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I hope to try Bitstyle out on Thursday and have the Lingam / Prostrate massage, I will play it by ear which girl to choose, I may try going about 2-00 pm.
I have made a note for 90 mins massage at BitStyle, with 45 for Prostrate and 45 for Lingam, to try and get some power into my shots.:)
A report will follow if I make it and I do not get distracted elsewhere. .
[QUOTE=Gus69;2100461]I hope to try Bitstyle out on Thursday and have the Lingam / Prostrate massage, I will play it by ear which girl to choose, I may try going about 2-00 pm.
I have made a note for 90 mins massage at BitStyle, with 45 for Prostrate and 45 for Lingam, to try and get some power into my shots.:)
A report will follow if I make it and I do not get distracted elsewhere. .[/QUOTE]Is Lingam a dildo? If not what is Lingam?
I was walking on Sukhemvit 33, when I saw a tall girl standing beside dreams of heaven. I wondered how cool it would be to fuck her and my Johnny seconded the motion and gave a standing ovation.
Immediately I chucked the idea of visiting addict massage parlour and decided to try out Dreams in heaven as my first massage parlour in Bangkok. I went inside. The mamasan gave me the rate card and I decided for 90 minutes massage in the VIP room 2400 bath. I had asked him how many times I could pop and he said only once. I asked for the line-up and among them three girls were smiling I chose the best looking smiling girl and off I went with her.
Inside the room she showed me the condoms and told me that I can fuck and then started to feel up my dick and started asking do you want to fuck me repeatedly, I said yes and she told me to remove my clothes. She seemed to be very eager and horny as if she was not fucked from ages and I was her knight with shining dick.
I asked her for BBBJ she told me to wash my junk after washing my dick we were back into bed and she gave a pretty decent BJ. Afterwards she put the condom and started with cow girl. The condom was tight but I was not complaining that much after fucking her in various positions I came. She was disappointed that I came to early and then we went to the Jacuzzi. There she started watching Facebook videos and I was chilling and getting rest afterwards yet again went to the bed. This time I lasted a bit longer and came again in doggy position. While pulling her hair. It seemed as if she wanted more but I was done and left I gave her a tip of 500 bath.
Overall the session was very good and I was very satisfied with the service and I'm pretty sure she was disappointed with my sexual performance.
Massage parlours have a very robust seen and I think every beginner should start with them to minimise the risk of poor service and good heuristic would be to choose a girl who is smiling at you.
[QUOTE=JesseJames;2100530]Is Lingam a dildo? If not what is Lingam?[/QUOTE]Lingam is sanskrit form Penis.
[QUOTE=RobertLong;2100329]The last time I walked thru I was right off the beach in Hawaii and didn't get much attention or smiles. This time I wore nice high end clothes and not only did I receive smiles of the come get me type, but I was approached by ladies twice offering their services.
RL.[/QUOTE]Lot of guys here complain about Thermae and how it is only good for Asians. But is dressing the club style the key to be successful in Thermae? The above report has activated my almonds.
[QUOTE=KilledSoul;2100546]Lot of guys here complain about Thermae and how it is only good for Asians. But is dressing the club style the key to be successful in Thermae? The above report has activated my almonds.[/QUOTE]Last time I been in Thermae I wear shorts and tshirt, I had a quick drink and walk around, alot of girls smiled at me. I'm a white european guy, so dressing could help of course but is not the key.
[QUOTE=ChristianG;2100615] I'm a white european guy, so dressing could help of course but is not the key.[/QUOTE]Last time I went, only Asians guys were in demand, to be honest I felt jealous. Lots of white men sitting in the middle and sipping their beers, even the young white guys. I got lucky and managed to get a girl but it was purely luck. What should be a good strategy in Thermae other than be attractive and don't be unattractive?
[QUOTE=KilledSoul;2100641]Last time I went, only Asians guys were in demand, to be honest I felt jealous. Lots of white men sitting in the middle and sipping their beers, even the young white guys. I got lucky and managed to get a girl but it was purely luck. What should be a good strategy in Thermae other than be attractive and don't be unattractive?[/QUOTE]I pulled a Laotian lady last night from Thermae. Again I think if you look good and clean and talk to a lot of the ladies, joking and always a smile on your face, it seems very easy. They like a guy with a friendly attitude so just go for it. BTW, she agreed on 1500 baht. But many I talked to wanted 2500 but also were ready to nego, saying "how much you want to pay" A lot of competition in there for the ladies so they realize that it might be to their benefit to take a lower offer.
Thermae appears to be a Japaness boys club. Most leave without taking a lady. The older Japanese guys are doing the buying. I think the ladies know that and are more willing to take what comes their way, instead of waiting for the Japanese guy. Also the Lady I took said that the Japanese guys are getting cheap and try to lowball the prices offered.
RL.
I never had any issues at Thermae as a 40's american white guy dressed in nice shorts and a polo shirt. Of course there was a subset of girls that didn't make eye contact and had no interest, but I've always been able to find a girl or ten per trip that caught my fancy and was able to negotiate a good evening with. Never paid less than 1500ST and never more than 2500ST (never done LT directly from Thermae).
Key is confidence and not worrying if you get shot down - if your hottest pick says japanese only, then move on to the next. I've never gone past my top 3 before I found a girl who would go with a farang
[QUOTE=FormulaOneFan;2100748]I never had any issues at Thermae as a 40's american white guy dressed in nice shorts and a polo shirt. Of course there was a subset of girls that didn't make eye contact and had no interest, but I've always been able to find a girl or ten per trip that caught my fancy and was able to negotiate a good evening with. Never paid less than 1500ST and never more than 2500ST (never done LT directly from Thermae).
Key is confidence and not worrying if you get shot down - if your hottest pick says japanese only, then move on to the next. I've never gone past my top 3 before I found a girl who would go with a farang[/QUOTE]Was in Thermae a few times last week (on the days it was open) and no worries at all. I'm a 60's guy (shall I say I look younger like every other poster here says LOL) . And there was no worries in finding what I wanted. Thermae has become a sort of playground for all rather than being East Asian only. Sadly Biergarten is in its death throws. Quiet and so poor now.
Having said that I object to paying to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] in the open, next to a kitchen (Health Regs anyone?). But such is life. Not a biggie.
[QUOTE=FormulaOneFan;2100748]I never had any issues at Thermae as a 40's american white guy dressed in nice shorts and a polo shirt. Of course there was a subset of girls that didn't make eye contact and had no interest, but I've always been able to find a girl or ten per trip that caught my fancy and was able to negotiate a good evening with. Never paid less than 1500ST and never more than 2500ST (never done LT directly from Thermae).
Key is confidence and not worrying if you get shot down - if your hottest pick says japanese only, then move on to the next. I've never gone past my top 3 before I found a girl who would go with a farang[/QUOTE]Yes it is definitely possible for Farangs to get girls in the Thermae. Some girls are asking for extra 500 baht for Farangs. Usually my top picks are not interested in Farangs, or even if they will go with surcharge are not giving me the good vibe. Sometimes I have just been beaten to the girl by very fast Japanese customer. Then you have the issue of what percentage of girls are into DFK. Then there is how many girls are not wrecked by surgeries. Etc. How much stamina do the girls have. Is the outfit hiding a not so great body? It is not that easy to get the perfect girl.
I find that dropping down to my 4th of 5th preference girl, causes me to lose the motivation to actually go for it. Others that are willing to take their not first preference will be okay Depends on how far you will drop your looks requirement and how many knock backs will leave you totally undeterred. Most of us are coming from past experience in a Soapy, Oily or bar, where we choose the best girl in the line up to our personal spec, and then it is rare to experience the knock backs (but can happen). Hardly ever more than one knock back in a bar.
Do I think nice shorts and a polo shirt make a difference? I doubt it. Personally I don't wear shorts. I usually do have a better shirt with collar but doubt it makes a scrap of difference. There have to be other factors, like attitude, friendliness, manner of speaking, clean and not stinky, physical size, etc. , but most of all nationality or race.
Thermae is going to be fine for some guys, but not the best hunting ground for me. None of the girls I actually took recently were worth repeating, at all. All well behind my best bargirls for performance on the bed, or even if performance was okay, then the body unclothed was just not good enough.
To get everything right is not that easy. Definitely suits customers easier to please. I don't have much luck with getting free lancers off the street either unless will to take a girl with much weaker looks than my normal standard.
Naked or very scantily clad girls for me, all the way. LOL Just my need to see what I am getting, to eliminate some of the risks. This makes me a very odd monger I guess, especially since I will take girls with hardly any tits if the rest of the figure is very good. I will take mothers as well with very minimal figure damage. Just get turned off by flab, fat thighs, and severe sag. I have to accept that I am becoming a difficult customer, way beyond the norm, and need very special girls, sleek models (too short is allowable of course). Hardly motivated to try new girls any more. Just my probably of success has dropped off over the years.
[QUOTE=RobertLong;2100721]the Lady I took said that the Japanese guys are getting cheap and try to lowball the prices offered.[/QUOTE]Best news I have heard in a year!
What you wear at Thermae makes no difference. Just don't wear a wife beater shirt. As long as you look clean and smell clean you're in.
There may be a reason a girl doesn't look at you. I was at a G club in Pattaya last week and the girl I wanted wouldn't even make eye contact with me. Instead she stared at the wall the entire time. She was the only one I wanted there so I went to talk to her. She was super friendly and turned out she was brand new and just super shy. Same thing happened 3 weeks ago at another G club. The one I wanted was the one who didn't look at me. I just went to sit on the sofa with her. When I made her laugh a bit she opened up. She is now a girl I visit often. Don't be shy to approach the girl you want. Have confidence but do not be cocky. Thai girls HATE cocky guys.
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Thermae appears to be a Japaness boys club. Most leave without taking a lady. The older Japanese guys are doing the buying. I think the ladies know that and are more willing to take what comes their way, instead of waiting for the Japanese guy. Also the Lady I took said that the Japanese guys are getting cheap and try to lowball the prices offered.
RL.[/QUOTE]I've been saying that about Japanese customers for quite a while; that many of them are stingy as hell and likely do not overpay or even pay as much as most Farang customers pay. I got blowback from a poster here for saying some girls don't want to go with Japanese customers for that and other reasons. The blowback was they supposedly only told me that to make me feel good. Ok. 3-4 years ago I used to take a very popular FL who never had a problem getting a customer and ignored the Japanese guys who approached her. I'd seen her doing it from a distance before she knew I was in the area. She did it quite openly. And that was her assessment of Japanese customers; penny pinchers, always trying to work a cheaper deal, terrified of paying one baht more than the going rate for a girl and always had to walk away thinking they'd gotten a better deal than Farangs or anyone else. I used to give her 1,500 max for ST, often she would stay longtime for that amount. Hardly a super high cost lady. I believe the word on Japanese customers being cheapos has gotten around Thermae as well and that is why so many more girls are open to Farang customers than they might have been a few years ago.
Many girls in Thermae would have no idea that their Japanese customers are not paying one baht more than the next Farang who walks into the place would because they have never taken a Farang so they have nothing to compare them to. All they know for sure is the Japanese guys pay them a lot more than any Thai guy ever did. Hey, no kidding? I suppose the girls who are willing to talk price would have a notion. But some won't even do that when a Farang approaches them or cannot due to no English fluency.
Anyway, Thermae is a weird case because it became a self-fulfilling prophesy; many Japanese guys go there expecting to be preferred by the ladies because almost everybody who talks about Thermae likely repeats the montra that the girls at Thermae prefer Japanese customers. Including right here on these message boards. LOL. So, naturally, Japanese customers started showing up at Thermae by the busload. If we regularly read on the message boards that the girls at XYZ Club much prefer Farangs and can't wait for one to take them, busloads of Farangs would start showing up at XYZ Club (no such club by that name that I know of, BTW). Regardless, once it is known by girls working in a P4P location that every 30 minutes or so another busload of Japanese will show up looking for a lady, unless the non Japanese guy standing in front of them is exuding some special vibe re money, fun or ease of use, they tend to want to wait a few minutes to see what the next busload of Japanese guys brings. And that would probably be true for Norwegians if a busload of Norwegians showed up every 30 minutes or so.
[QUOTE=RobertLong;2100721]I pulled a Laotian lady last night from Thermae. Again I think if you look good and clean and talk to a lot of the ladies, joking and always a smile on your face, it seems very easy. They like a guy with a friendly attitude so just go for it. BTW, she agreed on 1500 baht. But many I talked to wanted 2500 but also were ready to nego, saying "how much you want to pay" A lot of competition in there for the ladies so they realize that it might be to their benefit to take a lower offer.
Thermae appears to be a Japaness boys club. Most leave without taking a lady. The older Japanese guys are doing the buying. I think the ladies know that and are more willing to take what comes their way, instead of waiting for the Japanese guy. Also the Lady I took said that the Japanese guys are getting cheap and try to lowball the prices offered.
RL.[/QUOTE]Most girls I am keen on are also in demand by Japanese customers. If they can go with me at all, they typically want to charge me a 500 Baht surcharge on top of the price for Japanese. In a way, this is fair in that I will expect them to work far harder for me. No 5 minutes and pop. However it tends to mean their price is not as attractive as it is for Asian customers.
However it is unclear that the girl is going to perform well enough to warrant me paying her price anyway. I would prefer a girl with no price specified and let me pay her fairly based on her performance. This often happens to me with normal bar girls.
I certainly never had any girl happy to go for 1500 Baht in recent times from Thermae. Some are saying "well yes, but 3000" which is not exactly exciting and I did not buy. I am sure there are cheaper girls there, but I just don't seem to pick the girls not in demand. They must look just too ordinary for me.
If I had to go through a tough negotiation, it would probably kill my interest totally. I believe I see Japanese going through more extended negotiations, but that is not going to work for me.
I have a regular girl who seems to be too lazy to go out to her normal bar to work. This is great, because she gets low on money regularly and has to come to my place to get some money. Most days would rather come to me than go to work. So I avoid the BF and lady drinks charges, and the ST Hotel, and get a very sleek model who is reliable on the bed. For my all night Girl, I go to her place now. I also have a very reliable girl in Shark now who gives a very extended ST. Never had a negotiation with her. She never quoted a price. My incentive to keep trying the Thermae has dwindled. I need to be very desperate. I need to look around for some other good really cheap options yet still good looks, but did not find that in Thermae so far. Maybe it is unrealistic, however I used to like Anne at Loli-tas for a low price.
[QUOTE=EihTooms;2100806]
Anyway, Thermae is a weird case because it became a self-fulfilling prophesy; many Japanese guys go there expecting to be preferred by the ladies because almost everybody who talks about Thermae likely repeats the montra that the girls at Thermae prefer Japanese customers. Including right here on these message boards. LOL. So, naturally, Japanese customers started showing up at Thermae by the busload. If we regularly read on the message boards that the girls at XYZ Club much prefer Farangs and can't wait for one to take them, busloads of Farangs would start showing up at XYZ Club (no such club by that name that I know of, BTW). Regardless, once it is known by girls working in a P4P location that every 30 minutes or so another busload of Japanese will show up looking for a lady, unless the non Japanese guy standing in front of them is exuding some special vibe re money, fun or ease of use, they tend to want to wait a few minutes to see what the next busload of Japanese guys brings. And that would probably be true for Norwegians if a busload of Norwegians showed up every 30 minutes or so.[/QUOTE]Always the funniest imaginative logic coming from you. Always cracks me up somewhat.