Men were born to be guilty, women were born to make us feel that way!
[QUOTE=Tom2004]The only problem I am now facing is: While in any bigger club I do have my favourite now, it makes me uncomfortable to move freely. I enter the club, she spots me and the expectation is generated I will take here. While of those "approved" I always got a good service, incl. long stay etc., I am not intending to disapont them in taking alternative sources in there front.
Consequently my number of spots is decreasing and I have to detour to less popular or frequented spots.
Has anyone same experiences and how do you deal with this. I mean I am just not comfortable in a club to make my choice and receive a disappointed face from a basically great provider I certainly will use at a later stage.[/QUOTE]Hi Tom,
Good point for discussion and certainly a trap that I fall into myself and cannot now pick up from Metro because of Princess L as I'd feel pretty horrible about it and wouldn't like to watch her being picked up in return.
For other places, I try to make a rule of never taking the same girl twice in a row, I think that's the fatal error and some of them are very practiced a making you feel guilty about it. This doesn't mean that you don't take the same girl more than once but you have set a precedent that you will take other girls from the same venue and they can live with that. The bottom line is they are WG's and they obviously have other customers so they can comfortably get on with their work and you can spread it around a bit more then when you do get together again the understanding is very firmly in place.
Another tact that I have tried successfully is taking the girl and her friend in a 3some, again that way she understands that you will not be exclusive and, if it works out well you can have twice the fun:.)
Piper also makes a good point when he says:
[QUOTE=Piper1] I deal with it in as much of a respectful and face-saving way as I can in such a situation [/QUOTE]I. E. The word respect is very important for me as I think it is to all the regular contributors to the board. I think a respectful decline on the second evening can work wonders and they sometimes even tell you which of their friends is a good punt. I've often seen myself buying drinks for the girls on subsequent visits and having a really nice chat with them but making it clear at the outset that "tonight is just friends. " They are happy to have a drink and a freindly chat with a safe and sensible punter who may well bring future good business then get on with the nights work.
Keep it Cocked,
Zing