Seeking Arrangements

Even tho I am pretty good at this game I am AMAZED at where Shayla and I have gotten to. Admittedly She's a horny beast more so than any girl I've ever met. But including our little Miami trip I saw her 6 out of 7 days. And we had mad sex 5 of those six. WTF? I'm getting fucking worn out! I feel like I've been lifting in the gym. My hips and shoulders are sore!

To be fair I've been really lighting her up. I get my one or two orgasms but she's doing 5 or 6. I Am absolutely rocking her world (advantage of being old!) and so I think she's up for it so much as a result. Last couple times have been massage / lotioning her back and legs and butt and that Butt. Oh my. It's something. So I start massaging and I'm getting horny and slip a cheeky finger under to her clit and do a few circles and it's on. Slide the panties to the left. Some intense gspot fingering. Leads to BJ. Leads to unreal sex.

Going to take a bit of a breather for a few days because we've been so full on. In related news, I Even let my Seeking membership lapse. Wtf? Coming up on our year anniversary and its still epic. Never had a gf like her.

[QUOTE=Ucgdx;2772275]I would guess:

- phone number: most probable.

- credit card: not likely, as families can share credit cards (you and your brother for example). And you sign up for an account before you even add a credit card.

- address: not likely, for the same reason as above.

- name plus above: not likely that sophisticated.

- IP address: not likely because if you're using SA at work (a bad idea), your IP address would be the same as anyone else at work.

So get a free TextFree burner phone number and try making a new account with that and a new email address together.[/QUOTE]Apparently IP address does not matter. I put a different address number but same street, city and zip code for the credit card info and the charge went thru. Used a credit card that was different and put in a different first name on their pay page. Set up a Google Voice with a new, different phone number. And set up a new Google Email address. Worked this time with these changes. Thank you gentlemen!

[QUOTE=Ucgdx;2772275]I would guess:

- phone number: most probable.

- credit card: not likely, as families can share credit cards (you and your brother for example). And you sign up for an account before you even add a credit card.

- address: not likely, for the same reason as above.

- name plus above: not likely that sophisticated.

- IP address: not likely because if you're using SA at work (a bad idea), your IP address would be the same as anyone else at work.

So get a free TextFree burner phone number and try making a new account with that and a new email address together.[/QUOTE]Yes, I am bad. I even got banned from [URL]Match.com[/URL] and they own alot of other dating websites, so I am banned from all of theirs.

I've started a tradition the last few years that is a win win win. I ask my top five girls what charity they want me to donate to for them and then donate 50-100 each depending on how aligned we are. It's a real win all around. The girls love it. Makes me feel good. And the charity wins too. High recommend — even if you start small with one or two girls and lower amounts. Everyone wins.

I rarely have bad experiences on SA but had one this week. Had to share.

Was in Houston for work. Connected with this Asian chick, 22 and thin and decently cute. It was hard to get one there so I was happy to have a date.

The girl who showed up was not the girl in the photos. I mean she was, but like 40 pounds ago.

I should've guessed when she said she wanted pizza or pasta for dinner.

Figured what the hell. I've got nothing else going on tonight. Had dinner. Tried to drink a lot. Back at the hotel she got undressed and I just was not attracted in any way.

I tend to view each encounter as a risk because there are risks. Risk of disease even though I use condoms. Risk of a crazy stalker. Risk of other stuff. This was just not with the nut.

I told her I realized I'm too old for her and can't do it. She said she has no problem but I took the fictional moral high ground. Gave her half the money we agreed, about 200 dollars, just to part on good terms and because one risk I try to manage is someone complaining to Seeking and I get banned. Walked her to her car, said some nice lies like I think she's a great girl with a great future. Total lies. And then went back and sulked at my bad fortune.

Sometimes you come up snake eyes. Part of the game.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2773760]Sometimes you come up snake eyes. Part of the game.[/QUOTE]I often have mediocre or bad experiences on SA. Comes with having high standards. These days I always do a video call before meeting. I've weeded out so many girls with doctored photos or gold digger attitudes. I don't feel inclined to roll the dice anymore, although I expect some of those who pass my screening will be weak in the bedroom.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2773760]I rarely have bad experiences on SA but had one this week. Had to share.

Was in Houston for work. Connected with this Asian chick, 22 and thin and decently cute. It was hard to get one there so I was happy to have a date.

The girl who showed up was not the girl in the photos. I mean she was, but like 40 pounds ago.

I should've guessed when she said she wanted pizza or pasta for dinner.

Figured what the hell. I've got nothing else going on tonight. Had dinner. Tried to drink a lot. Back at the hotel she got undressed and I just was not attracted in any way.

I tend to view each encounter as a risk because there are risks. Risk of disease even though I use condoms. Risk of a crazy stalker. Risk of other stuff. This was just not with the nut.

I told her I realized I'm too old for her and can't do it. She said she has no problem but I took the fictional moral high ground. Gave her half the money we agreed, about 200 dollars, just to part on good terms and because one risk I try to manage is someone complaining to Seeking and I get banned. Walked her to her car, said some nice lies like I think she's a great girl with a great future. Total lies. And then went back and sulked at my bad fortune.

Sometimes you come up snake eyes. Part of the game.[/QUOTE]Instances like these firm up my belief that SA in USA is high probability of bust than a good nut.

I never hoooked up via SA in US of A and probably never will as the girls, their shenanigans, amount of time to spend as well as rate they ask for is just not worth the hassle.

Those who are working through this, ............more power to them! Nothin against anyone's game!!

Merry Christmas!

[QUOTE=TedFerguson;2773851]I often have mediocre or bad experiences on SA. Comes with having high standards. These days I always do a video call before meeting. I've weeded out so many girls with doctored photos or gold digger attitudes. I don't feel inclined to roll the dice anymore, although I expect some of those who pass my screening will be weak in the bedroom.[/QUOTE]If we exchange phone numbers then we exchange a few photos. Then complements. I tell them I will meet them for a meal, no promises. After we meet in person and feel interested I say we can talk about an arrangement. Most of the women then say they want some money up front or upon meeting. I say no. They ask what I am looking for, I say it depends on how we feel when we meet. They want to know what my range is, I say we have to meet first to see if we get that far. Its a game, back and forth. Then they say their time is valuable, I say my time is more valuable if they expect me to have more money to support them. Then one of us cancels. I have met 2 black women so far, first one had very large nose nostrils, second one looks like a street hooker. Neither one is what I am looking for. One White woman who met for a lobster dinner said she wanted $500 per meet, but that is above my limit when massage parlor girls are $200 a session.

So far nothing has landed in my fishing net that is worth keeping.

[QUOTE=MushElvii;2773903]Instances like these firm up my belief that SA in USA is high probability of bust than a good nut.

I never hoooked up via SA in US of A and probably never will as the girls, their shenanigans, amount of time to spend as well as rate they ask for is just not worth the hassle.

Those who are working through this, ............more power to them! Nothin against anyone's game!!

Merry Christmas![/QUOTE]So, I also think SA is very tough in the states, but I have decided to give it another shot. I have accomplished some goals at work and moved downtown, so that makes dating a lot easier and also a little cheaper.

I have been so successful in Mexico, it is time to get back in the wagon in the states. I have had some good results over the years. I am very happy living in San Antonio and I am in Austin a couple of days a week for work, so I have the best of both worlds San Antonio / Austin, there are lots of single available women in both cities. Even if it does not work out and I meet some cool chicks I can still go to Mexico and fuck for a weekend. I will still stay on the every other weekend in Mexico.

I have learned from my mistakes ans I will now require Video Chats, no exceptions,(time is money), this will eliminate most of the scams, maybe not all them, but it will certainly help. Good luck and Happy Holiday's.

[QUOTE=HumbleHal;2773924]If we exchange phone numbers then we exchange a few photos. Then complements. I tell them I will meet them for a meal, no promises. After we meet in person and feel interested I say we can talk about an arrangement. Most of the women then say they want some money up front or upon meeting. I say no. They ask what I am looking for, I say it depends on how we feel when we meet. They want to know what my range is, I say we have to meet first to see if we get that far. Its a game, back and forth. Then they say their time is valuable, I say my time is more valuable if they expect me to have more money to support them. Then one of us cancels. I have met 2 black women so far, first one had very large nose nostrils, second one looks like a street hooker. Neither one is what I am looking for. One White woman who met for a lobster dinner said she wanted $500 per meet, but that is above my limit when massage parlor girls are $200 a session.

So far nothing has landed in my fishing net that is worth keeping.[/QUOTE]If your budget is $200 then def stick to MP. You are not going to find a nice SA girl in the US for $200. That is beyond needle in a haystack.

If you bump to $300-400 you could have some luck but your method is handicapping you. You are basically asking a girl for an extra free date and she doesn't even know what you will pay in the end. This is a HUGE leap of faith most girls won't take. I always put sex and payment (not in those words) on the table first date. That way she knows she has a potential payout and how much. I make it clear we can both walk no harm no foul after dinner. But at that point she's gotten dressed and driven across town etc so if you have some game she's 50% of the way there. My advice would be try swapping to this method if you up the $$.

P.S. Yes white women have an inflated sense of their worth and will be much harder to come by. Fortunately for me I don't find most white women attractive. LOL. (And I don’t mean black either though. Latina and south Asian are my sweet spot with black after that and white dead last).

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2774111]If your budget is $200 then def stick to MP. You are not going to find a nice SA girl in the US for $200. That is beyond needle in a haystack.

P.S. Yes white women have an inflated sense of their worth and will be much harder to come by.[/QUOTE]Your post reminds me that I truly found a unicorn in Abby. A late 20's, hot, blue eyed blonde white chick who was hooking up with me for just $250 per meet with BBCIP! I mean just damn! We were bareback fucking from the get go for six months before she moved! I only did it because her tubes were tied. Sorry HumbleHal but I already found the needle, at least the one in that particular haystack LOL!

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2774111]I make it clear we can both walk no harm no foul after dinner.[/QUOTE]Totally. This is my tactic too. I phrase it like the risk mitigation is mutual. That if we are both feeling it we can continue but if not I'll still offer a generous arrangement just to meet for drinks. But what I'm really saying is I will part with 25 percent to see her in person and decide there. It's the fee for the trouble to get out to me, dolled up and ready, since most of the time these girls don't live in the city centers I stay in when I travel. It seems fair.

Where do you suggest staying while sugar dating in town?

Hotels. Any favorites? Or if elsewhere and suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

[QUOTE=GileAders;2774214]Where do you suggest staying while sugar dating in town?

Hotels. Any favorites? Or if elsewhere and suggestions would be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]This is a no brainer. Hotels have reception. Screw that.

Get an Airbnb in condesa Roma Polanco juarez areas. Read the reviews to make sure no doorman.

Done.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2774355]This is a no brainer. Hotels have reception. Screw that.

Get an Airbnb in condesa Roma Polanco juarez areas. Read the reviews to make sure no doorman.

Done.[/QUOTE]Airbnb works great in CDMX, great advice about a doorman. 90% of the time they do not bother you, but make sure you double check the visitor policy. I have had a couple of issues where access was denied for my visitors. Good luck.