I might be abnormal in that respect
[QUOTE=MikeNm;2861303]I'm with you on DFK at least. Without it, she's just anonymous and that's not what gets me off.
My first trip coming up soon. Question is it normal to ask the girl if she offers DFK before you leave the bar with her? How often might they lie to get the business? I assume some do lie and you chalk it up to experience, but would love to hear from you experienced in this.[/QUOTE]I am not sure it is normal or common for most customers to mention anything, any particular level of service at all, as a requirement before they agree to take a girl or pay her barfine, other than possibly Short Time vs Long Time, 1 pop or 2 and How Much Baht is he willing to pay.
My impression is that after those minimal issues are settled the vast majority of customers just "go with the flow and see what happens in the room", accepts whatever is doled out to them and pays the amount agreed upon. Then, even if they didn't get anything like what they really dreamt about getting they happily hand the girl an additional 300 - 400 baht tip anyway. LOL.
That is my impression at least based on some reports I have read and the way many P4 P girls assume the procedure will go with me too.
However, it doesn't go that way with me. My bareback fucking success rate using the "go with the flow" method runs at about 15-20% over the years. Even worse than that in Pattaya, keeping it more pertinent to this particular forum. Which is way too low unless I want to pay for many, many sessions in order to get one decent pop and enjoy one annoying buzzkill hour after another.
Therefore, I do ask upfront if we will kiss romantically with our tongues touching, mime it if necessary and if she hadn't already been doing it in the bar, and if "boom boom no condom OK mai?" (Is our fucking without a condom ok with you). And if I don't get a positive response to both I pay my bar tab (if I am in a bar), thank the girl for her time and bid her farewell.
Mind you, this would be after we had established what seems like a pretty high level of chemistry, laughs, kisses and cuddles, the girl crawling all over me in the bar, begging me to take her and so on. I don't just blurt it out like I am asking for a burger at McDonalds.
Doesn't matter how much supposed chemistry is dripping from our pores in the bar. I still ask if they will agree to DFK and BBFS+CIP before I pay anything to take them. And the rejection rate can still be fairly high. 40-50% overall.
In Pattaya, my rejection rate for getting a Yes from the girls who are crawling all over me in the bar as I described has been well over 95%. Yep. There it is. Pattaya and I are simply not compatible in terms of me getting Real Sex with the girls I bother to meet there and who will crawl over me in the bar and beg me to take them. LOL. I do far better in Bangkok.
Still doesn't matter. I'd much, much rather they say No to me in the bar or on the street or online than at the moment of entry in the room.
In some special cases I might ratchet down my request to a BBBJ+CIM if I am really attracted to the girl and BBFS+CIP is an absolute No upfront.
I did get 1 very cute Soi 6 girl to agree to that a few years back, just pre Covid. But she would not budge from me paying her barfine, 600 baht then I think, and giving her 2,000 for overnight LT. For a simple BBBJ+CIM, mind you. So then I wouldn't budge from stipulating that it must be +Swallow. Which she did agree to do.
She was adorable. Her BBBJ+CIM+Swallow was just meh. I never repeated. And she never changed her mind about not fucking me bareback.
Do some girls lie just to get me to take them, barfine venue or not? Yes. Often. That is why I might even follow up a Yes reply to the initial question with an explanation that if she changes her mind about any of it in my room, no problem, I will also change my mind about how much to pay her and I probably won't pay her anything if that happens. Of course, I say it with a smile. But I mean it.