Regret but Need to do the Right Thing
[QUOTE=BadBadGuy]Bro,
Since you mentioned you got it from HongKang, I remembered sometimes ago, one of the bro also said he got infected from this place also (old place was in Rubby Plaza). Yeah you are right, it's not worth for the rest of the life to exchange for 5 min "siok".
Thank you for your advice. Knowing there are 2 real cases from fellows here, the way to get the BBBJ from WL should revise now. Very scary to think for the consequence for not being careful enough to have fun.[/QUOTE]Well you guys can add another real case to your collection. Now there are 3 real cases from fellow cheongsters here getting Genital Herpes (HSV-2) from BBBJ (Bare Back Blow Job = getting blow job without condom) from massage lady or working lady.
I'm now on a course of Zovirax (aciclovir 200mg) 5 times a day for 5 days. I have not developed the flu like symptom yet but the sores is evident on my penis together with the tingling and itchiness sensation. First felt the itchiness sensation few days back but didn't make much out of it until the sores appear.
Sorry guys, I know by writing this I'm spoiling all your mood in cheonging. Initially I thought I would just kept quiet about it and let things be. But my conscience haunt me and I think I should be addressing this so that other cheongster will be aware of the risk they're playing with.
Quite frankly I have not gone the full course with any of the ML or WL. The most I've been is masturbation and receiving oral sex. Have been recklessly or foolhardily indulged in this activities for a few months without much of a problem until now.
Where you think I might be getting this from? HongKang, 3G and various other massage parlour which I can't even recall the names now. Take your pick.
The thing is, eventhough the sores on my penis will go away after 1 or 2 full course of the aciclovir, I have to live with HSV-2 for the rest of my life. There's no cure to the virus. The aciclovir acts to merely suppress or manage the outbreak of the sores. After the sores subside, HSV-2 virus will continue to hibernate in my body and waiting for the suitable time for the next outbreak.
The catch is, it doesn't only spread when the sores appear, in fact, it's known to spread more effectively when there're no symptoms of herpes outbreak. Something that I think our scientist haven't figure out why?
So after my aciclovir course is done and my sores went away and if I continue to indulge in my cheonging hobby, there's a very high chance of me infecting any ML or WL by them touching my penis without condom or performing bareback blowjob on me. Also, any woman sleeping with me will definitely carry a very high risk of getting infected too.
So there you go guys, my little confession before I stop my cheonging lifestyle and most probably any form of sexual activities. On hindsight I should have heeded the call of our Badbadguy's advise "it's not worth for the rest of the life to exchange for 5 min 'siok'. " but I didn't and I pay the price.
It's up to you guys now, there are 3 real cases here (I mean I summon a lot of courage to write this down, I'm sure there're a lot more cheongster who had this before). The risk is real and let me tell you it's definitely easier to strike than Nombor Ekor.
Of course I regretted it, but there's no point to cry over spilled milk, life goes on and I hope my experience will save some of our friends here.
P.S. Admin: I hope you could post this ASAP, and I know you'll suggest that I post this in Safe Sex Forum but IMHO this Forum is closer to the issue I'm addressing now.
Thank you
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Traditional massage the traditional way
A lurker I am. But I suspect not in the minority. Time to start paying back or hopefully to pay it forward. Over the years my Modus Operandi has been to frequent health spas, typically found on the 2nd floor (why is that? ) of established hotels. When I first started visiting spas throughout asia and specifically Malaysia, I was never quite sure if ‘extra’ services were on offer, whether I’d offend if I asked or indeed offend if I did not. I no longer have these dilemmas, yet I can’t put my finger on specifically what identifies a spa that does and a spa that does not. Maybe it’s the closed circuit security cameras at the entrance, the OKT or the smoky foyer and beer on offer (a HEALTH spa? ) Anyway of late I’ve tried to experience some variety and decided to try some ‘Traditional Massage Palours’, typically found in shoplots rather than malls.
Reports from this site suggested some areas to target would be Cheras and Pandan Indah. These seemed as good as any place to start. First impression is the fact that the surroundings give little indication of the quality of service. Below are some specific reports, from Pandan Indah. Obviously the specific ML I had on any particular day has a big influence on my level of satisfaction, so I’ll focus more on the facilities:
Pandan Indah. Orange Traditional Massage. This shop is found on the first floor of a shop lot, the door has electronic security where you are buzzed in (by the way this a good sign). The foyer has a small lounge, and while it’s taken time for me to learn, it’s poor etiquette not to remove your shoes. Therefore if you see a shoe rack full of shoes and it’s not a shoe shop, then take the shoes off. The foyer has a TV blaring local TV (I can’t help but think this is something these places could pickup off the ‘proper spas’ I. E. Soft mood music, maybe the sounds of a water stream is good, local TV bad). While old, the place is well maintained, a clean coat of paint and clean (not always the norm). The massage rooms offer little privacy, curtains separating the cubicles and I’m sure the entrance curtain was see through, though each had nice soft mood lighting. On this particular day I had a Lily, a local Chinese 30yr, while no stunner (a little on the plump side), she was friendly, professional and gave a strong massage. Price RM50 for 1hr of oil massage and RM50 for batin.
Pandan Indah – Diamond Traditional Massage or something like that. Apologies for the ambiguous name but there was no sign and the business card was all Chinese to me (literally). In terms of cleanliness this was a step down from Orange (but they did have the TV blaring). Massage area was a large open room again with curtains. The massage girls seemed less professional here, chatting between cubicles and talking/SMS on hand phones. The ML name was Joy, I think Thai, she slapped the oil on and basically rubbed it in. The batin was equally disappointing, giving me little ‘joy’ using the chocking the chicken technique. So if you are hoping to enjoy a quality massage with extras, I couldn’t recommend Diamond or specifically Joy. I guess with MLs it is a hit or miss thing and if you get onto a good one, it’s worth a return trip. And while I am ranting, jeans. This seems standard uniform for these places, may as well be a chastity
I searched for a few others in the PI area specifically mentioned in the forum, BlueBerry for one, no luck in finding. Help? Cheras to come?
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