A Senior's Experience in BKK
So many debates and so many questions in my PM's and the Bangkok thread, I thought I would put together my take as a kind of newbie guide for mongers on where and how to find girls in BKK.
With the digital world taking over and the ladies continually glued to their phones, there is no doubt that it is the best place to find P4 P. I will start with Craig's List. CL no longer has their traditional categories for mongering. The providers are now posting in the beauty section, services section and any other section for that matter. This is my least favorite option as there is a lot bullshit to weed through and the ladies are less than reliable. I personally prefer We Chat, Badoo, Thai Friendly, Bee Talk, Scout / Meet Me, Thai Joop, Facebook, and Tinder. WE Chat is quite easy as everything is out in the open but watch out for ladyboys. The ladies all post very clearly what their intentions are. It is the other sites that are a little more challenging. All of them offer free options and paid options to enhance the experience. For the sake of this post, I will use Thai Friendly as the example as it is the most popular and widely discussed on this board and is the only one that is worth paying for. I even have a secret trick on how to get their premium service for free. First, I will clear up all the misconceptions for everyone. Regular members can message once every 10 minutes but if the girl is too popular, free accounts cannot message her. The premium account comes with unlimited massaging to all members with no waiting time between sent messages and your messages are put at the top of the lady's inbox. You can also hide things like your online status and Joined date. These are valuable tools. Well worth the 699 baht per month. For all you skeptics, any decent looking lady gets thousands of messages each day. If you don't believe me, ask the next girl you chat with. She will tell you she just can't reply to everyone so having your message go to the top of her inbox, is an excellent advantage over being a free member. The BKK section is about 50% normal girls and 50% P4 P, don't talk with me about Pattaya as this is not the Pattaya thread. However, it is not easy to unlock 100% of the P4 P ladies. Some only do it part time and some are selective. For the hottest girls, search 18-24 year old. From there, send a message saying " Do you want to make money?" With this proven method, you will score. The university girls looking for a quick tuition fix are your targets. They will offer the best GFE with mostly no mention of a condom. You can get them for 3-4 K baht for the night, LT. This is strictly P4 P guys. I have other methods I use to find the good ladies for short or long time girlfriends. Finally, mongers get so obsessed with Line. Line is not any magical way into a Thai girl's pants. It is just heir preferred method of contact because it is cheap. More on this later.
Next, freelancers and the bar scene. I frequent Insanity, Mixx, Levels, and Spasso. Climax used to be the go to place but it is still closed and will hopefully open again in the new Year. Insanity, relocated to Soi 11 is the best bet for reasonable rates and decent quality. 2,500-3000 baht will get you ST or LT depending on the lady. Mixx and Levels commands a higher level of quality with the girls dressed to kill and asking 3-4 K for ST and 5-6 K for LT. Then Spasso where the ladies ask the same but normally only for ST. There you will find older and more polished ladies as well as some non-Thai girls. As for Thermae, It mainly appeals to the Japanese crowd if that's your thing, please know It is hit and miss for most farangs. 2000-3000ST is the average. Never pay first under any circumstances! No matter what. Even if the lady says she will fuck you a thousand ways with no condom, lets you fuck her in the ass, and agrees to stay with you for 12 hours. Even if she agrees to let you film it all. As soon as you pay first, you lose all control.
Next, massage shops. I choose Tulip for the hands down best PSE experience. Every time I get multiple pops of pure porn star action with BBFS, CIP, and CIM action. The price list is simple.
1,900 baht for 1 hour, 2,100 baht for 90 minutes, and 2,300 baht for 2 hours. I never pay upfront. This is the same for Snow White. However, I always get BBFS there but CIP only 50% of the time. The SW girls are genuinely better looking than the girls at Tulip. I am not a fan of A+ but it is always available. When I am looking for the kind of Thai girls who normally go with Asians, I go to Merci on Ratchada. The non-inflated rates are as follows:
Code Type Price Time.
And xxx 1800 1 hour 30 minutes.
V xxx 2000 1 hour 30 minutes.
S xxx 2800 1 hour 30 minutes.
Are xxx 3300 1 hour 30 minutes.
M xxx 3800 1 hour 30 minutes.
L xxx 4800 1 hour 30 minutes.
XL xxx 5800 1 hour 30 minutes.
The farang surcharge is 500 baht. I can speak some Thai so I avoid that. The ladies have a whiter complexion and normally appeal to the Chinese and Thai customers. I always get BBBJ but sex is always covered. You will need to pay first here every time.
Go go bars and bars with bar fines. In Soi Cowboy, first CH. The bar fine for me has always been 7-800 Baht and I love this place for the nude dancing. However, there is a constant pressure to buy LDs which may not appeal to some of the stingier members. Beware of this LD hustle as you may buy a few while the lady has another customer lined up for a bar fine. I always choose my girl and then negotiate the bar fine first. Then I pay the bar fine and sit and relax with the girl and drink. I often go ST for 3000 to the ST room at the end of the soi or LT to my condo for 4-5 K baht depending on the girl's rates. Keep in mind, I mostly never discuss rates with the girls and give them these prices as they are the going rates and fair. Additionally, I almost always get what I want such as BBFS or CIM. I think a lot of that has to do with my easy going attitude. While drinking before we go, she can then have as many LDs as she wants. Keep note, with the many complaints of bill padding, the bar now asks you to sign every bill as you order and drink. 80% of the time, I have a good experience Now onto Sharks. I don't need to be so strict with the LDs and bar fine here as I have never bought LDs and then been refused a bar fine here. The bar fine is 1000-1500 for the coyotes and 800 for the normal girls. Often the coyotes are less attractive for some reason. They have topless dancing sometimes. I also pay the same rates for LT and ST and almost never discuss them with the lady. I just pay after the deed is done. This may not work for everyone, especially for the Cheap Charlies but it is what I believe the reason is for my success at a true GFE. My go to places in Nana are Butterflies and Billboard. I mostly follow the same rules here. Billboard being the one where I refuse to buy LDs for any girl until after I have paid my bar fine. As for the bars, I like to go to many of the small bars on Soi 4, Morning Night and the many Hillaries. Bar fines are about 500 baht and you can sometimes find a diamond in the ruff at these places. 80% of the time, I drank with the girls, then paid their bar fine, and took them for ST or LT and got a real GFE with BBFS and CIP. I always pay 3000ST and 4000 LT. Again, never pay first under any circumstances! No matter what. Even if the lady says she will fuck you a thousand ways with no condom, lets you fuck her in the ass, and agrees to stay with you for 12 hours. Even if she agrees to let you film it all. As soon as you pay first, you lose all control.
Foreign working girls. If anyone knows me, they know I love Viet women. I find them on WE chat and the VN equivalent of Line, Zalo. Start your search using the people nearby function on Lower Sukhumvit. You will find them for 3000ST during the day which is a bargain compared to what they ask in the bars. However, the experience will vary and mostly depends on YMMV. They are aggressive and hungry for money so they will say anything to get you in their bed and most will ask you to pay first. Use your best judgement but keep this mind: Never ever ever ever pay upfront under any circumstances! No matter what. Even if the lady says she will fuck you a thousand ways with no condom, lets you fuck her in the ass, and agrees to stay with you for 12 hours. Even if she agrees to let you film it all. As soon as you pay first, you lose all control. The Africans are sticking to Tinder these days but they are slowly being driven out by the new immigration crackdown. I would advise against hiring any of them while the spotlight is on their race.
Moving to escort agencies. I only use Smooci and only when I am too lazy to go out. I love Smooci because of the convenience factor as well as the rates are well below the rates for the same girl from their home agency. The customer service by them is also top notch. Their premium service is well worth the money for tourists or occasional visits but if you are a local expat, I would advise against it. Travellers can use the reviews and comments and verified photos to save time and ensure themselves a better chance of a good experience. Local expats like myself don't require that as we can afford to have the odd bad experience because we have all the time in the world. Premium members can book for 1 hour while no members must book 2 hours at a minimum. Please keep in mind that whatever age you see for the girl on smooci, add 5 years to it and then you will maybe still be under her real age. Very few post their actual age and untouched photos. Also the girls can review you just as you can review them. Keep that in mind when posting a nasty review. There are ways you can complain by posting a negative review without offending the ladies. Prices range from 2,700 up to 12,000 baht. These days there are many more independents there and the selection of ladies is improving daily. Pay attention as some areas will incur a travel surcharge. Please pay attention to the page after you select your address for this. You must always pay first.
Finally, the local scene. For this, I use various sideline websites, Bee talk, The Pimp and the Saphan Kwai bar area. This takes some Thai language skills and some patience. Bee talk has the sideline girls under the radar section but be careful what you say as bee talk will ban you for soliciting sex. You and the lady must talk in a general way and try to move the conversation to another method. You can generally get ST for 2000 baht and up depending on the girl. Sideline websites such fin fan fan are hit and miss as most ladies will ignore farngs. Be polite but it is a crap shoot. Most encounters will happen in ST rooms that the girl will rent for the entire day to entertain clients or you will need to meet the girl at a local hotel of her choosing. This will be a completely different experience as the ladies will be dick scared and shy because of not speaking English. Service level will be a crap shoot but generally cheaper than what we as expats normally pay. The Pimp is a gentlemen's club in the Town in Town area of BKK. It caters to mostly older married Thai men with money who like to step out on their wives. If you are a cheap Charlie, this is not the place for you. However, the ladies are all white skinned, clinically beautiful and sexy. You can choose a membership which includes sets of bottles or you can buy a ala carte one for 4000 baht if you don't want to be a member. They often have great promotions for non- members. Be sure to go with a group of friends to share the costs. As for the ladies, you pay a fee of 1000-2000 baht for the first hour. This depends on the category of the lady. She will drink with you for that hour, wipe your ass for you when you go to the toilet, feed you snacks, dance with you, let you grope her, kiss you, feel you up, jack you over your pants, but she won't openly go with you outside for sex. Every additional hour is 500 baht. If you want a girl to go with you, you must discreetly discuss it during your time together. If she agrees, it will be a minimum of 6000ST but probably more. I have paid 6 K and as high as 10 K for ST. They are used to old Thai men with money so the sex will be hit and miss but you can know that you will be fucking a real stunner. Not all will be starfishes either. Next is Saphan Kwai. It is the go go bar area for the local Thai men. T-det is the name of the best bar there. The girls often dance on stripper poles and then come around to drink with customers. There is a very small fee to have a lady sit and drink with and the beer is cheap. There are no lady drinks and the bar really pushes you to order food for you and your chosen companion. Here, there is no bar fine. The shirt time rate is 1,500 baht for Thais and 2500 for farang. I normally pay 2000 as I am a regular. You will need to take the lady across the street to the hotel and the hotel is often included in the price you pay the bar. I often will also pay 2,500 and take the girl to my condo close by. You can get topless lap dances for 100 baht. For the local scene, paying upfront is the norm. If you don't want to pay first, don't take the chance and don't go swim with the local fish. All experiences are YMMV and Thai language skills will get you far. A good change of scenery.
About the Line App. Guys, Line is not a mythical and magical way into a Thai girls pants. It is just their preferred method of contact because it is cheap. The people nearby search function is not available if you have your line account downloaded from another country where that feature is not available. Thailand is one of those places where it is not available. However, if you come from a country such as the USA where it is available, you can use it in Thailand but there will be no Thai girls there. If there are some, they probably are visiting from another country or for whatever reason, their Apple ID or google Play store account are not from Thailand. So, to be clear, this search function is not available in Thailand!
This is just my personal experience in Bangkok and it may not be the same as others. However, I have been very successful at achieving my mongering goals. Don't get me wrong though. I have made my share of mistakes too. The best way to prevent those is to RTFF. That's what it is here for. So the Seniors such as myself can make them for you and then post about them. Look at FL Hawk. He makes plenty of mistakes and he posts them so everyone else can learn from them.
***** Please stop sending me PMs asking for contact details for ladies. I will never share them with anyone unless I personally know you and we have mongered together.
A Senior's Experience in BKK
So many debates and so many questions in my PMs and the Bangkok thread, I thought I would put together my take as a kind of newbie guide for mongers on where and how to find girls in BKK.
With the digital world taking over and the ladies continually glued to their phones, there is no doubt that it is the best place to find P4P. I will start with Craigs List. CL no longer has their traditional categories for mongering. The providers are now posting in the beauty section, services section and any other section for that matter. This is my least favorite option as there is a lot bullshit to weed through and the ladies are less than reliable. I personally prefer We Chat, Badoo, Thai Friendly, Bee Talk, Scout/Meet Me, Thai Joop, Facebook, and Tinder. WE Chat is quite easy as everything is out in the open but watch out for ladyboys. The ladies all post very clearly what their intentions are. It is the other sites that are a little more challenging. All of them offer free options and paid options to enhance the experience. For the sake of this post, I will use Thai Friendly as the example as it is the most popular and widely discussed on this board and is the only one that is worth paying for. I even have a secret trick on how to get their premium service for free. First, I will clear up all the misconceptions for everyone. Regular members can message once every 10 minutes but if the girl is too popular, free accounts cannot message her. The premium account comes with unlimited massaging to all members with no waiting time between sent messages and your messages are put at the top of the ladys inbox. You can also hide things like your online status and Joined date. These are valuable tools. Well worth the 699 baht per month. For all you skeptics, any decent looking lady gets thousands of messages each day. If you dont believe me, ask the next girl you chat with. She will tell you she just cant reply to everyone so having your message go to the top of her inbox, is an excellent advantage over being a free member. The BKK section is about 50% normal girls and 50% P4P, dont talk with me about Pattaya as this is not the Pattaya thread. However, it is not easy to unlock 100% of the P4P ladies. Some only do it part time and some are selective. For the hottest girls, search 18-24 year old. From there, send a message saying Do you want to make money? With this proven method, you will score. The university girls looking for a quick tuition fix are your targets. They will offer the best GFE with mostly no mention of a condom. You can get them for 3-4K baht for the night, LT. This is strictly P4P guys. I have other methods I use to find the good ladies for short or long time girlfriends. Finally, mongers get so obsessed with Line. Line is not any magical way into a Thai girls pants. It is just heir preferred method of contact because it is cheap. More on this later.
Next, freelancers and the bar scene. I frequent Insanity, Mixx, Levels, and Spasso. Climax used to be the go to place but it is still closed and will hopefully open again in the new Year. Insanity, relocated to Soi 11 is the best bet for reasonable rates and decent quality. 2,500-3000 baht will get you ST or LT depending on the lady. Mixx and Levels commands a higher level of quality with the girls dressed to kill and asking 3-4K for ST and 5-6K for LT. Then Spasso where the ladies ask the same but normally only for ST. There you will find older and more polished ladies as well as some non-Thai girls. As for Thermae, It mainly appeals to the Japanese crowd if thats your thing, please know It is hit and miss for most farangs. 2000-3000ST is the average. Never pay first under any circumstances! No matter what. Even if the lady says she will fuck you a thousand ways with no condom, lets you fuck her in the ass, and agrees to stay with you for 12 hours. Even if she agrees to let you film it all. As soon as you pay first, you lose all control.
Next, massage shops. I choose Tulip for the hands down best PSE experience. Every time I get multiple pops of pure porn star action with BBFS, CIP, and CIM action. The price list is simple.
1,900 baht for 1 hour, 2,100 baht for 90 minutes, and 2,300 baht for 2 hours. I never pay upfront. This is the same for Snow White. However, I always get BBFS there but CIP only 50% of the time. The SW girls are genuinely better looking than the girls at Tulip. I am not a fan of A+ but it is always available. When I am looking for the kind of Thai girls who normally go with Asians, I go to Merci on Ratchada. The non-inflated rates are as follows:
Code Type Price Time
N xxx 1800 1 hour 30 minutes.
V xxx 2000 1 hour 30 minutes.
S xxx 2800 1 hour 30 minutes.
R xxx 3300 1 hour 30 minutes.
M xxx 3800 1 hour 30 minutes.
L xxx 4800 1 hour 30 minutes.
XL xxx 5800 1 hour 30 minutes.
The farang surcharge is 500 baht. I can speak some Thai so I avoid that. The ladies have a whiter complexion and normally appeal to the Chinese and Thai customers. I always get BBBJ but sex is always covered. You will need to pay first here every time.
Go go bars and bars with bar fines. In Soi Cowboy, first CH. The bar fine for me has always been 7-800 Baht and I love this place for the nude dancing. However, there is a constant pressure to buy LDs which may not appeal to some of the stingier members. Beware of this LD hustle as you may buy a few while the lady has another customer lined up for a bar fine. I always choose my girl and then negotiate the bar fine first. Then I pay the bar fine and sit and relax with the girl and drink. I often go ST for 3000 to the ST room at the end of the soi or LT to my condo for 4-5K baht depending on the girls rates. Keep in mind, I mostly never discuss rates with the girls and give them these prices as they are the going rates and fair. Additionally, I almost always get what I want such as BBFS or CIM. I think a lot of that has to do with my easy going attitude. While drinking before we go, she can then have as many LDs as she wants. Keep note, with the many complaints of bill padding, the bar now asks you to sign every bill as you order and drink. 80% of the time, I have a good experience Now onto Sharks. I dont need to be so strict with the LDs and bar fine here as I have never bought LDs and then been refused a bar fine here. The bar fine is 1000-1500 for the coyotes and 800 for the normal girls. Often the coyotes are less attractive for some reason. They have topless dancing sometimes. I also pay the same rates for LT and ST and almost never discuss them with the lady. I just pay after the deed is done. This may not work for everyone, especially for the Cheap Charlies but it is what I believe the reason is for my success at a true GFE. My go to places in Nana are Butterflies and Billboard. I mostly follow the same rules here. Billboard being the one where I refuse to buy LDs for any girl until after I have paid my bar fine. As for the bars, I like to go to many of the small bars on Soi 4, Morning Night and the many Hillaries. Bar fines are about 500 baht and you can sometimes find a diamond in the ruff at these places. 80% of the time, I drank with the girls, then paid their bar fine, and took them for ST or LT and got a real GFE with BBFS and CIP. I always pay 3000 ST and 4000 LT. Again, never pay first under any circumstances! No matter what. Even if the lady says she will fuck you a thousand ways with no condom, lets you fuck her in the ass, and agrees to stay with you for 12 hours. Even if she agrees to let you film it all. As soon as you pay first, you lose all control.
Foreign working girls. If anyone knows me, they know I love Viet women. I find them on WE chat and the VN equivalent of Line, Zalo. Start your search using the people nearby function on Lower Sukhumvit. You will find them for 3000 ST during the day which is a bargain compared to what they ask in the bars. However, the experience will vary and mostly depends on YMMV. They are aggressive and hungry for money so they will say anything to get you in their bed and most will ask you to pay first. Use your best judgement but keep this mind: Never ever ever ever pay upfront under any circumstances! No matter what. Even if the lady says she will fuck you a thousand ways with no condom, lets you fuck her in the ass, and agrees to stay with you for 12 hours. Even if she agrees to let you film it all. As soon as you pay first, you lose all control. The Africans are sticking to Tinder these days but they are slowly being driven out by the new immigration crackdown. I would advise against hiring any of them while the spotlight is on their race.
Moving to escort agencies. I only use Smooci and only when I am too lazy to go out. I love Smooci because of the convenience factor as well as the rates are well below the rates for the same girl from their home agency. The customer service by them is also top notch. Their premium service is well worth the money for tourists or occasional visits but if you are a local expat, I would advise against it. Travellers can use the reviews and comments and verified photos to save time and ensure themselves a better chance of a good experience. Local expats like myself dont require that as we can afford to have the odd bad experience because we have all the time in the world. Premium members can book for 1 hour while non members must book 2 hours at a minimum. Please keep in mind that whatever age you see for the girl on smooci, add 5 years to it and then you will maybe still be under her real age. Very few post their actual age and untouched photos. Also the girls can review you just as you can review them. Keep that in mind when posting a nasty review. There are ways you can complain by posting a negative review without offending the ladies. Prices range from 2,700 up to 12,000 baht. These days there are many more independents there and the selection of ladies is improving daily. Pay attention as some areas will incur a travel surcharge. Please pay attention to the page after you select your address for this. You must always pay first.
Finally, the local scene. For this, I use various sideline websites, Bee talk, The Pimp and the Saphan Kwai bar area. This takes some Thai language skills and some patience. Bee talk has the sideline girls under the radar section but be careful what you say as bee talk will ban you for soliciting sex. You and the lady must talk in a general way and try to move the conversation to another method. You can generally get ST for 2000 baht and up depending on the girl. Sideline websites such fin fan fan are hit and miss as most ladies will ignore farngs. Be polite but it is a crap shoot. Most encounters will happen in ST rooms that the girl will rent for the entire day to entertain clients or you will need to meet the girl at a local hotel of her choosing. This will be a completely different experience as the ladies will be dick scared and shy because of not speaking English. Service level will be a crap shoot but generally cheaper than what we as expats normally pay. The Pimp is a gentlemens club in the Town in Town area of BKK. It caters to mostly older married Thai men with money who like to step out on their wives. If you are a cheap Charlie, this is not the place for you. However, the ladies are all white skinned, clinically beautiful and sexy. You can choose a membership which includes sets of bottles or you can buy a ala carte one for 4000 baht if you dont want to be a member. They often have great promotions for non- members. Be sure to go with a group of friends to share the costs. As for the ladies, you pay a fee of 1000-2000 baht for the first hour. This depends on the category of the lady. She will drink with you for that hour, wipe your ass for you when you go to the toilet, feed you snacks, dance with you, let you grope her, kiss you, feel you up, jack you over your pants, but she wont openly go with you outside for sex. Every additional hour is 500 baht. If you want a girl to go with you, you must discreetly discuss it during your time together. If she agrees, it will be a minimum of 6000 ST but probably more. I have paid 6K and as high as 10K for ST. They are used to old Thai men with money so the sex will be hit and miss but you can know that you will be fucking a real stunner. Not all will be starfishes either. Next is Saphan Kwai. It is the go go bar area for the local Thai men. T-det is the name of the best bar there. The girls often dance on stripper poles and then come around to drink with customers. There is a very small fee to have a lady sit and drink with and the beer is cheap. There are no lady drinks and the bar really pushes you to order food for you and your chosen companion. Here, there is no bar fine. The shirt time rate is 1,500 baht for Thais and 2500 for farang. I normally pay 2000 as I am a regular. You will need to take the lady across the street to the hotel and the hotel is often included in the price you pay the bar. I often will also pay 2,500 and take the girl to my condo close by. You can get topless lap dances for 100 baht. For the local scene, paying upfront is the norm. If you dont want to pay first, dont take the chance and dont go swim with the local fish. All experiences are YMMV and Thai language skills will get you far. A good change of scenery.
About the Line App. Guys, Line is not a mythical and magical way into a Thai girls pants. It is just their preferred method of contact because it is cheap. The people nearby search function is not available if you have your line account downloaded from another country where that feature is not available. Thailand is one of those places where it is not available. However, if you come from a country such as the USA where it is available, you can use it in Thailand but there will be no Thai girls there. If there are some, they probably are visiting from another country or for whatever reason, their Apple ID or google Play store account are not from Thailand. So, to be clear, this search function is not available in Thailand!!!!
This is just my personal experience in Bangkok and it may not be the same as others. However, I have been very successful at achieving my mongering goals. Dont get me wrong though. I have made my share of mistakes too. The best way to prevent those is to RTFF. Thats what it is here for. So the Seniors such as myself can make them for you and then post about them. Look at FL Hawk. He makes plenty of mistakes and he posts them so everyone else can learn from them.
***** Please stop sending me PMs asking for contact details for ladies. I will never share them with anyone unless I personally know you and we have mongered together.
