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You have to be careful with these girls. Don't try to make them think you will be their bf if all you plan on is a shagging. Were the first.
Well said indeed. This is the essence of what 'simple' means. Be a gentleman and state your intentions clearly. The few that do run after they find out you're just interested in good shagging are of no consequence. I had one girl act insulted with my offer to come to my hotel room. Then 5 minutes later, she asked if she could meet me at the airport.
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[QUOTE=Chicochulo; 1129584]I've been taking the advice of generous posters here and started chatting with girls on DIA. So far, so good and my contact list is beginning to grow. In the process of getting to know the girls I ask simple questions. One of them is, 'what do your parents do for a living? ' On two separate occasions, their answer has been,"my father is a policeman." For all the right reasons, I get very polite with those girls and simply fade out of their social network.
CC[/QUOTE]On my next trip I'm hopefully going to go one better. And actually do a policewoman. . Working currently in Camp Crame waiting assignment to Cavite. Said she will come in uniform (I guess she meant she would arrive wearing it, but maybe she will come in it.) should be an entertaining afternoon!
[QUOTE=Eddieb;1129854]Yes they do admit. And some of them are real attractive. If you feel secure about your sexuality then they should not be a threat to you. Accept them for what they are and like them or leave them.[/QUOTE]Excuse me, but that's total horse shit!
Okay, can I play Devil's Advocate?
In your life, in your own country, do you tell gals upfront that you want to play and have no plan to get married?
A lot of women spend time landing the guy (s) of their dreams and a lot of guys spend time landing the next piece of booty, and sometimes the permanent booty. These norms are pretty much understood by most single adults in most cultures. And let's be honest, gals use the chance of sex, or the reality of sex, to dangle the hook.
I don't suggest deceiving women in any way, but I'm not one to reveal my carnal desires unnecessarily. Especially to someone who hasn't revealed to me that she wants access to my salary.
There's a hoot," you're too old, bald, smelly, but there is a chance you will support my extended family for the rest of your short live . Not to mention that I get a free pass to Dreamland. I just want to be honest."
BTW, I am certifiabbbbly single, so my white fibs might be easier than yours. X.
[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder;1130025]You have to be careful with these girls. Don't try to make them think you will be their bf if all you plan on is a shagging. There have been news reports of girls committing suicide because the man they thought was their bf, was not sincere. On DIA, my profile states very clearly that I am not interested in marriage or long term relationships. Initially, I thought this would cause most girls to not want to even respond to my interest or messages. But I have so many that I correspond with regularly, that I can hardly keep up with them. In order to shag all of my contacts, I would need to spend a month or more in the Philippines (which would be alright with me). :D There are several girls that have stated how much they love me after just a few messages. When I receive these type of messages, I tell them that I do not want to hurt them, but that I will be involved with other girls as well as them. For most of the girls, this does not seem to phase them. A few have told me how little they like that idea, and they stop writing to me. I don't really care, because there are so many more out there just waiting to spread their legs for any foreigner that will have them. A few of the girls that have actually read my profile, actually told me that they would love to be shagged by me, and would even introduce others as long as they were the first. To which I happily agree to. Of course they all will be first (after the last one). :D[/QUOTE]
I'm more inclined to think your post has more of the equestrian excrement.
I will agree that the so-called lady boys can be quite aggressive and / or annoying. Duh, now you know how gals feel when guys come on too strong.
Warning, homophobics, they are physically men. Don't fk with them because they've been fkd with since they were teenagers, and they will kick your sorry homophophic arse. Possibly alone or maybe with all their high-heeled friends.
Usually a smile and a no thank you will do. But if they follow, calling out love calls, just walk faster. They will get the message. And they can't keep up with those heels. If you really get pinned, just ask them if they can introduce some naturally born ladies. When it comes to sexual drive they are just like normal men. Horny as hell.
I'm sure this post will allow my friends and antagonist alike to make disparaging comments. So be it. X.
Some of the most interesting people I've met are gay and they tend to have a lot of very hot femaie friends.
[QUOTE=Punter 127;1130165]Excuse me, but that's total horse shit![/QUOTE]
I've kinda caused posting storm about these ladyboys. For that I apologize. Here in Japan theyre called.
New half" and they just don't follow you down the street yelling stuff etc. I may get lucky and
not have to deal with them at all. Thats what I'm hoping.
Theyre are a couple of girls mentioned here that members know who I will maybe meet with
doing your homework and getting advice from the boards is essential for this. Many thanks to all here.
[QUOTE=X Man;1130168]Okay, can I play Devil's Advocate?[/QUOTE]Sure! Just make sure you wear the outfit complete with horns and a pitch fork! :D
[QUOTE]In your life, in your own country, do you tell gals upfront that you want to play and have no plan to get married?[/QUOTE]Nope! But then again, I don't chase after American women, because I already know they are all b*tches! :eek:
[QUOTE]I don't suggest deceiving women in any way, but I'm not one to reveal my carnal desires unnecessarily. Especially to someone who hasn't revealed to me that she wants access to my salary.[/QUOTE]Basically, that was the same point I was trying to get across X. And who needs them to reveal their desire for our salary? We already know that is what they all want!
[QUOTE=X Man; 1130168]Okay, can I play Devil's Advocate?
In your life, in your own country, do you tell gals upfront that you want to play and have no plan to get married? [/QUOTE]You can't compare like with like, we all respond to and interact to our environment: the political, economic, social and cultural factors that determine the way we behave.
Set your DIA search to your own western country and the age group that girls are looking for are more in tune with what we as foreigners would expect. That is normally no more than 10 years older than the girl themselves, and then compare this with the age determiner of girls in the Fils.
Maybe I am cynical and have had my fingers burnt before, but my view is that the economic stability of the male as a mate has always played a part in any woman's choice of partner regardless of where in the world that woman is from.
A lot of these girls on DIA in the Fils genuinely want a way out and see foreigners as an escape route from their life of poverty; and it is a trade off. You are right X-man: the girls will overlook how bald, smelly, fat, ugly we are as long as we provide security for them and their extended family.
Sadly a lot of them are poorly educated, vulnerable and naive as to the true agenda of many members of this forum and that leads them wide open to exploitation. And it is this exploitation and deception that I have an issue with. Sure, there are of course many girls who are street wise as to what the foreigner wants and will accommodate those needs in return for material gain and attempt to exploit the foreigner.
[QUOTE=X Man; 1130174]I'm more inclined to think your post has more of the equestrian excrement.
I will agree that the so-called lady boys can be quite aggressive and / or annoying. Duh, now you know how gals feel when guys come on too strong.
Warning, homophobics, they are physically men. Don't fk with them because they've been fkd with since they were teenagers, and they will kick your sorry homophophic arse. Possibly alone or maybe with all their high-heeled friends.
Usually a smile and a no thank you will do. But if they follow, calling out love calls, just walk faster. They will get the message. And they can't keep up with those heels. If you really get pinned, just ask them if they can introduce some naturally born ladies. When it comes to sexual drive they are just like normal men. Horny as hell.
I'm sure this post will allow my friends and antagonist alike to make disparaging comments. So be it. X.
Some of the most interesting people I've met are gay and they tend to have a lot of very hot femaie friends. [/QUOTE]You can think whatever you like, I really don't care what you think. But IMHO ladyboys are a freak of nature, as are the men that go with them.
Homophobic is a word that gays (and gay lovers) throw around to try and belittle anybody that doesn't like them, it has little are no effect on me.
Now if your sorry ass or your sorry ass 'high-heeled' lover boys would like to have a go at kicking my [i]'sorry homophobic arse'[/i] I'm readily available right here in Cebu.
Loose your illustion gents! Everyman who reads / posts on this forum is into exploiting.
Women for sex (some just pay to ease their conscience). In Phils, the women are into exploiting men for money. Some are pros and some are amateurs. Deception is used by both for their given purposes (same in other societies also).
If you go to Phils often, you better get dam good at it! . LOL. Because they are!
[QUOTE=Python75; 1130449]You can't compare like with like, we all respond to and interact to our environment: the political, economic, social and cultural factors that determine the way we behave.
Set your DIA search to your own western country and the age group that girls are looking for are more in tune with what we as foreigners would expect. That is normally no more than 10 years older than the girl themselves, and then compare this with the age determiner of girls in the Fils.
Maybe I am cynical and have had my fingers burnt before, but my view is that the economic stability of the male as a mate has always played a part in any woman's choice of partner regardless of where in the world that woman is from.
A lot of these girls on DIA in the Fils genuinely want a way out and see foreigners as an escape route from their life of poverty; and it is a trade off. You are right X-man: the girls will overlook how bald, smelly, fat, ugly we are as long as we provide security for them and their extended family.
Sadly a lot of them are poorly educated, vulnerable and naive as to the true agenda of many members of this forum and that leads them wide open to exploitation. And it is this exploitation and deception that I have an issue with. Sure, there are of course many girls who are street wise as to what the foreigner wants and will accommodate those needs in return for material gain and attempt to exploit the foreigner. [/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Punter 127; 1130455]You can think whatever you like, I really don't care what you think. But IMHO ladyboys are a freak of nature, as are the men that go with them.
Homophobic is a word that gays (and gay lovers) throw around to try and belittle anybody that doesn't like them, it has little are no effect on me.
Now if your sorry ass or your sorry ass 'high-heeled' lover boys would like to have a go at kicking my [i]'sorry homophobic arse'[/i] I'm readily available right here in Cebu.[/QUOTE]I guess you didn't get any last night. Save your hostilty dude, this is a website where freedom to express opinions means simply that we don't all agree about everything. Rebuttals threats and irrelevant aggression really aint needed.
[QUOTE=FreebieFan;1130470]I guess you didn't get any last night. Save your hostilty dude, this is a website where freedom to express opinions means simply that we don't all agree about everything. Rebuttals threats and irrelevant aggression really aint needed.[/QUOTE]Tell it to X Man he attack me, I only responded.
Sexy, Cute and just turned 18!
Before sending me a message; READ MY PROFILE so you don't waste your time and my time! Thank you.
NO PINOYS or young guys please, I like older CAUCASIAN FOREIGNERS, sorry.
If you think you're old don't worry I just accept you for who you are as long as you aren't a cheapskate.
All I want is respect even if I'm sexy I'm not a bad girl. I'm sweet.
If you are interested maybe we can chat, but I don't want to waste my time.
If you are not interested in me stop sending me messages just to bother me.
Don't try to be romantic, I just want to have fun.
I am a very serious person.
I know there's a lots of liars here on this site.
If you aren't in Manila, don't waste my time with your travel fantasies please.
Forget about naughty cam chats if you can't afford to buy a ticket to Manila to see me in person.
THAT'S ALL I CAN SAY!
A realist:). I like her already. Looks a cutie as well. Might give her a spin as long as she is not too outrageously overpriced.
[QUOTE=Cheapy; 1130456]Loose your illustion gents! Everyman who reads / posts on this forum is into exploiting.
Women for sex (some just pay to ease their conscience). In Phils, the women are into exploiting men for money. Some are pros and some are amateurs. Deception is used by both for their given purposes (same in other societies also).
If you go to Phils often, you better get dam good at it! . LOL. Because they are! [/QUOTE]Cheapy,
That's so cruel. You just burst mongers' bubble of illusion. Here everyone was thinking that they were getting laid because they're handsome foreigners. Some may have even told themselves they were being generous to the girls by paying. Now the whole façade has been blown away. It's just a raw predator versus prey scenario. If you're not one you're the other. Everyone is involved in one big orgy of sexual and economic exploitation. I think I'll have a drink now Cheapy, as I watch lions taking down wildebeests on National Geographic. .
[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt; 1130551]Sexy, Cute and just turned 18!
Before sending me a message; READ MY PROFILE so you don't waste your time and my time! Thank you.
NO PINOYS or young guys please, I like older CAUCASIAN FOREIGNERS, sorry.
If you think you're old don't worry I just accept you for who you are as long as you aren't a cheapskate.
All I want is respect even if I'm sexy I'm not a bad girl. I'm sweet.
If you are interested maybe we can chat, but I don't want to waste my time.
If you are not interested in me stop sending me messages just to bother me.
Don't try to be romantic, I just want to have fun.
I am a very serious person.
I know there's a lots of liars here on this site.
If you aren't in Manila, don't waste my time with your travel fantasies please.
Forget about naughty cam chats if you can't afford to buy a ticket to Manila to see me in person.
THAT'S ALL I CAN SAY!
A realist. I like her already. Looks a cutie as well. Might give her a spin as long as she is not too outrageously overpriced. [/QUOTE]Finally a dose of good and needed reality.
The sweet but sad misguided ladies who post " he must come and meet my parent, I want a knight in shining armour, I want to walk on the beach forever with my soulmate crap " all copy this BS from each other. I always tell them that this site is called " Date in Asia " because its about dates. Not about puffy clouds and rose coloured dreams and holding hands for 3 years before the first kiss.
I hope your girl is hot and horny, Cunning, and I hope she tells all her Filipina friends to come and join the party