Not allowed to judge here
[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;1633617]All of this advice won't help you W20415 but it may help others.
1. Marry a woman with some class. Check her parents out, see the home, check their lineage, their professions WHO ARE THEY Are they drunks? RUN there are a million LBFM and falling in love is easy. I have been looking for a wife and one of the first questions I ask is "what do your Parents do". Well there are no black and white answers to that particular question it certainly is an indicator. I gather data. There are a wide range of classes here why would you possibly want to marry into the lowest class as it seems you have.
2. Be upfront BEFORE getting married, address the EXPECTED issues, this is one. Fil culture dictates typically they care for their parents, I accept that. Determine the LEVEL of care being currently provided, add 5% to that and they are GOOD. Send a Christmas Gift as a BONUS and you are exceeding current levels of care. DUTY DONE. YOu are more than an ATM I hope.
3. Spend time with their Parents BEFORE as they say you marry the family as much as I hate this you had best check them out.
4. If they throw her out good she can easily live elsewhere for 10 k and hopefully she at least has a job so she can get by just fine. You say you are being generous, cut the FUCKS OFF and move her OUT ASAP. Tell the Parents to lliterally go fuck themselves. If they beat you on this issue you my friend are FUCKED.
And finally the advice to you W20 "the dogs that yaps loudest bites the least". Confront them DIRECTLY in a sober state and lay this to rest. And here a thought LIVE WITH YOUR WIFE. Why the fuck would you marry someone that does not take care of you other than cashing your checks that my friend is a special kind of stupid in my opinion.
If you want to donate to a 3rd world try the Red Cross.
PP.[/QUOTE]Be careful you might get bashed for judging I asked the same thing really why marry when she's not with you and your not with her doing the MARRIED THING? Being helpful to each other blah blah blah like what married is got torched by everyone.
I don't care about judging
[QUOTE=Streetlooker;1633712]Be careful you might get bashed for judging I asked the same thing really why marry when she's not with you and your not with her doing the MARRIED THING? Being helpful to each other blah blah blah like what married is got torched by everyone.[/QUOTE]Seriously we are here to educate one another. Every dumb ass that sends some 3rd world vagina support mechanism a stupid amount of money just makes it harder for the rest of us and frankly fucks things up over there. Those of us that are there know the stories, it fucks up my staff and fucks up my hobbies. This is real on the ground results.
The fellow here had good intentions no doubt, but jesus christ man, grab a brain and if we don't tell this fellow that who will. His Mom and Dad who live upstairs? His online Xbox buddies?
If HE can not receive a harsh, worldy education from this group then where can HE?
I have lost 2 staff to idiots like this who send them money and expect them to tell them nice lies. I have investments in these people.
Has porn lost its value?
So judge me, I spend at least 8 weeks a year there seeing the damage. The worst part is there is at least a 50% chance she is fucking others at least 50%. Most of the women I fuck have ATMs.
STOP BEING AN ATM!
PP.