Ghanaian women and white men
I am trying to give an all-in response to the past few postings base don my own experience of course. Since 2011, I have been to Accra 5 times. I never had a nasty confrontation with any local including prostitutes. Besides the new very young generation, the mid-20's and above women have grown up in a culture where is is expected that the man does all the flirting and at least the first few steps. I have been most successful chatting up women randomly in the markets or even on the street while waiting for a trot etc. I have notices the only place I am approached by women is in the Accar Mall or the Marina Mall an those are basically semi-proff and at best greedy for money.
If you spend a lot of time observing body language, you will learn to tell when a woman likes you. BTW, it is normal for a very old man to be with a young girl- socially completely acceptable, but not for a young man to be with a very old woman (comparatively). Be nice, always respectful, use a gentle smile and do the first move- not all women are hookers or semi pros.
Been a white man, might work to your advantage just as a reason of plain curiosity of fantasy for them (if you fantasize about black women, don't you think that they might be doing the same?
FYI: if you in 2016 pay more than 100 cedis for a full night, either you are taken for a ride or you actively destroy the market for the poor NGO-workers from abroad. Don't do it please- don't turn Accra to another Rio de Janeiro (I the old days 20 dollars was good for a whole night in Brazil).
Good luck.
Undercover NGO. UN Save-A-Chick Effort
[QUOTE=JohnViking;1856681]Why is it always a point to pay as little as possible? I know many girls would accept 200 cedis, but many of them really needs the money. 500 cedis is minimum for me to pay, and it is really OK to meet them again next trip. My experience is that they really deserve at least 500. Girls I have met have been really service minded. Tinder girls all of them.[/QUOTE]If I ever hear of a place where the expected minimum donation is a Benjamin Franklin, I cross that place off my list of desired monger destinations. You are free to do as you please, but for all our sakes, we can only hope you stay out of Africa, South America, the Caribbean and Asia. Go take that charity to America and Europe where it is the norm.
I am amused when I hear people use the "they deserve" line of thought. Hell, I always think I deserve to be paid $200,000 more than I am currently paid. Of course, I have to hustle for all I make even though I always seek to do what is in the best interest of others. Only once in my life did someone say that I deserved a raise and it was a measly 15 cent raise back in 1988 after I had single-handily worked the kitchen fulfilling over a hundred food orders in about an hours time after the clubs, bars and an event had all shutdown after midnight. How many females would be attracted to such a capable, hardworking smart young man? How many hours would I have had to work in order to "gift" a girl $100 for an hour or few hours of pleasure? 500 Cedi for a month of pleasure is fine, but for a day or few hours is too much.
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[QUOTE=JohnViking;1856681]500 cedis is minimum for me to pay, and it is really OK to meet them again next trip. My experience is that...[/QUOTE]Thanks for letting us all know up front you're a fraud and you're full of shit. This is an African forum and if you had any experience in Africa you would know that the hardest thing is to get rid of her. No little or great amount of money will ever change that.
Want to know this lovely lady
[QUOTE=Rabbo;1465531]Used to know this lady in Accra some time ago. Open-minded, versatile, great set of tits, not a hooker. If anyone interested please let me know, send me a message.[/QUOTE]I dear Sir,
Sorry to disturb you.
I will be next week in there.
Could you please give me an idea about this lovely lady.
How can I manage her and her services details.
Your response will be appreciate.
Thanking you.
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Warning about Emerald Aba Esther Ansah
Hi guys,
I've been a lurker for a while, and recently had my first trip to Ghana. I want to give you all a heads up regarding a bad experience I had with a Jokers girl named Emerald Aba Esther Ansah.
I've attached some photos, and here is her linkedin: [URL]https://www.linkedin.com/in/emerald-aba-esther-ansah-056b86a9[/URL].
I'd been to Vienna City and Jokers a few times, and each time took home a girl for between 150-200 cedi, which I negotiated in the club. Never had any problems.
Then one night in Jokers I saw this chick. She's good-looking: tall, shapely, kind of an Asian look to her face, and well-spoken too. Quite a catch. After chatting with her for some time, I brought up the issue of her gift the following day.
She acted hurt, and said that she didn't want any money, wasn't like that, she liked me, etc. I was skeptical, but she swore blind that she didn't want any money from me, so I took her home.
We had a great night of sex, and next day, true enough, she didn't ask for any money. We hung out, I took her to a restaurant, went to the beach, a good GFE. We spent the second night together as well.
Following day, something similar. We hung out, me spending a few cedis on her in various places, then she offered to wash my clothes at her home. We headed there in the evening with my laundry.
Once we got there (a hovel near the beach close to Jokers), her attitude changed. All of a sudden, she started talking about needing US $500 for rent for a new place. I could sense the bad vibe, so I told her she didn't need to wash my stuff, and that I was tired and would call her the next day.
As I started walking out, she leaped up and tried to block me, ripping half my clothes away from my bag. I picked them up; luckily I'm a big guy so I forced my way past her onto the street outside.
She followed, shouting and screaming about me owing her money, going to the police, etc, the sweet GFE from only 30 minutes ago now a distant memory. I kept walking, reminding her that she had told me categorically that she didn't want any money from me.
I got the the main road and stopped a taxi, only for her to get in it as well. I told her to get out, offered the driver extra money to get her out, but by this stage she was hissing and spitting like a wildcat, saying god knows what about me in the Twi language.
I got out of the taxi and hailed another, only for her to get in it as well. Fine, I thought, and told the driver to go to my hotel.
She then started shouting at the driver to go to the police station, accusing me of owing her money, having drugs, and god knows what else. In the end, we stopped at one of the police roadblocks, and she got out, screaming to the police about me. I heard the word "cocaine man" used amongst the Twi.
I calmly explained the situation to the policemen, who took my side, refused to detain me, and prevented her from getting into the taxi to go back to the hotel. Unfortunately, she stopped another one seconds later and followed me back. I ran inside, with her in hot pursuit, and made it to my room.
She banged on the door for a while, then there was silence, followed by a call on the room phone from the reception, asking me to come down. I told the receptionist that that wasn't possible, and that she was no longer welcome in my room. I then took the phone off the hook, put some music on my laptop and earplugs in, and tried to get some sleep.
The following day, I woke to hear knocking again. I ignored it for a while, but in the end answered the door, to be met by the hotel manager and a plainclothes policeman. He showed me his badge and the manager seemed to accept it, so I suspect it was for real.
The cop was sympathetic: first thing he said was "I'm not here to arrest you". The he said that this Emerald Aba Esther Ansah had made an allegation of [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] against me at the local police station.
I explained the situation. He nodded, and then said that she wanted US $500 to drop the charges. I told him how absurd that was, that it was a shakedown, and that he should be able to see that from her financial demand. He nodded and said that I didn't have to pay, but he couldn't dismiss the charge out of hand, and that I would have to go to the police station and make a statement, and the case would proceed.
This was my holiday, and the last thing I needed. So I told him I would give her 150 cedi to go away. What then essentially happened was a negotiation, using the cop as a middleman, which ended up with me paying her US $150. That's about what I would have paid her for the time anyway, had she just asked for it at the beginning.
I've no idea if the cop was in on it, getting a cut, or what. Either way, it was an unpleasant experience, and her lies and trickery were particularly galling. For that reason, I'm publicizing her on the site, so the rest of you can proceed with caution.