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[QUOTE=Syzygies;2066689]Now you are getting a bit silly / baffling. Son-in-law is actually "Luuk Kher-ee" and "Mai Yai" probably means "not big" so is that your dick you are referring to? No obviously not, but I am not intuitive enough to get your point at all.[/QUOTE]"Mai Yai" "Mae Y-eye" -Mother.
[QUOTE=KilledSoul;2066767]Is it because of lady boys or is it because they give poor service?[/QUOTE]Among those peril you mention, the probability of getting drugged or robbed or both is a lot higher. Add to it STDs. You don't want all that on your first trip.
[QUOTE=Blanquiceleste;2066969]Among those peril you mention, the probability of getting drugged or robbed or both is a lot higher. Add to it STDs. You don't want all that on your first trip.[/QUOTE]Good advice about the streetwalkers. Only take ladies associated with a massage shop or gogo bar, at least on your first trip. A Thai friend who owns a small hotel had to start taking ID cards from the ladies after two of his customers were drugged and robbed. Both were young Koreans and picked up the ladies at RCA.
[QUOTE=Blanquiceleste;2066572]Have you ever replied to a PM from some random punter asking for advice and then not receiving a reply back? Not even a single word of "Thanks" ?[/QUOTE]Probably close to 99% newbies have a brain of a gnat, often forgetting after they got what they needed.
[QUOTE=EihTooms;2037194]Online dating sites are certainly not for everyone. Weirdly, I have gotten zero results from the oft touted booty-call or hook up apps like Tinder and WeChat yet get tons of booty-call / hook up type results from the supposedly more "long term relationship" apps like ThaiCupid and ThaiFriendly that cater more to somewhat regular non direct P4P girls and women. I have never seen what the other guys' pics and profiles are like on these kinds of sites because I am only interested in meeting females so that's all I ever see. But I suspect it is quite a horror show over there on the male side of the pickin's. I do keep myself in fairly good shape, my weight is proportionate to my height, am mostly a happy, smiley type guy, polite but ready to launch into a fun and bawdy line of discussion at any time. A gentleman most of the time I guess. I don't know what else is required to get as strong a response as I do on these sites because, as I say, I have no idea what the "competition" is like on the male side.
Meanwhile, I filter out females further than 50 km from Bangkok, specify that I am only interested in "Romance / Dating", not "Friendship", "Serious Relationship", "Marriage" and that I definitely want "NO Penpals, please. " Whenever I respond to an email notification of someone clicking "Interested" in me, that will invariably trigger a half-dozen or more views and "Interested"s in my profile. Among those there is usually at least one attractive lady worth replying to and, sooner than one might predict, seeing if she is up to the task of meeting my three "Romance / Dating" requirements; Shaved or closely trimmed pussy, fuck like a REAL girlfriend and/or be happy to complete a proper blowjob like an experienced adult woman and not a frightened virgin. I am not kidding about this. That is how I use apps like ThaiCupid and ThaiFriendly. This idea that those kinds of dating sites require men to profess undying love, wooing and courting poor innocent lonely-heart damsels into surrendering to them under false pretenses has simply not been my experience with them because I don't let it become about that.[/QUOTE]I will be for short time in BKK and would like to meet a lady via TF rather than just pay and pick up in a gogo or Thermae this time. Since the profiles on TF look officially quite serious, is there a way to distinguish P4 P from the others? I guess that those who indicate "any and any" for man's age may rather be for P4 P? Advice from an experienced TF user like you will help me a lot about selection before arriving there. Hopefully I will be able to report consequently when back! Thanks.
Was in town on a work related trip and on the first night, before I had any meetings, I decided to go on a BJ bar crawl mission by hitting up as many BJ bars before jetlag / reality kicked in. But first, I wanted to check out the Sukhumvit area.
First place I stopped at was Nana Plaza and I was in shock. This place is huge! I thought Angeles City was a mecca but wow, Nana Plaza and the near area is huge! When I went, I don't know what I was expecting to see but this inundated my senses. So much to see. So many girls to talk to. So many girls to touch and be touched by. And they all want you to come in to their bar. And in such a dense area! I had a drink at a bar on the ground floor and on the first floor don't remember their names as they all looked the same. There was even a bar just for Ladyboys. Which I am sure the door girl got a chuckle out of me just standing there, deer in headlight, mouth gawking and with an expression of "Holy cow, where the eff am I?" look.
I don't know what the strategy is for Nana but I think it needs more relaxed time to visit. Next trip perhaps. ? My opinion: Nana Plaza has way more volume of girls than Angeles.
Moving along, and extremely overwhelmed, I decide to walk along Sukhumvit towards Kasalong on Soi 6. I wasn't picky so the first girl that motioned for me to go in (decent looks, youngish) is the one I went in with. There was one guy and a girl near the pool table. As soon as you walk in, there is reception area to your right where a very important administrator sits and my girl stopped in front of her so I thought I had to stand there as well. I think she is also the bartender but it didn't feel like a bar so I asked if I could go up to the room. My girl said yes and led me up the stairs with me caressing her ass in her light blue skirt.
I think I was the first one there as she turned on the lights and air conditioning. The room is nice, big, fairly clean but the wall to the next room doesn't go all the way up so you will hear your neighbours enjoying themselves. My girl cleaned my cock in the small sink in the corner and then put a towel on the couch and motioned for me to sit. These girls, oh do they know what they are doing! Less than 10 minutes and I had popped. Paid 1,000 THB to the receptionist downstairs and gave the change to the girl.
My next destination was Som's Haven but as I exited Kasalong towards Soi 8, I walked by Lolittas and there must have 20 girls sitting outside. Stopped, chatted, saw a girl with braided hair and very pouty lips that I liked and told her I would come back for her. She obviously had a Carpe Diem attitude and said why wait when we could go right now. I told her I would come back. And proceeded towards Som's.
At Som's, and the same thing, lots of girls sitting outside. The girl that was next stood up, grabbed my hand and started walking me in. I stopped her as I wanted to see the other girls. I asked if Som was here and they all pointed at the girl that had grabbed my hand. In her 40's so I assumed she was the owner and feeling pretty lucky that I would get head from the person that owns a BJ bar. We go inside, sit and I ask for a beer. I am drinking and telling her that I am really looking forward to getting my cock sucked by you, the owner. She says she is not the owner. Som the owner is not here in the country somewhere. Oy vey! But the Som sitting next to me with her hands in my pants assured me she was very good. Upstairs we go, get in a room. She cleans my cock in the sink and I sit down on the couch. This was a very good blowjob and she really knows how to wrap her tits around my cock. This time I went the entire 30 minutes before I popped.
Came back downstairs, paid the receptionist a 1,000 THB and the change to Som. Som's is on the same alley as a really good restaurant called Suda / Sadu / Sada sp?. Stopped in there, lots of tourists and locals and had a very delicious dinner. I was now getting tired full stomach, the jet lag and the 500 ML Chang beers were catching up.
Decided to head back to my hotel but with a quick pit stop at Lolittas for the braided girl. She was there, and she remembered me. I tell her I am very tired (don't tell her I have just had 2 BJ's in less than 2 hours) and confirm she has a lot of energy. Yes. Yes. She takes my hand, we go upstairs and it's a, wait a minute, this is a big community room with individual couches. Interesting. I am the only one there. She sits me down and pulls a red curtain around us for privacy. I kept thinking this feels like a doctors office when they pull the curtain. Braided girl cleans me up with a wet wipe and then starts sucking me off. As she was sucking, I asked her if she could just go down on me as far as she can, and just stay there and suck me without going up and down. She did that for a good 5 minutes while her hands massaged my balls. It was so good.
Soon enough people started coming in and I could hear curtains being drawn and the slurping and moaning starting. I popped right around the 30 minute mark. As we were leaving, you could see a couple of pairs of girls feet sticking out from the bottom of the curtain as they were kneeling and giving head. Price was a 1,000 THB with the change going to the girl.
This was a good night and something I would love to spend an entire afternoon / evening doing.
After my 3 BJ Bar crawl, I continued walking along Sukhumvit and there are so many freelancers. So many different types of freelancers thai, ladyboys, Africans and, what! Wait a minute, are those? Yes, I think that is, no, it can't be. Wait, yes, those are freelancers wearing a Niqab. What the what? Are they really Muslim FLs?
Serious question: can somebody explain what this is? Are they really Muslims in Niqabs or is this a fetish that people like? Has anyone tried one?
[QUOTE=Gannaton48;2067122]I will be for short time in BKK and would like to meet a lady via TF rather than just pay and pick up in a gogo or Thermae this time. Since the profiles on TF look officially quite serious, is there a way to distinguish P4 P from the others? I guess that those who indicate "any and any" for man's age may rather be for P4 P? Advice from an experienced TF user like you will help me a lot about selection before arriving there. Hopefully I will be able to report consequently when back! Thanks.[/QUOTE]Short answer. There is no real way to telling genuine profiles looking for serious dating from the hookers. Your best bet is to ask outright about their work.
You are not very clear in stating what you really need. Do you want a P4 P experience through TF or you want to have an ONS with NSA. If your answer is the latter, then your chances are a lot dimmer.
The ones who are there for P4 P won't let you fuck them unless there is an agreement on price. The ones looking for a genuine date, won't let you get into their pants on the first date. You might have to woo them a bit and splash some cash on dinners and gifts before you get intimate. Either way you will spend money. And if you are in BKK only for a short time as you mention, why bother with the effort?
But hey, YMMV.
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Nana Plaza and the near area is huge!
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My opinion: Nana Plaza has way more volume of girls than Angeles.
[/QUOTE]I don't want to start a debate because it's not really important and I have never counted the girls, but I think it's the other way around. Angeles has more girls than Nana Plaza. Maybe Nana Plaza and Soi Cowboy combined have more girls than Angeles, that could be possible.
Also I wouldn't call the area huge. In fact I think it's rather small, although I agree there are many girls in a dense area.
Pattaya is what I would call huge.
[QUOTE=Gannaton48;2067122]I will be for short time in BKK and would like to meet a lady via TF rather than just pay and pick up in a gogo or Thermae this time. Since the profiles on TF look officially quite serious, is there a way to distinguish P4 P from the others? I guess that those who indicate "any and any" for man's age may rather be for P4 P? Advice from an experienced TF user like you will help me a lot about selection before arriving there. Hopefully I will be able to report consequently when back! Thanks.[/QUOTE]I think you are on the right track with the age issue. To hook up with direct P4 P girl options on sites like ThaiFriendly or ThaiCupid, I would click "Interested" on young girl profile / photos stating any age, 18-99 range, that kind of thing, particularly the ones stating they live in Bangkok and whose photos display a more showy, sexy look than usual. I would probably not click on many stating they are looking for Marriage. But even if some among the any age, sexy, showy photo group say they are looking for Penpals, Friendship, that kind of thing along with Romance / Dating, it is still very possible they need money much more than a penpal and are really hoping to hook up for P4 P.
In your initial site email message to them, get to something fun and sexy right away. Don't waste too much time with your life history or asking for theirs. Assuming you are staying in the Nana / Soi Cowboy area of Sukhumvit, say so, tell her your closest BTS or MRT station location and ask her if she is familiar with that; "Hi, Noey. I like your profile and think you look very sweet! I am staying at Such-and-Such Hotel, about 5 minute walk from Nana BTS station. You know? If you feel comfortable adding me, my phone number / Line ID is xxxxxxxx. I hope we can get to know each other more, meet and be together sometime. Kissssss, Gannaton. ".
Throw in a happy face or throbbing heart icon here or there and wait for her reply.
Once you have exchanged Line IDs and are connected there, send a current best impression photo of you and see as many of hers as you can before setting up a meeting. If she doesn't quickly and clearly state she is up for sex for money, the minute she starts chatting about how she has no job now, her mom is sick, she is a student and her tuition is due soon (or rent, or phone bill, or electric bill, etc.), simply tell her you might be able to help her with that and would be happy to "take care" of her too if you were to meet and the Romance part of your reason for going on TF or TC was right.
The great thing about this kind of dating site / Line first contact is you can cover a whole host of particulars that are important to you if you are going to part with any money before you spend even one baht traveling to meet face to face. For example, I have no problem with launching right into my expectations about shaved pussy, BBBJ+CIM, uncovered whatever and getting a definite "yes" response to what I want and expect before setting up a meeting. But I do wait to launch into that until after I have spent at least a minimum amount of time sharing photos, cute (not overt or ugly porn-type) comments and essentially charming the girl enough to be perceived as a personal "friend" and not just a passing customer. That can take only 20-30 minutes of occasional chatting, though. I'm not talking about spending days and days on this. And if the girl rejects my methods and efforts, no problem, nice to have met you, have a great life, buh-bye, and I move on to the next one. There is always a next one and not very far off either.
[QUOTE=Gannaton48;2067122]I will be for short time in BKK and would like to meet a lady via TF rather than just pay and pick up in a gogo or Thermae this time. Since the profiles on TF look officially quite serious, is there a way to distinguish P4 P from the others? [/QUOTE]TF is time-consuming, and while the results eventually happen if you keep at it for a while, I wouldn't want to deal with the hassle on a short stay. Maybe if you could line up 10 girls before your trip you can hope 1 to 3 will go through during the time you're here, but it seems way more hassle than straight out P4 P. I don't find online trawling particularly amusing, and scheduling a meeting / waiting / potential flakes are even worse.
Personally, for me TF is not worth the effort unless there's a clear potential for multiple encounters. Whether you pay for it is immaterial, but personally, I'd rather not BOTH invest the time / effort and pay. Maybe I'm too old school, but if I'm paying, the encounter should be on my terms, and convenient (that is, under 2 h from first contact to sex, otherwise may well look elsewhere or just jack off).
As for filtering the profiles, just look for hints (age is one, how revealing photos are another), but you can't be sure until you ask more-or-less directly (though perhaps not in your first message). Some might get offended, but that's what block feature is for.
I decided to set something up for my November trip to Thailand. Met several girls online, most of which wanted multiple daily video chats; that was too much time and effort for my taste. For the most part, the girls either wanted me to send money right away and/or they were looking to build a relationship that could lead to moving to USA as my wife. Neither situation is what I want to pursue at this time.
My new plan is to wait until 1 or 2 weeks before my trip and them look for a travel companion. I'm hoping that leads to finding someone without excessive time wasted in relationship building or listening to sob stories about leaky roofs, mom's medical needs, overdue rent, tuition bills, daughter's shoes, and other family financial problems.
I've looked at ThaiFriendly, ThaiCupid, and CherryBlossoms, all of which may be OK. I'm still new at this, but I'm starting to favor ThaiFlirting because the free search and contact features are pretty good. But, my best contact so far was found on ThaiFriendly.
[QUOTE=HorseTrader;2068012]I decided to set something up for my November trip to Thailand. Met several girls online, most of which wanted multiple daily video chats; that was too much time and effort for my taste. For the most part, the girls either wanted me to send money right away and/or they were looking to build a relationship that could lead to moving to USA as my wife. Neither situation is what I want to pursue at this time.
My new plan is to wait until 1 or 2 weeks before my trip and them look for a travel companion. I'm hoping that leads to finding someone without excessive time wasted in relationship building or listening to sob stories about leaky roofs, mom's medical needs, overdue rent, tuition bills, daughter's shoes, and other family financial problems.
I've looked at ThaiFriendly, ThaiCupid, and CherryBlossoms, all of which may be OK. I'm still new at this, but I'm starting to favor ThaiFlirting because the free search and contact features are pretty good. But, my best contact so far was found on ThaiFriendly.[/QUOTE]Please check out further discussion about this in my user blog if you wish. Just scroll down under the regular forum topics and you will see the user blogs. Now we are discussing how to know if the lady in the profile is P4P or a normal girl and what to say and not to say.
Just my 2 cents worth but if you know how to navigate all these websites and apps, the results can be well worth the effort. No need to start so early unless you are looking for a relationship. Start a few days before your arrival making your contacts and you will be fine.
[QUOTE=HorseTrader;2068012]... My new plan is to wait until 1 or 2 weeks before my trip and them look for a travel companion. I'm hoping that leads to finding someone without excessive time wasted in relationship building or ....[/QUOTE]You want a travel companion that you HAVEN"T even met yet. That's ridiculous. What are you thinking about? What happens if you meet her, and go on a trip, then you don't hit it off? Too late now. You are already with her. Then you can either send her back and stay alone or stay with a some girl you who you are not compatible with. Do yourself a favor and think ahead.
[QUOTE=PipeLayer99;2068097]You want a travel companion that you HAVEN"T even met yet. That's ridiculous. What are you thinking about? What happens if you meet her, and go on a trip, then you don't hit it off? Too late now. You are already with her. Then you can either send her back and stay alone or stay with a some girl you who you are not compatible with. Do yourself a favor and think ahead.[/QUOTE]That is more or less it. Meet some on a website, plenty of video chat via Line or WhatsApp, and then spend time together in Thailand. Probably would schedule about the first 3 days of a 3-week trip with my favorite. If things go well I could extend the invitation, which she could either accept or refuse. My buddy did essentially this and they kept extending for the duration of his 30 day stay.