Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

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So the good news, is there must be a few slim slinkies in that population. The type many of us like.
The bad news of course with the growth in population, theres a growth in chubbies. Literally and figuratively.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Amavida;1599073]Increasingly more average girls are tubby smokers.[/QUOTE]I'm glad you guys bring this up because it presents a big personal problem for me. What I left behind wasn't sex prison in my country, it was a good life, including a much younger Asian with a really hot body. So I didn't leave all that to downgrade. I see allot of spinner talk, but as I have definitely experienced a few pinay spinners, I'm just not seeing much of it on a regular basis. I have a friend in Davao who's an ass connoisseur and spent allot of time in Latin America. We can sit in Gaisano mall for 2 hours, see thousands of young women, and be hard pressed to see a couple perfect asses. But granted, I'm not in Manila, AC, or Cebu so my remarks are limited to the other places I've spent the last 18 months.

Fortunately it does work in the other direction too. A year ago I was introduced to an 18 year old. She was near virgin, just had one pinoy. But she had a kinda funky face as I recall, and the back of her jeans looked filled up, like she'd been crapping in her pants for months. She's kept in touch over the year and was keeping an eye out for a hot friend. She mentioned once that she wasn't fat anymore. Well, I just met up with her and her friend and wao!! She was hot! She's got this pretty face now, braces on teeth, and wearing size 24 short shorts and checks in at 40 kilograms! Man, I couldn't stop staring at her legs. Said she had a poriner bf before and he made her stop eating breakfast. Her friend also used to be fat but looked nice now. The friend txted me the next day and said girl 1 lied and was still with her BF. So she came to my place and received a tongue bath and an evening of romance.

Well, the day after that I get a text from girl 1 asking if I like girl 2. I told her ya, but I really wanted her. But I knew she wasn't available for me. Well, a couple hours later she was at my place telling me it was her best friend that was the one lying about her having a bf, the dude was back in Germany for the last 4 months. Any money coming? No. Any contact? No. And about another hour after that I had those sweet prevoiusly-chubby legs wrapped all around my neck.

[QUOTE=RedKilt;1599214]Some older but attractive women can be ignited without too much effort at all.[/QUOTE]How right you are, RK.

I spent 8 months last year in Chiang Mai. Anyone who's been there or spent any time in the CM thread knows what a wasteland the town can be for willing girls, working or otherwise. Think 180 degrees from the Philippines.

Well, I soon discovered a totally unexpected, and very fruitful, demographic in CM: older 35-50 year-old single female tourists passing through. Many of these women were traveling alone and very happy to strike up a convo, and more, with an older guy. That would be me. I met, hung out with, and slept with a few of them.

Are they skinny, horny 18-22 year-olds? Indeed not. However, what they lacked in youth, they often compensated for in attitude, intelligence, and experience. And many times they insisted on paying their fair share. Being travelers, most had a taste for holiday romance. And many were very fit, active, athletic women.

I met Russians, Germans, Italians and even one quite pleasant American, imagine that. And the most beautiful part? Most were here for only 1-2 weeks and then moved on, with little expectation or desire for any commitment.

So, I agree, don't count out the MILF crowd. And certainly when stranded in a town like Chiang Mai, take every advantage of the abundance of this slice of life. You will find them in coffee shops, in the markets, and every other conceivable place.

[QUOTE=Polyorchid;1599364]
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I met Russians, Germans, Italians and even one quite pleasant American, imagine that. And the most beautiful part? Most were here for only 1-2 weeks and then moved on, with little expectation or desire for any commitment.

So, I agree, don't count out the MILF crowd. And certainly when stranded in a town like Chiang Mai, take every advantage of the abundance of this slice of life. You will find them in coffee shops, in the markets, and every other conceivable place.[/QUOTE]Great supporting post Poly. Some of the 30 - 50 year olds have great bodies. I have found similar pools of talent to you in many parts of SE Asia.

I just had to demur from your use of the phrase "every other conceivable place". LOL. References to conception with older women might make some readers break out in a cold sweat.

There seem to be a lot of "mail order brides" making their way to Australia. I go to my local shopping mall on Saturday a see a lot of older guys with a younger Pinay (or Thai) in tow (often pushing a pram).

They mostly never seem happy, but if I catch their eye as they pass, they inevitably brighten up and smile back. Can't understand that, as I am probably around the same age as the husband; but often wondered what my chances would be with one?

[QUOTE=Aussiegaigin;1601415]They mostly never seem happy, but if I catch their eye as they pass, they inevitably brighten up and smile back. Can't understand that, as I am probably around the same age as the husband; but often wondered what my chances would be with one?[/QUOTE]Pretty effin' good!

[QUOTE=Aussiegaigin;1601415]There seem to be a lot of "mail order brides" making their way to Australia. I go to my local shopping mall on Saturday a see a lot of older guys with a younger Pinay (or Thai) in tow (often pushing a pram).

They mostly never seem happy, but if I catch their eye as they pass, they inevitably brighten up and smile back. Can't understand that, as I am probably around the same age as the husband; but often wondered what my chances would be with one?[/QUOTE]Hey mate, order your own and find out! Try aussie. [URL]amazon.com[/URL]2 me.

[QUOTE=KabulGuy;1597774]I have been involved with a young filli for about 6 months. It is a long distance relationship but we have had a few visits. She is young and was a virgin when we met.

She has recently become quite clingy and is asking for more and more money. Just about daily it is a request for something else. Yesterday was a house, day before was money for furniture for existing apartment, last week was a 30 000 p cell phone. (She has lost 3 since we have been together.).

She is very insecure in the relationship and has threatened to commit suicide if I ever leave her.

Any advice on how to dump her in such a manner that she does not commit suicide?[/QUOTE]Let me see, you thought you would get a young freebie VIRGIN! She is very insecure because she probably thought you were the one and only. And you are. Now she is costing you and you want to dump her! Lmfao.

[QUOTE=Dg8787;1601436]Let me see, you thought you would get a young freebie VIRGIN! She is very insecure because she probably thought you were the one and only. And you are. Now she is costing you and you want to dump her! Lmfao.[/QUOTE]For Kabul: run for your life!

[QUOTE=Polyorchid;1599364] So, I agree, don't count out the MILF crowd. And certainly when stranded in a town like Chiang Mai, take every advantage of the abundance of this slice of life. You will find them in coffee shops, in the markets, and every other conceivable place.[/QUOTE]Good to know. I usually go for girls in their 20's but certainly do not want to be guilty of age discrimination like we have in the US hahaha. I seem to recall reading somewhere that women reach their sexual peak (whatever that means) mid-30's. I'd sure like to climb more of those peaks hahahah.

[QUOTE=Dg8787;1601436]Let me see, you thought you would get a young freebie VIRGIN! She is very insecure because she probably thought you were the one and only. And you are. Now she is costing you and you want to dump her! Lmfao.[/QUOTE]Once you give money to a woman, that is saying the bank is now open. In your mind or pants it might have been a one time thing, but to her it is saying come to me whenever you need money. That is why I would never give money to a woman who is not a known hooker; I don't care how poor she is. If it starts off with you giving her money then it will always be about you giving her money. No reason for you to kill yourself when she already said she would make the problem go away. Fuck it. Kabul cares too much. Women come and women go. Cop and blow.

[quote=aussiegaigin;1601415]there seem to be a lot of "mail order brides" making their way to australia. i go to my local shopping mall on saturday a see a lot of older guys with a younger pinay (or thai) in tow (often pushing a pram).

they mostly never seem happy, but if i catch their eye as they pass, they inevitably brighten up and smile back. can't understand that, as i am probably around the same age as the husband; but often wondered what my chances would be with one?[/quote]firstly that has cone to a screeching halt. the new ultra right wing government has virtually closed the door on forirgn brides by upping the immigration fees in the order of 10 x.

prospective alimony donors are now staring down the barrel of a au $16,000. 00 immi fee for the privilege.

secondly with regards to the happiness of these couples, the aussie guys who rush into these unions are almost universally tragically ignorant of the culture they are pulling these little women from. many of them are rude pigs but even the well intentioned ones are just clueless on how to behave toward the women & their families.

the women are miserable quickly coming to hate the guy & the guy is frustrated / pissed off also.

if you're a cad, yes its not hard to get into their pants but why bother? there are plenty of single women available.

i had a beautiful surgao wife pester me for coffee dates always when hubbie was at work. one day i relented & to my shame i got talked into going off into a hotel & shaghing her brains out.

the next day i tried to disuade her from doing this again assuming it was a just a mistake but when she made it clear that she wanted it to go on i went to hubbie & apologised for my behavior (i knew him) & warned him of what she was up to.

funny thing is she played the innocent card claiming i was lying & just trying to break them up etc. he bought this hook line & sinker. i escaped unrep001hed & she continues her infidelity unchecked. i'll never forget the sight of her riding me to orgasm. i still see them both socially when i visit australia. funny old world we live in.

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[QUOTE=Amavida;1601593]Firstly that has cone to a screeching halt. The new ultra right wing government has virtually closed the door on forirgn brides by upping the immigration fees in the order of 10 x.

Prospective alimony donors are now staring down the barrel of a AU $16,000. 00 immi fee for the privilege.

Secondly with regards to the happiness of these couples, the Aussie guys who rush into these unions are almost universally tragically ignorant of the culture they are pulling these little women from. Many of them are rude pigs but even the well intentioned ones are just clueless on how to behave toward the women & their families.

The women are miserable quickly coming to hate the guy & the guy is frustrated / pissed off also.

If you're a cad, yes its not hard to get into their pants but why bother? There are plenty of single women available.

[/QUOTE]I have no intention of getting one of my own. Already screwed up my life with a younger asian woman.

This was just an observation, these girls must be desperate to smile at me, I probably have less to offer than the husband. LOL.

[QUOTE=Aussiegaigin;1601415] I go to my local shopping mall on Saturday a see a lot of older guys with a younger Pinay (or Thai) in tow (often pushing a pram).

They mostly never seem happy, but if I catch their eye as they pass, they inevitably brighten up and smile back. Can't understand that, as I am probably around the same age as the husband[/QUOTE]It is hard to know if they are happy totally. They are certainly happy in the sense they have left to a better country, more security in life, new baby and quite possibly husband is helping her family back in Phi. Age or race difference do not matter much to Phi girls. Chinese girls used to be the same till economy improved and changed their attitude. In Asian countries girls respect older people. They certainly know older men will provide them the security they need.

As to love it is difficult for outsiders to know for sure. Some of these girls really love their husbands and are not looking for other relationships. The fact that they look and smile at you does not mean they want a tryst with you on the side. It is generally Asian politeness that if somebody looks at them they tend to break a smile.

[QUOTE=Sammon;1601779]It is generally Asian politeness that if somebody looks at them they tend to break a smile.[/QUOTE]And embarrassment and shyness too.

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1601847]And embarrassment and shyness too.[/QUOTE]And all that time I thought they wanted me! LOL.