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[QUOTE=Mortman;1150940]You forgot the other common questions that I always get asked by text "did you eat your breakfast / lunch / dinner?" and "did you take your vitamins?" is another very odd but regular question that I often get asked.[/QUOTE]Those questions fall more in the realm of polite salutations. Remember, many of those people cannot eat when their tummy tells them that its time. A couple of meals, roof over their head, electricty and a mattress to sleep on are luxuries for many there.

Did you eat your breakfast is the one that I hear most often. I personally don't eat breakfast when I'm in USA. When I am in Phils I make sure that I either cook or take the girls out for breakfast.

Here's one for you mate.

Profile name is < she's here (exact) on DIA.

I'm getting ready to head over to Manila and I already started my usual of chatting up a bunch of girls on DIA. Running into the usual problems,"why are you on here again, you looking for another girl" all the while they are on DIA too looking for someone else.

Need some advice:

What are your thoughts on girls that want to bring a friend when meeting for the first time?

Also,

What about girls that say they told their mom about you?

[QUOTE=Mookman; 1151176]Need some advice:

What are your thoughts on girls that want to bring a friend when meeting for the first time?

Also,

What about girls that say they told their mom about you? [/QUOTE]Many of the DIA girls want to bring friends along, that is unless they are seasoned hookers. Don't worry it is perfectly normal and it can sometimes lead to an unexpected bonus, meaning a threesome (but do not take this for granted). Also do not worry about Mom, families are very close here and unless the girl is living away from home the chances are if she does not tell Mom where she is going they will demand to know anyway, even more so if she is staying overnight with you. Don't get freaked out by this as it is all perfectly normal.

What you do need to make clear with the girl right at the outset is that one friend is ok, anymore than that and you will walk. The reason is that some girls will use the opportunity of meeting you to feed their entire family and friends and I can guarantee they will always turn up feeling hungry. Purchasing one or two jolibees or Mcdonalds is perfectly acceptable in my book for a first meeting, feeding the entire extended family is not.

Just in case you think I am exaggerating, I arranged to meet a young DIA girl in Ayalla a few years ago. She turned up with about 6 members of her family (including a six month old baby) who were all pleading hunger. Once you have got yourself into that situation it is difficult to extracate yourself without buying food for everyone, or leaving and feeling completely heartless.

Mortman, thanks for the advice, I actually wouldn't mind finding a real girlfriend here if it was the right person. The mom thing just freaked me out cause I never heard that one before. I will take your advice so that I don't end up feeding an army. Thanks.

This is actually my first real time using DIA to meet up girls, I did once before but I had to stop because I got busy at work. My usual technique has been to chat up random girls in the mall and stores but like I explained in previous posts, it's real hit or miss. My back up is a contact I made 8-10 years ago when I first starting coming to PI. He sends me model quality girls for 20K, yes, I know its a crazy amount and I really don't do it often but when I say these girls are model quality, I'm not kidding. Light skin, young, and fresh. Some told me they were local pagent winners or something for what's its worth. It'll have to be my back up again, if the DIA thing doesn't work out. Haha.

[QUOTE=Mortman;1151180]Many of the DIA girls want to bring friends along, that is unless they are seasoned hookers. Don't worry it is perfectly normal and it can sometimes lead to an unexpected bonus, meaning a threesome (but do not take this for granted). . . . . . . SNIP. . . . .[/QUOTE]There is another scenario Mort that is easier and more predictable than hoping for a threesome.

I have met 2 girls in the past 8 months who brought a friend along to meeting #1 and each time the friend was way more interesting and sexy than the original target. I wrote about them on ISG.

Each time we all enjoyed some drinks and snacks and shared CP numbers (friend included) and away they went.

In the Cebu case the hot friend was back in my hotel room with me within an hour of them both leaving the restaurant after a few texts were exchanged. The other one took longer but I met her too once she was sure her friend (the original target) wouldn't find out.

[QUOTE=Mookman;1151144]I'm getting ready to head over to Manila and I already started my usual of chatting up a bunch of girls on DIA. Running into the usual problems,"why are you on here again, you looking for another girl" all the while they are on DIA too looking for someone else.[/QUOTE]They should know you are meeting only for fun. If you let them think they will be staying overnight or indefinately, they think automatically they are your gf. More clarity on your part before arrival will help clear that up. Does she know you intend to meet her for just an afternoon or evening of fun? If you are playing the "I'm a nice guy. You want to meet next week when I'm there?" thing, she will think you are coming there for her. Only.

[quote=mookman; 1151176]need some advice:

what are your thoughts on girls that want to bring a friend when meeting for the first time?

also,

what about girls that say they told their mom about you? [/quote]don't fret young man. go west. you are in the 'peens'. i work my chat like this: be honest, tell them what you are looking for. you will lose a bunch, but what is left is gold. i tell them i will meet them in public, mall, starbucks, mcdo. she can bring one friend only: friend, aunt, mom, cousin, etc. i will buy them a drink or a meal. when we are done with the drink / meal, i am leaving for my hotel. she can go home with her friend, or she's coming with me for a banging. this quickly eliminates girls who were not serious about the meet-and-hammer.

you might think it odd, meeting a mom. who is your age. the first time, thats exactly how you will feel. have meet several now, who came with their daughter to meet me, then let their beauty walk off with me.

one girl in lapu said she was bringing a friend, but showed up with her (limping) gramma. i bought them a jollibee lunch, where gramma did not speak. the girl was 18. when i said that i was leaving, gramma got up and walked around the table and tugged my shirt gently and walked away. i followed her. we walked 10 feet, and suddenly she had a voice. that spoke english:

gramma: you can help the girl.

me: yes.

that was it. gramma walked over, spoke bisaya to the girl, about one sentence, and then she limped off into the mall. i asked the girl if she was ready to go and she grabbed her sodapop and we walked outside and grabbed a taxi.

mook, i will pm you.

I must agree with most of the advice given about how long you should communicate with the DIA girls before visiting. I have been wanting to visit PI for a long time now, but have not been able to do so due to moving for my job, and money issues after the move. I started chatting with many DIA contacts prior to my move last year. I anticipated being able to visit PI shortly after the move. But since that didn't happen, many have stopped sending any kind of replies to my messages. Some of those were girls that outright told me they would love to meet for sex. My loss, I guess. So I have been copying the URL links of the girls I think are good prospects, and saving them for later contact, when I am sure I will be able to take that flight. I won't contact these girls more than a month prior to my arrival there. But I will insist on multiple web cam sessions to ensure the girl looks as good as her DIA photo.

HW

From dating site, got a 41 yr-old cebuena, looking purely for hotel fun with white gents. Fairly attractive. Only in cebu city for another week, returning to middle-east for work. Doesn't need financial, drinks only. PM if you want details.

[QUOTE=Westcoast1; 1151366]You might think it odd, meeting a mom. Who is your age.

Mook, I will PM you.[/QUOTE]Few years back I was always older than the parents of the "girl du jour". Recently I've gotten older and my girls have gotten younger. With the result that last week, one ladies dad was actually 3 year younger than me. Girl didn't bat an eye, and so neither did I. But its quite weird at first.

". For her. Only". And of course many will ask you if you plan to meet another girl. I prefer to answer in a vague way, which neverthless should be understood.

Will you meet other girls?

X: I hope so!

[QUOTE=Westcoast1;1151362]They should know you are meeting only for fun. If you let them think they will be staying overnight or indefinately, they think automatically they are your gf. More clarity on your part before arrival will help clear that up. Does she know you intend to meet her for just an afternoon or evening of fun? If you are playing the "I'm a nice guy. You want to meet next week when I'm there?" thing, she will think you are coming there for her. Only.[/QUOTE]

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Sorry to screw up the forum. Hope no one looses their lunch.