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[QUOTE=Red Wine]Could anyone suggest on the best places they golfed at in the Philippines? Any feedback would be appreciated.

Thank you.[/QUOTE]Red Wine,

I played this course last April. Costs about 3,000 pesos including fees, clubs, shoes, and caddy. If you bring your own shoes and clubs knock off 1,000p. You must wear golf shoes. The course is well maintained and has a great view of the coral reef off Mactan and also Bohol (they say).

Its playable but like most mountain courses if you go off the fairway you are OB or your ball is lost. A couple of short par 4's ( in the 275 yard range) but overall fun to play. Greens were well kept. I'd give it a 7/10 overall rating.

Lady caddy was kind enough to lather my legs up with sunscreen and then gave my buddy her phone number. She was there for the taking. A hole in one of a different kind.

I'll be back there first week of August and will probably give it another spin.

Bopalula

[QUOTE=Econo Tech]Not going to argue on that.

I have met enough pinas, who let you spend a lot of money on partying and then when they ask money and you go "if you told me you need money, I would have played safer and instead of spending few thousand PHP in the bar, would have channelled to you. " and they stare at you like a screwed up moron.

I had one girl, who met me, spent time bar hopping, and buying LD for dancers. Grossed out about 5, 000 and honestly, I was flying off the next day and was left with just 2, 000 peso. And the girl shyly asks me if I can give her another 3, 000 on top of the 3, 000 I gave her, and when I tried reasoning that if she told that early, I would have slowed down on the bar bill, and would have stayed in the room and given her the 5000 I burnt in bars, it never entered her brain as to what I am telling her and she kept whining and crying.

Well, lesson: don't try to reason with most filipinas. Some are smart, but most have their brain waves twisted that reasoning is not in their to-do list.[/QUOTE]
This is the common mistake many foreigners make. When they meet a girl in Phi they think they met a normal who wish to be wined and dined and entertained. They forget the real deal is you are renting the girl for sex.
Ofcourse if you want to wine and dine they will not object because less time in bed. But remember that all through this time she is judging your spending haits to know if you are a big spender. Accordingly her demands will be jacked up. If you are dealing with a P4P girl( isn't everyody), spend the least amount of money when you are out and about with her. Take her to the food court instead of a restaurent for example. These girls are very poor and impressing them with food and bar hopping will not help. They will just go with you because that is what you want. They will be more happy to stay in your room, watch tv and gratefull for a generous tip.

[QUOTE=Denom]I once had that fantastic girl from LAC back when you could still find jewels in there. She had a perfect body with lovely boobs (a 9 on my scale) but most of all she had a splendid character. I remember the time when she suck me for the first time, while chatting and laughing with her friend on the phone, and whenever we were gong out, she would always huge me and be just absolutely delightful (in or out for that matter).

Now these kind of girls are usually gone within a blink to other foreigners. They may appear a very short time on the P2P scene then no more - and this one was no exception, except that her French boyfriend was far and away. One day he phoned her and she made the silent sign with her finger then went to speak with him in one of the corner of the room, saying at some stage "oh darling, my stomach hurt"... I asked her why would she say this and she explained to me that she made her bf believe that she was pregnant, though it wasn't true...

Of course the guy was madly in love with her, as anybody would, so I am not sure why she played this game, but I have seen other girls play the same, plus some others actually wanting a baby from their bf for the simple reason that they would get them more involved...

I am not sure what she or the family could actually do from a legal point of view when it comes to a foreigner, but fact is that the scenario is so common coming from Filipino lovers (make them pregnant then leave) that about 80% of the girls I met in LAC or otherwise were in the case, and many times it was actually the reason why they entered the 2P2 scene in the first place, as they now had to feed and take care of that baby all by themselves.[/QUOTE]


People need to be clear as far as many Filipina's are concerned getting pregnant by a white foreign guy is a win win win situation precisely for the reason it is a lose lose lose for the foreigner. Either - the guy marries her - and i know or some horrendously unhappy and ill matched marriages that have happened in that way, or he sends her maintenance and she has a meal ticket for the rest of her life, or she is left with a half caste baby whih is the dream of many Filipinas even if she doeswnt get support she may consider she is not in a worse position than many of her contemporaries pregnant by Filipina bfs. I have had several long arguments with filipinas who have begged me to fuck them without a condom in the hope that they will get pregnant and even swear that they will not try and contact me should a baby be born. Don't fall for it.

[QUOTE=Mc Don]Can someone tell me what the deal is, is it illegal or legal? My friend got a bar girl pregnant, yes I know he is moron but now she is 3wks now and he is trying to do the right thing and get pills to take care of it but so far no luck. This is his 3rd trip in Philippines and he doesn't know anyone. Yesterday in Boracay he paid 2000 peso to a massage girl that promised to get him the pills but it turned out the pills were bogus. He is on his way to manila now and scared shitless. He was going to go back to OZ to get the pills but is scared the girl may do a hodini act on him after consulting with her family. Please pm me if you can help.[/QUOTE]

I had a scare once about 2 years ago. When I checked on the web I found it was illegal in the Philippines, legal in Singapore but not for "visitors", and legal in Vietnam. I know someone else said it is legal in Singapore for a visiting Filipina so i was most likely wrong about that, but that was my impression at the time.

I did call the clinic in Vietnam and they were very helpful and said there was no problem. I can't remember the cost but it was reasonable.

Fortunately for me a few days later my girlfriend had her period.

[QUOTE=Sammon]spend the least amount of money when you are out and about with her. Take her to the food court instead of a restaurent for example. [/QUOTE]
But [u][b]I[/b][/u] want to dine in a proper restaurant and not in a food court!
Why should I suffer?

Cheers!

[QUOTE=Ekspat]But [u][b]I[/b][/u] want to dine in a proper restaurant and not in a food court!
Why should I suffer?

Cheers![/QUOTE]

I'm with you on this Ekspat. The women I choose to date know about "nice" restaurants and choosing food etc.

Food Courts used to be fun for the first month after I arrived (13 years ago) but now the MSG in the food and the lack of atmosphere and the noise and the smell drive me away.
I'd rather play footsies with her in a decent restaurant.

[QUOTE=Ekspat]But [u][b]I[/b][/u] want to dine in a proper restaurant and not in a food court!

Why should I suffer?

Cheers![/QUOTE]As we all know, Food courts in Phils are souless noisy kid riddled places full of people eating sugured junk.

If there were food courts in Manila on a par with Gardens or Pavilion then it might be a slightly better proposition.

[QUOTE=GregLondon]I have had several long arguments with filipinas who have begged me to fuck them without a condom in the hope that they will get pregnant and even swear that they will not try and contact me should a baby be born. Don't fall for it.[/QUOTE]Same here. Even a respectable doctor (pretty though) suggested she could hook me up with a friend doctor (read: her!) so she could have a white-blooded baby and promised I would not have to marry her or support the baby. As GregLondond said, a Bid Idea. Indeed a win win situation for them and a lose lose situation for us. Be careful.

[QUOTE=Denom]Same here. Even a respectable doctor (pretty though) suggested she could hook me up with a friend doctor (read: her!) so she could have a white-blooded baby and promised I would not have to marry her or support the baby. As GregLondond said, a Bid Idea. Indeed a win win situation for them and a lose lose situation for us. Be careful.[/QUOTE]

I had one of those girls in Davao once but a long time ago and before I made it a rule to use a raincoat every time. She told me she hoped she became pregnant because she wanted a white baby that might be tall like me.
I forgot to tell her I had been vasectomized 14 years earlier. I was waiting for her to get back to me saying "Thank you" for the white baby LOL but the call never came.

[QUOTE=Econo Tech]Are you a serious golf connoisseur? Then you can check at Blue Horizons Travel - they organise Golf Tours.[/QUOTE]Thanks mate.

I will definitely look into Blue Horizons Travel.

[QUOTE=Romeo0310]Is this an accurate assessment of pros and cons about the Philippines?

I read this list of pros and cons and it seems there are a lot of negatives, including the weather, and the shamelessness of the people there. Is that true?

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There is an element of truth in most of the cons that this guy presents, but it is clear it is written by someone on a bad day who has got very pissed off with the whole scene. The fundamental issue is that the Pros are to a large extent conditional on the Cons. If you fixed all the cons, Phils would be like Singapore and average incomes would be $35,000 a year rather than $3,500 a year. But guess what a 60 year old retiree living on $20,000 a year would no longer be able to attract a string of 20 year olds willing to attend to his every whim.

[QUOTE=Romeo0310]Is this an accurate assessment of pros and cons about the Philippines?[/QUOTE]
Say, is that the In-famous Winston Wu?

[QUOTE=Denom]Besides, even if she had a passport, I am not sure she would get a visa. "I want to perform an abortion" - is that a motive they would accept?[/QUOTE]

Sorry for being missing in action for a few days .. Not at all -

It is legal in Singapore at private clinics, though government clinics will report to the authorities, as a matter of rule.

say - maids, aren't allowed to get pregnant, but on an average, atleast a dozen maids get aborted, at PRIVATE CLINICS ..

[QUOTE=Denom]Same here. Even a respectable doctor (pretty though) suggested she could hook me up with a friend doctor (read: her!) so she could have a white-blooded baby and promised I would not have to marry her or support the baby. As GregLondond said, a Bid Idea. Indeed a win win situation for them and a lose lose situation for us. Be careful.[/QUOTE]As soon as I get my membership upgraded to get PM facility, I wouldn't mind getting to know that Doctor Lady.

Though, as a matter of truth, some filipinas are so driven to having children, they don't mind a fuck and fuck off situation, as a couple of Filipina nurses did in Singapore. They met dates, with the whole purpose of getting pregnant, and then ditched the guys. Now you know in Philippines 'name of father' doesn't equate to 'married' status, and with IVF being against the church ruling, they prefer to get naturally impregnated. I guess so.

[QUOTE=Romeo0310]Is this an accurate assessment of pros and cons about the Philippines?

I read this list of pros and cons and it seems there are a lot of negatives, including the weather, and the shamelessness of the people there. Is that true?

[url]http://www.*************.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=7009[/url][/QUOTE]I agree that most of this is true but I wouldn't let one opinion sway you from going to the Philippines. If you were thinking of visiting then go and experience Philippines for yourself, just be sure to watch out for scammers and con artists. Oh and NEVER MARRY a bar girl.