Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder;1129371]Some of them are decent enough to actually state that they are a ladyboy in their profile. But many try to pass themselves off as female. Personally, I don't care what their sexual preference is, as long as they leave me alone. Unfortunately, some don't pay attention the the line in my profile that states I will block and report ladyboys that "show interest" or post messages to me. I think the DIA admin should ban the ones that insist on attempt to deceive straight men by insisting they are females.[/QUOTE]This is why I insist on C2C (webcam) before I decide if Iw ant to meet them, some will never give a cam and those tend to be rejected by me. This will lessen your chances of surprise on the night but I agree if DIA has a separate section for LBs it would be easier and better

I've been taking the advice of generous posters here and started chatting with girls on DIA. So far, so good and my contact list is beginning to grow. In the process of getting to know the girls I ask simple questions. One of them is, 'what do your parents do for a living? ' On two separate occasions, their answer has been,"my father is a policeman." For all the right reasons, I get very polite with those girls and simply fade out of their social network.

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[QUOTE=Chicochulo; 1129584]I've been taking the advice of generous posters here and started chatting with girls on DIA. So far, so good and my contact list is beginning to grow. In the process of getting to know the girls I ask simple questions. One of them is, 'what do your parents do for a living? ' On two separate occasions, their answer has been,"my father is a policeman." For all the right reasons, I get very polite with those girls and simply fade out of their social network.

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While I would tend to agree one of the best times I had long time back was with a policeman's daughter, a very nuaghty girl who loved a threesome and Greek. She promised never to tell her dad of the naughty things I encouraged / taught her to do. And I am still alive today.

But I would normally err on the side of caution but sometimes if you are good to the girl her dad being in the police could help. I think LOL

So here's the one I'm going to try for on DIA. I supposedly well educated high-flyer, blah, blah. Will keep you all posted

[QUOTE=Hatguy;1129362]There are tonnes of Ladyboys on DIA. I don't know how they can call themselves female and remain on there. There should be some kind of OTHER selection available for them. Cut out all the confusion and save blokes the surprise if they mistakenly pick up one.[/QUOTE]DIA likes Ladyboys if you try to block and report one the following message pops up.

[Quote=DIA]LadyBoys are welcome in our site. You cannot report someone for being LadyBoy to us. You can however block this member from sending you messages if you wish.

Some LadyBoys choose to be enlisted as males, some as females, and this is OK with us. We have no plan of introducing a "third gender" for LadyBoys. If you do not think our policy is acceptable, this site is not for you. Sorry. [/quote]You've just got to be very careful when pulling girls from DIA, I find that most of them will admit to being Ladyboy if you ask.

[QUOTE=Hatguy; 1129362]There are tonnes of Ladyboys on DIA. I don't know how they can call themselves female and remain on there. There should be some kind of OTHER selection available for them. Cut out all the confusion and save blokes the surprise if they mistakenly pick up one.

A friend of mine said her brother was making out all night with a chick. They ended up back at her place and he found out the hard way (pun intended) the horrible truth. Needless to say this Aussie bloke was seen running down the street with his jeans in one hand. Talk about a crying game moment! [/QUOTE]His fault, really. Sure photos can be deceiving but it should not be difficult to figure it out straightaway on the first meeting. Especially in the Phils.

[QUOTE=Finrod;1129659]His fault, really. Sure photos can be deceiving but it should not be difficult to figure it out straightaway on the first meeting. Especially in the Phils.[/QUOTE]You would meet with them? Wow. Its such a turn off with me that I'm thinking I won't bother

With any DIAs at all. Call me intolerant if you want. Don't care.

Hatguy

[QUOTE=Punter 127; 1129642]DIA likes Ladyboys if you try to block and report one the following message pops up.

You've just got to be very careful when pulling girls from DIA, I find that most of them will admit to being Ladyboy if you ask. [/QUOTE]DIA also likes scammers. If you try to report someone who is asking you to send money a message threatening to ban you if you've ever sent money pops up. The bottom line is that you're on your own when you go looking for meat on these websites. It is a "free" site because they make money from advertising and selling any info they get from you like your email address. Proceed with caution.

Exactly. Look, either you can play the game or you can't. It's always buyer beware, no matter what the "transaction". When bringing a girl back to the room, don't keep extra money, watches, etc. lying around; When visiting dodgy parts of town, leave the bling at home; when trying to score free sex with a girl, don't be surprised if someone is trying to scam you just as you're trying to "scam" them out of their clothes. When you think you have a girl, do your homework ahead of time to make sure its not a dude. Don't be naive when sending money to anyone on these sites: it's likely that you'll never see the money, and likely not the pussy, either, again. Be cynical, be aware, be prepared.

[QUOTE=Chocha Monger;1129693]DIA also likes scammers. If you try to report someone who is asking you to send money a message threatening to ban you if you've ever sent money pops up. The bottom line is that you're on your own when you go looking for meat on these websites. It is a "free" site because they make money from advertising and selling any info they get from you like your email address. Proceed with caution.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sinning Desi;1129619]So here's the one I'm going to try for on DIA. I supposedly well educated high-flyer, blah, blah. Will keep you all posted[/QUOTE]So what is your strategy SD? Are you up front and tell them that you are just after a casual no strings shag or do you lure them with promises of a bf / gf relationship and fuck with their emotions as well as their pussy?

Good question. My DIA profile is pretty clear about no marriage, etc. She sounds pretty skeptical on the YM exchanges we've had about my intentions, so she's no dummy. Already told me she won't be putting out. It might be we'll have coffee and part ways.

[QUOTE=Python75;1129835]So what is your strategy SD? Are you up front and tell them that you are just after a casual no strings shag or do you lure them with promises of a bf / gf relationship and fuck with their emotions as well as their pussy?[/QUOTE]

Yes they do admit. And some of them are real attractive. If you feel secure about your sexuality then they should not be a threat to you. Accept them for what they are and like them or leave them.

[QUOTE=Punter 127; 1129642]DIA likes Ladyboys if you try to block and report one the following message pops up.

You've just got to be very careful when pulling girls from DIA, I find that most of them will admit to being Ladyboy if you ask.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hatguy; 1129675]You would meet with them? Wow. Its such a turn off with me that I'm thinking I won't bother

With any DIAs at all. Call me intolerant if you want. Don't care.

Hatguy[/QUOTE]With proper makeup and artful photography, even you can be fooled by the photo into meeting the girl. Which is why you need to try for the cam. But once you've seen for real, you will know as soon as you see them and then you can say thanks for wasting my time. I suppose you could ask it if there are any bangable sisters or cousins available. I am rarely fooled by a photo, but it did happen once. I sent the photo to a friend and he agreed with me that it would have fooled him too. Then he chewed me out for not getting on the cam. If you are so bothered by the risk, then you shouldn't be on DIA at all. That's OK, the other mongers using DIA would say hey less competition for me!

[QUOTE=Python75;1129835]So what is your strategy SD? Are you up front and tell them that you are just after a casual no strings shag or do you lure them with promises of a bf / gf relationship and fuck with their emotions as well as their pussy?[/QUOTE]You have to be careful with these girls. Don't try to make them think you will be their bf if all you plan on is a shagging. There have been news reports of girls committing suicide because the man they thought was their bf, was not sincere. On DIA, my profile states very clearly that I am not interested in marriage or long term relationships. Initially, I thought this would cause most girls to not want to even respond to my interest or messages. But I have so many that I correspond with regularly, that I can hardly keep up with them. In order to shag all of my contacts, I would need to spend a month or more in the Philippines (which would be alright with me). :D There are several girls that have stated how much they love me after just a few messages. When I receive these type of messages, I tell them that I do not want to hurt them, but that I will be involved with other girls as well as them. For most of the girls, this does not seem to phase them. A few have told me how little they like that idea, and they stop writing to me. I don't really care, because there are so many more out there just waiting to spread their legs for any foreigner that will have them. A few of the girls that have actually read my profile, actually told me that they would love to be shagged by me, and would even introduce others as long as they were the first. To which I happily agree to. Of course they all will be first (after the last one). :D

[QUOTE=Eddieb;1129854]If you feel secure about your sexuality then they should not be a threat to you.[/QUOTE]I would take this a step further, and say that if you are that bothered by the idea of ladyboys or gays, then the Philippines (and many other countries) is not the place for you to go. I admit, that I was bothered by them on my first trip there. But I quickly realized that they are like my mother used to tell me about bees,"if you don't bother them, they won't bother you." Especially if you have a sweet little spinner on your arm or lap!