Overthinking the situation
[quote=skip kost]my experiences have led me to a different conclusion. my one and only experience with a pick up from robinson's place mall pulled a grab and dash when i took a moment out of the in-out-in-out action to relieve myself[/quote]that sucks, similar thing happened to me with a sw in new orleans. she nabbed a watch under the same circumstances and ran for her pimps cadillac. at least the wallet and cell phone were in the room safe. joke was on her though, she ran with an imitation rolex in lieu of waiting around to be paid.
i can see your point about community. perhaps the ones at the mall have been excluded from hunting at la for exactly the behavior you experienced? i have also seen men pissing into a canal upstream of the ladies doing the laundry – sometimes the locals just don't think ahead. there is certainly nothing about their education that teaches them to think critically. i always assume that any girl is capable of giving in to temptation – which is why (if i am carrying anything valuable) i use a wall safe or put it up on a super high shelf, out of sight, if that option is available. the best solution is to use fishbowl parlors like don pedro. the girls have condoms, know the game, and i have never been ripped off (or heard of anyone being ripped off). well – i suppose lousy service counts.
[quote=skip kost]gh swears by his conquests from harrison mall, but he may well have more game and a better figurative sense of smell than i have.[/quote]with few exceptions most of the girls i have seen working harrison (the second floor girls) are hags or possible **** but admittedly i haven't put the time into it. as gh experienced, shop girls seem like a good option but take some work and i'm usually not so patient. harrison is also the only mall i have seen pimps trying to hustle girls – so i assume taking any working girl out of harrison runs the risk of being trailed by some junior mac looking for an easy mark.
as for sense of community and gfe – the key thing to remember here is the community is all about the hustle and until you have been around long enough to understand most of the tagalog you hear – realize that the system of relationships, favors, utang, and gamesmanship has a single goal; to separate you from your money. that community will very easily pair a needy, in debt, or sick girl with a generous monger so she can cover her medical (or gambling) bills, or those of her aunties sisters nieces children, or to garner a future favor from the girls network. luckily for us, the locals have completely sold themselves on the notion of romantic salvation and the concept of a white knight. the locals also see themselves as a little sister of the usa. the us is close to the filipino heart and history. they see it as strongly possible that, if they romance the guy they may be lifted from poverty and even brought to the us. if you are a decent, educated white guy – and older is ok, your odds of a true gfe go through the roof. (you have so much in common compared to anyone else in asia) the average thai girl would have a hard time finding the us on a map, whereas the locals learn more about the us then you could possibly imagine. my gf for example, can name the capital cities of more states in the us than i can. my point is, a thai will assume the guy disappears forever and therefore she has a limited window of time to extract benefit whereas the filipina can mentally map a better life for herself and family through her new benefactor.
often you'll hear a filipina say she is "contented" with her man. the real translation of that word, in terms of how it is used is a combination of settled and secure – being happy, sexually gratified, and so forth doesn't factor into the translation. she will also say she doesn't understand why a man with a pretty girl (or a good woman) is not "contented" to stay with her. culturally, it's more important to be paired and respectable, to work as partners and be a team / business. this is where the girls are unmistakably asian (vs. spanish, mexican, italian) and you see that expressed as being "practical." usually used as "i'm a good girl, but in my situation i have to be practical."
wow – i am so over-thinking this. the real question is clear – what's it worth to have the 19 year old girl of your hustler honey dreams banging you into orgasmic oblivion? back in the us i would have parted with $300.00 or more for that – but instead, the ***** stole my watch. lol no matter what the circumstances are or how clever the girls – life is still good.
So how did you spend YOUR weekend
My M. O has always been to set things up a bit in advance, it takes away the cold sweat and worry of spending an hour or two fixing up the next assignment. So, arrived in Manila and knew that within 90 minutes of getting off the plane Gal 1 would be connected to me.
Gal 1 is a cute girl I found in a massage place (clean one with litle hanky panky offered, and as she doesn't really know how to give a HJ I'm guessing she doesn't offer too many " specials". Probably wrong tho. LOL. Met and scored with her last trip. Anyways shes 20, and had delayed a trip to province to be with me. How sweet. Met in nearby mall, took her to my condo, as no time for a Sogo trip, spent two hours connected deeply to her, then took her to bus station.
Meant I wouldn't have to worry about the " can I see you again" problem.
After that went to Burgos. Found an former bargirl there who I knew. We went to eat and chat in Owzat sports bar. I asked her why shes gained weight. She replies " I only eat rice, and sometimes eat cum.". Yeah. Nice gal LOL.
Anyways left there and went to another bar to see an old friend. She comes over and is all sweet etc. Ok honey, lets have the 5 drinks and do the VIP thing. At some point I asked her how old she is as I think I've known her for 4-5 years. She tells me shes now 21. Hmmm.
Home by midnight.
Next am met a hot prospect for breakfast. 25 year old and someone Id been chatting with for about 18 months but never met. Wow. She was tiny, but bubbly and really fun and funny and the sweet kiss when I dropped her at her work place made me realise she was there for the taking.
Wandered around Cinema square buying dvds then saw a sign for a spa. With nothing else to do and hours before my next appointment thought why not. The fact the spa has a sign outside stating " sexy girls needed as masseurs, onyl 18-24 need apply " was encouraging.
After 5 minutes the masseur told me I'm handsome and funny. After ten she tells me about her fathers ailments. After 12 she tells me can give me HJ. HJ was average but ok value at P 500. Anyways its nothing special but for those who need its opposite entrance to Cinema Square near the japanese restaurants (not Fuji Spa)
Had lunch then met another repeat from previous trip. A shy student girl whos 25. Had baby, normal story. Says I'm the only foreigner shes met. Anyways she arrives in nice high heels and short skirt as Id requested. Off to Sogo, she happliy dressed in the slinky tarty negligee I got her and we had our fun.
Dropped her back in the mall and off to Burgos again.
Somehow the little tiny pocket dynamo got invited to breakfast again and again we shared many laughs. Dropped her at work then I went to work for the day.
Bout 5pm I met my regular visitor from Pampanga arrived. Sits on a bus for 4 hours to spend night with me every time I'm in town. Stayed in a Makati avenue hotel, she wore all the trashy see thru clothes id got her (gold bikini, fishnets, suspenders, oepn crotch panties etc. Yeah I'm really tasteful I know. LOL) we had lots fun as always.
Dropped her the next am at bus station, then home to sleep.
Late afternoon I met the pocket dynamo for our "date". Went for drinks, dinner, went to Strumms and few places then back to my condo. 4 ft 11 but body was small perfect and nicely toned. She also cuddled up soooo nicely all night long. Had breakfast, dropped her off and thought now what shall I do.
Well that was easily answered as Gal number 1 had endured 12 hours on bus bak from her province to see me before I left. So I dropped off the pocket dynamo. And within 30 minutes am meeting the other one.
We did the usual, and she loved the g spot vibrator. Dropped her at the mall.
Got sms from bargirl. "please please can we meet, I like you so much" and then sms from second gal Id scored with. " I like you but think you only want sex so I will not see you again". Wow. Perceptive girl.!
Then back to condo and spent 30 minutes picking up stray female hair from all over the place. Checked the car for stray female hair (yes the wife surely checks! ) checked in at airport and flew home.
Another wonderful few days in Manila. I miss it already.