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Wise. I stopped banging my Fili PA (ask WR about her) when I started pushing more real responsibilities onto her. She manages bank accounts and all that. Better not to add pussy to the mix.
[QUOTE=Streetlooker;1723130]Its the never bang the maid rule, they are there for the house work, and running errands, and things like that. Plenty of other girls there for sex. Its always best to leave business has business.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Cons68;1723294]Wise. I stopped banging my Fili PA (ask WR about her) when I started pushing more real responsibilities onto her. She manages bank accounts and all that. Better not to add pussy to the mix.[/QUOTE]I agree with all the comments but cannot chastise Cons for shagging his PA as I found her the job with him (she is an intelligent, articulate and sexy pinay).
She loves the nawty side (well did) and the flashback to when we DPed her and had 2 other bi sexual pinays to deviriginise her in your apartment one weekend are memories made for life.
But still best not go anywhere near an employee anywhere but especially in this country as GE noted for a number of reasons.
[QUOTE=GoodEnough;1722773]I strongly advise you to drop all consideration of bedding someone you hire, or worse, making sleeping with you a condition of providing employment. There are several reasons for this, not the least of which is she can cause you all sorts of legal pain by merely contending sexual harassment. You're a foreigner and DOLE could, on the basis of a complaint from her, be on you like white on rice. Second, of course, everyone who works for you would know of the sexual relationship from its very start which would make you an instant subject of chismis, and would erode whatever respect they have for you. It would, in short, poison the work environment. Third of course is the whole moral issue of making employment contingent on the granting of sexual access. It's just wrong. .
GE.[/QUOTE]I find this a very interesting topic (base on a couple of life experiences) Firstly I completely agree "making sleeping with you a condition of employee" or any sexual harassment is a no go area, as has been said by many there're many fish in the sea.
However I've been caught in the trap, of sleeping with hired help, NO force involved, and very very fortunately there have not been any consequences, many of you on this forum are widely traveled through business and some are ex-pats living aboard so its an easy trap to fall into and has been said be warned the world is a very different place than my first ex-pat assignment, where I had a very cosy arrangement with my maid and her sister (actually a cousin).
Its a long story that I won't tire you all with but I remain good friends with them both after nearly 30 years (even godfather to one of there children) the reason I write this is the old story about being truthful, I read hundreds of stories here about guys being rip off, lied to or cheated in some way, all true but I equally know as many girls who have been gullible in believing bullshit love stories from lame guys, so its little wonder they get a hard edge about them especially if they have been a working girl for some time.
Anyway guy's in a round about way you got me thinking about how many, co-workers, employees of business associates, that of slept with over the years, all great times.
Happy Hunting and always be kind to the ladies.
Was going to put this question in General Info, but saw all the discussions about maids and wanted to get some advice on hiring.
I've settled into the BGC area and my apartment is kinda big around 240 sq meters. I am used to cleaning my own apartments, but seems like the cost-benefit ratio in PI makes sense to hire someone.
Anyone have any advice / recommendations?
(I might just go the cleaning service route as well.).
[QUOTE=Random99;1727368]Was going to put this question in General Info, but saw all the discussions about maids and wanted to get some advice on hiring.
I've settled into the BGC area and my apartment is kinda big around 240 sq meters. I am used to cleaning my own apartments, but seems like the cost-benefit ratio in PI makes sense to hire someone.
Anyone have any advice / recommendations?
(I might just go the cleaning service route as well.).[/QUOTE]Yeah, 249 sqm seems a tad large.
This is the most important attribute of household staff: Discretion. If she is going to blab to visitors about your life and those others in your life then no tidy flat is worth that. That being said, the front desk staff will likely spill the beans to a girl who asks.
Re a cleaning service, it's hit and miss. Those I hired and didn't supervise / inspect did a mediocre job, namely female hairs were still easily seen. Of course you can blame the workers when a visitor finds them. I've paid p500 for a person to come in for a few hours. That was for about 2 hours of work, my inspection, and another 30-60 minutes to clean up what was missed.
For my own peace of mind and conflict avoidance I tidy up a few times a day.
[QUOTE=Random99;1727368]Was going to put this question in General Info, but saw all the discussions about maids and wanted to get some advice on hiring.
I've settled into the BGC area and my apartment is kinda big around 240 sq meters. I am used to cleaning my own apartments, but seems like the cost-benefit ratio in PI makes sense to hire someone.
Anyone have any advice / recommendations?
(I might just go the cleaning service route as well.).[/QUOTE]If you can afford an apartment that size, I suggest you get it cleaned by your live-in harem. I believe there is advice here on the forum about engaging legal help to avoid concubinism liabilities. Frankly I don't see any reason not to dual-purpose a maid / fuckslut, contrary to recent posts here. If there is any difference between what you want and what you're getting, just re-hire.
[QUOTE=Hutsori;1727649]Yeah, 249 sqm seems a tad large.
This is the most important attribute of household staff: Discretion. If she is going to blab to visitors about your life and those others in your life then no tidy flat is worth that. That being said, the front desk staff will likely spill the beans to a girl who asks.
Re a cleaning service, it's hit and miss. Those I hired and didn't supervise / inspect did a mediocre job, namely female hairs were still easily seen. Of course you can blame the workers when a visitor finds them. I've paid p500 for a person to come in for a few hours. That was for about 2 hours of work, my inspection, and another 30-60 minutes to clean up what was missed.
For my own peace of mind and conflict avoidance I tidy up a few times a day.[/QUOTE]Thanks Huts and Roll.
While I could afford the 500 / day on the cleaning service, I want someone to clean everyday. My sleep schedule is mid-morning to mid-afternoon, but varies and so it may make the cleaning service route inconvenient. I'm leaning towards the domestic servant / maid even with some of the pitfalls of potential blabbing. It's a multi-bedroom apartment and if I have visitors, I'm sure the maid can stay on the other side of the apartment rather easily without being noticed. Haven't really thought through the "gossip" pitfalls, but I'm sure I'll trip on something as I learn my way.
(LOL, absolutely no-go on the maid / fuckslut route. Having someone around like that 24-7 would be annoying to me.).
[QUOTE=Random99;1728195]I'm leaning towards the domestic servant / maid even with some of the pitfalls of potential blabbing. It's a multi-bedroom apartment and if I have visitors, I'm sure the maid can stay on the other side of the apartment rather easily without being noticed. [/QUOTE]A live-in maid is very affordable. I know it's not uncommon for a maid to live in the laundry room, so giving her a proper bedroom is a nice perk; put a TV in it. I had live-in help when I worked in the Gulf and the main problem I encountered was their pilfering of food and household supplies to sell to their compatriots; one of my maids went so far as to start her own catering business selling my food to guards and others in the neighbourhood. If you have the expectation that she'll cook something more than her native food you'll want to verify she has done so in the past competently, not merely that she's willing to learn. Some friends on mine who employ maids who cook Western dishes well pay them more than a basic maid. You may want to review Title III WORKING CONDITIONS FOR SPECIAL GROUPS OF EMPLOYEES, Chapter III EMPLOYMENT OF HOUSEHELPERS at [URL]http://www.dole.gov.ph/labor_codes/view/4[/URL].
[QUOTE=Hutsori;1728506]A live-in maid is very affordable. I know it's not uncommon for a maid to live in the laundry room, so giving her a proper bedroom is a nice perk; put a TV in it. I had live-in help when I worked in the Gulf and the main problem I encountered was their pilfering of food and household supplies to sell to their compatriots; one of my maids went so far as to start her own catering business selling my food to guards and others in the neighbourhood. If you have the expectation that she'll cook something more than her native food you'll want to verify she has done so in the past competently, not merely that she's willing to learn. Some friends on mine who employ maids who cook Western dishes well pay them more than a basic maid. You may want to review Title III WORKING CONDITIONS FOR SPECIAL GROUPS OF EMPLOYEES, Chapter III EMPLOYMENT OF HOUSEHELPERS at [URL]http://www.dole.gov.ph/labor_codes/view/4[/URL].[/QUOTE]I'm not 100% sure how demanding other employers are of their maids, but if and when I hire someone. They are getting a relatively easy job. Two negatives: 20+ ft high ceilings and the apartment is large (the balcony is probably another 100+ sq m). My requests are very little though: keep the place clean daily and laundry (1 person) is the extent. No need to cook for me and possibly using the spare bedroom if there aren't out-of-town guests visiting.
Realistically, if someone worked efficiently. It's probably 2-3 hours a work a day. Slowly working, it's probably double that.
The building is pretty secure with rules in place on household help. IDs required, must use the service elevator, must check out with security when leaving etc.
[QUOTE=WickedRoger;1723303]I agree with all the comments but cannot chastise Cons for shagging his PA as I found her the job with him (she is an intelligent, articulate and sexy pinay).
She loves the nawty side (well did) and the flashback to when we DPed her and had 2 other bi sexual pinays to deviriginise her in your apartment one weekend are memories made for life.
But still best not go anywhere near an employee anywhere but especially in this country as GE noted for a number of reasons.[/QUOTE]Next trip I expect to meet this one!
PP.
How do I apply?
[QUOTE=Random99;1728513]I'm not 100% sure how demanding other employers are of their maids, but if and when I hire someone. They are getting a relatively easy job. Two negatives: 20+ ft high ceilings and the apartment is large (the balcony is probably another 100+ sq m). My requests are very little though: keep the place clean daily and laundry (1 person) is the extent. No need to cook for me and possibly using the spare bedroom if there aren't out-of-town guests visiting.
Realistically, if someone worked efficiently. It's probably 2-3 hours a work a day. Slowly working, it's probably double that.
The building is pretty secure with rules in place on household help. IDs required, must use the service elevator, must check out with security when leaving etc.[/QUOTE]
These little darlings are so precious. I was on the elevator today with a gorgeous little doll, and I was telling her how cold it gets where I come from in the USA. She asked "Is it December there now?" I only smiled and told her "not yet, but soon. ".
Is it just me or do fat Filipinas really plot to block me at my every turn. Is this a national pastime that nobody else has noticed?
Here are a few examples of classic Behaviour.
Take my experience wandering along in the airport passageway behind a pair of larger bottomed Filipina travellers. All big rubbing thighs jammed into tight jeans and backpacks. OS, recognising his superior ground speed to this duo, sets up his passing manouvre, planning a smooth passage to the right, one, two, three go!
Suddenly they both lurch over that way and spread out, taking up the whole passageway. OS hits the brakes and reduces speed to snail pace while our this gormless pair wander down the way, waddling randomly left and right to control the space for another 30 meters or so before the passageway widens and it becomes dimensionally impossible for them to maintain their grip on the passage. Go, go go!
Or the close confines of a JCO store where OS has been assigned the task of securing donuts. Time is of the essence as Miss Bukidnon is reclining naked in my bed in nearby hotel and is desirous of OS's affections.
Again a quick sly pass down the back of this lady who has taken up position between OS and the cashier and is mesmerized by the donuts.
This time, as I make my move she reverses like a truck into my path. All the while gazing longingly at the donuts in the display. OS can only grit his teeth and dream of Miss Bukidnon with all her slinky curves, lustily awaiting my return. So close but so far away. Eventually this block of a woman, is drawn back to the counter in a real life donut equivalent of mathematical random numbers. OS, forever the opportunist. Siezes the chance to make the last meter of his journey to the cashier. Whew!
Or when OS is descending in the hotel lift to make his exit. The sound goes ding and the doors open and here's this fool blocking the exit from the elevator. Mindlessly fixated on his mobile phone. Shifting from one foot to the other as they are prone to do to prevent anticipation of their next movement, his equally overweight family just sit there gawking at me as he completes his important business with his telephone and shuffles dreamily away from the doors.
Now OS has always had fantasies about being invisible but most of these fantasies are centred around the ladies change rooms, shower blocks and so forth. What the Filipina experience has taught me is important in that being the invisible man may have some complications. But probably mostly in Phils for it seems like a national pastime that they just seem to always want to get in your % way.
OS.
[QUOTE=OffshoreSwell;1750412]Is it just me or do fat Filipinas really plot to block me at my every turn. Is this a national pastime that nobody else has noticed?
Here are a few examples of classic Behaviour.
OS.[/QUOTE]I can assure you this behaviour is not limited to fat Pinays.
Every female in Australia seems to have developed this skill. If there is a passageway, they will fill it with their own body, their partners / friends' body, or some solid object to block your path.
They have this innate skill in blocking your path or veering you off your chosen path, usually in the dangerous direction. I could spend hours here giving you examples.
You should come down here to get some more practice in this art.
And it gets worse if you are in a hurry. As your donut example shows! LOL Yes, I laugh, but I'm deeply offended by your anti chubby tone. There are a lot of skinny people who can impede progress as well.
I don't think I've ever seen a Filipino walk on an escalator. Except for the kid that was going the wrong way. I guess this is why they block both lanes and never consider moving aside when some strange foreigner walks up behind them. It is sometimes faster to take the stairs. I mean the old-fashioned kind of stairs.
Nevertheless, I find the slow-moving cell phone zombies (youngish) the most annoying. It's not too bad in the Philippines yet, but it's living hell in urban areas like Tokyo. They even cross busy roads with their eyes glued to that tiny screen. How about a guy riding toward you on a bicycle, but looking at his cp?
And sadly, one cp zombie may be a bit pissed at the X Man. I was on a bicycle, on a busy street, and keeping to the left as is required. As I approached an intersection with a green light, I noticed a cp zombie with half a foot into the street and his cp even further out. I surely don't want to be clipped by the cars passing me to the right, so I moved as close as I thought I could. Unfortunately, when I leaned into my turn, I clipped his phone. I heard it go clackity clackity on the pavement. I felt bad, but maybe he learned a good lesson. A few weeks after that some high school kid lost his phone and his life when he did something similar on the train platform.
Oops, I've gone off topic, onto rant, but damn it felt good. Relax, be patient!
[QUOTE=OffshoreSwell;1750412]Is it just me or do fat Filipinas really plot to block me at my every turn. Is this a national pastime that nobody else has noticed?
Here are a few examples of classic Behaviour.
SNIP SNIP
OS.[/QUOTE]