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[QUOTE=UShobbyist;1775777]I did not make myself clear. There are customs in German airports but the passengers do not need to fill out customs' forms and don't need to go through customs. [/QUOTE]Every passenger arriving from outside the EU has to go through customs. Even if it is just taking the green unmanned exit. If you take the green exit you gave a declaration that you have nothing to declare. If they stop you and find something you should have declared you will have to pay a fine.
HB.
As longstanding members will know, I appreciate it when I find a special girl.
But there's always a price to pay. After a long session early in the day, the girl was very reluctant to let me go without more sex at the end of the day, and was quite disturbed at my suggestion to talk, massage and schmusen instead. She refused to let me pay for couch time so we then went to a room. She then basically refused to leave the room and lay in the way that she knows I am completely a slave to, and indicated that she was a little upset. I had to promise that I would make sex with her the next day. After the session she disappeared for the first time ever into the shower for an impossibly long time. So, goodness knows what is in her head. The only thing I'm sure of is that she will very quickly forget about it.
Sometimes there is a lot more going on in workers' heads than I can understand. . The trouble with being a regular is that some kind of relationship always gets established. I don't mind friendship but emotional needs I could do without.
Or maybe she thinks that nonstop sex is the only way to secure my repeat custom.
On the plus side, an exworker who I know and value used to be highly unstable about her relationship with me has over time become much more emotionally stable, and it is nice to see that she regards me as a friend, without all the confusions around sex.
I just make these comments as I know other members have experiences and maybe it's helpful just to share what happens a bit, so nobody thinks it is just them.
[QUOTE=UShobbyist;1775777]I did not make myself clear. There are customs in German airports but the passengers do not need to fill out customs' forms and don't need to go through customs. The passengers do need to go through passport control if this flight is a transatlantic flight. If I change flight at Amsterdam, I don't need to go through anything and I can go directly to the regional train station (S-8 or S-9).[/QUOTE]Every time I enter the Schengen area, I go through passport control (one line for EU passports and one line for all passports). Then, I get my bags at baggage claim, after which I exit through one of the Custom's exits and in so doing, make a declaration that I have nothing to declare or that I do have something to declare by which I exit I choose.
Perhaps you are referring to flights that are within the Schengen area? Yes, if you fly from France to Germany, then there is no passport control or customs. You are correct if that is what you are referring to. But if you are referring to flights that actually enter the Schengen area the first time, then all those passengers must pass through both passport control and customs. All of us international visitors to Germany experience this every time we visit Germany in fact.
I am no expert in either FKK matters, human psychology, working girl behaviour, etc. , so take this w / a grain of salt. But girls fuck with your mind, best ignore it. That is not to say they are not human beings, or that they can't fall for a guy, they can't form emotional bonds etc. But the odds are against it. In the club, they fuck hundreds if not thousands of guys in a year. Is it likely that you somehow stood out in some special way? And if so, why? How would you know she is not faking it? Does she go out of her way to do you favors, such as give free extras, or even free sessions? Almost always never happens, in fact the opposite, the WG is looking for favors from men.
I have my own little experience. Once she knew she was my top girl, Roxana (Sharks) used to act like she was jealous of me seeing other girls. Then she began asking for small things, like more tips. When I visited her a few weeks before Christmas, she was upset I did not give her a Christmas gift. So, on my next visit, I gave her a decent gift - not super expensive, but not a simple box of candy either. Instead of being happy and thankful, she acted like it was nothing, and began pestering me with weird stuff like 3 some with her friends, and basically tried to milk me dry. Bad strategy on her part, as I did not take any session with her on my recent visit. In retrospect, I should have treated her more casually, and not given any hints that she was my top girl whatsoever.
Jnpr30. Yes you are right. I really don't care, but just mention it since when I was a newbie I would have fallen for her needs or manipulation completely so it is a good warning to new members. As I say, I am sure that ten minutes after I am gone she will have forgotten.
Yes she does me small favours, primarily very extended couch time, even when she has a queue of guests. The reason I stand out: I have taken her for some very long sessions. Maybe money comes into the equation LOL.
Your experience is more typical. Once a worker receives a tip or gift they very often start to angle for more and bigger. Sometimes they think that a guy who is nice to them is a fool.
[QUOTE=Jnpr30;1775812]. Is it likely that you somehow stood out in some special way? And if so, why? How would you know she is not faking it? Does she go out of her way to do you favors, such as give free extras, or even free sessions? Almost always never happens, [/QUOTE]So IF she is doing you favors or meeting with you outside with no problems request for money that MIGHT be a sign that there's more than a normal WG -client relation.
HB.
What's the age difference?
If you travel from Colombia or Peru and your luggage is reported as not having been checked already in Amsterdam or Paris, cops in jeans and plain clothes will come out of the woodwork, believe me. Customs would not check for meds coming from the US since US law is even more restrictive than German one. It's a different thing if you come from med counterfeiting countries like Thailand.
[QUOTE=Breadman;1776024]What's the age difference?[/QUOTE]As you know, in my case it is always massive!
Over the years many workers have explained to me (and I don't mean ones of whom I am a regular guest or even a guest at all) that after a while working they become relatively immune to good looks, physique etc (as long as the guest is not gross) and are affected more by kindness. In fact they tend to be dismissive of immaturity (in a guest of any age). Of course my sample is selfselecting so is only a partial picture
It all depends. Stores give out samples. A sample of wine sip, or a small chocolate or cheese piece, etc. In the hopes that customers consume a sample, like it, and buy the whole enchilada.
Are you being given a free sample, to entice you to buy the expensive product? It's for the punter to decide.
I can tell you, lots of times, I take free samples when I go to costco or some such store. Why not, it's free, and I did not make any commitment to buy any, not even a gentleman's agreement. Do I sometimes buy the product? Yes, but because the product was good, not out of obligation for having consumed the free sample.
[QUOTE=HessenBub;1775953]So IF she is doing you favors or meeting with you outside with no problems request for money that MIGHT be a sign that there's more than a normal WG -client relation.
HB.[/QUOTE]
BTW, we are talking percentages here. Is it possible a punter here or there can get lucky with a wG when they have some chemistry and connection, yes. Is it likely when you have hundreds of transactions happening on a daily basis?
[QUOTE=HessenBub;1775953]So IF she is doing you favors or meeting with you outside with no problems request for money that MIGHT be a sign that there's more than a normal WG -client relation.
HB.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Optimist;1776116]As you know, in my case it is always massive!
Over the years many workers have explained to me (and I don't mean ones of whom I am a regular guest or even a guest at all) that after a while working they become relatively immune to good looks, physique etc (as long as the guest is not gross) and are affected more by kindness. In fact they tend to be dismissive of immaturity (in a guest of any age). Of course my sample is selfselecting so is only a partial picture[/QUOTE] From all the gibberish you wrote in the post above, ONE word strikes to the heart of the issue. What word you ask? Workers. They are sex workers, not girlfriends. Romantic idea's should be left at home when dealing with women of the night (or daytime if you can't stay up past 8pm).
[QUOTE=Breadman;1776174]From all the gibberish you wrote in the post above, ONE word strikes to the heart of the issue. What word you ask? Workers. They are sex workers, not girlfriends. Romantic idea's should be left at home when dealing with women of the night (or daytime if you can't stay up past 8pm).[/QUOTE]
For the sake of clarity and civility.
I merely repeated what some workers who had no self interest have told me, gibberish or not. Yes, the key word is "workers": after all, I used it.
I have no romantic ideas, except that workers are people too, not 19th century "hands", or in current discussion, "pussies".
My previous posts didn't imply romantic ideas but the opposite: to write something relevant to anyone with romantic illusions. I wish I had kept quiet.
[QUOTE=Jnpr30;1776170]Are you being given a free sample, to entice you to buy the expensive product? It's for the punter to decide.
I can tell you, lots of times, I take free samples when I go to costco or some such store. Why not, it's free, and I did not make any commitment to buy any, not even a gentleman's agreement. Do I sometimes buy the product? Yes, but because the product was good, not out of obligation for having consumed the free sample.[/QUOTE]Exactly right. Normally it is a good business practice by a shrewd worker.
The point is to realise it, and not to develop any illusions. As you say, the punter has to decide. If it is not business practice but an emotional issue, then I prefer to do without it
By the way, the girl about whom I was talking, had recovered her equilibrium today, and brushed her reaction away with a wave of the hand, an expressive face, and a statement that she had had a brief internal confusion, of no lasting consequence. A good professional recovery
[QUOTE=Jnpr30;1776173]BTW, we are talking percentages here. Is it possible a punter here or there can get lucky with a wG when they have some chemistry and connection, yes. Is it likely when you have hundreds of transactions happening on a daily basis?[/QUOTE]Again, exactly right. In meeting hundreds of workers there will be some who can't bear a particular customer, some who like him, and a very few (maybe 1%?)who experience and then choose to develop a connection of some sort
I know one isg member who had a much higher rate, maybe 5 or 10%, and who has stopped posting because of the derision he got from other isg members. I saw for myself that he was in no way exaggerating about the workers' relationships with him