Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

I've rarely had "ask for money on first chat" happen, and even then it was posed indirectly."I have a problem" Either you and I have a very different definition of "chatting' or your profile is attracting a certain type of gal.

As for money, I do offer taxi money. Enough to get her home and enough to get her back, and a bit more than that. That's what I say. I have had girls object.

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1185545]Really? I have met quite a few but none refused money. I never say I will pay money upfront. But I have always put some money in their purse on leaving.

Nobody has made a scene saying " what do you think I am a puta etc ".

Atleast 60% of the girls have asked me to send money for this and that on chatting first time. Some have run away when I said I never send money without meeting personally.[/QUOTE]

Damn I'm starting to think I need to see a shrink, I keep checking out damn lady boys on DIA. I see one I like open up information and sure enough another lady boy. I've never seen ladyboys that are that attractive, and I've asked to see every girls I'd that I've took back. I'm still a little worried. There's probably like 1 in 10 on DIA, and I've definetely slept with more than 10 girls in Philippines. That math makes me want to go cry in the shower. Ha ha. I think I need to get big tittied asians out of my head. I feel like I'm on a quest for the holy grail.

I wouldn't worry about it Madisonguy, if you had been with a Filipina LB you would have known it. The evidence would have been in your face.

[QUOTE=X Man; 1185557]I've rarely had "ask for money on first chat" happen, and even then it was posed indirectly."I have a problem" Either you and I have a very different definition of "chatting' or your profile is attracting a certain type of gal.

As for money, I do offer taxi money. Enough to get her home and enough to get her back, and a bit more than that. That's what I say. I have had girls object.[/QUOTE]Most girls ask for money,

1. Can you help me to buy cam for my computer? I thought if she had her own computer, she could easily afford a cam.

2. I am not online much because I am a poor girl. Can you send some money so that I can chat with you every day?

3. My tutition fees are due tomorrow. I do not have enough. Can you help me?

4. Usual excuses like my mother / father / grandmother is in the hospital.

5. I do work in the fields. I do not like it. Can you support me?

6. I am looking forward to meeting you but I do not have nice clothes. Can you send me money so that I can look sexy for you?

It is true almost 60% have asked for money either in the begining or later.

Having said that I have met pretty young girls who have made excellent company, sex and travelling GFE from DIA. Overall it is less expensive and better service than P4P girls.

I will go so far as to say Sammon is a liar. I will admit that if a profile suggests that you are a sugar daddy, you will get sugar daddy replies. Sammon seems to have an agenda, but there we go. Maybe he can give us more details about how he deals with DIA and other gals in the Filippines.

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1185645]Most girls ask for money,

1. Can you help me to buy cam for my computer? I thought if she had her own computer, she could easily afford a cam.

2. I am not online much because I am a poor girl. Can you send some money so that I can chat with you every day?

3. My tutition fees are due tomorrow. I do not have enough. Can you help me?

4. Usual excuses like my mother / father / grandmother is in the hospital.

5. I do work in the fields. I do not like it. Can you support me?

6. I am looking forward to meeting you but I do not have nice clothes. Can you send me money so that I can look sexy for you?

It is true almost 60% have asked for money either in the begining or later.

Having said that I have met pretty young girls who have made excellent company, sex and travelling GFE from DIA. Overall it is less expensive and better service than P4P girls.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=X Man;1185803]I will go so far as to say Sammon is a liar. I will admit that if a profile suggests that you are a sugar daddy, you will get sugar daddy replies. Sammon seems to have an agenda, but there we go. Maybe he can give us more details about how he deals with DIA and other gals in the Filippines.[/QUOTE]Actually X, I have had every one of those requests (problems) other than the one about working in the fields. I've also encountered the need for a wheelchair for grandma, the need for money to get work papers, and flood issues where there was clearly no flooding. As recently as yesterday I blocked a girl who was continually ass nagging me for money for a cam. Perhaps a new thread should be started on filipinas and their "problems". Such a thread ran several years ago on one of the DR boards. Could've been here. I don't remember.

Yes, I've heard a few tall tales myself. And I apologize to Sammon. I think he was overgeneralizing, but that is my judgement call and I should not have responded rudely.

I once tested a gal after one of the destructive typhoons.

X How are you?

GAL I'm fine.

Various meaningless chit chat.

X I see there was a typhoon in Philippines, were you affected?

(I could almost see the light bulb turn on in her cute little head)

GAL Yes, our house was destroyed. I don't know what to do.

[QUOTE=Slippery;1185901]Actually X, I have had every one of those requests (problems) other than the one about working in the fields. I've also encountered the need for a wheelchair for grandma, the need for money to get work papers, and flood issues where there was clearly no flooding. As recently as yesterday I blocked a girl who was continually ass nagging me for money for a cam. Perhaps a new thread should be started on filipinas and their "problems". Such a thread ran several years ago on one of the DR boards. Could've been here. I don't remember.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=X Man;1185803]I will go so far as to say Sammon is a liar. I will admit that if a profile suggests that you are a sugar daddy, you will get sugar daddy replies. Sammon seems to have an agenda, but there we go. Maybe he can give us more details about how he deals with DIA and other gals in the Filippines.[/QUOTE]The agenda of all mongers searching DIA is to meet non-pro girls for romance and sometimes more. Some girls like you on cam and some run away. The ones who show interest and want to meet, I chat more.

Yes, I have sent money to them for buying tickets to meet me in Manila. So far only one girl failed to show up. Once you meet it depends on the chemistry to like each other. Ofcourse I have never failed to.

Give them enough money. I do not want to just give them just a few pesos. I do not want free sex knowing these girls really need the money.

But the bulk of the money is given only after meeting.

Yes, really. Of course I always give them some money before they go (and or go to dinner) but they've never requested.

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1185545]Really? I have met quite a few but none refused money. I never say I will pay money upfront. But I have always put some money in their purse on leaving.

Nobody has made a scene saying " what do you think I am a puta etc ".

Atleast 60% of the girls have asked me to send money for this and that on chatting first time. Some have run away when I said I never send money without meeting personally.[/QUOTE]

"never requested". Well, I diagree with that too! Surely you've met some Golddiggers D cups. My sore point with Sammon was when he said "most girls ask for money". That just isn't my experience. Most do not. Maybe S meant most WANT money, or was just overgeneralizing about some of the chat tricksters, or something else. Again, I apologize to S for being a twit.

I always compensate somehow as well. Taxi money, or "buy a gift for you child", or whatever. One gal, very honest, says,"I took a jeepney and I will go home by jeepney."

My reply,"But it took so long for you to come here (they are almost always late) , next time just take a taxi. Use this money." The next day I had an unexpected no show, sent a text, and taxi money gal was on time, and with me for the next 15 hours or so. Money well spent. She got more taxi money.

I'm not exactly sure what D cups means by "go to dinner", but if you know a gal has a good income, is mid class, or otherwise has money, you are best off just paying for expenses. Such as "going to dinner". They will let you do this, bless their hearts. I had one gal. 30s, professionally employed, leave me in her bed to go to work and instructed the maid to cook me breakfast, and the driver to take me to the airport. The maid was really cute, but shy. I wish that would happen more often. X.

[QUOTE=D Cups;1186088]Yes, really. Of course I always give them some money before they go (and or go to dinner) but they've never requested.[/QUOTE]

Hi there I'm newbie from Manila.

I'm only 21yro and kind and sweet lady.

Every person is unique. All people are different have bad and good.

Thank you & take care.

Have a wonderfulday. From Sweetgirl manila.

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1186073]The agenda of all mongers searching DIA is to meet non-pro girls for romance and sometimes more. Some girls like you on cam and some run away. The ones who show interest and want to meet, I chat more.

Yes, I have sent money to them for buying tickets to meet me in Manila. So far only one girl failed to show up. Once you meet it depends on the chemistry to like each other. Ofcourse I have never failed to.

Give them enough money. I do not want to just give them just a few pesos. I do not want free sex knowing these girls really need the money.

But the bulk of the money is given only after meeting.[/QUOTE]

However not most girls ask for money. I never give money in advance, but only after we finish our date or meeting.

If too many girls are asking for money, then maybe you are showing yourself as a wealthy person more than a person who wants love. Are you giving girls that vibe? When I actually meet the girls then they often don't mention money until the end.

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1185645]Most girls ask for money,

1. Can you help me to buy cam for my computer? I thought if she had her own computer, she could easily afford a cam.

2. I am not online much because I am a poor girl. Can you send some money so that I can chat with you every day?

3. My tutition fees are due tomorrow. I do not have enough. Can you help me?

4. Usual excuses like my mother / father / grandmother is in the hospital.

5. I do work in the fields. I do not like it. Can you support me?

6. I am looking forward to meeting you but I do not have nice clothes. Can you send me money so that I can look sexy for you?

It is true almost 60% have asked for money either in the begining or later.

Having said that I have met pretty young girls who have made excellent company, sex and travelling GFE from DIA. Overall it is less expensive and better service than P4P girls.[/QUOTE]

It took me 30 minutes to get pussy if I wanted on DIA.

[QUOTE=Frenzy3; 1183078]Nearly every girl I p4p has a dia profile. I let them use my computers after we sex I see they use fb dia and tagged some stay all day so I get to see what they do. Often if they are good I ask for thier fb. I have had girls texing dia guys saying they are at the mall when they are at my house in no rush to move on some girls will stop replying text while they are in my house (I tell them they can). Dia is just a escort site to most pina. It is a biz to them. The guys who boast they get free casual sex are making it so these girls stop working as they find other ways to make money they ask ne to find a bf for them as they want full time. There are girls working dia who will marry as it better for them to have a full time rather than casual.

Also Pino guys help the wife / gf setup dia I know guys who do. The girls tell you what you want as they just need cash.

I like dia but it takes alot of tine to get pussy. I only use it to find 30 kg. I use fb more as I get better results for my time.[/QUOTE]

If this has been covered before, please excuse the repetition.

I do not have time to search this now.

Here are some generalizations I have found from Filipinas on DIA.

Curious to know if you agree, disagree and what generalizations you have

Made independent of mine and your interpretations of what you have found.

1) A large percentage lie in chat. Same for their profiles. When you call.

Them on their lies they make some excuse-I used to live there, someone.

Posted that for me, I had a job, now not, I am single because I am separated now,

Etc. Etc.

2) Most Filipinas have passive aggressive personalities-they fein like.

They don't hear or don't understand your questions because they simply don't want

To answer. If you ask them to do something they say they will then they don't.

They make promises they do not keep. Most are unreliable and untrustworthy.

In that respect.

3) most have stories designed to cover up things they don't want you.

To know about or that put them in a bad light.

4) they are bullshit artists, very good at trying to pull the wool over.

Your eyes.

5) the fein how much they love you, understand you, respect you, etc.

They are attempting to try to establish a bond that you will not walk away.

From. Very manipulative. They are not real. They do not respond

Spontaneously, but almost like from a script. In fact I often wonder

If they are working some boilerplate operation under guidance from

Stupidvisors.

6) they are almost uniformly JEALOUS more so than most American cunts.

7) they take FOREVER to do things, including typing. Their English is usually substandard, sometimes terribly so. Most cannot carry an intelligent conversation.

As you can see, I am not just looking for a f*ck buddy.

There are many more, but this is just a few off the top of my head.

After years of chatting, I have yet to find one Filipina who is totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying. I guess my expectations are too high. Hard to justify spending all that money if looking for a mate to fly to the RP for the likes of those you find on DIA.

I really don't know what the solution is to finding a good woman. It may.

Not be possible on DIA. Sad because I like the way the site is set up.