Ghana

[QUOTE=MannyP;1864462]She acted hurt, and said that she didn't want any money, wasn't like that, she liked me, etc. I was skeptical, but she swore blind that she didn't want any money from me, so I took her home.[/QUOTE]Oh Manny. I'm so sorry to read this report, and how this happened to you. This would bum me out big time. I hope everything was great, at least, before and after this fucking kunt. This entire site is to share experiences, good and bad, to inform fellow mongers, and I want to thank you because you have done that more than any post I have read in awhile. I was just comparing flight prices from DXB to ACC or JBG. I have been to Nairobi about 10 times and never had ANYTHING bad happen, but East Africans tend to be more conservative, less drama, as opposed to West. Ghana, I'm sure, is influenced by scam central Nigeria.

It seems to me that this "Your the one, and this one is on the house" act she put on was the key to the whole thing, especially from somebody in a bar, and I'm sure you learned your lesson. I have from reading it. If all the cunts in ACC acted like this nobody would come back. I wonder if putting the word out would get her ass kicked by the other women. Thanks pal for sharing, and I think I'll walk away from freebies.

[QUOTE=NakedGunz;1864607]Thanks pal for sharing, and I think I'll walk away from freebies.[/QUOTE]A wise man once said: "We do not pay these girls to come to our room. We pay them to leave in the morning".

[QUOTE=MannyP;1864462]Hi guys.

I've been a lurker for a while, and recently had my first trip to Ghana. I want to give you all a heads up regarding a bad experience I had with a Jokers girl named Emerald Aba Esther Ansah.

I've attached some photos, and here is her linkedin: [URL][URL]https://www.linkedin.com/in/emerald-aba-esther-ansah-056b86a9[/URL].[/URL].

I'd been to Vienna City and Jokers a few times, and each time took home a girl for between 150-200 cedi, which I negotiated in the club. Never had any problems.

Then one night in Jokers I saw this chick. She's good-looking: tall, shapely, kind of an Asian look to her face, and well-spoken too. Quite a catch. After chatting with her for some time, I brought up the issue of her gift the following day.

She acted hurt, and said that she didn't want any money, wasn't like that, she liked me, etc. I was skeptical, but she swore blind that she didn't want any money from me, so I took her home.

We had a great night of sex, and next day, true enough, she didn't ask for any money. We hung out, I took her to a restaurant, went to the beach, a good GFE. We spent the second night together as well.

Following day, something similar. We hung out, me spending a few cedis on her in various places, then she offered to wash my clothes at her home. We headed there in the evening with my laundry.

Once we got there (a hovel near the beach close to Jokers), her attitude changed. All of a sudden, she started talking about needing US $500 for rent for a new place. I could sense the bad vibe, so I told her she didn't need to wash my stuff, and that I was tired and would call her the next day.

As I started walking out, she leaped up and tried to block me, ripping half my clothes away from my bag. I picked them up; luckily I'm a big guy so I forced my way past her onto the street outside.

She followed, shouting and screaming about me owing her money, going to the police, etc, the sweet GFE from only 30 minutes ago now a distant memory. I kept walking, reminding her that she had told me categorically that she didn't want any money from me.

I got the the main road and stopped a taxi, only for her to get in it as well. I told her to get out, offered the driver extra money to get her out, but by this stage she was hissing and spitting like a wildcat, saying god knows what about me in the Twi language.

I got out of the taxi and hailed another, only for her to get in it as well. Fine, I thought, and told the driver to go to my hotel.

She then started shouting at the driver to go to the police station, accusing me of owing her money, having drugs, and god knows what else. In the end, we stopped at one of the police roadblocks, and she got out, screaming to the police about me. I heard the word "cocaine man" used amongst the Twi.

I calmly explained the situation to the policemen, who took my side, refused to detain me, and prevented her from getting into the taxi to go back to the hotel. Unfortunately, she stopped another one seconds later and followed me back. I ran inside, with her in hot pursuit, and made it to my room.

She banged on the door for a while, then there was silence, followed by a call on the room phone from the reception, asking me to come down. I told the receptionist that that wasn't possible, and that she was no longer welcome in my room. I then took the phone off the hook, put some music on my laptop and earplugs in, and tried to get some sleep.

The following day, I woke to hear knocking again. I ignored it for a while, but in the end answered the door, to be met by the hotel manager and a plainclothes policeman. He showed me his badge and the manager seemed to accept it, so I suspect it was for real.

The cop was sympathetic: first thing he said was "I'm not here to arrest you". The he said that this Emerald Aba Esther Ansah had made an allegation of [url=[URL]http://isgprohibitedwords.info[/URL]?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123]url] against me at the local police station.

I explained the situation. He nodded, and then said that she wanted US $500 to drop the charges. I told him how absurd that was, that it was a shakedown, and that he should be able to see that from her financial demand. He nodded and said that I didn't have to pay, but he couldn't dismiss the charge out of hand, and that I would have to go to the police station and make a statement, and the case would proceed.

This was my holiday, and the last thing I needed. So I told him I would give her 150 cedi to go away. What then essentially happened was a negotiation, using the cop as a middleman, which ended up with me paying her US $150. That's about what I would have paid her for the time anyway, had she just asked for it at the beginning.

I've no idea if the cop was in on it, getting a cut, or what. Either way, it was an unpleasant experience, and her lies and trickery were particularly galling. For that reason, I'm publicizing her on the site, so the rest of you can proceed with caution.

Sorry to hear about your experience.

Of course the cop got a cut. She probably never went to the police station and knew the police officer and they made it up.

Easy to get gringoed when you're exposed but in a place where there are hookers it highly unlikely to meet a regular girl. What would she be doing there if she wasnt hoping to meet someone like you?

I have had gringos come to Rio who got gringoed same way.

GDP girl gets banged in terma pretends to love it soo much shell meet up and just hang, go drinking with you and then when gringo refuses to go to love motel they explode and could have been with 50 other gringos-you're not special etc etc lool.

Unfortunately not uncommon.

[QUOTE=NakedGunz;1864607]Oh Manny. I'm so sorry to read this report, and how this happened to you. This would bum me out big time. I hope everything was great, at least, before and after this fucking kunt. This entire site is to share experiences, good and bad, to inform fellow mongers, and I want to thank you because you have done that more than any post I have read in awhile. I was just comparing flight prices from DXB to ACC or JBG. I have been to Nairobi about 10 times and never had ANYTHING bad happen, but East Africans tend to be more conservative, less drama, as opposed to West. Ghana, I'm sure, is influenced by scam central Nigeria.

It seems to me that this "Your the one, and this one is on the house" act she put on was the key to the whole thing, especially from somebody in a bar, and I'm sure you learned your lesson. I have from reading it. If all the cunts in ACC acted like this nobody would come back. I wonder if putting the word out would get her ass kicked by the other women. Thanks pal for sharing, and I think I'll walk away from freebies.[/QUOTE]I always laugh to myself when I hear guys here in America brag about the game they have and the "free pussy" they get and how they would never pay for pussy. All of a sudden they end up getting attached to one of those "free pussy" girls and before he knows it she's spit out a kid or two and he has a lifetime bill to pay for that "free pussy" some of them are my friends so I just keep quiet but in my mind when I hear the inevitable complaining about bills, food, child support etc. I think to myself how's that "free pussy" working out for you now buddy. Then I go find a $40.00 girl to take care of me. Hopefully FuckAfMedDig has learned his lesson there is no such thing as "free pussy."

Gents,

Thanks for the advice and sympathy.

In actual fact, it wasn't really a disaster. I was in Ghana for 3 weeks, and took several girls back from Jokers and Vienna City without any problems. I negotiated beforehand, and none of them tried to demand more money or steal from me.

The situation with this Emerald Aba Esther Ansah was slightly different because she seemed (totally wrongly, indeed opposite to reality, as it turned out) higher class than your average Jokers girl. She was well-spoken, and showed me her Linkedin which featured photos of her in a Miss Ghana contest.

So I figured she was a regular local girl out looking for fun and it was my lucky night. Won't make that mistake again.

But anyway, $150 is not the end of the world. At first the cop said she wouldn't budge from $500, but when I made a show of getting ready to leave, and of looking up the number of the US embassy to request consular assistance, her tune changed.

Overall though, this incident aside, I didn't have any problems in Ghana. Of course everyone is looking for money if you are a foreigner, however if you politely but firmly decline offers, or negotiate hard for something you want, people will honor the negotiation.

The only person (not only girl, but vendor, taxi driver, whatever) who tried to cheat or steal from me in my whole trip was this Emerald Aba Esther Ansah.

I can vouch for Manny, as I almost suffered a similar experience at the hands of this kunt a few weeks back. Emerald Aba Esther Ansah. Similar setup: chatting to her in Jokers; as he said, she's witty and bright. Not to mention attractive. And we had some good banter.

Entered into negotiations, only to be rebuffed with a hurt look, and told that she "wasn't like some of the girls in here". Fair enough, says I, and took her home all the same.

She was all sweetness and light, we spent the whole of the next day and night together, full-on GFE, with me spending rather more than my usual 150 cedi on her, in food, entertainments, trinkets, etc. She showed me the Linkedin page too.

Then came the second morning. She saw me packing my bag as I was heading to the airport to leave (I hadn't told her I was off: never tell anyone your schedule in third world countries), and turned from Pocahontas into Cruella DeVille, demanding. Yes -US $500 from me for her precious time.

Never fails to amaze me how quickly and completely they can change.

She tried to prevent me from completing my packing. I travel light, pushed her hand away and zipped up my bag. Then she announced with a threatening snarl that she wasn't going to leave my room without $500.

"Stay here as long as you want love," I replied, "But I'm checking out now. " I had already paid in full so all that was left was to drop the key at reception and catch a taxi, which I did. With her following me and screaming mendacious obscenities at the top of her ample lungs. I ignored her, stopped a taxi, chucked my case in the front and got in the back, only to find myself sitting next to her, demanding that the driver go to the police station.

Luckily, I remembered the value that Ghanaians place on a quick payday, and offered the driver 100 cedis if he helped me get her (and keep her) out of the vehicle. He was happy to oblige, and after giving her a chance to alight of her own accord, we (mostly I) physically manhandled her out and onto the side of the road.

I had visible cuts on my arm for days afterward, and I've still got the ripped T-shirt. I told the driver to get back into the car and lock all the doors except mine while I held her off, after which I gave her a good kick to the midriff and shoved her over onto her ample backside. I made it back to the car and locked the door, and the driver sped off to the sound of her hammering against the window, screaming and furious. I'd like to say I resisted the urge to blow her a kiss and flip her the bird out of the back window, but that would be a lie.

TL; DR. Stay well clear of this lying, thieving gash. Have attached more pics for your perusal.

[QUOTE=ChrisP;1866727]With her following me and screaming mendacious obscenities at the top of her ample lungs. I ignored her, stopped a taxi, chucked my case in the front and got in the back, only to find myself sitting next to her, demanding that the driver go to the police station.[/QUOTE]With all that noise to this many mongers, she has to be known for this throughout the provider and hotel community for this crap, and everybody is keeping their mouth shut and just waiting for the show- and their cut.

[QUOTE=ChrisP;1866727]I can vouch for Manny, as I almost suffered a similar experience at the hands of this kunt a few weeks back. Emerald Aba Esther Ansah. Similar setup: chatting to her in Jokers; as he said, she's witty and bright. Not to mention attractive. And we had some good banter.

Entered into negotiations, only to be rebuffed with a hurt look, and told that she "wasn't like some of the girls in here". Fair enough, says I, and took her home all the same.

She was all sweetness and light, we spent the whole of the next day and night together, full-on GFE, with me spending rather more than my usual 150 cedi on her, in food, entertainments, trinkets, etc. She showed me the Linkedin page too..[/QUOTE]I thought that only happened in Latin America. I guess the girls of Ghana learned some new tricks! LOL I would not wish this on anyone!

Coming to Ghana first week of July from New York, direct flight from JFK.

Haven't made a hotel reservation yet, and have PM'd a couple of guys here. Appreciate the input but haven't exactly gotten the answer I'm looking / hoping for.

So I will throw it out to the forum.

First off, for West Africa, hotels seem pretty expensive. In most major American cities, not NYC, LA, San Francisco, but $150/ night get a good to excellent hotel, security etc.

My primary concerns / motivations are: close to the action, which I take to be Osu.

Security. Room safe, room that can't be robbed, or at least security on site to try to keep my shit safe, as well as keeping girls who aren't invited up from coming and banging on my door.

Room cleaned daily fresh sheets, ac that works.

Any thought in the $75-$150/ day range?

The hotels I am looking for seem to be rated by Trip Advisor to be 2/3 star tops and it is of course difficult to ascertain if the negative reviews / positive reviews are relative to the person offering the advise or accurate for a 'normal' expectation.

Anyhow, looks like it has been awhile since we went through the best place to stay update.

Appreciate any input.

Chris.

Got a question about Ghana women. I have read many time on the forum that they get a bit clingy. I am a dedicated sport fuck monger and need to have as many as possible upon arrival till I leave. They have to have a rawsome body or personality for me to keep around after one or two shags. Do these Ghana women get hard to get rid of there? I have even read that they are even hanging around your hotel waiting for you to come back. Don't they take no for an answer?

If you are going to stay Iin OSU or any were in Ghana my strong Recommendation.

Would be anything classified as a Guesthouse. You can Google them to find them. They are nicer, cleaner inside with better service. The price is about the same as an average hotel there. In Acura you can get a nice room at a guest house for around 300 cedis a night or $80 dollars. Happy hunting.

[QUOTE=ChrisBigdog;1868463]Coming to Ghana first week of July from New York, direct flight from JFK.

Haven't made a hotel reservation yet, and have PM'd a couple of guys here. Appreciate the input but haven't exactly gotten the answer I'm looking / hoping for.

So I will throw it out to the forum.

First off, for West Africa, hotels seem pretty expensive. In most major American cities, not NYC, LA, San Francisco, but $150/ night get a good to excellent hotel, security etc.

My primary concerns / motivations are: close to the action, which I take to be Osu.

Security. Room safe, room that can't be robbed, or at least security on site to try to keep my shit safe, as well as keeping girls who aren't invited up from coming and banging on my door...[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NakedGunz;1868960]Got a question about Ghana women. I have read many time on the forum that they get a bit clingy. I am a dedicated sport fuck monger and need to have as many as possible upon arrival till I leave. They have to have a rawsome body or personality for me to keep around after one or two shags. Do these Ghana women get hard to get rid of there? I have even read that they are even hanging around your hotel waiting for you to come back. Don't they take no for an answer?[/QUOTE]I have sport fucked multiples girls in a single visit (and a few times on the same day at my hotel) in Ghana, Kenya, Togo, Uganda and Malawi. The problem I encountered was not the clinginess of the girls, but rather the gate security guards saying the foreigner keeps lots of company. I even stopped frequenting a certain restaurant in Mombasa after one of my still good, very attractive female friend and fuck buddy told me that the waitresses were gossiping about how I brought so many different ladies in there for food and drinks (if they truly valued my business, they would have kept their opinions to themselves). Ditto for Kahama hotel in Mombasa. In Ghana, I routinely fuck at least two different girls on the same day, and once had tit fucked my first Ghanain GF earlier in the day, then fucked a new girlfriend who had watched me nap for a few minutes, and then I walked her out to the main thoroughfare to bid her adieu while my third girlfriend who had helped me a few months earlier on a previous work trip luggage snafu was calling to let me know she was getting close to my place. I promptly returned to my hotel where she was waiting in a taxi, paid her fare, and then proceeded to go in and beat those creamy walls with my dick! That is the only type of beating I believe in. Having a room at two nearby hotels or guest houses could potentially mitigate the parakeet gate guard situation, but I find that I am still successful in my quests despite those occurrences. Only once have I had a chick show up at my hotel unannounced in an attempt to catch me with some other girl, and that too happened in Mombasa. No Accra is big enough for one to have fun, treat the girls to a nice dickdown, and repeat without too much hassle.

[QUOTE=Jiggydus;1869509]The problem I encountered was not the clinginess of the girls, but rather the gate security guards saying the foreigner keeps lots of company. [/QUOTE]Sup Jiggy! Where do you roam now-a-daze, I don't see you posting often? Kenya is my spot because it's so close to DXB, but this tiger needs new territory to spray. Thanks for the info.

[QUOTE=NakedGunz;1869990]Sup Jiggy! Where do you roam now-a-daze, I don't see you posting often? Kenya is my spot because it's so close to DXB, but this tiger needs new territory to spray. Thanks for the info.[/QUOTE]I still hit Ghana at least twice a year, but I mostly engage in existing relationships I have developed over the years. I also travel to Kenya and Uganda. In fact, I will be making short stay visit to both next month where I will seek some new faces among some of the awesome relationships I have developed over the years. I also realize that I have been bouncing around between places I am well familiar with (hence the lack of trip reports from me), so I have laid out some new trips I plan to take later this year and next year. I am seeking to go South and East.

When I first visited Ghana, I checked out the Osu area and the unique, defunct establishment known as Soldiers Bar near Kwame Nkrumah Circle as well as the Vienna City bars in Accra and Takoradi. I got a taste of both non pro and semi pro action my first visit to Accra, and trip reports here led me to check out red light areas. Now I prefer the non pro route and I feel comfortable approaching attractive ladies I meet out and about. I couldn't really help a fellow monger asking about Osu area hotels in a budget price range since I last stayed in that area back in 2009 and the places I stayed at either no longer exist or I would not recommend the other. Also, I found staying near the beach just as convenient for visiting Jokers as Macumba was no longer a good place. And I have stayed in Movenpick and Labadi Beach Resort and a couple of more budget friendly beach hotels and never had any issues since I focused more on non pros. Since I am planning to return and live in Ghana, I have also stayed in a number of areas around outskirts of Accra where the only people you see are Ghanaians, no foreigners except for me.

[QUOTE=NakedGunz;1868960]Got a question about Ghana women. I have read many time on the forum that they get a bit clingy. I am a dedicated sport fuck monger and need to have as many as possible upon arrival till I leave. They have to have a rawsome body or personality for me to keep around after one or two shags. Do these Ghana women get hard to get rid of there? I have even read that they are even hanging around your hotel waiting for you to come back. Don't they take no for an answer?[/QUOTE]There are different shades of girls. Based on their level of exposure and education, you can easily get rid of them or otherwise. A lot more also boils down to your first conversation.