You are most likely a young fella
And some of us admire your falling in love. Just fall into lust the next time and the next time and the next time, etc. Falling into lust is about the same as falling in love. But the sex is better, much better. You can appreciate the fucking before during and after. There is another really good fucking Chinese girl who can help you. Keep looking.
[QUOTE=Iahewr; 1158867]This is one helluva golden rule, my fellow mongers.
I'm a frequent visit of this one girl at Hailang, and have established a good rapport with her. I arrived in SH on the 19th of this month, booked 3 nights at the former Pudong Sofitel, now it's called the Oriental Jinjiang Hotel. Called her a few days in advance and asked her to meet me there. She's been out of work since the crackdown began. The first night was beyond terrific. I gave her a very very long DATY, which she enjoyed. The sex was incredible as well. For her, it's no work no sex. That night was her first sex in 2 weeks. Holy cow, she was moaning so loud that I was so afraid that the neighbors would hear her and call the cops on us. My room was right by the elevator bank, ya know. We spent a wonderful 4 hours together then I asked her to stay for the night. Thought she would say yes, but to my surprise she refused and mentioned something about a friend of hers had just quit Hailang and must take her to the airport in the morning. Ok, fine. How about some room service since we've been fucking each other for the past 4 hours. Her eyes almost popped out as she opened the menu. Everything was so expensive. I said it was ok, she could order whatever she wanted. Surprisingly she ordered the cheapest item on the menu, a fruit platter for 48RMB. She left afterwards. I stopped her as she was walking out and handed her 1500 RMB. After a few seconds of hesitation, she took the money and left.
The next morning I texted her and said that I would like to see her again that night. To my surprise, she didn't reply until almost 9pm saying that she was on her way to me. At that time I was just about to receive my HE from #12 at my favorite massage parlor. Being a little annoyed with her late reply, I turned off my phone. When I turned my phone back on a little while later, her text had already came through saying that since I turned my phone off, she went back home. Oh well, I spent another lonely night in that hotel room, very regrettful and annoyed.
Texted her again in the morning saying wanting to see her again that night, but won't return until late. She left me a message that afternoon stating that if for any reason I couldn't make it back to the hotel, I should call her. I texted her back with a positive reply then she said to text her when I'm done with my stuff. Cool, all settled then. So I went on about my business that day, and attened to my cousin's wedding that night. Texted her at 830pm saying that I was on my way back to the hotel. Her reply shocked me. She said she was sick so couldn't make it. Was it a lie or was she really sick? You decide. We exchanged a few text messages. She said she likes me and enjoys spending time with me and therefore she didn't quote a price for her visit the night before, and she cared about me so she ordered an inexpensive item from the menu. The reason she took the money was because she needed it to pay the rent. A few times she mentioned liking me and asked if I would go visit her hometown with her after she quit Hailang. Being boozed up at my cousin's wedding and the fact that my little guy was taking charge at the time, I was stupid enough to break rule #1, Never fall in love with a working girl. I texted her back saying I like her too and would like to start a relationship. No sooner than it started, her text messages stopped. She hasn't replied ever since. I'm puzzled. What do you guys think?
I went back to Hailang today but it was closed due to the raids. Tomorrow is my last day in SH. Oh well, whatever. Lesson learned. Never ever ever fall in love with a working girl. Any thoughts, please share.[/QUOTE]
First Report: Bodi vs. Waves (Hailang)
Long time reader, first time poster! Thanks for all the great tips. Arrived in Shanghai last week and have been thoroughly enjoying myself.
Bodi:
First trip to Sauna was Bodi last Sunday afternoon. Boy was I sweating bullets (first time going to a sauna anywhere) and had second thoughts more than once about turning back. I'm glad I didn't! Followed the directions posted on the forum, although if you get off at the Children's hospital it's quite a long walk 20 min or so.
After I arrived, I was a stuttering idiot. I'm Chinese-american, fluent in Chinese but as soon as I walked in, the receptionist looked very taken aback and immediately asked "&20320; &26159; &21738; &20799; &30340; &20154;?". I responded "American". Immediately the demeanor changed and the staff became very welcoming. Changed, showered, was brought to the waiting area downstairs with a two other Chinese guys and the staff said they would help "&23433; &25490; ' ("arrange") in a little bit. Still feeling nervous at this point BUT I have to say, Bodi is really 'posh' and the lights are comfortably dimmed, which helps. After about five minutes or so, was brought with the other guys to the lineup down the hall.
15-20 girls walked out, standing essentially right in front of you. It was a bit awkward as I hadn't done this before. Out of 15-20, I would say 5-10 are in the 6-7 range. 5 in the 7-8 range, and there was maybe like only 1 or 2 that looked drop dead gorgeous. I'm a titties guy myself, so I picked a girl with a nice pair of knockers (forgot her number).
I *really* lucked out (will report less pleasing experiences at Hailang later). She took me upstairs to the rooms and I have to say, Bodi has some awesome facilities (again, I would say better than Hailang). She was very friendly, calling me "&23453; &36125; ' (baby) in a fun way that made things go smoothly, and asked me to rest on the bed while she set up the massage bed in the shower area. Went in. Made me sit on that chair apparatus where she gave my little guy a really nice 'cleaning' and proceeded to stick it in her mouth for a brief BBBJ. I was still a bit. 'shy' if you will, and refrained from groping her.
Massage bed was awesome. She was extremely enthusiastic, slipping, sliding all over. At one point she was giving me a tit-job, and afterwards she straddled my little guy (no condom) and started sliding front and back all over him while sucking on my toe. I was too busy enjoying myself but after about a minute or so she turns around naughtily and proclaims,"It almost slipped in!".
Back to bed, standard everything that's been described. I played with her pussy but refrained from sticking my fingers in. Didn't want to hurt her unnecessarily. She let me go to town on her knockers. It was like a lap dance except you fully get to partake in the action. BBBJ was good, enthusiastic, but not terribly long (swiveling motion was nice). She did do AR on me (first time) , and while it wasn't bad, I prolly won't be doing it again.
She put condom on me, asked whether I wanted to be on top or bottom, I chose top. Oh man, she was tight! Watching yourself in the mirror doing the deed is an awesome experience. Proceeded to do her in about 5 different positions for a solid 30 minutes (and I still could've gone longer). She was very enthusiastic, but genuinely very tired so I made an effort to finish in mish while sucking on her goodies. Tried to DFK through but she did this weird thing in which she sticks her tongue out of her mouth but refuses to let my tongue inside her mouth (I'm not sure whether this is semi-refusing to kiss, or whether she just doesn't know how to DFK). After the deed, back to shower, and chatted for a bit before leaving (about 65-70minutes total).
Key information gleaned:
I speak fluent Chinese so we got a pretty good rapport going so she told me some interesting stuff.
*They get 6 days off a month. (I was starting to feel kinda terrible here)
*They make 60, 000. 80, 000 RMB per month! Apparently, they get a 350rmb cut. 6-8 customers a day. (not feeling that terrible anymore, free markets!)
*If you're non-ethnically Chinese, they tell the girls in the lineup before hand so those who don't want to service non-Chinese have a chance to step out of line.
*Apparently most guys finish within 10 minutes.
A few questions guys about my experiences:
1) Are multiple pops allowed? Say I finished quickly in 45min, can I go again for another 45min?
2) Has anyone encountered any WG's in Shanghai willing to do anal? I've always wanted to try.
3) Say I finish in 60 minutes. Am I allowed to stay with the girl for the entire 30 min just chatting / playing with her? Or must I leave?
Thanks all! Will post Hailang info later. But in short. Worse facilities (but still good) , location is more convenient (but made me feel a bit edgy since it was in a much more populated area) , lineup was not as good IMO (but I think this depends on time of day) , girl I had at Hailang was VASTLY less service-oriented but she was witty and snarky in a fun way. Got her number, going sight-seeing with her Saturday.