This is Pattaya my ISG Brother. Just ask for what you want!
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I use TF a LOT when in town, usually starting a few days before I arrive. * I have found that many if not most ladies are really focused on ST only and are not really interested in an arrangement for the evening. * Also, not sure that a lot of them have the conversation skills to make it worth the effort, no matter how hot they may be. * I usually target 23-32 yr olds in my search, but am open to suggestions. * I tend to enjoy the 28-35 age range as I have found they have a bit more appreciation when a gentleman treats them well, and are better skilled in the art of pleasing a man.[/QUOTE]Brother just ask for what you want on TF. I have no problem finding girls that want to go out. But I ask them if they are interested in more than just a ST customer. To achieve what you want you may need to have a meet and greet to check compatibility before. You can make it strictly platonic and pay for their taxi and coffee, tea or drinks. Or you can do like I do and tell them they are going to have to talk with me an hour and check chemistry before we do our ST session. Never been a problem.
Look I have chatted up a girl I liked on the Bath Bus. She is a non. Pro. There are some dumb mother fuckers up in here that challenged me. Thinking only with their dick and lack of imagination. But I know what she is. Not pressed at all to get with me. Goes to class everyday. And has made almost zero effort to meet me. Yet, we still talk. Maybe someday we will meet. But it is not high on her list priorities. Now to the dumb ass who said: "She could be selling it every night" well she could be. But she is not trying to sell it to me. [B]LOL![/B].
As for the critics, simply do not pay attention to them. If they don't have anything to constructively add as I have done simply ignore them. There are those that talk and those that do. Be a man in the arena brother. Like I am!
Genralizations miss the detail and exceptions
[QUOTE=ExpatAmerican;2859912]What you are seeking used to be very easy to find. I have had it happen several times in Bangkok and Pattaya where I met a girl and clicked and spent lots of time together with amazing sex on top. But now the whole scene is too commercial. Short time, quick money. The girls are not looking for a foreign knight in shining armor any more. I think Pattaya is too much of a sex destination and every visitor is labeled (rightly so) as a sex tourist. You are likely to have better luck in Bangkok. But overall lack of English will continue to be an issue. In that regards Philippines is a better bet.[/QUOTE]Although people have labeled me as newbie, I have not found the commercial aspect to be universally true. But maybe that is because I am looking at things with fresh eyes and I do thing differently. But whenever you make judgements about an entire city, or industry I think you miss subtle aspects or the exceptions. For example, those who know that there are casinos in Las Vegas most likely understand that everyone who actually lives in Las Vegas is not a gambler.
I have plenty of girls on Thai Friend tell me they are not interested in short time. So, I pivot and say let's just meet over coffee tea or drinks and they come back with, no I am not interested because I know you will continue to look for girls. There are plenty of girls still looking for that that foreign man to do the things men used to do for girls (protect and provide). And they are willing to do the things that girls used to provide (fuck, cook, clean, take care of children). I speak from my experiences only for the short time (get the pun) I have been here.
As for the commercial aspect, I like it! Are we really coming to Pattaya to look for girlfriends? I know many men think they can pay for GFE. You cannot. It is an illusion. If you want true GFE you have to provide BFE (Boy Friend Experience). That requires more than a pocket full of THB (well at least for the guys not paying their prostitutes by bank transfer) and another pocket full of condoms.