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My experience with SA in USA is not so good. Girls have GPS with high expectations and bad service. (I am also in 40's and prefer girls in 25 age range with slim body).

I did get some good vibes with black girls, but these girls are too much drama and not in good shape, but willing to provide BBFS.

Specially had lot of girls available a week before Christmas as they were looking for quick money for holidays.

I thin k Canada may be better option than US. I am talking to some girls in Toronto and Montreal and it looks promising.

[QUOTE=MahaSiddha;2776786]Can you elaborate on a lot of effort?

Do you mean you have to dine and wine them before the $400 session?

If so, you had other girls just went out with you for the free meal and then did not come through?

Did you get BBFS with the two $400 girls?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Pk099;2776793]My experience with SA in USA is not so good. Girls have GPS with high expectations and bad service. (I am also in 40's and prefer girls in 25 age range with slim body).

I did get some good vibes with black girls, but these girls are too much drama and not in good shape, but willing to provide BBFS.

Specially had lot of girls available a week before Christmas as they were looking for quick money for holidays.

I thin k Canada may be better option than US. I am talking to some girls in Toronto and Montreal and it looks promising.[/QUOTE]Yeah the USA scene is going to be nothing like CDMX. Def $400 and up and other than straight up hookers. Yea prob dinner or at least drinks and BBFS is going to be a lot less likely.

I was just talking to a girl in a Midwest city. Black girl. Hottie. Nice chat. I figure let's try to get the $$ discussion behind us (on WhatsApp) and ask her what she's thinking. And she says what are you comfortable with. I normally think 400 min and 500 more likely these days. But I hear some guys get 300 so I figure I'll float that out there. 300. She says "300 is your offer including intimacy?" I guess she must have forgot the incredulous emoji because I texted back and she's ghosted me. 300 was clearly a stone cold insult to her GPS. Oh well. Next!

So I had dinner out with my kids (not exactly kids anymore) recently and we decided to go to the restaurant where Layla (on again off again SB for two years) is the hostess. She requested to be a server that night and serve my table (I agreed) and so my sorta-Ex sorta-not (we fuck from time to time) was our server. She did an amazing job and avoided any spilling of the beans. But it was kinda awesome and naughty to have this girl I've fucked at least 30 times intersect with my family. And oh btw she looked hot AF. Feels amazing to have bedded that hottie!

Only on Seeking baby!

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2776803]Yeah the USA scene is going to be nothing like CDMX. Def $400 and up and other than straight up hookers. Yea prob dinner or at least drinks and BBFS is going to be a lot less likely.

I was just talking to a girl in a Midwest city. Black girl. Hottie. Nice chat. I figure let's try to get the $$ discussion behind us (on WhatsApp) and ask her what she's thinking. And she says what are you comfortable with. I normally think 400 min and 500 more likely these days. But I hear some guys get 300 so I figure I'll float that out there. 300. She says "300 is your offer including intimacy?" I guess she must have forgot the incredulous emoji because I texted back and she's ghosted me. 300 was clearly a stone cold insult to her GPS. Oh well. Next![/QUOTE]300-400 for a black girl in the Midwest sounds right, even if she's under 25 and in great shape.

600+ for a cute white or Asian girl in SF or NYC.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2776923]So I had dinner out with my kids (not exactly kids anymore) recently and we decided to go to the restaurant where Layla (on again off again SB for two years) is the hostess. She requested to be a server that night and serve my table (I agreed) and so my sorta-Ex sorta-not (we fuck from time to time) was our server. She did an amazing job and avoided any spilling of the beans. But it was kinda awesome and naughty to have this girl I've fucked at least 30 times intersect with my family. And oh btw she looked hot AF. Feels amazing to have bedded that hottie!

Only on Seeking baby![/QUOTE]You got balls dude! That sound exciting but man talk about rolling the dice!

By a lot of effort I mean I have to send a lot more messages to get a response, and once I get a response the likelihood of closing a deal is still lower. So it's just more work all around.

I always take a girl to a nice dinner. Don't know why. Guess because I want it to feel more like a date and know the girl a bit before I plow her. Also on a few rare occasions I've backed out when I realized at dinner I didn't like the girl. The last time was when the girl showed up like 30 pounds more than her photos. I tried to drink the problem away and find something to like but she was also stupid and kind of annoying. Told her I felt guilty and wanted to let her go even tho that was a lie.

Regarding BBFS, no. That's just stupid and reckless. I imagine you already have herpes and warts if you're asking that. Or you will soon. I do not and do not plan on getting them. I love a raw dog but no I never do that with a random girl I'm paying to sleep with me. It's not a moral issue. It's because I don't want the aforementioned things attached to my penis.

[QUOTE=MahaSiddha;2776786]Can you elaborate on a lot of effort?

Do you mean you have to dine and wine them before the $400 session?

If so, you had other girls just went out with you for the free meal and then did not come through?

Did you get BBFS with the two $400 girls?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2774677]Question for you. How do I ask this delicately? Did you f**k the nostrils? With or without lube?[/QUOTE]Especially if she is on top, a person would be looking up her nostrils. No, I am not making this up. Would you fuck her nostrils? Stupid question and waste of band width for a Senior Member.

[QUOTE=Ucgdx;2776947]300-400 for a black girl in the Midwest sounds right, even if she's under 25 and in great shape.

600+ for a cute white or Asian girl in SF or NYC.[/QUOTE]600+ and you get BBFS??

With the plane tickets to CDMX and Airbnb it might end up with similar cost.

Last trip l stayed for 6 weeks in CDMX and on average 2 girls per week.

Airbnb ends up like 4 k+ usd.

[QUOTE=HumbleHal;2777137]Especially if she is on top, a person would be looking up her nostrils. No, I am not making this up. Would you fuck her nostrils? Stupid question and waste of band width for a Senior Member.[/QUOTE]Come on now. It was a joke. I didn't think anyone was actually fornicating with nasal orifices. Somehow things are more amusing when you're 3 deep in your Macallan.

But thanks for recognizing my senior status. I've earned it and I intend to lead with it in future posts.

SA banned me three times.

I used prepaid debit card which l did for my last run.

I have not bought the membership since April 2022.

Any brothers here use prepaid debit card for that and which one?

Last time l use green dot and it worked fine.

I am really concerned SA again change their rules??

Thanks for all the help.

I have arrangements in Nor Cal and So Cal (San Diego) there are many more women in San Diego by far. The price range is $200 - $600. I had a French Au Pair (I'll find her pics) that was 450 and she was the only one who wouldn't do BBFS. She did swallow me but her visa expired so she's back in France. You might have to get an UBER as most of the girls don't have cars.

I don't do dinner dates or drinks it's not for me. I always meet in public place during the day so that I can see them clearly. My experience is that BBFS is almost automatic. I always ask what things they are not comfortable with. If they want things covered they will say this.

I have noticed that most of the black girls (I am a black guy) will not do BBFS. I think in the USA you have to more discreet about how you approach women than say Mexico. Many will feel conflicted if they perceive an arrangement as purely sex for money. That's essentially what it is but I try to make it feel differently.

I think someone earlier had asked about SA in Tijuana. I don't think it's necessary since you can go to the clubs and pick the girl you want. The hottest girls work Saturday nights and I think they go to the highest bidder and regulars. When I went to Tijuana and this was over 10 years ago it was $60 for the girl and $15 for the room. The street girls $20 but the service is very basic. For the most part service in Tijuana is covered unless you can strike a deal.

Man what did you do to get banned 3 times? 3?

I buy green dots. They are not easy to find. There's a Walgreens near my house and I buy them there. They are behind the counter and it's always kind of odd when the cashier wonders (I imagine he's wondering) why I'm so picky about the Visa card I want. "No not that one it has to be that one. In the middle row at the bottom. That one."

[QUOTE=MahaSiddha;2777259]SA banned me three times.

I used prepaid debit card which l did for my last run.

I have not bought the membership since April 2022.

Any brothers here use prepaid debit card for that and which one?

Last time l use green dot and it worked fine.

I am really concerned SA again change their rules??

Thanks for all the help.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MahaSiddha;2777154]600+ and you get BBFS??

With the plane tickets to CDMX and Airbnb it might end up with similar cost.

Last trip l stayed for 6 weeks in CDMX and on average 2 girls per week.

Airbnb ends up like 4 k+ usd.[/QUOTE]BBFS is a touchy subject: some guys like it and some don't. Some girls like it and some don't. Among amateur SA girls, I've never found one that tried charging extra for it.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2777082]. I imagine you already have herpes and warts if you're asking that. Or you will soon. [/QUOTE]I wonder if he seriously doesn't see the irony in specifically calling out the things a condom can't protect you from.

[QUOTE=Parasitius;2777405]I wonder if he seriously doesn't see the irony in specifically calling out the things a condom can't protect you from.[/QUOTE]He does.

He has read the literature.

And he understands that something not being 100 percent prophylactic is not the same as being 0 percent prophylactic. And that for the herp in particular a condom is quite prophylactic for the areas covered.

And he understands that his caution has worked throughout his life despite his, and because of his, skeezy ways and he encourages others who engage in sexual acts with a rotating cast of strangers to consider exercising the same care for their own safety, because they love love love doing this. So much. And they like me want to do it as long as humanly possible.