Nairobi

I am a newbie to the forum and I am currently staying in Nairobi. I have come here several times in the last 4 years, staying for periods ranging from a few days up to 3 months.

I concur on the fact that Kenyan girls really like foreigners (especially Western ones) not only for economic reasons but also for a broader matter of social status and exoticism; and that, if you are minimally good-looking (I am far from being an Adonis but am a decent-looking guy in his 30's) and if you put some efforts in attending the right places, bars, shopping malls and dating apps there is quite a lot of action that can go on without recurring to payments to professionals of sex.

This said, I must also say that I find Blakman's "short novels" on his incredible erotic adventures to be quite grotesque and not corresponding to the reality I see here.

I am also on some dating apps (including Tinder and Tagged, that Blakman mentioned) and I also got matched with quite a number of girls, ranging from cute to hot. I can unequivocally say that, with the exception of sex workers (who would not show up for a cheap 10 USD made in China dress), very few girls would accept to come straight to my house as a first date. Something I would also avoid to do for pure and simple security reasons. Definitely not the "educated, university students" mentioned by Blakman: there is plenty of that middle-class educated girls in town, and they are definitely eager to have fun, but they are not cheap girls ready to jump right away on a stranger's bed they met online for some cheap present. The account of dozens of model-like educated Kenyans engaging in extreme sex, threesomes, foursomes and whatever else straight from Tinder does not correspond to what I see. I repeat: you can have quite a lot of action here and you don't necessarily have to go for professional sex workers, but you definitely need to at least leave your house and put some more efforts.

Less affluent girls are also around, and not all of them are sex workers; still, in that case chances are very high that they expect something from the relationship: being taken out for dinner, being helped when the rent payment time comes, being brought around for some shopping. Does not mean that they would all extorsion you if you don't but it's definitely a tacit agreement that is part of the game.

I also find some other inconsistencies in Blakman's accounts. He has been mentioning visiting Onyx until recently; Onyx was shut down before the lockdown was even declared, as the police raided it for breaking curfew rules. It hit the news here in Nairobi more than to weeks ago.

So, as I am also around in Nairobi: Blakman, you can drop me a PM and we may even meet up so that you can lecture me in your strategies to get 3 middle-class Nairobi stunners per day in my bed without moving from my house.

I had schedule a 9:30 am arrangement with a girl I had been texting with before arrival. She has been on the disappear act. Anyways send her a stern text. Listen you express to me you are very sexual and that's what I am expecting. 9:30 comes no text from her. I encounter a girl on tinder. Sex for cash. We chat I tell her I just do nice gifts and not cash. I tell her things I have. She says send me a pic of one. So I send her the furry slippers I bought for $10. She says its nice and she's okay. I tell her I will let her no by 12 pm after finishing my workout. In the meantime I am hitting up other tinders since its been 2 days no pussy. My longest stretch. I text truegent. Notify him I.

Am reduced to begging LOL. Truegent says looks like you going to have to break out the wallet. Soon as he text that I got confirmation that girl for cash will come for gift. Now her location was over $10 so I need to get that down. I ask is there a way she could get to me cheaper. She said she could come to cbd, but actually stop at fig tree centre. I said ok. Text me when you get there. I had her do a voicenote and her voice sounded peaceful. She sent a videonote and I could see the freak in her. She had no identification but look well over 18. Tinder was 22. I ask truegent what to do. He said blueballs. Then I was thinking of all the jokers ready for me to stumble. I went with my gut. Told her come on. She gets here and not bad. About 5. I bring her to the bedroom. I have tons of treats with the liqour and wine. She is extremely bubbly and affectionate. She's playing footsie which tells me she's attentive. She looks at the dick imprint in my shorts and she's touching it stroking it and goes to pull it out. When she pulls it out its like she takes me on a journey I will never forget. She says I want you to choke me with your dick. Let me say this. If I wanted to she would have suck my dick all night. It was amazing. Her skill her focus and how insatiable she was. She would sloppy toppy, I would force her to deep throat and she would come up for air gasp and go right back for deep throat. And she would go on and on like she can do this 8 hrs. Finally I decide to return the favor. I am licking her pussy but I cannot find the clit. Anyways I continue on making her cum. Then I move on to fucking her. She's verbally very demonstrative and remember I am in a shared apartment. But she enjoys every minute. I talk in her ears and voice as her cumming over and over. We take a little break and have some snacks. She's begging me to smoke but I say we can't cause its not allowed. She says if I smoked weed it would make more horny. I tell her girl if you get any more horny you might kill me. I never seen such insatiable appetite. She's looking appetizing for doggy so I put on a condom. She holds on to the dresser and put a leg on the office chair. I am hitting doggy. And now I am talking Jamaican. Its a nice position but the chair is moving all over the place. Finally we get rid of the chair. She goes all fours. I am hitting it doggy. She says daddy I think I am about to cum. I go harder and oh shit streams of squirt keep coming out. 2nd girl in so many days. Luckily its on the tiles not soaking the bed like last girl. Anyways we go back to the bed and she wants me to cum. Again I can't come so I am above her having her stroke me. But its not working. I stroke my dick telling her I want to cum in her mouth. I love saying that. She says come on my face. But when I was about to cum I was closer to her mouth. And she opened up. Splashed to mouth, chin, other places. She got up and checked it out in the mirror. After that we talked and she told me about kisi tribe and circumcision. She's from nakuru. We talked about 3 some and seem to get her horny again. And she sucked my dicked more and more. Anyways in the morning we fucked again and I nutted in the pussy with condom. While she showered I brought out Victoria secret panties and some Nike sandals I paid $5 for. She smiled. Said she liked it but thought she was going to get a dress. I am saving the good stuff for the blazing girls. I called a uber I said is it ok for it to go to fig tree center to save money and she take matatu from there. She said cool. Got in the uber. She's text me at least 4 times since. Wants to visit again.

I have been here since March 4. Your investigative work needs to be upgraded LOL. The closure was around 4 days before locked down which was on the 28. So had 19 days to visit Onyx. I also took home a girl from onyx. I also brought a girl from brews bistro to onyx. IT worker from Kisimu. Both I fuck for free. Please do better if you a trying to prove me wrong.

[QUOTE=Jnb1983;2548372]I am a newbie to the forum and I am currently staying in Nairobi. I have come here several times in the last 4 years, staying for periods ranging from a few days up to 3 months.

I concur on the fact that Kenyan girls really like foreigners (especially Western ones) not only for economic reasons but also for a broader matter of social status and exoticism; and that, if you are minimally good-looking (I am far from being an Adonis but am a decent-looking guy in his 30's) and if you put some efforts in attending the right places, bars, shopping malls and dating apps there is quite a lot of action that can go on without recurring to payments to professionals of sex.

This said, I must also say that I find Blakman's "short novels" on his incredible erotic adventures to be quite grotesque and not corresponding to the reality I see here.

I am also on some dating apps (including Tinder and Tagged, that Blakman mentioned) and I also got matched with quite a number of girls, ranging from cute to hot. I can unequivocally say that, with the exception of sex workers (who would not show up for a cheap 10 USD made in China dress), very few girls would accept to come straight to my house as a first date.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Blakman;2548727]I have been here since March 4. Your investigative work needs to be upgraded LOL. The closure was around 4 days before locked down which was on the 28. So had 19 days to visit Onyx. I also took home a girl from onyx. I also brought a girl from brews bistro to onyx. IT worker from Kisimu. Both I fuck for free. Please do better if you a trying to prove me wrong.[/QUOTE]Whatever, Blakman. I am not here to do investigative journalism. I have the impression that you mentioned your "incursions" in Onyx well after March 22, when it was closed, but I might be wrong. That is not the point of my post.

As I clearly stated, I agree on the fact that in Nairobi there can be quite a lot of action going on without recurring to P4P and professional SWs. With some efforts one can have multiple dates per week and decide what to do and what to go for, depending on the girl you have in front and on what you want. However, there is a big difference between that and your portray of armies of "well-educated" Nairobi stunners craving to jump in your bed at any time of day or night after a few text messages on Tinder, performing all sorts of porn-like sex, leaving your house with a smile and begging to come back because of your irresistible charm and because of some fake Gucci bags that you throw at them like a bone. Takes a bit more effort than a few nice pics on Tinder and some cheap presents to get serious action. And for my experience of Nairobi, these cheap presents bought from the US to which you attribute some sort of "magic" power to provide you with free pussy are of no use with Nairobi girls from all walks of life: middle-class Nairobi girls would snub them as they want to be taken out for nice dates and treated like ladies, not like cheap SWs to be pleased with a made in China dress; as for girls with economic motives (am not talking about SWs but young girls who may definitely want to go with a foreigner but would expect some sugar daddy-like treatment), they would definitely want more than some cheap piece of clothe.

I wanted to express my point of view with my post because I would not like someone who is not acquainted with the Nairobi scene to read your accounts and come here with quite wrong expectations, some of which may even put them in troublesome or dangerous situations.

I am a newbie here and it is not my role to judge but I definitely have the feeling that you are trying to troll this page of the forum. I would be curious to know what other senior Members knowledgeable of the Nairobi scene have to say on it.

This said, Blakman: peace and love, take care and enjoy your erotic dreams wherever you are.

Its been five weeks I escaped p4 p but after going two days hearing I need cash from many prospects I relented. Chose a girl with overall nice body. Not a stunner by far. Again I cut the cost of uber by making them travel closer to sending them uber. Proud of that discovery. I met this girl on tinder as I have met 99% of my girls. I was doing something wrong with uber, so she had to take a cab. Cost me $3.50 extra I wasn't happy but beats being alone. Quiet girl, fluorescent dress. Perfect boobies before having a child but now just Nice boobies, slim waist, curvy booty. We Get in the room and I have bakery snacks, sinces its very cheap its new addition to my presentation. Liquor was there but she didn't even engage. Get the music going and we start kissing. I can say this. Kenyan girls are good kissers. She mention she likes to suck dick and she proved it. There was a view scrapes with the teeth but she got better with time. She also spent lots of time sucking. Let me say this if you are not getting some extensive submissive pleasures from these Kenyans, you are doing something terrible wrong. These horror stories that you are hearing of what these girls can potentially do to set you up. I am seeing none of it. Only One time when I fucked a girl so good she snuck back in the compound later that evening and found me with another girl. I included that just to rub it in the haters face LOL. Getting back to the novel. I switch to eating her pussy and by sticking my fingers in her pussy, it felt good. After licking her good, I had her slip my cock in. Her legs was positioned wide like she can take deep cock and a pounding. So I went to town. She made wonderful soft moans and she called me daddy. I love that. We then switch to doggy which was the best part. I saw the outline of her body. Slim waist, and curvy bottom bouncing on my dick. I gave it to her for a long time and she gave back as well. It was good chemistry and made the 3 k for all night worth it though I rather pay with gifts. We shifted to missionary and I ask can I finish in her mouth and she was like yes. I love this about Kenyan women. They are very similar to Caucasian women liking the taste of cum. Anyways I nutted but it was only a little and I knew I had more so I continue to jerking it off above her and I splashed. She tried to take control but like the other day it was too explosive and sensitive. We slept through the night and I fucked her two more times two more orgasm. In the morning gave her 3 k and $2.50 uber. 3 k all night can't complain.

As a lot of posters already said and everyone who knows Afica a little better, knew a long time already, this is really what it is:

[QUOTE=Blakman;2549324]Getting back to the novel..[/QUOTE]

I was humoring jnb who cast my reality as a novel. Bojoknownothing or whatever your is. But what your compliment tells me is.

Maybe and can use my reality elsewhere since you put it on such high standards. Its not my fault that you guys are not getting the same treatment. Try to make sex and intimacy more exciting. Maybe you will get more with less rather than giving more and getting less. Just saying the BlakJamaican man out LOL

[QUOTE=Bajuni;2549829]As a lot of posters already said and everyone who knows Afica a little better, knew a long time already, this is really what it is:[/QUOTE]

So I moved into a shared apartment with 3 ladies. Actually the owner told me it was just her. So she lied. Anyways there was no rules restrictions for visitors. I paid my money so I was going to get my moneys worth. So I brought 4 girls there in my 8 days there. I guess after a few times of hearing the raucous the owner decided that it was time to part ways. I had stay there past my 7 days anyways and needed to find entire apartment to finish out my stay. Wanted to be near cbd because only time there was with trugent. Got an apartment and it was right in front of a major fruit market. Not an inviting appearance. Quite few things not in the apartment so decided to move out. I am off to ngong. I did visit at massage parlor on bishara market mansion building 401. Did not entertain. 1 girl there I would have bang. 4 k just sex if y'all interested.

Realized I never posted anything after gleaning info from this thread, so I wanted to at least provide some limited contribution.

In short, Nairobi and I just aren't especially compatible for my preferred pace. I flew out to Nairobi with the intention of staying in Westlands or Kilimani for two weeks to work remotely with our regional team with some dating and p4 p mixed in, before heading on vacation afterwards. This isn't a travel site, so I'll summarize by saying it was the first time in a while that I felt spoiled by the comparative reliability of internet and other critical infrastructure in places like the Philippines or even Cambodia. Even at the best of times in the nicest of places, working remotely in tech (for a western company at least) in Nairobi was a kick in the dick.

My struggles with business internet aside, I didn't find much excitement in the way of girls I met on Tinder, on the street, the mall, or by way of touts. I found out the tough way that no matter how secular they claim to be, Kenyan Muslims are a lot more averse to head than their Indo sisters. I ran into one or two truly fantastic racks in the wild, but I also found a surprising amount of droopy tits and creative "scaffolding" in bustier women or bigger asses.

Girls were also surprisingly materialistic / opportunistic in a way I guess RTFF didn't prepare me for; girls seemed super humble and down to Earth, but they'd get to my Airbnb, see Jordans and a PS5, and suddenly had business plans they wanted me to hear or shopping trips they wanted to go on with no mention of where the funding would come from. I don't mind resetting a girl's expectations, even at the risk of it killing the mood, but that doesn't make it any less of a pain.

I also underestimated how thorough the lockdown was; a lot of the time you were pressed for choices in food or shopping after 8:45 pm, and I think folks used to how curfews are being enforced in places like Colombia or the States will be surprised at how airtight it is in spots like Kilimani.

That said, I'll concede the value proposition is solid. A girl never asked me for more than 3-4 k Ksh at the end of the night or the next morning, only asking for extra stuff later on. I gave a couple smaller ($15-30 value) gifts out to some of the more chill girls, which they were extremely and demonstrately appreciative of, but maybe that's bc it was on top of whatever cash "gift" I proposed. As someone who smokes pot, it was also a lot easier to meet girls that wanted to smoke and hang out in Nairobi, which is a pleasant distraction from the middling tree you get there. A lot of girls were also down to get shitfaced off wine regardless of time of day if available, which was a big turn-off to me but YMMV. I'm probably spoiled by experiences elsewhere and handicapped by visiting during COVID, but if you're value-minded, prefer a (let's say) "softer" body type, like chocolate of any or all shades, or really, really like Afrobeat, I'd recommend giving Nairobi a shot. Otherwise it's a pass for me.

I should also say this only applies to Nairobi, and specifically as a dating / mongering destination; it was amazing to be awash in a sea of predominantly positive Black faces, and I'd definitely go back on a purely touristic slant, as the rest of Kenya that I visited on my vacation time was absolutely brilliant.

Honestly I am proof that the gifts alone would bring them great joy. About head. Nairobi I have gotten great head and cum in the mouth action. I mean girls sucking my dick for ever. The first girl and fourth girl did not give me head. So to adjust to that issue I made sure say something in a conversation that I don't date girls who does not give head. That rectified that problem. Agree with you if you meet a girl with a child the titties do drop. I ponder is because of lack of nutrition. If you love black Nubians I don't think Nairobi is it in abundance, but in the night clubs it sometimes make you say not so fast with that statement. I think the Tanzania have the bodies and beauties from a few women I have seen in Nairobi. I had two Kenyans that has a stunning body. But I will wait till I arrive safely on American soil to show those.

[QUOTE=Advantageous;2549927]Realized I never posted anything after gleaning info from this thread, so I wanted to at least provide some limited contribution.

In short, Nairobi and I just aren't especially compatible for my preferred pace. I flew out to Nairobi with the intention of staying in Westlands or Kilimani for two weeks to work remotely with our regional team with some dating and p4 p mixed in, before heading on vacation afterwards. This isn't a travel site, so I'll summarize by saying it was the first time in a while that I felt spoiled by the comparative reliability of internet and other critical infrastructure in places like the Philippines or even Cambodia. Even at the best of times in the nicest of places, working remotely in tech (for a western company at least) in Nairobi was a kick in the dick.

My struggles with business internet aside, I didn't find much excitement in the way of girls I met on Tinder, on the street, the mall, or by way of touts. I found out the tough way that no matter how secular they claim to be, Kenyan Muslims are a lot more averse to head than their Indo sisters. I ran into one or two truly fantastic racks in the wild, but I also found a surprising amount of droopy tits and creative "scaffolding" in bustier women or bigger asses.

Girls were also surprisingly materialistic / opportunistic in a way I guess RTFF didn't prepare me for; girls seemed super humble and down to Earth, but they'd get to my Airbnb, see Jordans and a PS5, and suddenly had business plans they wanted me to hear or shopping trips they wanted to go on with no mention of where the funding would come from. I don't mind resetting a girl's expectations, even at the risk of it killing the mood, but that doesn't make it any less of a pain..[/QUOTE]

I moved to Ngong. Nice apartment but compound and location so so. I contact this girl to come over and she says yes. The uber is over ten bucks so I ask her to matatu closer and she refuses. I give in since she's staying the night. First meet. And say I will pay for uber. She then says can my friend come. I am like first date no. She says my friend is lonely and she just wants to come and swim then leave at night. I said that's more uber money. The girl says are you broke or something. At the same time a girl with a thick body who stood me up and I told her se done. Text me. She says she's nearby the new place wants to come over for lunch. I then tell the previous girl let me unpack and think about this and get back with her later. Ubered the thick girl to the crib. When she got out she was every bit of thick I wanted. Give her hug and inside we are. Now before coming she wanted 10 k and I refused. She then said 7 k and she would not come for clothes. She then said lets just meet no sex. I was curious to see the body and agreed. I just moved in so was not prepared. Cut up a fresh pineapple to impress then made popcorn. Played music then popped in porn as a test. Her eyes was glued to the tv. I started kissing on her neck and lips. Feeling her titties. She wore no bra. Her nipples was her spot. She kept pulling me in to suck them. She then stroke my dick but would not suck them. I said how about that massage. She said ok and to the bedroom. Her thick body looked better than I thought. Just how I like it. Meaty and tight. I gave her back massage and took a pic. Then turn her to the front. I got to her pussy and now it was my turn to lick for hours. Finally she nutted. Sorta loud orgasm. I then laid back and said suck it and sure enough she did. She did an awesome job and was stroking me to cum. I stop her got a condom was fucking her missionary. Told her cum on my cock she said I can only cum once. I said oh yeah. Starting hitting it. Talking to her. Next thing I know. I am cumming she said. We switch to doggy. Bang it for awhile she then ask me to cum. But I wanted to cum in her mouth while she sucking so I took off the condom. She stroke me off I don't even know where the spunk went. My eyes was close and I was seeing stars and roaring madly. After that I ordered in. Cheapy charlie ordered in. Only my second time. I would have given her what she wanted sort of. So I then threw her a panty. She said she only wears thongs. I threw her these shorts winner, then a dress, and another dress. 3 was my limit. $11 total. She was happy but she started asking for cash do her hair. I denied but countered with going to national park. She was persistent but held my ground. I new she liked me and that would prevail. Called uber the end. Says she will stay the night next time.

Now that I am out of shared apartment. My sexcapade is back in full swing. Yesterday I invite a lady over but she was taking her sweet time to confirm, I began dialogue with a slim model like girl who was saying everything right and assured me she does not sell her body. I explained my expectations and gift offering and she said that was so sweet. We confirm for 3 pm and sent her uber at 8.50. Bit high but anything under 10 is now okay with me. When she arrived she was a size 2 or 3 and close to my height. Very warm and pleasant. I expected to drink liquor and order in from chicken inn but nooo she doesn't drink or do any drugs. And she was okay with the pineapples and popcorn plus said I could cook burgers. I laugh at y'all jokers thinking a restaurant is a must. Anyways I link her to you tube and she's playing her favorite music. She has the burger and give me thumbs up. We watch porn she loves it but the screen keeps freezing and she wants to really see all of it. I do something that allows us to watch more but freezes again. I say let me give you a massage. She says sure and takes a shower and comes out. I give her a back massage and she's amaze I am really giving her a massage. I turn her over to do the front and I say fuck it skip the massage. Start sucking on her breast, hearing moans and slide down to lick her pussy and she's like no don't do that. I am thinking she kidding but more tries more resistance. So I say suck my dick. She says okay but it won't be long I am not a fan of it. She proceeds to suck my dick like a fucking expert and stops like within 5 minutes. I beg for more and she says I told you it won't be for long. I get my condom and start banging her size 3 body. It feels sooo good. Of course she's cumming because its blakman. I then fuck her doggy for awhile. Can't cum. I go back to missionary and same deal surprisingly. I pull off the condom have her jerk it. She can't do it. I think my dick likes my hands best LOL. I tell her I want to cum in her mouth she says no but on my face is ok. I nut a whole bunch on her face. She lays there not phased by it. And gets up and takes a shower. We chill watch few movies, I make hotdogs have ice cream then we sleep. In the morning she didn't want to have sex. Had me call uber and left without even asking for gifts which was interesting cause she asked a couple times before sex and I told her in the morning. Because of her shorten length blow job. Didn't feel she deserve a gift. So fellas that was free sex.

I got a call from a nice body chic saying I am ready to see you. Finish with all my school stuff. She said between 11 to 12 pm. Shortly after another girl called said she's in kilimani area and can visit. I told I had arrangements but if she wanted short visit sure. She said she would rather wait till I was available. I should have accepted her offer. This girl told me all kinds of story and my hunch said she wasn't coming but somehow through all her promises I believed. I offered her a uber and she decline saying she would uber to my location. That was the clue that should have made things obvious sge wasn't coming. After that electricity went out 17 hrs. Bum day.

Every child is a blessing, a well-loved saying all over Africa.

However I have my concerns about that.

I wonder if some of you could answer a few of my questions, either from own experience, or from hear say.

It is about what could happen if a girl tells you that you are the father of a new born baby.

Of course first of all I have to find out if there is any truth in her statements.

I don't know yet the amount of drama that can be expected.

So my questions are:

1- if there is a girl stating that you are the father of her child what can she do?

Can she go to the police or the court and will you be forced to answer or can you be forced to do a paternity test?

2- if at all the paternity test says that you are the father, can you be forced to pay child maintenance?

3- Are there any sanctions possible to force you for paying child maintenance and what are these sanctions (like.

Being held, not possible to enter or to leave Kenya?

4. what can be the monthly amount of child maintenance (probably higher for muzungu?

I would like to thank you in advance if you could answer some of these questions.

[QUOTE=Abramfather;2551197]If a girl tells you that you are the father of a new born baby.[/QUOTE]Options:

1) Its not true. Its a well known scam and there's no end what she will try to do to keep you and your support. Leave all your shit and move.

2) Its true. Be a good father. I don't think Kenya can force you to do anything. If she's threatening you, its likely 1)