Stupid shit in Medellin

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682330]You do not understand the context of the conversation or her relationship with her own father.[/QUOTE]That has zero to do with anything. The FACT is that you are NOT her father and will never be no matter how many times it is repeated that you are.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682330]What I am trying to tell you are the relationships you are missing out on. This woman wants to take it to another level with you, and you refuse.[/QUOTE]Describe this other level that there is supposed to be. Is my dick going to slide into her any different? Will there be fireworks at the restaurant entrance everytime we go out to eat? At the cinema will they pause the movie to acknowledge our presence? Will she be able to take off even more clothes in the nekkit pictures that she sends me? The day someone claims they are going to this supposed other level what changes? But she is home baking my favorite peach pie for me right now so this level that we are on seems to be pretty good from my point of view.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682330]Why did you bring up that she has not married again? So you can be special but no women can be?[/QUOTE]No particular reason. I never professed to being special. I am just a regular guy the same as I see eveybody else as just being regular people. Sure we got different jobs, education levels, financial achievements, likes and dislikes, and so on, but we are still just people.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682330]And that is your issue. I am not even sure what is going on with you and your daughter but you are carrying around a lot of shame, something else you will deny.[/QUOTE]LOL. My daughter is a grown woman with her own kids. I have shame, you do not know what from, and I will deny it? No shame here. I could say you are really gay but you will deny it.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682330]Maybe you are so addicted to pussy and afraid of commitment, you are the way you are. Or maybe, just maybe, you have not found a situation worthy of an investment of your time, energy, commitment, and money.[/QUOTE]I never said anything about being addicted to pussy. My theory is that being addicted to pussy is bullshit. If someone could really be addicted to pussy then it would stand to reason that they could be addicted to one pussy the same that many drug addicts are addicted to one drug. Instead, people mistakenly call going from chick to chick as being addicted to pussy, as if they could not get pussy from the same chick over and over to feed their supposed pussy addiction.

You keep insisting that somebody who does not want a certain thing (to be with only one person) really wants that thing but is afraid of it. If that is something that I wanted then I could have it tons of times over. One chick that I was messing with even put an 18K gold wedding band on my finger while I was sleeping. I fly airplanes. I scuba dive. Tons of things in this life that I have wanted I have had no problem working to get. If I wanted a monogamous relationship then that is exactly what I would have. But just so happens that is not what I want. Why can a person not admit when something is not for them?

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682330]Maybe you are not the asshole you think you are.[/QUOTE]LOL. I never said that I am an asshole. Most women say I am a great guy, especially after they get to know me. This is why I remain friends with most of my ex-girlfriends and my ex-wife.

Even the chick that is making the pie thought I was an asshole at first. I can not think of how to phrase it in English but she kept telling me my personality is very strong or I talk too strongly. I think she had ended up blocking me on whatsapp because she was no longer responding to my messages. Then I called and put a bug in her ear and magically we were talking on whatsapp again and things have been great since.

It seems a lot of women have a fantasy of how a guy is supposed to be. Evidently nothing about me fits that fantasy. For example yesterday a chick asked how I was doing and I said well. She went into a thing about how I am so dry as many chicks that do not know me do. I have no idea what she was expecting me to say. She went on about how she wants a loving, sweet, romantic man. Was I supposed to draw stars or butterflies along with saying I am well in order not to seem dry to her?

For some reason many chicks expect me to be turning back flips or acting like a clown at the circus whenever we write or do a videocall. Me looking regular, doing regular shit, going about a regular day for some reason shatters their fantasy. Am I supposed to be jumping up and down dancing while looking at a computer screen searching for something on Amazon? I mean how romantic can a mf answer the question of how they are doing? Maybe she was expecting me to bust out in poetry.

[QUOTE=KilledSoul;2682486]How can somebody have sex with a person and be not sure if that is person is trans or not? Serious question. Have sex change surgeries become so good?[/QUOTE]Well, I had a similar experience. In a location where trans are not very common, so it was not the first thing on my mind.

I went to this girl's apartment for a massage (but she was advertising in a paid sex website).

She gave me massage, blow job. She had plastic breasts, but that is not an alert on its own is it?! She had the lights off and curtains drawn. I went down on her for a few minutes. Smthg was not quite right down there. Dunno what it was exactly but def seemed like she either had had surgery or had a defomity. Then we had sex with her on top, and I just couldn't seem to enter properly. Seemed her vag was too short! .

So in toal several things that on their own are explainable. Put them together and I was left wondering to myself.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2682544]Well, I had a similar experience. In a location where trans are not very common, so it was not the first thing on my mind.

I went to this girl's apartment for a massage (but she was advertising in a paid sex website).

She gave me massage, blow job. She had plastic breasts, but that is not an alert on its own is it?! She had the lights off and curtains drawn. I went down on her for a few minutes. Smthg was not quite right down there. Dunno what it was exactly but def seemed like she either had had surgery or had a defomity. Then we had sex with her on top, and I just couldn't seem to enter properly. Seemed her vag was too short! .

So in toal several things that on their own are explainable. Put them together and I was left wondering to myself.[/QUOTE]HAHAHA it takes a brave man to share that story. LOL.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2682544]Well, I had a similar experience. In a location where trans are not very common, so it was not the first thing on my mind.

I went to this girl's apartment for a massage (but she was advertising in a paid sex website).

She gave me massage, blow job. She had plastic breasts, but that is not an alert on its own is it?! She had the lights off and curtains drawn. I went down on her for a few minutes. Smthg was not quite right down there. Dunno what it was exactly but def seemed like she either had had surgery or had a defomity. Then we had sex with her on top, and I just couldn't seem to enter properly. Seemed her vag was too short! .

So in toal several things that on their own are explainable. Put them together and I was left wondering to myself.[/QUOTE]Damn you slept with a tranny.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2682512]That has zero to do with anything. The FACT is that you are NOT her father and will never be no matter how many times it is repeated that you are.[/QUOTE]Fine, if you want the context, we are at dinner, and the uncle asks about her biological father, and she pats me on the shoulder and said what she said. I caught about half of it. My gal then explains to me what the daughter said. The daughter is a teenager. I do not have explain anything to her. She has not had a positive role model in her life and now she has one. She was so down on her biological father that she wanted him off of her legal name even before I came in the picture. Apparently, he was a drug addict and abuser of multiple women, and she saw that. It would have been inappropriate for me to correct her as she was not even talking to me.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2682512]You keep insisting that somebody who does not want a certain thing (to be with only one person) really wants that thing but is afraid of it.[/QUOTE]No, I am insisting you get the best return on your money, time, and energy and being open to the fact that your current life is not that.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2682512]If I wanted a monogamous relationship then that is exactly what I would have.[/QUOTE]Nope, you are confusing me with the religious nuts. Chances are if you just had a monogamous relationship just to have one, you would be miserable.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2682512]For some reason many chicks expect me to be turning back flips or acting like a clown at the circus whenever we write or do a videocall. Me looking regular, doing regular shit, going about a regular day for some reason shatters their fantasy. Am I supposed to be jumping up and down dancing while looking at a computer screen searching for something on Amazon? I mean how romantic can a mf answer the question of how they are doing?[/QUOTE]Not at all. The women should be thinking what do they have to do to earn your monogamy, and if they do not, you should keep the relationship superficial and be on the lookout for better.

If you play the woman's game of being Prince Charming, you will eventually get fed up with the woman's selfish bullshit act and leave.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2682512]Is my dick going to slide into her any different? Will there be fireworks at the restaurant entrance everytime we go out to eat?[/QUOTE]No, the sex will be so good that anyone else will be a disappointment. Remember when I said sugar baby sex was better than ho sex and guys got mad at me? Everyone who has done SB sex agreed with me. You helped me get this gal Mr. E, and I am telling you that having sex with one person who earned my monogamy blows the best sex I have ever had away.

But it is hard finding a good SB and even harder finding a woman worthy of your monogamy.

So you have to be open that such a woman exists (I almost didn't). I think it is good to define what you are looking for. In my case, I really did not do that. It was more like rejecting the hos and selfish types that I knew I did not want long term.

I am not preaching Mr. E. The best sex is going to win not the best argument, and you are missing out on the best sex.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2682544]Well, I had a similar experience. In a location where trans are not very common, so it was not the first thing on my mind.

I went to this girl's apartment for a massage (but she was advertising in a paid sex website).

She gave me massage, blow job. She had plastic breasts, but that is not an alert on its own is it?! She had the lights off and curtains drawn. I went down on her for a few minutes. Smthg was not quite right down there. Dunno what it was exactly but def seemed like she either had had surgery or had a defomity. Then we had sex with her on top, and I just couldn't seem to enter properly. Seemed her vag was too short! .

So in toal several things that on their own are explainable. Put them together and I was left wondering to myself.[/QUOTE]"She"? So you want to confess to sticking your tongue and pene into what you think was probably a dood?

I thought this site is for hetero sex only?

[QUOTE=JustTK;2682544]Well, I had a similar experience. In a location where trans are not very common, so it was not the first thing on my mind.

I went to this girl's apartment for a massage (but she was advertising in a paid sex website).

She gave me massage, blow job. She had plastic breasts, but that is not an alert on its own is it?! She had the lights off and curtains drawn. I went down on her for a few minutes. Smthg was not quite right down there. Dunno what it was exactly but def seemed like she either had had surgery or had a defomity. Then we had sex with her on top, and I just couldn't seem to enter properly. Seemed her vag was too short! .

So in toal several things that on their own are explainable. Put them together and I was left wondering to myself.[/QUOTE]Glad that all worked out for you, as this surely is your preference anyway. What else would you expect from a guy whose favorite rock group is Echo & The Bunnymen? ROFL.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682620]Fine, if you want the context, we are at dinner, and the uncle asks about her biological father, and she pats me on the shoulder and said what she said. I caught about half of it. My gal then explains to me what the daughter said. The daughter is a teenager. I do not have explain anything to her. She has not had a positive role model in her life and now she has one. She was so down on her biological father that she wanted him off of her legal name even before I came in the picture. Apparently, he was a drug addict and abuser of multiple women, and she saw that. It would have been inappropriate for me to correct her as she was not even talking to me.

No, I am insisting you get the best return on your money, time, and energy and being open to the fact that your current life is not that.

Nope, you are confusing me with the religious nuts. Chances are if you just had a monogamous relationship just to have one, you would be miserable.

Not at all. The women should be thinking what do they have to do to earn your monogamy, and if they do not, you should keep the relationship superficial and be on the lookout for better.

If you play the woman's game of being Prince Charming, you will eventually get fed up with the woman's selfish bullshit act and leave.

No, the sex will be so good that anyone else will be a disappointment. Remember when I said sugar baby sex was better than ho sex and guys got mad at me? Everyone who has done SB sex agreed with me. You helped me get this gal Mr. E, and I am telling you that having sex with one person who earned my monogamy blows the best sex I have ever had away.

But it is hard finding a good SB and even harder finding a woman worthy of your monogamy.

So you have to be open that such a woman exists (I almost didn't). I think it is good to define what you are looking for. In my case, I really did not do that. It was more like rejecting the hos and selfish types that I knew I did not want long term.

I am not preaching Mr. E. The best sex is going to win not the best argument, and you are missing out on the best sex.[/QUOTE]I am wondering are you expecting to unwind or unload the whole thing, including the daughter one day?

[QUOTE=MarquisdeSade1;2682633]"She"? So you want to confess to sticking your tongue and pene into what you think was probably a dood?
[/QUOTE]Sure, it was a she. We can agree that not every female has 2 ovaries, right? Not every female has breasts. Not every female is born the way you might want or expect. So why can't a female be born w a dick (assuming she once had one)?

[QUOTE=DramaFree11;2682277]So true. Just like MDE is better then Mexico City. Not even close.[/QUOTE]No way in hell is CDMX better than medellin. Maybe your thinking about a different Mexico City, idk I'm not into casas or escorts or SA, I'm purely talking about street action as that is what I'm familiar with. If you are saying that La Merced and Buena Vista are better than Botero and Lleras then you are dilusional. Next your going to say the CDMX metro is better than the Medellin metro too right? With all the stupid people trying to sell you shit you don't need or want? You probably buy that double sided tape from them huh?

[QUOTE=Gabacho;2682806]No way in hell is CDMX better than medellin. Maybe your thinking about a different Mexico City, idk I'm not into casas or escorts or SA, I'm purely talking about street action as that is what I'm familiar with. If you are saying that La Merced and Buena Vista are better than Botero and Lleras then you are delusional. Next your going to say the CDMX metro is better than the Medellin metro too right? With all the stupid people trying to sell you shit you don't need or want? You probably buy that double sided tape from them huh?[/QUOTE]If you are cheap, like drugs, enjoy being around a bunch of fat / lazy sex tourists, and you have low standards yes, maybe MDE is better. This is crazy. I can go on bad food, terrible service, crappy music. MDE is one step up from a ghetto with a couple of nice places. If you have any game and a decent budget you can have an amazing experience in Mexico City and meet amazing girls, that are professionals and educated. From what you have described you are not looking for this. Maybe you can find this in other cities in Colombia, but I doubt it.

I was very clear I do not do the street game. MDE is low end at best, if that is your thing, then you are in paradise. I forgot to mention it rains all the time and humid. Also, the crime and drugs, yes MDE is Paradise!

[QUOTE=JustTK;2682805]Sure, it was a she. We can agree that not every female has 2 ovaries, right? Not every female has breasts. Not every female is born the way you might want or expect. So why can't a female be born w a dick (assuming she once had one)?[/QUOTE]Because people born with dicks have XY chromosomes and are defined as male, while people born with XX chromosomes are the definition of females. If a person with XX chromosomes is born with a dick, we will need a new word to define it.

I like La Merced. More if you stay near to the subway for safety (muggers). Fantastic subway, better than New York or London, similar Moscow, not as clean as Berlin, Tokyo, BKK, Paris or Rome but so what. Can't see why you would have a problem with them.

[QUOTE=Gabacho;2682806]No way in hell is CDMX better than medellin. Maybe your thinking about a different Mexico City, idk I'm not into casas or escorts or SA, I'm purely talking about street action as that is what I'm familiar with. If you are saying that La Merced and Buena Vista are better than Botero and Lleras then you are dilusional. Next your going to say the CDMX metro is better than the Medellin metro too right? With all the stupid people trying to sell you shit you don't need or want? You probably buy that double sided tape from them huh?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JustTK;2682544]Well, I had a similar experience. In a location where trans are not very common, so it was not the first thing on my mind.

I went to this girl's apartment for a massage (but she was advertising in a paid sex website).

She gave me massage, blow job. She had plastic breasts, but that is not an alert on its own is it?! She had the lights off and curtains drawn. I went down on her for a few minutes. Smthg was not quite right down there. Dunno what it was exactly but def seemed like she either had had surgery or had a defomity. Then we had sex with her on top, and I just couldn't seem to enter properly. Seemed her vag was too short! .

So in toal several things that on their own are explainable. Put them together and I was left wondering to myself.[/QUOTE]Nightmare on MTF street.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682620]The daughter is a teenager. I do not have explain anything to her. She has not had a positive role model in her life and now she has one. She was so down on her biological father that she wanted him off of her legal name even before I came in the picture. Apparently, he was a drug addict and abuser of multiple women, and she saw that. It would have been inappropriate for me to correct her as she was not even talking to me.[/QUOTE]Wrong. You say that as if teenagers are the smartest people on the planet. As this positive role model you missed a chance at a very teachable moment. You should have taken the time to explain to her that it is better to try to get help for her father than disassociating herself from him. Whether she likes it or not, he IS her father and her family. She can not run away from that fact no matter what she changes her name to.

Unless she was a raape baby, no responsibility falls on the bum ass woman that chose a drug addict and abuser of multiple women to get pregnant by? We all have choices, but no kid ever questions the mother's choice of father for their child. The father is horrible, but the mother is not horrible for choosing him? She takes no responsibility for that at all huh?

Women always try to run away from life and in search of a "fresh start." No. All of that shit is a part of the only life you have and you need to learn to deal with it instead fooling yourself into believe you can run from it and start again. Ain't no do overs.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682620]No, I am insisting you get the best return on your money, time, and energy and being open to the fact that your current life is not that.[/QUOTE]I already have the best return on my money. I come and go as I please and I do not have any bills. As I tell a lot of these chicks, you are looking for a bank, not a boyfriend. I am not in the market of paying bills that another person created. From my point of view I am in the cat bird seat.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682620]Not at all. The women should be thinking what do they have to do to earn your monogamy, and if they do not, you should keep the relationship superficial and be on the lookout for better.[/QUOTE]Again, you are assuming monogamy is at the top of everyone's list. Old girl tried to get me with that last night though. She asked me if I was still on Cupid. I said what does that matter. She said that I already have her so I do not need to be on there. I told her that I am going to keep going on there, if nothing else to see if she is on there. Funny how women always think they have busted you. Bih I am on here trying to see what you are doing on here!

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682620]No, the sex will be so good that anyone else will be a disappointment. Remember when I said sugar baby sex was better than ho sex and guys got mad at me? Everyone who has done SB sex agreed with me.[/QUOTE]Maybe these people are not having sex with normal women. Are they also saying sugar baby sex is better than sex from normal woman? I go with hookers for the fun it, not because I am lacking great sex from normal women. As I said before, I like going out to restaurants sometimes although I make great food in my own kitchen.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2682620]The best sex is going to win not the best argument, and you are missing out on the best sex.[/QUOTE]Best sex is very subjective seeing that everyone does not get off on the same thing. Sex is only part of a relationship. There are tons of things that I could not put up with no matter how good some sex is.