Stupid shit in Medellin

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2683231]I'm completely lost on how someone is supposed to "earn monogamy." Monogamy is not normal human behavior, it never has been. It's a social construct that's never been popular.
[/QUOTE]You are right. It was societal reaction to the spread of syphilis in the 1500's and forsaking all others was added to the marriage vows then, but you are missing the point.

You give a chick $100 to get a blowjob and fuck. She has to earn the money right? Now she says that I want to be the only one who fucks you and gives you blowjobs. She does not want to feel like a ho. She wants to show you off to her friends and family as her one and only. There is value to her for you being her only guy.

Earning monogamy is what does she have to do to get there and what is that?: fuck you whenever you want? Not take money? Wash your clothes? Pack your suitcase? Look so fucking good that every guy stares at her when she enters the room? Pay all your bills? Give you millions? Be upbeat and pleasant?

If monogamy is an unnatural state that women want, we should be putting the burden on them. Instead of chastising men for cheating, women need to be doing all they can to earn a man's monogamy.

Maybe the reason it is so hard to get for some guys is they are hanging out with 18 year old tatted up, glue sniffers. Monogamy is not conceivable then. If you are talking women who are attractive, are in or have been to college, are mature, and have a job, I think it is an easier concept to get.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2683377]You give me the impression that a man is born w a dick and a woman is born w a vagina, and that's the end of the story. But that is a million miles from the truth. Let's stick with the discussion of a woman for now. What makes a woman? There are some traits that are common among women:

Vagina, Womb, Uterus, Ovaries, Being able to produce large gametes.
Breasts.
High level of oestrogen during and after puberty (until she stops being a women, hehe).
XX chromosomes.
Smaller muscles, less body hair, broader hips, more body fat.
Neurological structures and accompanying physiological functions particular to a female.
Womanliness. Being of the gender.
Psychological traits.
Sociological traits.[/QUOTE]That's not a million miles from the truth. That's the overwhelming majority of humans born. Yes there are very few humans born with sexual deformities. Here is a simple answer, if a human is born with a vagina. Then she is a woman! If a human is born with a dick then he is a MAN! If a human is born sexually deformed, it's ambiguous and there is question for debate, and more recognition for a third sex perhaps should be discussed and promoted. Most of what you say seems to advocate for fucking dudes who think they are girls, which is your right, I would just call that gay, a man who is aroused by a dick. That's what a homosexual is and there is nothing wrong with that. A man who likes to pretend and make himself look like a woman and get fucked by other men, that is a tranny. This all seems pretty simple to me. If you are at the point in your life where you don't mind paying a man who makes himself look like a girl and getting your rocks off, that is your business and god bless you. I could care less.

My problem is when you actually start to think and advocate that those men who pretend to be women should be treated as normal women. As I have stated many times, that is not fair to real women in the realm of sport and other areas in terms of fairness. Look at the horrific tragedy that is occurring in NCAA women's swimming, these young girls are now showering everyday with a dude, I can't imagine they feel comfortable. They have trained their whole lives to be champion swimmers and here comes a he / she and he just crushes all of them and their dreams. If we allow this to continue, it's the end of female sports and that is sad. As a former competitive the 1 athlete, I could never condone anything like this, its totally unfair and I blame those who live in cyber-land and not the real world and have never competed in a sport. These weirdos from the liberal American left push these policies without even for a second thinking about the women who will get fucked over by being forced to compete against he / she's.

[QUOTE=PedroMorales;2683254]The world is gone to fuck. The Rise and Fall of the Roman Empire. Check out some of the mad emperors they had. Some mad Serbian transvestite fucker. Today is Sodom and Gomorrah on a quiet day.

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JO96wcBgIOw[/URL][/QUOTE]Tell that to Ukraine and the Wigurs in China.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2683195]I don't seek them out. But if a girl is sexy, why exclude her? Why be prejudiced against someone based on what some doctor said 20 years ago?!

I am not interested in knowing if someone is scientifically female. I mean, I don't want children, so why should I care if she has ovaries? But if a girl looks sexy and is happy to give me a BJ or let me fk her in her vagina or arse, then I am a happy man. Her sex doesn't come in to it.[/QUOTE]"I am not interested in knowing if someone is scientifically female."

If you don't care if its a female or not, then you are gay and just say that!! (heterosexual men don't have sex with other men).

And don't call someone that is scientifically male a female.

Even you agree that science has a process to delineate the difference between the two.

"I am not interested in knowing if someone is scientifically female."

Your homosexuality does not nullify biology.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2683232]With a ho, you just care about sex, and she just cares about the money. With a SB, you care about the sex and her. She cares about the money and you.

Yeah, I have heard you guys knocking this as stupid for the last few years, but look at guys who have been doing it and having a great time with it. It was easy to knock it when it was just me but now you have dozens of guys doing it. When you have that many, and you have not tried it, then you are the one who is delusional.[/QUOTE]Remind me again why these guys do not just get a woman that cares about them and not the money. For some reason you are acting like these type of women (who must have the absolute best sex) do not exist, because you refuse to mention them. It is either ho or sugar baby (ho lite) with you.

For me it is either ho or women that do not require gifts or money. Sorry, but I can not illude myself that a "sugar baby" is with me for me (and money). The test is all too simple. If the money is gone will she still accept me? I will go out on a limb and say that is a hard NO! If I am gone will she still accept my money? Hmmm.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2683435] It is either ho or sugar baby (ho lite) with you.

For me it is either ho or women that do not require gifts or money.[/QUOTE]Do not waste your time with the clinically insane. He'd argue there's a difference between pregnant and almost pregnant.

[QUOTE=DramaFree11;2682810]If you are cheap, like drugs, enjoy being around a bunch of fat / lazy sex tourists, and you have low standards yes, maybe MDE is better. This is crazy. I can go on bad food, terrible service, crappy music. MDE is one step up from a ghetto with a couple of nice places. If you have any game and a decent budget you can have an amazing experience in Mexico City and meet amazing girls, that are professionals and educated. From what you have described you are not looking for this. Maybe you can find this in other cities in Colombia, but I doubt it.

I was very clear I do not do the street game. MDE is low end at best, if that is your thing, then you are in paradise. I forgot to mention it rains all the time and humid. Also, the crime and drugs, yes MDE is Paradise![/QUOTE]Medellin has the upper hand when it comes to food besides tacos. Bandeja Paisa, Pollo Broaster, Costillas, Punta de Anca, Solomo, Sancocho, Arepas, the list goes on and on. The weather is perfect, not too hot, not too cold like Bogota, afternoon rain showers that are refreshing and never seem to last too long, cleaner streets, mountains, tons of shit to go do (guatape day trip, Parque de las aguas, parque del Norte, parque explora, comuna 13) tons of Centro comerciales, Poblado, as mentioned there is a casa scene, the ground zero / Botero centro scene, parque lleras, Venezuelan women are way better looking and give way better service than Mexican women, and also the Colombianas. The people are nicer, the culture is more open and inviting, the place is amazing.

Mexico City: trash everywhere on the streets, especially anillo de circunvalacion. The hotels have fucking cockroaches, so many people everywhere you have to walk in the fucking streets bcuz you can't squeeze in on the sidewalks, same deal with the metro, 50 people in the doors 50 people out the doors all at the same time, with people pushing and shoving you. No decent fried chicken options, tacos are good especially the suadero, but food is priced higher than medellin, hotels are more expensive as well and the women tend to look indigenous, coming from places such as Oaxaca, Chiapas, Campeche, Puebla and Tabasco. The women often have bad attitude, not wanting to take off their shirts unless you pay 100 pesos more, same thing about blow jobs too, also most won't allow DATY, most do not shave either, and most have nasty vertical c-section scars too. Also you mentioned crime in Medellin ok sure there's crime everywhere, you must not frequent mercado tepito when you're in CDMX??

[QUOTE=JustTK;2683195]I don't seek them out. But if a girl is sexy, why exclude her? Why be prejudiced against someone based on what some doctor said 20 years ago?!

I am not interested in knowing if someone is scientifically female. I mean, I don't want children, so why should I care if she has ovaries? But if a girl looks sexy and is happy to give me a BJ or let me fk her in her vagina or arse, then I am a happy man. Her sex doesn't come in to it.[/QUOTE]Each to his own. To me it's disgusting, but good for you.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2683185]I dunno mate. I dunno why people can not read what others wrote and then make up their own interpretations. I never said she was not trans.[/QUOTE]You mean he.

[QUOTE=FunLuvr;2683473]Your personality speaks louder than your size. I used to be 5'8" (age also takes it toll on height, about 5'7 1/2" now) and weigh 195. I have some FB friends who I consider to be 7's and 8's. They never say anything about the size of my mid-section. Even when I tell them in person that I am fat, they say I'm not. They continue to return to see me, and I don't over pay. Right now, I pay between 200,000 and 250,000 COP, total including taxis.[/QUOTE]I have found that most Latin American chicas like guys that are overweight. In fact, there was a recent article on-line that I read that confirmed it.

IMHO it comes from the fact that most Latin Americans are relatively poor and anyone who is overweight is seen as someone who can provide food.

[QUOTE=Gabacho;2683491]Medellin has the upper hand when it comes to food besides tacos. Bandeja Paisa, Pollo Broaster, Costillas, Punta de Anca, Solomo, Sancocho, Arepas, the list goes on and on. The weather is perfect, not too hot, not too cold like Bogota, afternoon rain showers that are refreshing and never seem to last too long, cleaner streets, mountains, tons of shit to go do (guatape day trip, Parque de las aguas, parque del Norte, parque explora, comuna 13) tons of Centro comerciales, Poblado, as mentioned there is a casa scene, the ground zero / Botero centro scene, parque lleras, Venezuelan women are way better looking and give way better service than Mexican women, and also the Colombianas. The people are nicer, the culture is more open and inviting, the place is amazing.

Mexico City: trash everywhere on the streets, especially anillo de circunvalacion. The hotels have fucking cockroaches, so many people everywhere you have to walk in the fucking streets bcuz you can't squeeze in on the sidewalks, same deal with the metro, 50 people in the doors 50 people out the doors all at the same time, with people pushing and shoving you. No decent fried chicken options, tacos are good especially the suadero, but food is priced higher than medellin, hotels are more expensive as well and the women tend to look indigenous, coming from places such as Oaxaca, Chiapas, Campeche, Puebla and Tabasco. The women often have bad attitude, not wanting to take off their shirts unless you pay 100 pesos more, same thing about blow jobs too, also most won't allow DATY, most do not shave either, and most have nasty vertical c-section scars too. Also you mentioned crime in Medellin ok sure there's crime everywhere, you must not frequent mercado tepito when you're in CDMX??[/QUOTE]Completely wrong. MDE is one step of above a ghetto. Not worth commenting. Obviously you have very low standards.

[QUOTE=Gabacho;2683491]Medellin has the upper hand when it comes to food besides tacos. Bandeja Paisa, Pollo Broaster, Costillas, Punta de Anca, Solomo, Sancocho, Arepas, the list goes on and on. The weather is perfect, not too hot, not too cold like Bogota, afternoon rain showers that are refreshing and never seem to last too long, cleaner streets, mountains, tons of shit to go do (Parque de las aguas, parque del Norte, parque explora, comuna 13) tons of Centro comerciales, Poblado, ... the place is amazing.

Mexico City[/QUOTE]I have never been to Mexico City so I cannot comment on the comparison, but I must say that what you wrote above would be centrepiece subject matter if I were to write a Ironic comedy sketch about MDE. These are the very things that I dislike about MDE, or that I thiink are so overrated that they are laughable. But hey, each to our own. Go ahead and enjoy the inspiring Colombian food, warm and dry MDE climate and interesting tourist attractions.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2683435]Remind me again why these guys do not just get a woman that cares about them and not the money. For some reason you are acting like these type of women (who must have the absolute best sex) do not exist, because you refuse to mention them. It is either ho or sugar baby (ho lite) with you.[/QUOTE]Nope, I changed that. I did not let a woman be a SB if she expected payment, and that is how it was with my last 3 sugar babies.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2683435]For me it is either ho or women that do not require gifts or money. Sorry, but I can not illude myself that a "sugar baby" is with me for me (and money). The test is all too simple. If the money is gone will she still accept me? I will go out on a limb and say that is a hard NO! If I am gone will she still accept my money? Hmmm.[/QUOTE]Prostitution is an exchange of something of value for sex. [URL]https://shesaid.com/truth-married-men-visit-prostitutes/[/URL].

When husbands approach their wives for sex, they want them; there's no conditions around it and it's all about the sex. Wives, on the other hand, can place conditions around sex. This is supported by the statistics that men who do more housework get more sex.

So if the man is having to do chores for his wife, something of value, then he is paying her and she is a ho. In fact, most wives in that sense are hos.

So maybe you are not giving them money but are you giving them something of value? If you are, then you are deluding yourself into thinking a ho is not one. You seem to be complaining about the demands women are putting on you.

Given that my gal wants to fuck me 4 X a day no matter what, so she is not a ho. At least she is not for now.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2683378]I did write "if a girl looks sexy ". If a girl had a big dick flopping around while I was trying to give her one from behind, I don't think I would find that sexy. I am only sexually attracted to young women. But then again, I have never been in that situation so never say never![/QUOTE]So when you pick up a puta and it turns out to be a man.

What does your mouth do whilst 69 ing?

[QUOTE=JustTK;2683600]I have never been to Mexico City so I cannot comment on the comparison, but I must say that what you wrote above would be centrepiece subject matter if I were to write a Ironic comedy sketch about MDE. These are the very things that I dislike about MDE, or that I thiink are so overrated that they are laughable. But hey, each to our own. Go ahead and enjoy the inspiring Colombian food, warm and dry MDE climate and interesting tourist attractions.[/QUOTE]Mexico City is on the order of London, Paris, and NY, and the weather is better. Mexico City is one of those cities you would have to work at to be bored. There is always something going on, and the city has an incredible energy to it. The museums and parks are world class.

There is a Netflix show called Somebody feed Phil where he went to Mexico City, and I followed in his footsteps and ate at as many of the same places as he did. Unfuckingbelievable.

Then you have every good chain in Mexico and the USA there. The purists may scoff at this, but I took my gal to California Pizza Kitchen to try the Chicken Waldorf salad. I told her it is the best salad I have ever had in my life. She ordered it, loved it, and now insists we go to CPK every trip. Every steak house I have been to in Mexico has been better than anything in Colombia or Medellin.

Mexico City has a rainy season but even still there is less rain than Medellin. I will say Medellin does have Mexico City beat air pollution wise and with traffic, but I do not know what Gabacho is talking about with hotel costs. The Barcelo in Reforma in Mexico City is half the cost of the Medellin Marriott and is a nicer hotel. You can get 4 star hotels for under $100 and 3 star for $50 or so.

As I said on the low end, Medellin has Mexico City beat. If you want a 9 or 10, Mexico City is going to cost you. What would cost you $100 in Medellin on seeking / SA is $400 or so in Mexico City. The guys there have more money. OTOH, if you are willing to settle for a 8, you can get one for $75 in Medellin and $125 in Mexico City. You can find an 8+ escort for $50 to $125 in Mexico City.

So really the only reason to go to Medellin is the super cheap low end and the cheaper high, high end, and you can find plenty of Colombians and Vennies in Mexico City.

I did find two nice girls in Medellin who were not that bad, but for the most part though, the super high end women in Medellin were very cocky and very materialistic. The hotties in Mexico City wanted more money, but they did not have the uppity attitude the women from Medellin did.