[QUOTE=Bulai69]I've been been back to girl's "appartments" - kosts - a few times and as you say it's "interesting". It's not something I'd recommend for the naive or uninitiated but most contributors to this forum are not in that category I guess. In my limited experience of this, most girls don't encourage men, certainly bules, to go back to their kost because it creates the impression that they are ayam, hence for that and lot's of other reasons they prefer hotel rooms. Also some kost landlords don't allow it although as always they could be influenced to overlook it.
Generally speaking, even girls who appear "upmarket" may live in very basic conditions indeed: often one room shared with another girl, a vertical bath in the corner with a sheet around it, no AC, no running hot water etc. It often tends to be "open house" and their neighbours wander in and out at will, sometimes with live animals following them! On a practical level, getting a shower/bath "before" or "after" may not be an option and for lots of reasons, it's not an environment conducive to sexual activity - apart from the novelty aspect which can be something of a turn-on if you are that way inclined.[/QUOTE]
Do you know the Bimintara office building? I was seeing a girl who lived in a shack right next to it. For years I gazed down from a 22nd floor client office on this area, then one day, she needed a ride home from my hotel, so I went in with her. It was indeed surprising. A common kitchen/bath with a forest of clothes hanging to dry, then down a short hallway past plywood doors with padlocks. Her room had a small TV, small bed, and a few racks of clothes. No A/C. I couldn't wait to leave.