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[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1931957]Becareful of the ones that ask you for your hotel straight away. They will show up with a fake cop waving your we chat photo around the lobby. Their intent is to initiatiate a bribe from you by comvincing you that what you've done is ilegal. I always hook up with a we chat girl outside first before taking her to my hotel.[/QUOTE]Really? Will give you the benefit that this is a serious reply. How do you know this? Personal experience? Or just suspicious intuition? This adds another step to your homemade escort recipe. I assume there is an upfront effort needed to sift through WeChat / Sideline site girls, communicate what you want, agree a fee for the service and then arrange the actual meet-up. So it is advised to start the date at a public place to minimize the risk of a scammer? I certainly appreciate that you have shared a new approach (not often we get that), but I am just thinking of the practicality of executing it. For the Average Joe with cash to splash, it might be more safe and practical to stick to a reputable high-end escort provider? Enjoy BKK, AsianRain.
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[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1931957]Becareful of the ones that ask you for your hotel straight away. They will show up with a fake cop waving your we chat photo around the lobby. Their intent is to initiatiate a bribe from you by comvincing you that what you've done is ilegal. I always hook up with a we chat girl outside first before taking her to my hotel.[/QUOTE]WTF, I assume you jest. Once you start writing satirical posts, one cannot be sure. I would have thoughts Hotels would be checking police credentials carefully before co operating with any scams. I can imagine why the girl would be illegal, in which case the Hotel would not allow her.
BTW, Is hiring an Escort completely illegal officially, or only if you pay money to fuck.
Is We Chat another scam avenue to try to expand the field beyond the usual tourist victims?
For Newbies to Thailand:
First rule for scam avoidance (or minimisation) in Thailand is do not shop in touristy shops, jewellery, tailors, (good shops do exist but find out where first) and do not give even the time of day to any unknown Thai person that tries to talk to you for no apparent reason or to make you an offer. Helpful advice often has shady motives. Any person that comes to you on foot to offer advice and explain how things work, needs to be ignored in most cases. The are generally seeking to rip you off badly. I ignore them. Thais find it unduly rude if I tell them to fuck off. Avoid Tuk Tuks and unmetered taxis. If someone crashes into you, it is bound to be a thief. Don't carry valuables around with you too much. Motorcycle riders may want your bag. Not sure how to avoid being scammed by the real police, that is a tough one.
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[QUOTE=AsianRain;1932007]Really? Will give you the benefit that this is a serious reply. How do you know this? Personal experience? Or just suspicious intuition? This adds another step to your homemade escort recipe. I assume there is an upfront effort needed to sift through WeChat / Sideline site girls, communicate what you want, agree a fee for the service and then arrange the actual meet-up. So it is advised to start the date at a public place to minimize the risk of a scammer? I certainly appreciate that you have shared a new approach (not often we get that), but I am just thinking of the practicality of executing it. For the Average Joe with cash to splash, it might be more safe and practical to stick to a reputable high-end escort provider? Enjoy BKK, AsianRain.[/QUOTE]I believe I posted about this from my first hand experience. If the girls insist heavely on your hotel, its a clear sign of foul. In my case, I was lucky. I gave a bullshit hotel because I had not made my mind up on the girl. Next thing I know, I get a what's app message saying she is in my lobby. I told her that I was not home yet. Next was a photo of a Thai man in a police uniform talking to the reception in the hotel. What transpired from then on was many black mail attempts. At the end of the day, she left the hotel lobby with the fake cope empty handed. This thing is not ileagal but its amazing what a newbie can be talked into with the presense of a would be cope.
All first time meetups should be in public places. This is my firm rule for every new hookup I encounter.
Finally, about my satirical posts. I believe they are obvious and there should be no need for explaning.
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[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1932039]Next was a photo of a Thai man in a police uniform talking to the reception in the hotel.
All first time meetups should be in public places. This is my firm rule for every new hookup I encounter.[/QUOTE]That is something to take note of. Risk is risk with our sport. I always assumed the ask for hotel info was either just being business-like or an attempt to gauge the kind of hotel I was staying. I have had WeChat girls stop replying after I indicated that the meet-up would be at a short-time hotel, but never considered anything more sinister other than the girl didn't want to meet at a short time hotel. Thanks for the heads up. Enjoy BKK, AsianRain.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1932009]BTW, Is hiring an Escort completely illegal officially, or only if you pay money to fuck.[/QUOTE]Not paying money makes it of course totally legal since that cannot be considered prostitution at all.
But paying money does not make it any more legal or illegal than it is to engage any other kind of sex worker. Remember, prostitution as such is not illegal in Thailand.
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[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1932039] Next was a photo of a Thai man in a police uniform talking to the reception in the hotel. What transpired from then on was many black mail attempts. At the end of the day, she left the hotel lobby with the fake cope empty handed. This thing is not ileagal but its amazing what a newbie can be talked into with the presense of a would be cope.
All first time meetups should be in public places. This is my firm rule for every new hookup I encounter.[/QUOTE]I would feel more safe in the lobby or bar of my hotel. All (read: the very few) times someone tried to scam me in Thailand (sale of gold, jewelry, suits, offers of "free" trips in a tuk-tuk, sexy shows in an upstairs bar, . . .) happened outside in a public place.
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10 k date night
[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1931902]These last few weeks I been trying out a new concept and it has been so far working great. [/QUOTE]I simply love this concept BKKDog. Most guys on the forum would have stopped reading after they read the title - [B]10K date nite[/B]. It simply goes to show that every girl has a price. And with some game, even the haughtiest of girls will see the light.
I would say this applies to the girls at Thermae also. IMHO the rejection of non-Asians at Thermae is strongly correlated to how much they are willing to pay or not pay. The girls at Thermae simply are making more money by going out with the Asian monger who is probably spending a lot more than the average farang.
I think people have to wake up and smell the lemongrass and galangal. Girls want a better lifestyle. They are not content with just sending subsistence money to their families in Isaan. A girl today wants the latest phones and gadgets, expensive jewelry, branded clothes and accessories, a car, exotic holidays and a healthy bank balance where her tits reach her knees. So if mongers want poontang from Thermae or from anywhere else they are getting rejections, they simply need to loosen their purse strings and not be sore about it. And if a guy across the street is doing it, they should watch and learn rather than simply flaming them for "overpaying".
More power to you!
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Blackmail by We Chat?
[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1932039]. Next was a photo of a Thai man in a police uniform talking to the reception in the hotel. What transpired from then on was many black mail attempts. At the end of the day, she left the hotel lobby with the fake cope empty handed. [/QUOTE]So it is not totally evident if the cop was fake or real. Could be either. I presume the girl would have been in an illegal category, to make the situation more serious.
Scams with Police involvement at Airports have been reported too. Cops have been known to enter someone's house to search for drugs, and then plant the drugs. People having drugs planted in their bag is a well known big problem. So Thailand is very unsafe place for getting set up by real police. You have the well known Koh Tao murders case.
Always useful to be as anonymous as possible in Thailand.
Can't you just block a We Chat contact so you don't receive messages or calls? I don't use We Chat so I don't know.
I used to maintain two phone numbers. One for normal use, and another for the monger phone. This is probably a useful idea to avoid having to change your main phone number too often due to problems. I have a phone that takes two SIM cards as well.
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[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1931891]I disagree. If the right punter and offer came around, it would be a done deal but a scam its not. Is there a sign at Nana and Soi Cowboy that says every girl working there is avalable for full service? I think not. WE punters have got it in our minds that this is true.[/QUOTE]Yes, and if Johnny Depp convinced Kate Middleton, The Dutchess of Canbridge, that one ST with him would "solve world hunger", that would be a done deal too. Why confine it to just working girls? EVERY woman and EVERY man has a price that, if met, ST would be a done deal.
But that isn't really what we're talking about here, right? The mamasan says those particular girls don't go barfine. You want to be the grand exception by coughing up enough baht and lowering expectations to bare bones conditions until you finally get an "ok" from her and the girl? Be my guest. Otherwise, it is a scam to have girls who even the mamasan says will not go barfine in a Nana Plaza Bangkok go-go bar where for decades everyone has known the norm is you pay a barfine and take a girl to a room for sex and the expectation is not that you will buy her Ladydrinks just for a pleasant chat.
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[QUOTE=EihTooms;1932102]The mamasan says those particular girls don't go barfine. You want to be the grand exception by coughing up enough baht and lowering expectations to bare bones conditions until you finally get an "ok" from her and the girl? Be my guest. Otherwise, it is a scam to have girls who even the mamasan says will not go barfine in a Nana Plaza Bangkok go-go bar where the norm has been you pay a barfine and take a girl to a room for sex for decades and everyone knows it.[/QUOTE]ROFLMAO. It is very well known that Coyote girls in the bars are not necessarily barfinable, and even if BFable are not necessarily available for sex.
So why do think they are designated as Coyotes and dress like Coyotes, when they don't know how to dance like Coyotes? Simply because they may not be BFable or because BF is higher. You can label it a scam, but others don't see it. You alone should have the right to fuck every girl you want.
Bargirls have had the right to refuse to fuck a guy, if they don't like him. They can refuse much more easily than MP girls. I always politely ask the girl first if she wants to go with me. Occasionally they do not. In case of Coyotes, if I really fancied them, I would be wise to ask if they BFable and will they go for sex, and what is the price range, since I don't necessarily expect them to go for bottom dollar.
Girls that fuck, have right to reject arrogant assholes too. Cannot just pay the money and be a "done deal".
A very significant portion of customers in the bar will not take any girl to fuck, the girl does not initially know what the customer is looking for.
Ordinary bargirls could be having a period, have a medical problem etc. , maybe waiting for customer who will arrive in 15 minutes time. May not always be available to fuck. It's wise to check the situation.
Buying a girl a drink is not an automatic pass to fuck her for whatever you think she is worth. Even paying the BF does not guarantee a fuck. It allows her to get changed and leave the bar with you or sit with you without dancing. Separate negotiation is required for the sex, ST or LT.
Guys have been known to BF a Coyote girl late when the BF price drops and take her out to a disco or club, or restaurant even she does not officially go for sex. I don't know if these girls later change their minds and fuck or not. Palm who used to work at Mercury had plenty of customers like that, she was just so hot and pretty. These customers came for her only. I did not ever get round to BFing her myself. Obviously I wanted to fuck her but did not get a chance to and don't know if she was persuadable. I did fuck Anna another Coyote in there, who was a real go-er on the bed and the best Coyote dancer in the bar (also did her in her Midnite days a few years before). She clearly was available for sex. Both girls are gone now. Some Coyotes in there can be fucked, for sure. The normal gogo girls in there are mostly too pudgy for me (but Indians seem to generally like more meat on the girls).
Sure I don't like it when hot Coyote girls have a husband and are not available to fuck. However I have to accept that they have a right to work in a non sex role. They are not sex slaves that can be just bought and sold. Girls must maintain the right to choose what they do and what they don't do for money or otherwise.
Girls have to right to refuse to fuck Arrogant Assholes too. You can't just pay the money and expect them to be a "done deal".
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[QUOTE=EihTooms;1932102]Yes, and if Johnny Depp convinced Kate Middleton, The Dutchess of Canbridge, that one ST with him would "solve world hunger", that would be a done deal too. Why confine it to just working girls? EVERY woman and EVERY man has a price that, if met, ST would be a done deal.
But that isn't really what we're talking about here, right? The mamasan says those particular girls don't go barfine. You want to be the grand exception by coughing up enough baht and lowering expectations to bare bones conditions until you finally get an "ok" from her and the girl? Be my guest. Otherwise, it is a scam to have girls who even the mamasan says will not go barfine in a Nana Plaza Bangkok go-go bar where for decades everyone has known the norm is you pay a barfine and take a girl to a room for sex and the expectation is not that you will buy her Ladydrinks just for a pleasant chat.[/QUOTE]There is no scam there.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1932095]So it is not totally evident if the cop was fake or real. Could be either. I presume the girl would have been in an illegal category, to make the situation more serious.
Scams with Police involvement at Airports have been reported too. Cops have been known to enter someone's house to search for drugs, and then plant the drugs. People having drugs planted in their bag is a well known big problem. So Thailand is very unsafe place for getting set up by real police. You have the well known Koh Tao murders case.
Always useful to be as anonymous as possible in Thailand.
Can't you just block a We Chat contact so you don't receive messages or calls? I don't use We Chat so I don't know.
I used to maintain two phone numbers. One for normal use, and another for the monger phone. This is probably a useful idea to avoid having to change your main phone number too often due to problems. I have a phone that takes two SIM cards as well.
[/QUOTE]You are missing the point my man. All the time she was in the lobby she thought I was upstairs in that hotel. She did not believe my story of not being home and had no idea I was lieing about my hotel. As soon as I told her the fake hotel name, she was off to my location with no notice. I hope that's clearer for you my man. When we are goona have that beer by the way?
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[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1932114]You are missing the point my man. All the time she was in the lobby she thought I was upstairs in that hotel. She did not believe my story of not being home and had no idea I was lieing about my hotel. As soon as I told her the fake hotel name, she was off to my location with no notice. I hope that's clearer for you my man. When we are goona have that beer by the way?[/QUOTE]Yes okay I did miss that point. I am not the most intuitive. I assumed the Hotel would have said straight off, no such customer, but they may have stubbornly believed you were definitely there. LOL I will PM you.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1932106]ROFLMAO. It is very well known that Coyote girls in the bars are not necessarily barfinable, and even if BFable are not necessarily available for sex.
[/QUOTE]So your girl walked over to you and said, "Hi, my name is so-and-so, I'm a Coyote and I don't go barfine", before you asked her and before you bought her a Ladydrink?
If not, that Nana Plaza Bangkok go-go bar was trying to scam you.
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[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1932109]There is no scam there.[/QUOTE]You walk into a restaurant, a nice looking place nestled in a row of lovely restaurants known for serving damn good food. You sit down, open the menu and when the waitress comes over you point to the picture of a hamburger and fries. While waiting for your food order to arrive you order an exceptionally expensive imported beer.
Twenty minutes later the waitress comes to your table and plops down a beautiful photo of a hamburger and fries. "What's that?", you ask her. "Oh", she says, "that's what we sell here; photos of food. We don't sell real food here. "
Hey, nobody said Joe's Bar & Grill had to serve actual food, did they? They presented photos of food in their menu, you pointed to a photo of food and, by god, that is what they served you. What's the big deal? But they got your money for that exceptionally expensive beer while you were waiting for it.
Scam or no scam?