Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

An update to my DIA adventures. So like I mentioned before, I only chat up the girls about a week before heading over and not much else. My success rate at actually meeting the girl is about 20. I could of brought it up to 40% or so but that would be with effort on my part. So usually, when I come to the PI, I just come here for work and never do much sightseeing, this time I decided to try my hand at some adventure. My first order of business was, I'm going to meet a girl's mother, so I find a girl on DIA that was pretty cute, so I figure, why not. What a big friggin mistake, which I won't be making again. She didn't bring the whole family, just a little sister, the mother and girl. They wanted to eat at some Gumbo place, total damage was 1600p, not bad. So I convince the mom of my noble intentions, which were, I would of made this girl my girlfriend in the PI. So I tell her, that the next day we're going to go on a tour of Manila and she should come alone, no escort. She agrees. Next day, I get a text, she doesn't feel well. Later that day, another text, I'm a bad person because I wanted to take advantage of her because I wouldn't let her bring an escort. Mind you we really were going to go on a tour of Manila only. Anyway, long story short, there's a lot you have to be aware of when meeting the mother. I just did it this time cause I had time to kill but never again.

DIA has been really hit or miss for me. This is really the first time I used it and one night I meet a sweet girl that trembling as I undress her, the next night, I'm in my hotel room alone because all the girls flake or take forever to get there, I have a 2 hour late rule, which you would think is being very generous but it usually takes 4 hours longer than the promised time for a girl to show up.

On my last night, I just ended up using my contact, paid 20k but she was a stunner, we went out to go eat dinner and there was not one guy that didn't do a double take or stare, which I notice guys do without discretion. Light skin. 19, long hair, well spoken, barely an accent, aspiring model. When I say stunner, she is in a different league than the stunner you took out of AC or EDSA before. Haha. On a side note, I got a couple of PM's for my contact. My contact is not a pimp, or least he isn't anymore. Haha. He's a successful businessman with many foreign clients and he just hooks me up as a favor, and I pay the girl directly, no middleman. When we first met he took me around looking for girls at various places but seeing how picky I was, I'm really picky, this is the system that we worked out. So I really can't give a contact number out because this isn't his job, just a friend doing a favor.

[QUOTE=Jambo; 1152763][url]http://www.filipinocupid.com/en/profile/showProfile/ID/3211796[/url]

Sorry to screw up the forum. Hope no one looses their lunch. [/QUOTE]Well I lost my lunch, and I still don't feel like facing dinner either.

[QUOTE=Mookman;1152956]On my last night, I just ended up using my contact, paid 20k but she was a stunner[/QUOTE]As in 20 000 PHP?

If this is the case, you need other type of help my friend.

All the best from Barba

"On my last night, I just ended up using my contact, paid 20k but she was a stunner, we went out to go eat dinner and there was not one guy that didn't do a double take or stare, which I notice guys do without discretion. Light skin. 19, long hair, well spoken, barely an accent, aspiring model. When I say stunner, she is in a different league than the stunner you took out of AC or EDSA before. Haha. On a side note, I got a couple of PM's for my contact. My contact is not a pimp, or least he isn't anymore. Haha. He's a successful businessman with many foreign clients and he just hooks me up as a favor, and I pay the girl directly, no middleman. When we first met he took me around looking for girls at various places but seeing how picky I was, I'm really picky, this is the system that we worked out. So I really can't give a contact number out because this isn't his job, just a friend doing a favor."

I have no doubt about what you are telling us here on the board. She probably was a hot looking wannabe model. But living here in the Philippines and knowing that no one does anything for free, I would think that the girl probably saw 8, 000-10, 000 if she was lucky.

You should have kept her number and bypassed your connection, as I am sure she has other friends available.

Filipino's are notorious for getting their commissions. I really try my best to exclude that bs at all costs, no matter what I am paying for.

Believe me when I say, that no one here when it comes to money, does shit for free. Business men, police, government officials at all levels, trike drivers. It is the nature of the beast. When a Filipino calls me his friend, I squeeze my ass cheeks and hold on tight to my wallet.

Cheers

[QUOTE=Frank4220;1153299]I have no doubt about what you are telling us here on the board. She probably was a hot looking wannabe model. But living here in the Philippines and knowing that no one does anything for free, I would think that the girl probably saw 8, 000-10, 000 if she was lucky.[/QUOTE]More likely 5000. I'm wondering how one stunner is in a different league than another. Either she turns heads or she doesn't.

[QUOTE=Frank4220; 1153299]When a Filipino calls me his friend, I squeeze my ass cheeks and hold on tight to my wallet.

Cheers[/QUOTE]Hahahaha.

Three of today's respondents to my bad-boy dating profile. Obviously you lose many right off the bat when they actually go back and read it. For the remainder, like shooting fish in a shallow barrel.

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Me: did you read what I write in my profile.

Cebuchick: yes.

Me: it says I'm only come there for adult fun with lady on my hotel.

Cebuchick: ok.

Me: your ok to it.

Cebuchick: yes why not?

BLAH BLAH BLAH.

Me: after we have lunch you can go home or you can go with me on my hotel.

Cebuchick: I go your hotel.

Me: also your ok to camera.

Cebuchick: mmmm.

Cebuchick: yes.

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Me: did you read what I write in my profile, what I'm looking for?

Iliganchick (s) : yes. Your not want marry.

Me: correct.

Iliganchick (s) : your just want fun.

Me: yes.

Iliganchick (s) : f*cking?

Me: correct.

Iliganchick (s) : ok.

Me: are you ok to that.

Iliganchick (s) : yes can I bring my friend she 30.

Me: yes if you and your friend are ok to my camera.

Iliganchick (s) : yes ok.

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Me: you said you read my profile.

Taguigchick: hehe yes you want only a sex I think.

Me: correct.

Taguigchick: ok I can.

Me: are you ok to me using my camera.

Taguigchick: yes I like

Beware that while chatting they say yes to everything. Once you meet it could be a different story. You would not believe what they say for a free meal. Once you agree for lunch or dinner they may show up with 2 or three of their friends who just want a free meal.

If they agree to have sex with you before meeting obviously they are working girls and you will pay the going rate.

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1153470]Beware that while chatting they say yes to everything. Once you meet it could be a different story. You would not believe what they say for a free meal. Once you agree for lunch or dinner they may show up with 2 or three of their friends who just want a free meal.[/QUOTE]Sammon, way ahead of you. About half the girls want to bring a friend (or 3). I'm very clear in chat she can bring one other person, and I'm buying the first coffee or jollibee. When I finish my drink, I'm going back to my hotel. She can go home with the friend (my taxi dime) or come with me. We have discussed the meet-and-hammer already. I've been doing this for some time; in my years of travel I have had only one girl not come to the hotel. I don't agree to meet girls who have not already agreed to the naughty after we meet in the mall. My profile is, after all, playboy.

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1153470]If they agree to have sex with you before meeting obviously they are working girls and you will pay the going rate.[/QUOTE]I usually place the going rate in every girl's purse while she showers after the fun, whether its asked for or not. I'm not concerned about the money for my sake. I can afford to give her 500 or 5000 for an afternoon. I get more concerned about keeping the "going rate" at the going rate. Its been on very rare occasion that I've offended a girl by putting money in her purse. Given the fact that so few have complained when I dropped some money on them (read my previous Manila posting of Caryn) , and so many (all the rest) who have gladly accepted the money (txt: thanks! When we meet again?) , its fair to say most are, in some sense, working girls. But, I could also say that of several of my wealthy buddies wives.

The girls cut is 15k, she gives 5k to her handler, my buddy doesn't make a dime off the transaction. He doesn't need to, he makes more money than me and would be offended if I offered him money. He actually paid in the beginning for me until we got in a big fight over who pays. I insisted that I start paying for the girls because it just wasn't right having him shell out 20k every time I wanted to have fun but being the gracious host that he is, it took a very big fight for me to start paying. Obviously, with the prices that are paid on this board, it's hard to justify 20k, I'm just sharing my experience and not trying to advocate one is better than the other. Just like some people prefer expensive cars and others think it's a waste of money. Open up an issue of FHM Philippines, enough said. I've gone into enough detail. My preference is still for regular girl that you can sometimes meet on the streets or on DIA but once in awhile, it just reminds me of home to speak to a girl that is well educated and has traveled a bit. Most of the girls, I've meet through the 20k have traveled all around Asia on model shoots and whatnot. I always ask them for their direct number, which I do get but when I ask for additional contacts, they tell me they can't because they would never dare let anybody know that they do this on the side for extra money because it might ruin them.

[QUOTE=Mookman;1153798]. . . . . . . . . Just like some people prefer expensive cars and others think it's a waste of money. Open up an issue of FHM Philippines, enough said.. . . . . . . .[/QUOTE]There is a local businessman owns a unit in my condo for discreet dalliances.

One of his girls is an FHM Philippines girl who is also a "starlet" and an escort girl too. He gives her 50, 000 php per month to be available for whenever he wants.

She lives a good life with money from all kinds of ventures.

Not all girls have to be satisfied with 500 or 1000 php tips.

[QUOTE=Red Kilt;1154006]One of his girls is an FHM Philippines girl who is also a "starlet" and an escort girl too. He gives her 50, 000 php per month to be available for whenever he wants.[/QUOTE]Is sounds so much and then I start to think what some women in my life did cost me. .

Well, it is all an equation and as long as we land on out feet, what difference does the numbers make?

We live and then we die.

/B

[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1154006]There is a local businessman owns a unit in my condo for discreet dalliances.

One of his girls is an FHM Philippines girl who is also a "starlet" and an escort girl too. He gives her 50, 000 php per month to be available for whenever he wants.

She lives a good life with money from all kinds of ventures.

Not all girls have to be satisfied with 500 or 1000 php tips.[/QUOTE]Some girls get all the breaks!

[QUOTE=Barba; 1154232]We live and then we die.

/B[/QUOTE]But in between, if we're lucky, we get to have some pretty good times.

"Looking for Mr. Right. My Mr. Right is not fat and so old."

Manilyn A

[QUOTE=GoodEnough;1154396]But in between, if we're lucky, we get to have some pretty good times.[/QUOTE]Yes thank god! And soon enough, my friend it might just be our time again.

B. Drooling over DIA