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Demonia Bangkok and BarBar
Fwiw, have seen very little in ISG on Demonia (or affiliated BarBar). Boths lead with a BDSM theme. I've wanted to take a girl and have her willingly play by my rules. So on we go.
"Yes Master".
I'd probably be in the "average-good" camp when it comes to my p4 p experiences and expectations. A few epics, a few fails and a lot of in between but learning fast from my lessons. And I've thought about how nice it'd be to have full cooperation, to be able to restrain, spank or otherwise compel a co-operative female to be completely submissive to my interest. To scratch that itch, so to speak, I made a visit to BarBar and Demonia on Feb trip to BKK and twice again at Demonia Bangkok this summer. I got over the fact that this was going to cost more than typical Nana or Soi Cowboy fare. And little that happens in those places was going to apply in these. For starters, there's a door fee of 900 b (incl one drink). Add'l drinks are 300. Certainly high enough to discourage many. And then there's the 3500 b if your want 90 minutes with the girl of your choose in a themed room.
First visit was to BarBar (Feb 2016) and it didn't go as I expected. There is a carnival barker at the door. I think he's a owner or partner. You pay 900 bht, site unseen. You get a drink with that entry fee, and a show. There aren't many girls working here. Maybe 20 total, that includes doms, subs and switch. No stunners. I didn't truly understand the importance of clarity, as in stating-quite-clearly that you are only interested a "slave" (submissive) and not a mistress and probably not a switch. In the main room of BarBar the music and the lighting is dark. Your entry fee at BarBar also gets you a show demonstrating what can happen as a mistress takes charge of a slave. You won't be able to choose them, they seem to be on a rotation that you'll have no say in. These are more or less an act. The slave will be in a school girl outfit, a flight attendant, maid or similar outfit. Mini-skirt, stilettos and, stockings. My sort of visual thing. And they'll stay in that attire with you if that's what you want. She'll get tied up, hot waxed, spanked or lightly whipped. I bought each a lady drink. Quickly thereafter, at the discretion of the Mistress, I found myself involved. I asked the slave if she was a naughty girl. The mistress swatted her ass and the slave responded, "yes master". I asked if she was a nasty cock tease, she said "yes master" and did she deserve to be spanked. She said "yes master". This went on for a bit. Then I was given a red candle and told I could dripped wax onto her boobs and eventually, rubbed melted red wax onto her hairless labia. It was interesting finding you can do or say things that'd get your ass kicked out of many a Bangkok venue. What began as an show was getting pretty far down the proverbial rabbit hole. I thought I was learning the boundaries and how things worked. And I could have decided to take either of them, but they weren't my type. (I should mention that if you want to get yourself tied up, hot waxed, spanked and dominated by a mistress, go right ahead. The mistresses told me there is pretty strong demand.)
In sorting things out, I had spent more on drinks and dipped into my funds more than I'd planned. Decided to pass on the first slave and sighted a second girl more to my liking. I thought she was a slave, but never asked. There weren't many customers and everyone sort saw what everyone else was up to. She did allow me to put her in light bondage and take control in one of these play zones, so I thought all good. I thought we'd have a good time in the private room. I asked her if I could I leave her lightly tied up while i did a quick run to a nearby ATM. Then I paid the 3500 b, and took her to the bondage room upstairs for private time. Room is well worn and sorta grimy. After showering, I asked her to put on her costume, which she did. She had a twinkle in her eye and nicely asked if she could have my arms. Sure, what the hell I thought. Bad idea. She bound me to a set of railings and teased the hell out of me, rubbing her ass on me, BJ'd me, however, she wouldn't release the bindings on my arms so that I could properly fuck her. Then I realized I was sorta screwed. She wasn't going to relent. She would not let me finish how I wanted. She proceeded to stuffed her cute pink psy in my face, pulled it open and she HJ me off until I blew a load all over her stockings and legs. Got my nut off, but not how I thought things were going to go. I didn't understand about switch, more than likely didn't handle things the right way at the outset. Lesson learned. I figured I'd made some beginner mistakes, but this would be worth another go. It was so far out of the norm that it was worth it all just for the oddity.).
Later that week, II went to Demonia Bangkok. Suk 33. Demonia seemed more upscale than BarBar. You're screened at the wooden door, mostly checking if you're in the required plain black shirt that tells them you know something about the dress code thing. Demonia is similarly dim, with music that fit (dark trance) That night, there was large private party in a segregated area, but they were allowing customers in. . I told the mamasan that I wanted a slave, a submissive and paid the entry fee as I had already seen a couple of girls who I deemed about perfect for me. There wasn't a"show" that night as in BarBar, but I didn't care or want that either. I choose the girl that I fancied and we talked a bit at the bar. Agreed that we'd go to the bondage room. I bought her a shot of tequila and took it upstairs. On the way, my slave selected a leather paddle, some rope and some cuffs of some kind. Room was much nicer. Had a 2-1/2 meter wooden red X with restrains mounted to the wall of the room, a stockade, a queen bed and a toilet seat style chair, among other things. More things than my imagination could put to good use in 90 minutes. And the 90 minutes had turned into 2 hours and 15 minutes. When the 90 minute knock at the door came, she replied in Thai something to the effect that she was OK, was just starting to shower. 45 minutes later, she apologized, saying we'd both fallen asleep. (b. S.) I really appreciated the extra time and her covering for us. She knew there wasn't likely to be another customer and seemed to want to be in girlfriend mode till closing time.
I repeated twice with Demonia the next visit to bkk. So total there now three times. The mamasan letting me know on one occasion that the girl was new and can not take "hard", meaning to play nice. No problem, I always play nice and enjoy their submission and willingness to do as told (within reason). The girls are great at role play. Both girls were especially good at "yes master", "spank me daddy", "fuck me, master" and "please let me cum, master". These are not starfish. Can and do take a pretty good spanking. They'll cooperate in so many ways, but I don't want to hurt them or push pain limits. They also like it when you make some effort to get them off. The newer girl was multi orgasmic, completely surrendered herself. The girls told me they don't get many Americans in these places. That made my visit better for both as they sorta liked the whole white boy thing.
So "up to you" if Demonia might be of interest. I enjoyed it. Here's some pix from the last two at Demonia. Taken with permission and with a reasonable tip.
my eval, highly subjective...
Appearance of girls at Demonia 7/10.
Attitude, 9/10
Service 8/10.
Overall, would repeat at Demonia, BarBar hit or miss.
Saphan Kwai again 2 weeks ago
Talking about Saphan Kwai, I was just there about 2 weeks ago when in Bangkok for a flight connection. I came here occasionally for over a decade already, and the prices also have gone up a lot compared to before. The standard price they ask for foreigners are pretty much the same in all shops 2000ST plus room fee. Until last year I was always able to get 2000 include room, but this year 2 trips there I was quoted room extra in all the shops. Until about 2-3 years ago, I was always able to get 1500 plus room, but that is no longer available for us foreigners. But I heard many Thai regulars are still paying the old prices.
In recent years, this area is getting more and more foreign tourists especially Japanese and Koreans also western tourists are getting more common as well. D ted is the biggest shop, it has around 50-100 girls every night according to papasan. But this shop for me is always frustrating experience, because every time I saw someone of interest, she is always booked or waiting for regulars, seems like occasional visitors like me never get these few nice ones. Also D ted waiters always constantly pressure us foreign customers to buy more food more drinks. So I always ended up spending around 500-1000 for all the snacks, peanuts, fruits, beers, ice buckets, wet towels, exclude lady sitting fees. So it is in fact more pricier at the end compare to Soi Cow.
Rainbow always has a few nice pretty girls, but these few nice girls in this shop are always playing hard to get, some really choose their customers, some don't go out at all, a few years ago I pulled a nice girl from Rainbow for a very expensive LT after 4 tries in a span of about 6 months. I probably won't waste time like that nowadays.
There are a few more shops, there is one called Bai Tong across street from Rainbow, it has no English sign, it had a few nice young ones before, but this trip the level was bad, I eventually got my pay bar from here last trip, 2000 plus 300 room fee plus 800 drinks, food, sitting fee, 300 tip for lap dance touching. So it ain't much cheaper than Soi Cow or Nana, and I felt the level is also getting worse here as a whole.
For u and Chat, also can be fun late hours, most girls are open to some heavy flirting and can also do some lap dance for some tips, but papasan said some night they don't do wild things anymore, because of the political atmosphere, RCA 1 and 2 are closed for renovation on this visit. I still won't make this place as a regular hang out. But would still check it out occasionally.
