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Screw her before you cook her dinner.
[QUOTE=Lugnut;2476939]A guy on the Medellin expat facebook group reported last week that he was robbed. Had a 18 yo tinder girl over to his apartment in Laureles for a date. He said that he cooked dinner and was having a great time and she was singing Beatles songs, his favorite, and next thing, he woke up the following afternoon. His laptop, tablet, cellular, and cash were all gone. Yes, be careful.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Blakman;2477196]Tell them you tell the security guard everything. Transaction and agreement. Say you do so if theres any problems the security guard knows info ahead of time and will handle any issues. I swear this tactic allowed me to avoid a few possible issues. For newbies I think Colombia is a less problematic compared to thailand or Dominican republic. Unless for 4 months I just got lucky. But I felt extremely safe. Yes be alert at all times.
.[/QUOTE]I do this. In addition to requesting that the doorman calls me when the chica leaves (if it's not already Bldg policy), I also tell the chicas that there is video of them entering and leaving the building.
You can minimize your risks greatly if you follow some common sense routines.
Seems to me a bit odd of a story that you will tell security guard the terms of your agreement. I have never heard of such a thing and I would not want to partake. Not to mention the women I know would find it strange as well. My girls first have to pass security check. Once that is done, I get called on whether to let her go up to see me.
Once I give my ok she sees me. Sometimes for a couple of hours or they stay the night of leave whenever. When they leave, I get called, she is not allowed to leave until I pick up and say it is ok. I keep my valuables locked up except the cash I am going to pay with Simple as that.
[QUOTE=Blakman;2477196]Tell them you tell the security guard everything. Transaction and agreement. Say you do so if theres any problems the security guard knows info ahead of time and will handle any issues. I swear this tactic allowed me to avoid a few possible issues. For newbies I think Colombia is a less problematic compared to thailand or Dominican republic. Unless for 4 months I just got lucky. But I felt extremely safe. Yes be alert at all times.
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[QUOTE=Surfer500;2477049]Regardless of the level of security, you can never ever let your guard down, never. When you least expect it, shit happens. There's been numerous board members posts about what has happened to them, from being drugged, and being robbed at gun-point which was my experience.
The Facebook post was a classic, if the guy had locked all his valuables in the apartments security box, he may have woken up not missing so much stuff from his apartment.
Very few apartments have Porteros that electronically check Cedulas, let alone even check Cedulas, or even call you when somebody departs, unless it's a "known" building for mongers.
So without this extra layer of protection, which is very rare, one has to be even more cautious.[/QUOTE]I agree. I would add that vetting the girls is also very important. For new girls, I try to get a sense of their attitude and behavior before I commit to a crazy tussi infused all night party. I'm in my 30's and I manage people for a living, if I can't correctly read a few 18-year-olds and keep them inline, then I deserve to be robbed. But I also keep things that I absolutely can't afford to lose (passport, extra debit cards, a few thousand dollars, my work MacBook Pro, a backup iPhone, spare sim, and an extra iPad) in a safe that is not in my apartment.
I always try to avoid interacting my doorman with chicas, especially when I'm staying at a place for more than 3 weeks. I try to maintain a good reputation with my neighbors and I sometimes have my local friends come to visit me, I don't want my doorman blow the whistle on me. I do tip them well, just in case. After reading some of the posts here, I guess it is futile to hide my hobby, I should just buy off my doorman and develop a mutual understanding.
I didn't say I tell the security guard.
I tell the chica that I tell the security guard
[QUOTE=IamLookin;2477217]Seems to me a bit odd of a story that you will tell security guard the terms of your agreement. I have never heard of such a thing and I would not want to partake. Not to mention the women I know would find it strange as well. My girls first have to pass security check. Once that is done, I get called on whether to let her go up to see me.
Once I give my ok she sees me. Sometimes for a couple of hours or they stay the night of leave whenever. When they leave, I get called, she is not allowed to leave until I pick up and say it is ok. I keep my valuables locked up except the cash I am going to pay with Simple as that.
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I know what you meant. I find it strange and I wonder how many girls actually believe that line? Maybe it is just me but has long as I know security is doing their job and I am taking proper precautions with my valuables, I am fine. Most of my girls are repeat performers and they vary how long they actually stay. Like Charlie Sheen said. " I pay for them to keave". Whatever makes you comfortable, if you feel you need to make up a story like that and think they believe you go right ahead.
[QUOTE=Blakman;2477233]I didn't say I tell the security guard.
I tell the chica that I tell the security guard
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[QUOTE=IamLookin;2477263] Like Charlie Sheen said. " I pay for them to keave". [/QUOTE]It's all good because they want to go anyway, but of course after being paid for their services. LOL.
[QUOTE=JamesPearle;2477198]Screw her before you cook her dinner.[/QUOTE]Is that you don't play can't buy me love. It gives women the wrong idea.
[QUOTE=PolloNegro;2476896]I really appreciate this post, because It comes from another BM and not me. I have been to Centro at least twice every week since July 15th and all I could see was how the Parque Botero was barricaded up. I just sat back and waited to see who would acknowledge that the parque was completely different. I am not stating that on certain days that the parque is not filled to the rim with girls, but the days that I happen to go down to centro, the vibe has been completely different. The girls are much more emaciated and the weight loss is evident.
I see so many BMs who are mentioning the hopes of returning to Medellin to monger, but I have yet to see anyone ask about the dangers of Medellin at the current time? Maybe it's because I spent so much time in Parque Botero and I know so many of the characters in the area, I can truly see the change in the people of Centro and Parque Botero. Many of these people are desperate and in survival mode.
You don't have to believe me or take heed, but a BM I feel that it is only right to make others aware of the dangers that have increased since the Pandemic started. Many of these girls have become more and more savvy to running schemes on foreigners and the risk of poisoning and robbing foreigners has went through the roof. I can handle my own in the streets, I grew up in some pretty rough areas, but when you are targeted because they know you are a foreigner, this is when you really have to be aware of everything that's going on around you.
For myself, what I can say Is this, I have pretty much been around the same people every day for the last 3 months. I haven't been sick, haven't had a cold, haven't ran a temp or any of those symptoms. If you are out in Poblado, the risk may be different, $300,000 pesos for a date, then the girls may not be swayed to carry out a robbery, but I wouldn't bet on it. My only concern is that those of you who have not been here through the Pandemic, please be cautious when you return. I guarantee that you'll see the difference when you do return. I know that you are thinking that they will love to earn some money and they will be less willing to rob you when you return, but stupidity has no limits..[/QUOTE]PN. Is the Botero hotel shuttered for good? Wow sad.
I need to check it out this weekend and see for myself, what a shame as it was a decent place with great prices and very flexible with the visiting chicas.
The Tall Man.
[QUOTE=FunLuvr;2477131]I think you are talking about mortality rate. The "morality" rate among us BM's is probably 0 if judged by a group of old biddies.[/QUOTE]NOW I understand all this discussion! I have been wondering for a while WTF was all this fuss about a supposed MORALITY rate here.
[QUOTE=TheTallMan;2477327]PN. Is the Botero hotel shuttered for good? Wow sad.
I need to check it out this weekend and see for myself, what a shame as it was a decent place with great prices and very flexible with the visiting chicas.
The Tall Man.[/QUOTE]Yeah I don't know where to go now. Want to be a very short walk to Conejitas and Barra Ejectiva but someplace nice enough to not scare away the FaseDos / Facebook chicks. Hot water, nice size bed, fridge etc with preferably a view. I wish Hotel Nutibara was more chica friendly, perfect location.
Hotel de greiff (above Conejitas) and the Normandy (next to barra Ejectiva) both look a little run down / roach motel for my taste. And Hotel Capitolio and next door Hotel Cristal behind Catedral Baslica Metropolitana (the big brick church at Parque Boliva) both share a pool but they look a long scary walk back from the 2 clubs after midnight and not sure their chica policy.
Anybody ever stayed at Davinchi Suite's (Cra. 51 #53 93) under the Metro?
Ambassador Medellin looks nice with a pool on the roof (Cra 50,54-50) but does not look like it might be chica friendly. Anybody been there?
Other suggestions for somewhat nice chica friendly Centro hotel close to the clubs?
[QUOTE=Nounce;2477008]I think it depends what is your definition of morality rate.
If you use this formula.
Morality rate x total infected cases = total death.
You get larger "total death" number if you have a larger a "total infected cases".
If you read the news about Vietnam's current outbreak, they think they have a new strain that double or triple the old infection rate.[/QUOTE]One common issue I have noticed is that people look at mortality rate as being total numbers of deaths / total number of cases. It seems to be forgotten or ignored, that many people have already been infected and recovered. The CDC says the actual number of infected is 10 x what the current numbers are. Depending on the various studies out there, it ranges around 6 x up to 20 x on the high side and in the USA It really varies between the states. I have it around 9 x on the low side and up to 14 x on the high side. Let's take the CDC figure.
Total number of cases = 5. 8 million. Total deaths = 179,000. If you use only these two variables, the mortality rate is 3%. Using this is inaccurate. If you go with what the CDC estimates as actual infected, the mortality rate comes out to 0. 3%. If the actual number of infected is higher than 10 x then the fatality rate is even lower. Again, my glass is half full. Now let's get back to mongering discussions.
[QUOTE=SlapShot10;2475547]I wasn't too concerned. What's a pregnancy test going to tell me that I can't find out 10 days later by a period? Either way, it's not a Plan B scenario. I'm typically in no rush for bad news..[/QUOTE]Good friend is from Pereira and told me its a great town with pretty things. TBH I never been but its on my list. Based on what my friend has told me and what I've heard through the grapevine I would give it a shot, excuse the pun. Best of Luck.
Hi there,
I'm new here and I have a lot of questions.
1) Are the prices on photoprepagos in Colombian Peso? When I read 100.000 or 100, is it about $26.27?
2) Are there other websites that I should visit?
3) My time is valuable and I'm not willing to spend any time to get free pussy. I'm willing to pay what I have to pay. Is Tinder a valuable option to get very attractive girls at a good rate or are there much better options?
4) Is it better to rent an apartment on AirBnb or to get an hotel?
5) How long can I stay with a tourist Visa? Can I buy an open ticket and come back after 2 or 3 months? The idea is to take a week of holidays and then work there remotely. I have been working remotely since COVID-19, so it doesn't really matter where I'm.
6) I have been a couple of times in Cuba and I had a great time with girls. First time I was much younger and I had two girls for free. Sex is almost always great there. Girls are hot, and they love sex. Is the same in Colombia? What does include a standard performance? OWO? DFK? I'm only interested in girlfriend experience. For me, sex without kisses is not sex.
7) I'm planning to travel with a Transferwise card, which I recharge, and get the money from the ATM. I'm worried about the laptop and the phone. Is secure to leave the laptop in the apartment / hotel room when I'm going out? Should I buy a cheap Android phone to use with a local sim card, and leave my iPhone in the hotel?
8) I do not wear expensive stuff or jewelry, and I usually keep a low profile. If I get robbed, are they going to take my credit card, or most likely just the money and the phone, eventually?
9) I'm interested in girls. Which city is better, Medellin or Bogota?
10) Which is the price for a top girl for an hour?
11) Is Brasil the only alternative if Colombia doesn't reopen the borders?
I've never been but from the chicka's I have on SA and FB, the ones from Pereira are stunning. I'm sure any BM that goes could find something memorable.