No need to berate - just another level most dont get to
[QUOTE=Nowrath]Her brother would drop her off around 5 or 6 and come get her around 9 pm , she never spent the night, and we never had sex but she was fun to relax with [/QUOTE]
muaaaahh ahhhh ahhhhhh! "Brother"... muahhh ahhhh ahhhhh ...did he drop her off from his concho?
This is so common, and believe me, I know from experience. Unless you are truly Dominican, you WILL NEVER know the real story, but to do what you did, take it for what is was, and enjoy it is NO CRIME and nothing to be berated about. Glad you had a good time, this is what we all go for and it was a fair trade, but as many have said, I'd seriously doubt ANYTHING that may have been said to you about or from the family.
Every gringo down there is part of a scam of sorts somehow (as you stated, anywhere else in the world as well). For me, I tag along, enjoy it on the surface until it is no longer believable, and then SKEEE DADDLE!