and you will be completely ignored, despite you putting on a tuxedo, top hat, and carrying a pimp stick.
In Latin America it is usually that people dress business casual in the day because they are working. Then when they finish work and go out with their family and such in the evening, out come the shorts and sneakers or sandals.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HectorG;3001318]Where is TMBTS now? Their website doesn't work anymore. There are multiple Facebook pages and cannot tell which if any are real.[/QUOTE]Man do I miss that site, lot of good info, I was one of the top posters on there since 2015, I could right a novel on the fun times good and bad, Hope some one brings it back or starts an orther forum it was user friendly no offense to this site, You name it all kinds of chicas nocked down lot of mrmories startin with passions black beards sousa citi light Ranco tippico when AD ran it, baggeg a cute thin waitress out of there back in the day, many mucho fun times and chicas, I'm semi retired down to one haitain regular now, any ways be safe carry on Sirs, may the pussy be plentifule and wet!
My last day here. Well, when I woke up this morning, I was done with this place. By now, 3 am on Friday, I might come back. I'll give my final thoughts on this place in another post. In the last few days, I spoke to a couple of people that were here that basically grew up in the ghetto like me. Though I'm not quoting either of them, they both pretty much summed up Sosua. They basically said that Sosua is the ghetto we grew up in. Though many of us have left the hood, we always come back to what we know.
That actually hit home for me. I'm not rich, but I make a decent amount of money. I always feel like a sell out and spend probably more time than I should doing things to not feel like a sell out. Sosua is everything that I spent my entire existence trying to get away from, and here I am, back again. It really does remind me of East 14th Street in Oakland when I was growing except the women are better looking and I don't have to dodge bullets. I think I've outgrown this place and this may be it for me. The person I spoke to yesterday basically said, "youve moved past this, why are you going backwards. There are classier places to get laid.
Anyway, on to fucking. Woke up this morning to a nasty text from someone that was angry because she spoke to me on the street and I ignored her. She said I made her look like an idiot in front of her friends. I apologized and invited her to breakfast with me. I explained that I didn't mean to be rude, but I am harassed all day, I just tune everyone out. So, we go to breakfast and she immediately asks for the dinner menu and orders filet mignon. I wasn't surprised because, well that's what a hood rat would do. I also wasn't surprised when she took two bites and then said she was full; that's what hood rats do. I was surprised when I saw she had put a picture of the food on social media and added the caption "I always win" to it. Yes, I guess if winning is sucking some random stranger's sweaty dick, then yes, she won.
Anyway, she tried to get money from me to get her nails done so she could look nice while she's working. No. That didn't happen. Then she basically asked me to fuck her so she can have money for food (the irony). That was also a no.
So, I spent the afternoon hanging out with a couple of people I met here and the was a chica that I had been watch for a few days. She always does her makeup nicely and wears nice clothes (instead of throwing on some spandex and shaking her ass in the street). So, I invited her to the Waterfront Restaurant at Playa Alicia and told her she needed to change her clothes. She agreed and we had dinner together (she was 30 minutes late), but she showed up wearing the perfect outfit. She was sexy as fuck but she definitely did not look like a hooker. I was extremely impressed. After dinner we went to Blue Ice and everyone stopped to talk to her, hug her, tell her they loved her outfit. I think it was good for her because she tried to go in several times and they wouldn't let her in. Anyway, she was 4 glasses of wine in and told me if she drinks another glass, I'm going to have to fuck her in her ass. So, I immediately ordered her another glass of wine. Anyway, she's a little tipsy and we go back to my place and it was by far the best sex I've had in several years. I was worried someone would think I was killing her because she was screaming at the tip of her lungs. She grabbed me and stuck it in her, so I even raw dogged her. Anyway, I paid her an undisclosed sum of money for dinner, dancing and sex (some people here would be pissed at what I gave her) and (of course) she ask for 500 pesos more for a taxi.
So, I went back to Blue Ice and hung out until they closed and came across a Haitian chica that had been after me all week. So she asked for 3000, I couldn't refuse. I immediately put her in the shower because I had seen her on the street all day. She came out and she was another incredible fuck. Not as good as the Dominican but, damn. So, after a week of nothing but bad sex, the last two I encountered made the entire week worthwhile. I'm now off to Santo Domingo and then to Peru on Sunday.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;3002465]Woke up this morning to a nasty text from someone that was angry because she spoke to me on the street and I ignored her. She said I made her look like an idiot in front of her friends. I apologized and invited her to breakfast with me. I explained that I didn't mean to be rude, but I am harassed all day, I just tune everyone out.[/QUOTE]Red Alert! LOL.
Why would you spend time arguing and apologizing with a hood rat, that wakes you up with an angry text? Bad choice, number 1. Time to move on.
[QUOTE]So, we go to breakfast and she immediately asks for the dinner menu and orders filet mignon. I wasn't surprised because, well that's what a hood rat would do. I also wasn't surprised when she took two bites and then said she was full; that's what hood rats do. I was surprised when I saw she had put a picture of the food on social media and added the caption "I always win" to it. Yes, I guess if winning is sucking some random stranger's sweaty dick, then yes, she won.[/QUOTE]Now you are doubling down on your first bad choice! Why? What were you trying to prove? You're wasting precious time and money, to feed your Confirmation Bias that she's a hood rat?
[QUOTE] Anyway, she tried to get money from me to get her nails done so she could look nice while she's working. No. That didn't happen. Then she basically asked me to fuck her so she can have money for food (the irony). That was also a no.[/QUOTE]No need to get down in the mud, arguing with hood rats, or hustlers. Ever! No point. No minds are ever changed. Complete waste of time and money!
You finally did a course correction and moved on, but waaaay too late, and not until after she left a bad taste in your mouth and a hole in your wallet!
[QUOTE]So, I spent the afternoon hanging out with a couple of people I met here and the was a chica that I had been watch for a few days. She always does her makeup nicely and wears nice clothes (instead of throwing on some spandex and shaking her ass in the street). So, I invited her to the Waterfront Restaurant at Playa Alicia and told her she needed to change her clothes. She agreed and we had dinner together (she was 30 minutes late), but she showed up wearing the perfect outfit. She was sexy as fuck but she definitely did not look like a hooker. I was extremely impressed. After dinner we went to Blue Ice and everyone stopped to talk to her, hug her, tell her they loved her outfit. I think it was good for her because she tried to go in several times and they wouldn't let her in. Anyway, she was 4 glasses of wine in and told me if she drinks another glass, I'm going to have to fuck her in her ass. So, I immediately ordered her another glass of wine. Anyway, she's a little tipsy and we go back to my place and it was by far the best sex I've had in several years. I was worried someone would think I was killing her because she was screaming at the tip of her lungs. She grabbed me and stuck it in her, so I even raw dogged her. Anyway, I paid her an undisclosed sum of money for dinner, dancing and sex (some people here would be pissed at what I gave her) and (of course) she ask for 500 pesos more for a taxi.
So, I went back to Blue Ice and hung out until they closed and came across a Haitian chica that had been after me all week. So she asked for 3000, I couldn't refuse. I immediately put her in the shower because I had seen her on the street all day. She came out and she was another incredible fuck. Not as good as the Dominican but, damn. So, after a week of nothing but bad sex, the last two I encountered made the entire week worthwhile.[/QUOTE][QUOTE]My last day here. Well, when I woke up this morning, I was done with this place. By now, 3 am on Friday, [B]I might come back.[/B][/QUOTE]LOL.
Note: Sosua itself didn't actually change in a week, it was your perception that did. If you learned anything from your experience, you might fare better, next time!
Or not!
Sosua is a hit or miss place for casual visitors, but with a little common sense, there's no need for 90% of the "misses". And I remind mongers all the time, the hardest word to say in Sosua is "No".
[QUOTE=Michael1967;3002465]I spoke to a couple of people that were here that basically grew up in the ghetto like me. Though I'm not quoting either of them, they both pretty much summed up Sosua. They basically said that Sosua is the ghetto we grew up in. Though many of us have left the hood, we always come back to what we know.
That actually hit home for me. Sosua is everything that I spent my entire existence trying to get away from, and here I am, back again. I think I've outgrown this place and this may be it for me. The person I spoke to yesterday basically said, "youve moved past this, why are you going backwards. There are classier places to get laid.[/QUOTE]Let's see if you get as much ridicule as me for saying the same thing in different terms. I always say it is like battered spouse syndrome. Folks always have an excuse why they will not leave the abuse. People also like being a big fish in a small pond. They would stay in 7th grade until they were 20 years old if you let them.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;3002465]So, we go to breakfast and she immediately asks for the dinner menu and orders filet mignon. I wasn't surprised because, well that's what a hood rat would do. I also wasn't surprised when she took two bites and then said she was full; that's what hood rats do. I was surprised when I saw she had put a picture of the food on social media and added the caption "I always win" to it.[/QUOTE]That is what casting pearls among swine get you. And people talk about some interview process. Who goes to an interview and just starts wilding out (except this chick)? Most of those hoes are dumb, but they are not stupid.
One time me and Gogo went to a strip club in the States. I immediately tried to bargain with the chick to fuck. She talking about get some dances first and talk about it later. I told her that I was only going to spend so much money to begin with and I did not plan on wasting any of it on dances. The same as I do not plan on paying a Sosua hooker to fuck as much as it would cost me to take them to a restaurant to eat steak.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;3002465]Anyway, I paid her an undisclosed sum of money for dinner, dancing and sex (some people here would be pissed at what I gave her) and (of course) she ask for 500 pesos more for a taxi.[/QUOTE]Said in my last trip report that no matter how much you give them, they are still going to ask for more. I gave a chick 2000 for all night asked for more. I think you said you gave a chick 5000 for whatever time and she asked for more. It don't even matter. Best to do like Grown Man and bargain for low with the promise of additional if they do a good job. That way the asking for more is already factored in.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;3002465]My last day here. Well, when I woke up this morning, I was done with this place. By now, 3 am on Friday, I might come back. I'll give my final thoughts on this place in another post. In the last few days, I spoke to a couple of people that were here that basically grew up in the ghetto like me. Though I'm not quoting either of them, they both pretty much summed up Sosua. They basically said that Sosua is the ghetto we grew up in. Though many of us have left the hood, we always come back to what we know.
That actually hit home for me. I'm not rich, but I make a decent amount of money. I always feel like a sell out and spend probably more time than I should doing things to not feel like a sell out. Sosua is everything that I spent my entire existence trying to get away from, and here I am, back again. It really does remind me of East 14th Street in Oakland when I was growing except the women are better looking and I don't have to dodge bullets. I think I've outgrown this place and this may be it for me. The person I spoke to yesterday basically said, "youve moved past this, why are you going backwards. There are classier places to get laid.
Anyway, on to fucking. Woke up this morning to a nasty text from someone that was angry because she spoke to me on the street and I ignored her. She said I made her look like an idiot in front of her friends. I apologized and invited her to breakfast with me. I explained that I didn't mean to be rude, but I am harassed all day, I just tune everyone out. So, we go to breakfast and she immediately asks for the dinner menu and orders filet mignon. I wasn't surprised because, well that's what a hood rat would do. I also wasn't surprised when she took two bites and then said she was full; that's what hood rats do. I was surprised when I saw she had put a picture of the food on social media and added the caption "I always win" to it. Yes, I guess if winning is sucking some random stranger's sweaty dick, then yes, she won..[/QUOTE]Good luck in Peru. Food's excellent- incredible mountains. The girls? - well I think with a little lipstick I could be Miss Peru.
[QUOTE=Rccola10;3002124]Oakie-.
Is the diving decent in Sosua? Who do you go with?/ decent spots? My last couple trips I went with Dive Cabarete and it wasn't much to see. I'm debating about saving my money to drink / chill on the beach while chasing tail.[/QUOTE]The diving is excellent in Sosua. PM me if you want.
[QUOTE=MwenByen;3002383]I never could understand how some guys would come on a sex tourism website and brag only about how they are getting free pussy in area notorious for prostitution. For most that's the only thing they blog about.[/QUOTE]For some, ISG is just a pissing match contest.
I'm still on moderation from 10 years ago when I was excoriated by the few negative nabobs that used to control the Sosua Forum, for saying anything nice about Sosua, or the locals.
A couple of issues still burn into their psyche to this day, like the time I bought a coffee pot for my regular, who's place I used to stay at when in town. That became "a stupid gringo buys kitchen appliance for hoes" LOL.
Another time also years ago, I allowed how I let my regular (7 years at that point) carry my shit when we were out and about. I wear shorts, carry no man bag, and like to travel light, so I give her my wallet, glasses, cigarettes, lighter, phone, charger, keys, a pen, meds and walking around money, for concho fare and stuff she needs from the colmado for kitchen supplies, to carry in that portable safe she calls her bolsa. That became "stupid gringo let's hoes carry his wallet! LOL.
All these years later, they still bring it up, see Mr. E's post here 3 days ago! LOL.
He does the same with OldKool, who made the mistake of letting his female companion share his lunch! Years ago! LOL.
So here's another "confession" for them to cut and paste into their meticulously maintained Gotcha Scrapbooks! I let my partner buy my casual tshirts and shorts in PP. Always a great fit, cool in the heat, and cheap! Recycled too for the Climate Change carers.
Now the dude is bragging about taking his Dominicana hoe to the USA?
You can't make this stuff up!
LOL.
[QUOTE=Oakie;3002487]Red Alert! LOL.
Why would you spend time arguing and apologizing with a hood rat, that wakes you up with an angry text? Bad choice, number 1. Time to move on.
Now you are doubling down on your first bad choice! Why? What were you trying to prove? You're wasting precious time and money, to feed your Confirmation Bias that she's a hood rat?
No need to get down in the mud, arguing with hood rats, or hustlers. Ever! No point. No minds are ever changed. Complete waste of time and money!
You finally did a course correction and moved on, but waaaay too late, and not until after she left a bad taste in your mouth and a hole in your wallet!
LOL.
Note: Sosua itself didn't actually change in a week, it was your perception that did. If you learned anything from your experience, you might fare better, next time!
Or not!
Sosua is a hit or miss place for casual visitors, but with a little common sense, there's no need for 90% of the "misses". And I remind mongers all the time, the hardest word to say in Sosua is "No".[/QUOTE]It's great to be in Santo Domingo with internet that actually works. I may even get some work done this weekend.
It's funny, but my thought at the time was that it was simply a misunderstanding and we'd have breakfast and I'd take her back and fuck her and everyone would be happy. The photos she showed me were great. She didn't look anything like her photos. She had such a shitty attitude when I met her, that there was no way I was doing anything with her. The result was a filet mignon and (you're going to laugh) another angry text this morning about how I thought she wasn't good enough for me. I didn't read the whole thing. I just blocked her ass. My daughters would be rolling their eyes right now if they saw this, they always tell me that I when I encounter assholes, I always try and make peace with them and then in the end I finally get pissed off and then do exactly what I should have done in the beginning (like tell them to kiss my ass) and I definitely should have just blocked her ass in the first place.
Someone else mentioned that I paid 5000 pesos. I think I may have paid one that when I couldn't remember where I put my wallet and she spent 30 minutes looking for it with me. She was only 4000, I gave her 1000 because I kept her at my place until my wallet was found. With the exception of the one I took to dinner and dancing and drinking, the most I paid on this trip was 4300 (I usually add 300 for the moto so when they ask I tell them them they already have it). As I said, I don't barter, so if you're budget conscious, you can probably do much better. The last one kept asking me what I was willing to pay and when I didn't respond, she said 3000 and I immediately said yes. She then said, "you were going to take me no matter what I say". I said, "yes". I'm sure she was just kicking herself when she left, I got every dollar worth.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;3002585]It's great to be in Santo Domingo with internet that actually works. I may even get some work done this weekend.
It's funny, but my thought at the time was that it was simply a misunderstanding and we'd have breakfast and I'd take her back and fuck her and everyone would be happy. The photos she showed me were great. She didn't look anything like her photos. She had such a shitty attitude when I met her, that there was no way I was doing anything with her. The result was a filet mignon and (you're going to laugh) another angry text this morning about how I thought she wasn't good enough for me. I didn't read the whole thing. I just blocked her ass. My daughters would be rolling their eyes right now if they saw this, they always tell me that I when I encounter assholes, I always try and make peace with them and then in the end I finally get pissed off and then do exactly what I should have done in the beginning (like tell them to kiss my ass) and I definitely should have just blocked her ass in the first place.
Someone else mentioned that I paid 5000 pesos. I think I may have paid one that when I couldn't remember where I put my wallet and she spent 30 minutes looking for it with me. She was only 4000, I gave her 1000 because I kept her at my place until my wallet was found. With the exception of the one I took to dinner and dancing and drinking, the most I paid on this trip was 4300 (I usually add 300 for the moto so when they ask I tell them them they already have it). As I said, I don't barter, so if you're budget conscious, you can probably do much better. The last one kept asking me what I was willing to pay and when I didn't respond, she said 3000 and I immediately said yes. She then said, "you were going to take me no matter what I say". I said, "yes". I'm sure she was just kicking herself when she left, I got every dollar worth.[/QUOTE]First of all, thanks for sharing, and keeping it real!
You're not the first guy to find himself in the middle of our petty flame wars, here on the Sosua Forum. We have lost a lot of good posters over the years!
I don't believe I've ever weighed in about how much a fellow hobbyist pays for his pleasure, or how he gets off. I enjoy honest Reports, the good, bad, and the ugly! LOL. I'm a firm believer in to each his own, but. [B]I will take issue with the posters that denigrate Sosua expats and fellow mongers,[/B] as those who have never traveled, who enjoy the "humiliation" of being ripped off because, like battered wives, they just don't know any better!
After 15 years of such posts, it gets a little stale, and needs to be called out, because aside from a couple of posters, nobody wants to bother posting a positive report to see it sliced. Diced, and personally insulted. It's basically killed this board for Sosua fans! And that's a shame!
Why do they keep it up from halfway around the world? That's above my pay scale, but I've seen many who got their superior asses handed to them, by "lowly hoes", and hell hath no fury like a monger scorned!
So enjoy what you do! Take advice from anonymous internet posters with grain of salt, keep a sense of humor about it all, and ignore the critics!
LOL.
[QUOTE=Oakie;3002533]For some, ISG is just a pissing match contest.
A couple of issues still burn into their psyche to this day, like the time I bought a coffee pot for my regular, who's place I used to stay at when in town. That became "a stupid gringo buys kitchen appliance for hoes" LOL.
Another time also years ago, I allowed how I let my regular (7 years at that point) carry my shit when we were out and about. I wear shorts, carry no man bag, and like to travel light, so I give her my wallet, glasses, cigarettes, lighter, phone, charger, keys, a pen, meds and walking around money, for concho fare and stuff she needs from the colmado for kitchen supplies, to carry in that portable safe she calls her bolsa. That became "stupid gringo let's hoes carry his wallet! LOL.
All these years later, they still bring it up, see Mr. E's post here 3 days ago! LOL.
He does the same with OldKool, who made the mistake of letting his female companion share his lunch! Years ago! LOL.
So here's another "confession" for them to cut and paste into their meticulously maintained Gotcha Scrapbooks! I let my partner buy my casual tshirts and shorts in PP. Always a great fit, cool in the heat, and cheap! Recycled too for the Climate Change carers.
Now the dude is bragging about taking his Dominicana hoe to the USA?
You can't make this stuff up!
LOL.[/QUOTE]Unless you treat the chicas like shit, then you should never feel bad or embarrassed about what you do for them. I posted part of this story on the Cartegena board, but left of bits because I didn't want to be called a sucker, but when I was in Cartagena last year, I spent a lot of time with a newbie who was a Colombian hippee (people at my Airbnb called her Senorita Loca). When we first met we immediately clicked. We hung out all day had dinner, went dancing until the bars closed. I kept asking her what she wanted and her answer was always whatever you feel right giving me. My thought was, she's running a scam. After she spent the night, I again asked her what she wanted and she said her daughter's birthday was coming up and she really wanted a bicycle. She actually showed me the bicycle and it was like $60. So, I gave her what her I felt another chica would ask for spending the night and having sex with me several times without a condom (after about the third time, it no longer made sense, I'm fixed and if she had an std I would have caught it anyway). Anyway, a few days later I took her to the store and we got her kid the bike and I paid for it. I didn't think much of it, but a couple of weeks after I got home she sent me a video of her daughter riding the bike and thanking me for helping her mother buy it.
It was $60. Filling up my gas tank in Seattle is $70 bucks. A cheap solo dinner alone with drinks is $50 and I eat out every night. $60 meant basically nothing to me but someone's kid had a good birthday because of it. As long as it doesn't hurt me, I'll do what I can. I encourage you to do the same. You can be a giver as well as a taker. Shit, the men in my family all die when they're young. I'm 57, my kids are successful, so they don't need it and I can't take it with me. If it makes someone's life better that is willing to hold still while I pound away on her let her have it.