Pattaya Reports

[QUOTE=Knobrm;2798177]or in the worst case cause trouble for yourself as you wrote if you are not very careful of not letting your pic or any of your non-related posts to reveal who you are. Not difficult to calculate 1+1 from a pic and few posts. [/QUOTE]I learned that the hard way. In November I posted in the Peru thread about a chick I had messed with for like 10 years. She was just a normal chick. She had gotten married and moved to Europe, but we would still fool around when she went back home. I posted a blurred out picture. Another board member from that thread figured out who it was and ratted on me. She gave me the 3rd degree and admitted that she actually used to be a hooker (guess that is how the other guy knew her) in that time period but never charged me. And she was hot as fire about me posting about her on this site. Not sure what the other guy gained by telling her. As I posted in that thread it hurt her more than it hurt me.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2797831]I would think most people's encounters with Pattaya chicks are generally the same. Are your experiences varying widely from chick to chick?[/QUOTE]Nowadays they are all pretty much the same because I prefer only meeting girls from Bangkok oilies or girls from bars (like the ones on soi6) and I go through my own routine but ther was a time in the past, I was exclusively taking freelancers from disco.

And the experience was different from one girl to another, I met all kind of girls, the shy one, the crazy one, the bullshit one the gold digger, the one that pretend to not be a prositute.

The only thing they had in common was that they wanted to be rewarded and sex was not good with them.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2797831]You do not negotiate products or services when possible?[/QUOTE]I still do it a little bit, but I tend to value more my time than my money nowadays and I try to not be as stinky as I was before.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2797831]No. Only ever had 2 chicks I would call emotionally unstable come to my room. 11 years ago there was one from Lucifer that karate kicked my TV. And maybe 6 years ago there was another that I met in Flexx and when we got home (already daylight) she was really scared to death and trembling and praying to Buddha so I told her to leave. You would have thought I kidnapped her at gunpoint or something. If she was doing all that just from literally walking in the door, I wanted no other parts of what she had to offer.

Nope. Only ever had a couple of chicks like that over the years. They are way few and far between.[/QUOTE]Sorry these two points sounded familiar to me, I thought I read it more than once before, and I didn't go and check before posting.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2798184]The lineup at Catflaps a couple of days ago. I am told 10 more ladies are there now.

Of these ladies, one is a sweetheart.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the photo, it saves me a trip to Catflaps as there's not a single lady in that photo that I would go with.

[QUOTE=HoustonPlayer;2798266]Thank you for the photo, it saves me a trip to Catflaps as there's not a single lady in that photo that I would go with.[/QUOTE]They look pretty heavy.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2798181]Begs the question, if she had a husband, what was she doing selling sex?[/QUOTE]I never asked her directly. But she did seem to be having a good time at the venue.

I assume her main reason for doing it was for extra money beyond what she made as a cashier and hostess that her husband would not know about, followed by being bored at home, for the fun of it and to hang out with her long time friends at the venue.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2798155]If you live in Pattaya, you will be hit up by the ladies for money a lot. [/QUOTE] Stop wearing your "Jai Dee" T-shirt!

Does this shit happen to the rest of you guys "often", using Explorer's words? Mr. E, ET, Goats, HP, LBM, and others who have lived in Thailand for a long time? It can't be only me that this stuff only happens to once every 3+ years.

[QUOTE=SuperLove;2797905]Such a interesting forum with mongers promoting their sexcapades, yet no photos of the girls they screw. Sad, let us also see what we miss while you guys are at play. Correct![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JizzyB;2798027]Exactly my thoughts.[/QUOTE]I know some people here like to be spoon-fed but it's actually very easy to find photos of girls. Almost every gogo bar on Walking Street and Soi LK Metro posts daily updates on social media with latest photos of their girls, as do most of the bars on Soi 6. It's surprising the things you can find online if you're willing to make at least a modicum of effort.

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2798427]Stop wearing your "Jai Dee" T-shirt!

Does this shit happen to the rest of you guys "often", using Explorer's words? Mr. E, ET, Goats, HP, LBM, and others who have lived in Thailand for a long time? It can't be only me that this stuff only happens to once every 3+ years.[/QUOTE]Thousands of idiots are sending money to ladies in Pattaya. Sometimes, you will see ladies on Facebook with 5,000 friends. Because the ladies are working their friends list for cash.

This is one of the reasons that many bargirls won't go with customers, they don't need the money.

[QUOTE=EihTooms;2798331]I never asked her directly. But she did seem to be having a good time at the venue.

I assume her main reason for doing it was for extra money beyond what she made as a cashier and hostess that her husband would not know about, followed by being bored at home, for the fun of it and to hang out with her long time friends at the venue.[/QUOTE]Exactly. Let me go invest in a wife that I am not going to be with. Why do guys insist on getting married? Idle mind is the devil's workshop.

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2798427]Stop wearing your "Jai Dee" T-shirt!

Does this shit happen to the rest of you guys "often", using Explorer's words? Mr. E, ET, Goats, HP, LBM, and others who have lived in Thailand for a long time? It can't be only me that this stuff only happens to once every 3+ years.[/QUOTE]Never ever happened to me. Only time a chick even asked me to borrow some money was a friend that got knocked up by an American dude. She wanted to move to a bigger place before her son was born. I told her she had to come with some collateral if I was going to be loaning out money. The kid is like 5 now to show you how long ago that was. I always think me and Ex are in 2 different Pattayas.

Now Dominicans will beg like there is no tomorrow. Give me, give me, give me. But I have never had a Thai ask me for shit. Even if I ask a Thai chick that lives out of town to come see me, she will not ask for money if she does not have any. She will say that she will come when she gets money.

And all the guys that send money it is always their idea, not the chicks. Even in the facebook groups guys sometimes ask how much do I need to give my girlfriend. Surprisingly the best answer is not even a common answer when that is asked: "If you have to give her money, then she is not your girlfriend. "

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2798427]Stop wearing your "Jai Dee" T-shirt!

Does this shit happen to the rest of you guys "often", using Explorer's words? Mr. E, ET, Goats, HP, LBM, and others who have lived in Thailand for a long time? It can't be only me that this stuff only happens to once every 3+ years.[/QUOTE]In Bangkok, some regular girls as well as P4 P girls do hit me up for money often. But in wildly varying degrees.

Some, almost never. Among P4 P girls who live and work here, it seems the notably better than average lookers who keep their pussy shaved, provide romantic DFK, BBBJ, BBFSCIP and finish a BBBJCIM fully and completely with a proper Swallow are never, I mean never short on cash when rent is due. And don't pretend to be.

By contrast, those who are lazy about some or damn near all of those things are hurting for cash all the time and might bring it up almost weekly. LOL.

No surprise and no joke. I have taken notes on this pattern over the years.

I can be a soft touch for some of the slackers for various reasons. Hard to say why sometimes. But not by much. We're talking less than 500 baht on occasion.

However, generally my internal calculator sends me a notification when the cost to value for me begins to reach an unacceptable level and I cut it off. Bearing in mind I very often start out with a deal that beats the going rate for girls of the level I am attracted to and including a level of service I don't think many are getting even at the going rate.

Overall, I rarely feel I am getting ripped off on the money part, especially factoring in my age, the girls' ages, their level of attractiveness and what they do for me.

With regular Thai girls I date, most often their occasional ask has a different meaning. Not just that they are 1000 baht short on rent, although that is suggested sometimes. Or that their water buffalo needs emergency surgery.

It is often for some ridiculously small amount that I know they either have or will get paid in their regular job soon. And it often comes after I have not seen them for a while.

150 baht. 100 baht. I swear I have been asked if I can help them with 50 baht. Accompanied by "When can we meet?" Sometimes from long term P4P girls I have not seen for a while too.

So in a culture where Love = Money and Money = Love, as it definitely is quite a bit in Thailand, I choose to see those kind of money requests as coded Do You Still Care About Me, Do I Still Have a Connection With You, Do You Still Love Me messages.

Or they could be sending requests for 50 baht to 100 guys in their Line contacts in hopes of winding up with at least 400 - 500 baht income for the week. LOL.

[QUOTE=HoustonPlayer;2798266]Thank you for the photo, it saves me a trip to Catflaps as there's not a single lady in that photo that I would go with.[/QUOTE]There is one good one in the photo if you look hard enough. I barfined her on her first day. She was not particularly happy about it, so I had a second lady who helped me in bed.

In the bar, the lady was happy, happy, happy, but once outside the door, her demeanor changed completely. Plus, she kept texting her boyfriend.

So, she is cute, but not fun.

I could go with 2 before drinks and with 5 after. Low quality but still doable hahahah.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2798184]The lineup at Catflaps a couple of days ago. I am told 10 more ladies are there now.

Of these ladies, one is a sweetheart.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2798486]: "If you have to give her money, then she is not your girlfriend. "[/QUOTE]Yes and no. IF you meet a p4 p girl who you take out of the bar life and give her an allowance then maybe.

But if tomorrow you meet this super cute girl working at 7-11, get her number, then start dating her. She makes 10000 baht a month working full time at 7-11. In my mind I'd rather her take care of me and help me than she work at 7-11. To me its worth it, since her taking care of me and my house will free up my time to make much more than the 10000 baht I give her.

Also, [URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5hu7o2Q62k[/URL] women are the same everywhere.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2798504]There is one good one in the photo if you look hard enough. I barfined her on her first day. She was not particularly happy about it, so I had a second lady who helped me in bed.

In the bar, the lady was happy, happy, happy, but once outside the door, her demeanor changed completely. Plus, she kept texting her boyfriend.

So, she is cute, but not fun.[/QUOTE]I see 2 that I think are cute at least pretty enough for my standards but they're both larger than what I prefer.