[QUOTE=FlagRunner77;2773481]This time, I only bought a drink for a lady after at least a few minutes of talking and deciding that I want to talk to her a little more (and after testing the waters in terms of contact).
I did go back to various bars and GCs a few times, so the ladies knew after the first time that, once I bought a drink, I was generous if the effort was reciprocated.
I also refused various requests for drinks at these places, from ladies who just expected it, and it didn't hinder my subsequent visits.
I did buy the odd drink for a lady just because (eg because she made me laugh, or I liked her energy). But that was the exception rather than the rule (unlike previous trips). I saved a fortune![/QUOTE]Pay attention or pay money. The girls are very astute; they know a player and they know a sucker, and they exchange intel with their friends. Up to you which one you want to be, but IMHO, a player will get better [I]service [/I] than a sucker.
For me, the instant request for a drink IS helpful as it separates the wheat from the chaff and eliminates her from any further consideration. She quickly leaves and frees up your landing slot for one with actual [I]potential[/I]. Don't waste money nor time, both are precious.