Seeking Arrangements

So I've had moderate success with Seeking in my country. Completely due to my own circumstances otherwise it could be way way better. But that's a story for another day. This report is a about a meeting I had last week in Europe.

I was on a work trip and reached out to a bunch of prospects. A ton of messages and honed in on a couple of girls (due to being there just two days) but particularly this one girl. Very cute 20 year old with photos and great comms. Turns out it will be difficult to meet due to scheduling difficulties. Ughh. But then she tells me she is going back to her country and that I should come. Normally I'the laugh at something like that but sure, why not see a new place for 24-36 hours especially if it's just a two hour flight! She was extremely reasonable with the benefits so that certainly helped. A lot more to the background story but don't want to bore you.

I arrive on a Saturday morning and go around town for a few hours. She tells me she'll be driving a couple hours now to meet me and let's meeting that evening. I'm a bit skeptical now but keep a game face. She did ask if she should plan on staying the night. Yes, baby! You definitely should! We end up meeting near a pre decided restaurant and she's stunning! Beautiful face, green eyes, long wavy hair, petite frame with very nice natural be's. I'm thinking jackpot! Both of us had chosen to not share photos besides our profile photos and kinda trusted each other's descriptions. It could have been a disaster but dodged the bullet I guess.

At the dinner, conversation flows extremely naturally. Alyssa tells me that I'm only her second meeting and that she was visiting a sick friend in the country we originally connected in. It becomes clear later that she's being truthful. She has a beautiful smile, is a tad shy and totally into me. And I her! Holding hands, touches, deep eye contact, everything. We stop for coffee and take a long walk back to the hotel.

In the room she's a little shy and is just sitting on the bed smiling while I change and get comfortable. At this point I'm thinking that it will take quite a bit of effort for her to warm up. Just to test the waters, I go in for a surprise kiss and she responds passionately! It's like a switch turned on and we are making out like crazy. Frequent use of tongue, little bites and just like long time BFGF. I pick her up and bring to my side of the bed and she's sitting in my lap facing me as we kiss each other like our lives depended on it. I pull down her bra and wowwww! A perfect pair of beautiful natural be's with amazing pink nipples. I start to lick, kiss and bite, and she's in heaven. Starts to grind on my dick while positioning herself to feed me those cute boobies. Now I've read about women whose boobs are connected to the pussy but had not experienced myself. Well that changed! She's moaning like crazy and there more I squeeze her nipples with my lips (not teeth), louder she gets with my hand working its magic down there which is becoming a sloppy mess. After ten or so minutes she can't take it any more and starts to get on top. As much as I want that, I want to slow it down and enjoy her as much as I can. Without saying anything I gently push her back onto the bed and put my dick her mouth. And without saying a word she takes it like a champ! Slow, hard and everything in between. Love this girl. Here's where reading all the Steve reports comes in handy haha. I position myself to her side and while she is blowing me, I start squeezing her boobs with one hand and the rubbing her clit with the other. She is uncontrollable and wants it more and more! Guys you have got to try this. It's unreal!

After a good while, I've been hard and don't want to blow just yet. So I suit up and we go in missionary. Wowww. This is one tight pussy and perfectly lubed naturally for me. I start slow while passionately kissing and biting each other's lips off. Before we know it I'm going hard at it and she is thoroughly enjoying it! This goes on for a while and both of us are feeling a massive build up. She says baby I want us to cum together! Yes we will. More hard banging while covering her mouth and I shoot a huge load in the bag just as I feel her walls shrinking and body shaking like I've never experienced before. So so satisfying. She wraps her arms around me and wants me to stay inside her. We just lay there forever kissing, nibbling, chatting before cleaning up ourselves. She told me her story which confirmed my initial thoughts about her in a good way. Said that doesn't have a lot of experience so want to try this. Man! Did I get lucky or what.

Following our chat I start to get hard again and want to try more positions but she wants to sleep because of a long week for catching up with school following her travels. So we cuddled until we did fall asleep naked in each other's arms. Sometime during the night junior got really excited and I tried to live out my fantasy of slow fucking during sleep but she kinda resisted and I backed off. That would have been that but when the junior is too excited, what do you do? Couldn't sleep well until we both woke up hungry and went down to get a quick breakfast.

Back in the room we literally have ten minutes and my mind is racing as to how to initiate, warm her up AND execute all within ten minutes. Told her (actually insisted haha) that I wanted to eat her out before she leaves and she agreed. With a couple minutes of cunnilingus, she seemed happy to be receiving. Eight more minutes! Got out of my shorts and put my dick in her mouth standing while she was still on her back. She seemed a tad surprised but complied. Three minutes of this and I'm hard as a rock! Decide to take charge and make the last five minutes count. Got on the bed and before she knew it entered her in missionary while kissing her passionately. That look on her face! I'll remember it for a very long time. Surprise, resistance, acceptance, kinda happy, everything! We looked at each other for a couple of seconds and both started laughing hysterically. Problem solved. Okay focus now to get it done. Well not a problem with a huge build up overnight, breakfast in our belly, and some amazing hard stokes. Less than 90 seconds before she had to leave, I remove the cover and my juices splashed all over her body including eyes. Wowzer! Never felt this drained and satisfied. Spend the last 45 seconds helping her clean up and she left in a hurry after a massive kiss and taking her envelope while I sat down to revisit what had just happened.

Definitely one of the more memorable experiences and I hope I can meet her again. We have exchanged a few messages but no plans yet. It's too soon. SA is a gold mine guys. But for those who are willing to put in some effort, show patience and respect, and have a bit of a game.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2716548]For the most part, you want to target Polanco, Roma, Condesa, and Reforma. Those are the safest and nicest areas. Women generally will not have issues come visiting you if your hotel is in one of those regions as they are generally safe.

That said, I do like to get out some. We went to the Merced market. [URL]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_Merced_Market[/URL].

Everyone said it was dangerous but nothing happened to us. There were so many things for sale there at prices like 1/3 to 1/2 the USA.[/QUOTE]Thanks Elvis.

[QUOTE=DramaFree11;2716603]Correct, I normally stay in Polanco and love it. I did stay in Remora, one time and I really did not like that area at all, a lot of traffic, and very difficult to get Uber. Stick with Condessa or Polanco, you will love it.[/QUOTE]I think for this trip I will stay with Polanco and then expand. Thanks man.

[QUOTE=Chola;2716826]So I've had moderate success with Seeking in my country. Completely due to my own circumstances otherwise it could be way way better. But that's a story for another day. This report is a about a meeting I had last week in Europe.

I was on a work trip and reached out to a bunch of prospects. A ton of messages and honed in on a couple of girls (due to being there just two days) but particularly this one girl. Very cute 20 year old with photos and great comms. Turns out it will be difficult to meet due to scheduling difficulties. Ughh. But then she tells me she is going back to her country and that I should come. Normally I'the laugh at something like that but sure, why not see a new place for 24-36 hours especially if it's just a two hour flight! She was extremely reasonable with the benefits so that certainly helped. A lot more to the background story but don't want to bore you.

I arrive on a Saturday morning and go around town for a few hours. She tells me she'll be driving a couple hours now to meet me and let's meeting that evening. I'm a bit skeptical now but keep a game face. She did ask if she should plan on staying the night. Yes, baby! You definitely should! We end up meeting near a pre decided restaurant and she's stunning! Beautiful face, green eyes, long wavy hair, petite frame with very nice natural be's. I'm thinking jackpot! Both of us had chosen to not share photos besides our profile photos and kinda trusted each other's descriptions. It could have been a disaster but dodged the bullet I guess.

At the dinner, conversation flows extremely naturally. Alyssa tells me that I'm only her second meeting and that she was visiting a sick friend in the country we originally connected in. It becomes clear later that she's being truthful. She has a beautiful smile, is a tad shy and totally into me. And I her! Holding hands, touches, deep eye contact, everything. We stop for coffee and take a long walk back to the hotel.

In the room she's a little shy and is just sitting on the bed smiling while I change and get comfortable. At this point I'm thinking that it will take quite a bit of effort for her to warm up. Just to test the waters, I go in for a surprise kiss and she responds passionately! It's like a switch turned on and we are making out like crazy. Frequent use of tongue, little bites and just like long time BFGF. I pick her up and bring to my side of the bed and she's sitting in my lap facing me as we kiss each other like our lives depended on it. I pull down her bra and wowwww! A perfect pair of beautiful natural be's with amazing pink nipples. I start to lick, kiss and bite, and she's in heaven. Starts to grind on my dick while positioning herself to feed me those cute boobies. Now I've read about women whose boobs are connected to the pussy but had not experienced myself. Well that changed! She's moaning like crazy and there more I squeeze her nipples with my lips (not teeth), louder she gets with my hand working its magic down there which is becoming a sloppy mess. After ten or so minutes she can't take it any more and starts to get on top. As much as I want that, I want to slow it down and enjoy her as much as I can. Without saying anything I gently push her back onto the bed and put my dick her mouth. And without saying a word she takes it like a champ! Slow, hard and everything in between. Love this girl. Here's where reading all the Steve reports comes in handy haha. I position myself to her side and while she is blowing me, I start squeezing her boobs with one hand and the rubbing her clit with the other. She is uncontrollable and wants it more and more! Guys you have got to try this. It's unreal!

After a good while, I've been hard and don't want to blow just yet. So I suit up and we go in missionary. Wowww. This is one tight pussy and perfectly lubed naturally for me. I start slow while passionately kissing and biting each other's lips off. Before we know it I'm going hard at it and she is thoroughly enjoying it! This goes on for a while and both of us are feeling a massive build up. She says baby I want us to cum together! Yes we will. More hard banging while covering her mouth and I shoot a huge load in the bag just as I feel her walls shrinking and body shaking like I've never experienced before. So so satisfying. She wraps her arms around me and wants me to stay inside her. We just lay there forever kissing, nibbling, chatting before cleaning up ourselves. She told me her story which confirmed my initial thoughts about her in a good way. Said that doesn't have a lot of experience so want to try this. Man! Did I get lucky or what.

Following our chat I start to get hard again and want to try more positions but she wants to sleep because of a long week for catching up with school following her travels. So we cuddled until we did fall asleep naked in each other's arms. Sometime during the night junior got really excited and I tried to live out my fantasy of slow fucking during sleep but she kinda resisted and I backed off. That would have been that but when the junior is too excited, what do you do? Couldn't sleep well until we both woke up hungry and went down to get a quick breakfast.

Back in the room we literally have ten minutes and my mind is racing as to how to initiate, warm her up AND execute all within ten minutes. Told her (actually insisted haha) that I wanted to eat her out before she leaves and she agreed. With a couple minutes of cunnilingus, she seemed happy to be receiving. Eight more minutes! Got out of my shorts and put my dick in her mouth standing while she was still on her back. She seemed a tad surprised but complied. Three minutes of this and I'm hard as a rock! Decide to take charge and make the last five minutes count. Got on the bed and before she knew it entered her in missionary while kissing her passionately. That look on her face! I'll remember it for a very long time. Surprise, resistance, acceptance, kinda happy, everything! We looked at each other for a couple of seconds and both started laughing hysterically. Problem solved. Okay focus now to get it done. Well not a problem with a huge build up overnight, breakfast in our belly, and some amazing hard stokes. Less than 90 seconds before she had to leave, I remove the cover and my juices splashed all over her body including eyes. Wowzer! Never felt this drained and satisfied. Spend the last 45 seconds helping her clean up and she left in a hurry after a massive kiss and taking her envelope while I sat down to revisit what had just happened.

Definitely one of the more memorable experiences and I hope I can meet her again. We have exchanged a few messages but no plans yet. It's too soon. SA is a gold mine guys. But for those who are willing to put in some effort, show patience and respect, and have a bit of a game.[/QUOTE]Congrats man. Great report. I would have never traveled for someone I never met. Good for you!

You may recall a couple weeks ago I had an amazing few days with my home girl Shayla and it was truly one of the finest experiences of my life. Now I've kinda repeated with Sylvia about a week later. And damn it was fun also. There's something about Shayla that clicks better and the sex is five times better. But damn it's just great to be with any hot young thing who adores you. It just can't be beat. And I have some recent more transactional sex to compare it to. No comparison.

Okay back to my time with Sylvia. So it turns out I was able to swing a few more days vacay in Europe with Sylvia a week or so ago. This after I met her in London a couple months ago. I float this vacay idea with her, covering her flights and room but offering half our agreed PpM and she is all over it. Think she woulda for free but I surely don't mind dropping her bucks. Here's how it went down as written at the time.

Landed yesterday and spent most of the day and night with Sylvia. Really great girlfriend during the day and we had epic drunken sex last night.

I was actually mildly worried because the last time I saw her we had some difficulty getting sex working for both of us. She is super tight and hard to get in and if it starts to become a chore I start to sag and it's self fulfilling prophesy.

But we fire things up and the kissing is off the charts good. I give her some great DATY and fingering. And she is moaning like a wild woman. I do some Steve 2 which is fingering her during BJ (mentioned a couple posts back by another member). God I love that. Do that a while.

I figure we better let her start on top and ease in. But we need to get a condom. I was hopi g not but she asks and I say yes. As I fetch it she runs to go pee and I go soft. I ask her to BJ me back up but I never get back to where I was.

We are struggling to mount when I have a flash of brilliance and say "maybe we could start without the condom and then finish with it". (We'the been 100% covered sex so far) And she says "good idea". Fuck yeah it's on!

So she mounts up raw and it takes quite some maneuvering and oohing to get me in. Like Chloe. But we finally got it in and the sex is epic. Could never have happened covered.

She rides cow girl a long time but she's a grinder so no benefit to me but she has an O. I swap her to mish and pound away. Kissing also. OMG she feels great bareback.

We fuck a really long time and she is begging harder and faster. And cumming again. She obv wants me to enjoy finishing and suggests doggie. We do that for s while but as she is sagging I push her down to lazy dog and fuck that is fine. I am ramming for all I'm worth and she's squealing and moaning and asking for harder.

At some point I can't hold it and pull out and finish on her butt. She was s little worried I'the cum inside but I assured her I hadn't. I didn't tell her, but I had STD test last week and all negative so I feel good about that too. Oh and she says "good idea getting rid of the condom". LOL. About twenty minutes later she says she can feel her legs again. Now that's a good fucking!

Anyhow it's epic. And I love picking out her dresses for dinner. Just finished that up. And fucking later of course. Life is good!!

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That's the only sex stuff I wrote down but the entire weekend of BFGF was just wonderful. There is absolutely nothing like having a real girlfriend — or two! LOL. More on that next post!

First things first. Epic post by Chola. Soooo glad you scored that grand slam. I agree with the other poster who said mega ballsy to travel to someone you don't know. So 90 Days! And yet it worked. Glass half full is a style that results in a few fails but some epic success. Congrats. And glad you tried the Steve 2. It's life changing. Nothing like it if you like BJ and fingering. Plus tits. Awesome.

So I guess I've been a bit over sexed but it's given me perspective. In the past few weeks I've had trips with Sylvia and Shayla, had a one night SA lay, and had two girls at the FKK. So two real GFs and three rather transactional meets. (The SA girl struck me as rather pro but not so good at it. LOL.).

And here's where I stand. Transactional sex is great. If you don't have the option of more meaningful date-night sex. Single night date-night sex is awesome. If you don't have the option of a multi-day vacation with a Hot GF. Hot GF weekends are fabulous. Unless you have the option of hot GF weekend with a girl you are smitten with and is a sex goddess. That's where I stand.

So sure. I loved the transactional sex. And I adored my days with Sylvia. Would repeat in a heartbeat. But I am not drawn to her the same as Shayla. And when the pussy sex and the BJ solid but not exceptional there is no comparison with Shayla, who absolutely slays in bed. (It took us a while to find out passion/rhythm actually the first few dates were OK. Its interesting to see how much better its become. )

I once wrote down a top five list. Top BJ. Top kissing. Top sex. Top whatever. And Shayla slays the sex categories. She's a top five in kissing, BJ, sex, passion and who knows what else. Oh. Smile. And just making you feel like a million bucks. When she runs up to you, throws her legs around you and smothers you in a million kisses. What a keeper. Just going to enjoy her as long as I can.

I have a friend who plays the game. And he once gave me the advice that when ur current girl winds down theres always a better one. u just have to keep going. And I wasnt sure I believed him. But he was right. I didn't think Thifany could be exceeded. Alexa finally dethroned her (and remains still a top 2 girl). But Shayla has topped even Alexa and slayed my dragon and I am her man as long as she'll have me. But u know what? Theres a better girl still ahead. Doesnt seem possible. But hey thats what I thought with Thif. Then Alexa. Shes out there somewhere

Just sitting here chatting with Sylvia about our time together. And was reminded of a great moment. Life is just a series of moments. And they are MADE. Make as many as you can.

We'the had an epic day on the water and decided to stay in for the night. Went for a bottle of wine and were drinking it on the balcony four stories above a very busy pedestrian area. We did comment before going out there that you can't see it from the street.

We had a glass or two just chatting. But after a while my proper lawyer girl comes and sits on my lap. We continue to chat and kiss a bit. But the próximity has us worked up. After a while I am squeezing her tits and eventually push up her bikini top for full access. She's quite the posh and proper girl and you could feel a boundary being stretched.

A few more minutes of tits and kissing and I start to pull the release string. She says "you're not taking my top off." and I say "yes I am" and proceed to do so. You can tell she loves that I've pushed her past that boundary. A good SD is more than just a guy that fucks you. You grow a bit together. We take it inside shortly thereafter and have some truly great drunk sex but damn that moment will stay with both of us forever.

[QUOTE=FastMdSter;2715438]Hey man, London was my trip right before Montreal and I thought I wrote an update, but just checked and I didn't.

London was hard for me also, expensive, and never got my full PSE experiences that I search for with SA.

I also had to resort to gorilla warfare which I hate to do.

Additionally, I think the base rate for London is not 3-400 gbp for 8+ white woman. I was paying 500-600 for the night plus the drinking / food.

I was there 6 days and only managed 3 woman / 4.

Encounters, but I had a busy work schedule in the evenings. A lot of pros in London, but I have a feeling prices are coming down.

I had one who was 25, blond / blue eyes, solid 8, fit as fuck. She was half Croatian or something, works at boutique on Bond st.

GFE+ BBBJ, CIM, BBFS, no cip, couldn't deep throat, couldn't take anal. It was a great night, and it seem she was way more happy than me. 600 gbp.

Another one was 33 yo brunette / brown eyes 7. 5-8 in real life, pics were a 9. From Moldova, has been living in London for 10 yrs. Said she was a lawyer, but can't work as a lawyer or something, they don't recognize her experience so basically some kind of assistant. She is looking for a rich husband bad. But, not hot or young enough to pull down the ballers she wants, imo.

She was GFE only, good fuck, no anal, no deep throat etc. Her body was solid, slim, fake tits, but here feet through me off. Kind of wide, but not big. 600 gbp.

Last one, 22 yo waitress from Spain, the hottest one. Solid 8. 5, tall, slim, real tits, tats. Just a hot girl. She was GFE++ BBFS, CIM, cip no anal, no deep throat. 500 gbp.

What I mean by gorilla warfare: I did not negotiate. I had to change my message to this basically:" I'm in town from NYC visiting my London office which I do 2 x a month. Staying at the Four Seasons in Mayfair. I want a beautiful woman who can hold a conversation, use a fork and join me for dinner at Gordon Ramsay's Lucky Cat. You must be able to wear high heels and walk in them. Not a plutonic experience. If we click I will bring you to a private after hour club, and we finish with you taking off your heels in my company. ".

Now I switched dinner restaurants to "Coya" and "Madhus of Mayfair" for the woman. These are lively places, centrally located, so I could leave or she could leave.

You probably don't have access to the private after hour clubs, everything closes at 11 pm basically in London. So you have less time to work your game.

I discussed ppm day of meeting with all.

The Moldovan came back for me another night for free, but it cost me dinner to fuck her.

Hope that helps.

It was a lot of work. Next time I may stick with Diva. But, it's hard for me to get that real uninhibited PSE sex that I desire from a pro lately. There are a few, but it costs way more.

Good luck, don't be hard. And don't believe London is easy. There are still a lot of Arabs there throwing money around.[/QUOTE]I'm curious why the costs are so high. 600 pounds? That's $720 us dollars LOL. I would never pay that much.

If a man is in their 30's, decent looking, and with some level of game, I would think they could bag one of these british hoes for no more than 200 pounds.

Ideally I want to pay as little as possible.

[QUOTE=TerOnlyOnce;2718171]I'm curious why the costs are so high. 600 pounds? That's $720 us dollars LOL. I would never pay that much.

If a man is in their 30's, decent looking, and with some level of game, I would think they could bag one of these british hoes for no more than 200 pounds.

Ideally I want to pay as little as possible.[/QUOTE]I think maybe the wrong question is asked. The right question ought to be what is 600 pounds worth to me? Is it worth an hour of my time or maybe more or maybe not at all?

I think it is all a matter of perspective. Instead of asking how much is the girl worth, maybe a better question to ask is how much is my time worth? The typical profile of SD in SA are going to be different than the rest and will more likely to skew higher income and higher net worth.

Also, I guess if one has game, he does not even need to pay.

This is a compound equation. Is she worth x? The answer is almost always absolutely not, if you just want sex with a pretty girl, go to an AMP or *****house; they're cheaper and there are a lot fewer flakes.

Given what I want (and more importantly, what's available at that given time) is dropping 700 to get something I want worth it to me? Only the buyer can answer that (for the record my answer has been yes twice in the last year but less than that with 4 or 5 other girls).

I honestly believe I've found the secret sauce on that site. I get a lot of positive feedback from my profile but I am also extremely picky. For every 20 girls who contact me unsolicited, I may be open to 1 of them. For every 10 girls I'm interested in (I've not run into 20 I was interested in on a one month subscription and I never go more than a month), I will get at least half that reply to me. From there, if there's chemistry in the texting we meet, if not I walk away. I won't try to bag them if they're just attractive, I want the chemistry and the mental connection too. I like the mentoring and helping them out. It costs me money and time but the amounts have no discernable effect on the rest of my life so I don't worry about it. I don't see how it makes any sense for a man twice, or more, her age to try to get her for as cheap as possible or free. In a situation like this there has to be something tangible that gets exchanged. There are some girls looking for real relationships and I've met a doctor before so the person is also going to dictate the price (Dr didn't want anything and I saw her twice). I've also heard of plenty of wealthy girls looking for their equals so they don't have to "date down" and SA seems like a reasonable place to do that so long as you have the patience to sift through the wannabes and fakers. I've met enough girls to know that there are a significant number of legitimately successful men there.

The numbers mean nothing, it's just a way to keep score in a game you're playing by yourself. What sense does that make?

[QUOTE=Ggekko2009;2718210]I think maybe the wrong question is asked. The right question ought to be what is 600 pounds worth to me? Is it worth an hour of my time or maybe more or maybe not at all?

I think it is all a matter of perspective. Instead of asking how much is the girl worth, maybe a better question to ask is how much is my time worth? The typical profile of SD in SA are going to be different than the rest and will more likely to skew higher income and higher net worth.

Also, I guess if one has game, he does not even need to pay.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TerOnlyOnce;2718171]I'm curious why the costs are so high. 600 pounds? That's $720 us dollars LOL. I would never pay that much.

If a man is in their 30's, decent looking, and with some level of game, I would think they could bag one of these british hoes for no more than 200 pounds.

Ideally I want to pay as little as possible.[/QUOTE]600 is nothing in certain areas. It's insignificant to me for what I'm looking for.

I don't want long term. I want 1 night, few weeks, maybe a few months with the right one.

I am paying lifetime alimony at $285K USD a year to my ex-wife.

I'm about quality. Columbia is the place for cheap pussy.

The performance of escorts are going down hill in London, imo.

[QUOTE=Ggekko2009;2718210]I think maybe the wrong question is asked. The right question ought to be what is 600 pounds worth to me? Is it worth an hour of my time or maybe more or maybe not at all?

I think it is all a matter of perspective. Instead of asking how much is the girl worth, maybe a better question to ask is how much is my time worth? The typical profile of SD in SA are going to be different than the rest and will more likely to skew higher income and higher net worth.

Also, I guess if one has game, he does not even need to pay.[/QUOTE]I agree.

Also, it depends on what you are trying to accomplish. Easy to go out try for one night stands, but still paying the bar tab and a little tedious if you're alone in a foreign city.

I've been talking to this girl in London, tried to meet last weekend but it fell through. Made plans to meet today but she's been checking to see if we're meeting since around 9 am, about 3 times so far. The last time I met a new girl on seeking and went straight to a hotel I got robbed and she was very eager to meet too. Called and texted multiple times to make sure I was coming. Probably going to trust my gut and bail but wondering if anyone else has experienced this. Also hasn't asked for my photo so might be a pro.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2718368]I've been talking to this girl in London, tried to meet last weekend but it fell through. Made plans to meet today but she's been checking to see if we're meeting since around 9 am, about 3 times so far. The last time I met a new girl on seeking and went straight to a hotel I got robbed and she was very eager to meet too. Called and texted multiple times to make sure I was coming. Probably going to trust my gut and bail but wondering if anyone else has experienced this. Also hasn't asked for my photo so might be a pro.[/QUOTE]No photo- pro. Block her. Even the semi-pros ask for pics.

[QUOTE=FastMdSter;2718371]No photo- pro. Block her. Even the semi-pros ask for pics.[/QUOTE]Agreed. Red flag for me too. Last month was proposing a girl and she accepted my arrangement without asking for my photos. Huge red flag. I politely told her I canceled my trip. It just smelled bad.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2718743]Agreed. Red flag for me too. Last month was proposing a girl and she accepted my arrangement without asking for my photos. Huge red flag. I politely told her I canceled my trip. It just smelled bad.[/QUOTE]I have taken it a step further. First, I ask for pictures and then I take the conversation to WhatsApp. After we have a brief conversation on WhatsApp, I discuss what I am willing to pay for a meeting. I have a generic message, I just change what I am willing to pay depending on there looks. After we agree on a price, I say let's have a Video Chat and then we can set up a meeting. This has eliminated most of the scams and b. S.

Remember I am strictly dealing with girls in CDMX. If they like you or truly interested in meeting, none of this will be an issue. I was wasting a lot of time, the Video Chat, makes a huge difference. They can still hide a flaw, but much harder after a video chat.

Another thing, trust your gut, if you have doubts verify.

[QUOTE=DramaFree11;2718828]I have taken it a step further. First, I ask for pictures and then I take the conversation to WhatsApp. After we have a brief conversation on WhatsApp, I discuss what I am willing to pay for a meeting. I have a generic message, I just change what I am willing to pay depending on there looks. After we agree on a price, I say let's have a Video Chat and then we can set up a meeting. This has eliminated most of the scams and b. S.

Remember I am strictly dealing with girls in CDMX. If they like you or truly interested in meeting, none of this will be an issue. I was wasting a lot of time, the Video Chat, makes a huge difference. They can still hide a flaw, but much harder after a video chat.

Another thing, trust your gut, if you have doubts verify.[/QUOTE]So my method is almost the same.

I switch to text or WhatsApp after I have any interest. The ones that are serious will do that no problem. After a few texts I ask for a video call for both our safety. If it's a no, then no further.

When it gets to arrangement. I mention ppm and my donation. For those that don't bring it up I wait till after dinner / drinks when I ask to go up to the room, depending on the mood.

Back in MOntreal next week and from there to Vancouver, Seattle, Portland, SFO. Have dates set up in all locations.

Will see how it goes. I know Montreal and Vancouver will be slam dunks because have had a few video chats and they have been already trying on outfits and lingerie during the video for our dates.

[QUOTE=TerOnlyOnce;2718171]I'm curious why the costs are so high. 600 pounds? That's $720 us dollars LOL. I would never pay that much.

If a man is in their 30's, decent looking, and with some level of game, I would think they could bag one of these British hoes for no more than 200 pounds.

Ideally I want to pay as little as possible.[/QUOTE]The game with seeking is finding the best possible women. What are the criteria a woman must meet for you to be only with her? Set your criteria as high as you want: a 10 in looks, 10 in bed, great chef, never depressed. Go on and on. The hunt and often the fun part is looking for and finding the best.

Thing is if you ever find a woman that meets those crazy high criteria, you are not going to give a shit how much she costs and if she cares about you, she will care much more about spending time with you than spending your money.

If you are just focused on getting laid on the cheap, stick with the WGs.