Well, actually he would bang Micki Free from Shalamar as long as there was a pair bolted on. :D
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Well, actually he would bang Micki Free from Shalamar as long as there was a pair bolted on. :D
[QUOTE=Radoboy; 1187815]I will bow down to the experts here, but I'm pretty sure this big sulk is well documented and there is even a word for it in Tagalog."Tampo"
Google Tampo and Filipina big sulk and you can read a lot more.
It seems to be cause by you breaking some minor and unwritten "rule" and sounds childish, which is exactly the level the culture operates on IMHO.
The "cure" for Tampo is an equally childish response. Apologise profusely for hurting her (even though it is a mystery) Buy her a fluffy toy or flowers. Cute / sweet is important Forget Jewels. Waste of $.
Soon your bunny will be back. Perhaps instantly. You may even learn what you crime was. If you do discover what is your crime do NOT debate the issue or try to use logic. Simply agree look sad and give her another toy.
Based on limited experience and some reading this is my interpretation. Any expert advice out there?[/QUOTE]Tampo may be triggered by refusal to buy her the latest iPhone, designer handbag or funding the latest bail out package for relatives.
Tampo can be triggered by almost anything. It's occurrences are unpredictable and so is the duration. I've not had to cope with it often, and certainly not for several years, but an effective means of dealing with it I've found, is to simply ignore it. Don't get angry, don't walk out or scream; simply don't react at all. This provides tangible evidence to the lady that the tactic doesn't work, and what doesn't work usually gets discarded pretty quickly.
GE
To "D", and his pursuit of form:
Headlights, bazooms, big'uns, over-the-shoulder boulders, sweater puppies, headlights, bongos, melons, cupcakes, casabas, the twin peaks, golden arches, warheads, jawbreakers, hushpuppies, parabolas, hubcaps, nosecones, hooters, pointer sisters, nectarines, snuggle pups, nippeloons, milk jugs, dueling banjos, bikini stuffers, fog lights, cantaloups, hand warmers, ICBM's, orbs, teats, sugar plums, and zeppelins. I'm sure I missed some.
Go 'D'!
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[QUOTE=D Cups;1188635]Sorry about the multiple shots, guys, but you can never have enough B (.) (.) BS! By the way, there is no silicone in these, guys[/QUOTE]Fucking Grand as hell! Please show these puppies! Where did you find her!
Aggghhhhegggg I am grabbing my shit now!
[QUOTE=GregLondon;1186676]If you have been in the game for a few years now you really should have realised that Philippines is simply not the place to find a woman who is "totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying." if you are looking to impress your office mates (other than physically). IN my experience you have a much better chance of meeting such a woman in China but you would probably have to accept a smaller age gap than is possible in the Phils.[/QUOTE]It's very interesting to me that almost all the replies essentially agreed with my observations. I think I would have a much more hostile response had I posted my op in the "living in the Philippines" forum.
I think my observations may be more specific to the class of women you find on DIA. I imagine that higher class ladies who do not participate in such sites might be different, but I don't really know since I meet so few and talk to even less educated and professional women on DIA. As I have said in other posts these educated, higher class types typically, in my experience tend to be much more like western women. My take on this is you cannot have your cake and eat it also. If you want eager women who pretend to be submissive then you have to take the typical fare on DIA. If you can tolerate the feminist types, independent and not very generous emotionally, then you go for the career types found
Mostly elsewhere.
What I surmise is driving Filipina friendliness towards foreigners is the difference in incomes and their need to get out of that backwards country which is especially bad for women I think. It must also be hard on men. In all the photos I have received where Filipino men appear most all appear to be on the edge of homicidal attack, very hostile and angry looks on their faces. Also, the womens' frequent complaints about how Filipino guys are all drunks, unfaiithful and irresponsible. The backwards, impoverished nature of the Country leads to these kinds of stresses I am guessing, yet they manage to value their families in contrast to American culture.
I admit I am confused by alot of this and not really certain of my interpretations.
As far as finding ladies in China, I have heard from several sources that Chinese women are better for mates, but they are not nearly as eager to accomodate foreigners in chat.
In fact it's not easy getting them to chat regularily. I had one I was chatting with but made the mistake of pressing her on the circumstances of her last break up to which she finally admitted her ex-be / f gave her the clap, which kind of put a damper on her enthusiasm after that, haha. Did not matter to me, those things happen.
YOu cannot beat the giving nature of the Filipina ladies on DIA, most of them. They are charmers, no doubt about that. What's rare to find is a charmer who is also capable of more than cooking, cleaning and spreading her legs. Again maybe trying to find incompatible characteristics in the same person. I had a woman once who I am sad I gave up who was both capable, feminine and giving, and so I know it is POSSIBLE. I have yet to meet her equivalent since, and that was 10 years ago.
[QUOTE=Westcoast1;1187992]The problem is, filipinas are no more poor than surrounding asian countries, yet such a large percentage of them do the wild things so easily, that it makes them look bad. My dating site contacts (pinay) often: offer cam shows, agree to travel with me or sleep with me, or ask money in the first 2 or 3 chats. I meet local girls in filipines (non dating site contacts) who do pretty much same. I run into much less of that anywhere else. The girls who interact with mongers come from the bottom of the barrel in any country, but there seems to be a much larger percentage of pinay bad-girls than any other place. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Frequently they tell me the don't want a Filipino guy because Filipino guys are all drunks, irresponsible, gamblers, druggies, etc. This correlates with the large number of them who are knocked up and left or who have guys lying to them who actually have other families. Again I am speaking primarily of the ones I have met on DIA. Also to the other poster I disagree that Filipinas from higher class sources prefer Filipino guys. Even the professional ones I have met want to met a foreigner. This is the universal female drive to accept money and power in exchange for sex and pretended loyalty. You're right they are bad girls, they like to f* many of them but not all. They just want to do it with someone who can support them in the style to which they are unaccustomed and maybe even get the H*l out of dodge. And you're right, many Thais are just as poor but no nearly as accomodating to foreigners.
[QUOTE=Nvslim; 1187015]Wrong, Wrong, Wrong.
Maybe its a different time but I have been married to a sweet, really cute and loving Filipina for 25 years. I met her through a dating organization before there was an Internet. We wrote back and forth for months and then met in Manila. All I can say is I married up. She was raised in a middle class family, educated in Engineering, and a whole lot smarter than I am. She manages the household finances and does a damn good job of taking care of me. When I was injured and in hospital she visited and helped the nurses tend to me. She is very tolerant of my foibles and my physical limitation of disability. I have never strayed for fear of screwing up a good thing.
All I can say is, if you pick wisely, you too can find your "dream girl." I see Filipina nurses and med techs all over town, so maybe you don't even need to go all the way to the P. I. To find a good woman.
Slim[/QUOTE]You lucked out and contrary to the op, you did not find her on DIA.
[QUOTE=GoodEnough; 1188576]Tampo can be triggered by almost anything. It's occurrences are unpredictable and so is the duration. I've not had to cope with it often, and certainly not for several years, but an effective means of dealing with it I've found, is to simply ignore it. Don't get angry, don't walk out or scream; simply don't react at all. This provides tangible evidence to the lady that the tactic doesn't work, and what doesn't work usually gets discarded pretty quickly.
GE[/QUOTE]She would have attacks of angry jealousy when I told her I was chatting with two at the same time and start cussing me out and telling me what a low life I was. This followed my ignoring her "tampo".
Yet she is getting money from two different americans, who she swears are just friends and sponsoring her kids (yeah right!) and have no intention of visiting her.
Plus caught her in several lies as well. Too bad she was sexy and smart, but not going to get involved with such a woman.
[QUOTE=Turdycurdyone; 1188828]I disagree that Filipinas from higher class sources prefer Filipino guys. Even the professional ones I have met want to met a foreigner.
And you're right, many Thais are just as poor but no nearly as accomodating to foreigners.[/QUOTE]Are you sure they're only telling you this because you're a foreigner and they want to develop rapport with you? Because I don't see many professional types on DIA or FilipinoCupid where they can access foreign men.
It's like at the Angeles City bars where girls tell white guys "I hate Korean men" but, five minutes later, will be hanging out with a throng of Korean men telling them "I hate white guys".
While women do generally seek guys with money, they also have a drive to mate with someone with similar cultural and religious backgrounds. You agreed with this yourself when you remarked about how most Thai woman are "just as poor" and yet, are still somewhat anti-foreigner.
[QUOTE=Turdycurdyone; 1188835]She would have attacks of angry jealousy when I told her I was chatting with two at the same time and start cussing me out and telling me what a low life I was. This followed my ignoring her "tampo".
Yet she is getting money from two different americans, who she swears are just friends and sponsoring her kids (yeah right!) and have no intention of visiting her.
Plus caught her in several lies as well. Too bad she was sexy and smart, but not going to get involved with such a woman.[/QUOTE]One of my DIA girls had the same problem. We had stayed together few times in Manila. She would fly there from Zambo. Quite a sweet girl and we hit it off. However one time she was getting these calls and she would.
Go into the bathroom to talk. I ignored it initially because I give space to them because I am not married to them. Only when the calls were frequent she told me this guy is calling her all the time and when the next call came.
Handed the phone to me although I did not want to talk to the guy. This guy was pleading and begging saying the girl is his GF and he wants to marry her etc. Actually I felt really bad for the guy and told him to call her after a few days because she is staying with me. I guess he did not take it kindly and continued calling all hours. Maybe he was supporting this girl and deep in love.
Next day another of my DIA friends called me because we were planned to stay together after this girl. The call came when my girl was in the bathroom talking to the guy. I told the girl to text me because I was busy.
I guess the girl in the bathroom heard me. When she came she was in a fighting rage. I calmly told her it is ok for to talk to anybody ok for me to talk to anybody too. She caught hold of my phone and called the other girl and.
Had a fight on the phone. When the other girl refused to talk this girl would text her saying to leave me alone etc. This lasted better part of an hour. After that she sat on the balcony crying her heart out. Even when I tried to pacify her she would not budge. So I ignored her. For about three hours she stayed crying and then came back packed her things and tried to leave. I held her back and insisted her to stay. But for her beauty and excellent body and good sex I would have had her leave.
Ultimately things turned out fine. Anyway sometimes these girls feel they can do whatever they want but not you.
[QUOTE=Sammon;1188919]I guess the girl in the bathroom heard me. When she came she was in a fighting rage. I calmly told her it is ok for to talk to anybody ok for me to talk to anybody too. She caught hold of my phone and called the other girl and. Had a fight on the phone. When the other girl refused to talk this girl would text her saying to leave me alone etc. This lasted better part of an hour.[/QUOTE]It's hard to believe that you let a little Pinay take your phone from you and use it repeatedly and you were not able to get it back for over an hour.
[QUOTE=Sammon;1188919]For about three hours she stayed crying and then came back packed her things and tried to leave. I held her back and insisted her to stay. But for her beauty and excellent body and good sex I would have had her leave.[/QUOTE]Take the TV but leave the pussy! I applaud you. I can never stay with the same girl for more than one day. Pro or non-pro. My fantasy is to stay with the same woman for 2 days. I keep trying and failing as many times. I'm always worried about the other women that I am missing out on. I'm insatiable in that I can't get enough of different women and it has nothing to do with sex. I guess that is more so why I monger the times that I do; for the numbers. I have never had a problem with sex from non-pros in my country or anywhere else. I don't look at the west as a sex prison the way many other guys on the board do.
[QUOTE=Sammon;1188919]Anyway sometimes these girls feel they can do whatever they want but not you.[/QUOTE]This is probably how our LBFM friends sees it.
If she "cheats", it's OK because she needs money for survival. If you cheat, it's only because you're horny.
Not that I agree, but I feel that's how they rationalize things.
[QUOTE=Fifty Pesos;1189161]Men who don't have a problem pulling women in the west are not trolling developing countries looking for cheap sex.[/QUOTE]Beg to differ. I prefer to try things outside the box. Filipines is just one playground.
[QUOTE=Fifty Pesos; 1189161]Nobody asked you about your ability to pull non-pros in the west neither was anyone discussing that. On more than one occasion I have seen you state this. Maybe you need to keep telling yourself this to boost your own confidence but I doubt this is true.
Men who don't have a problem pulling women in the west are not trolling developing countries looking for cheap sex.
As for the behavior of Filipinas. Who we as individuals interact with will shape our perceptions of the world we live in.
Most of the comments here have been negative so we can assume most men here have had negative experiences thus creating a situation where neophytes can expect a negative experience or consider themselves very lucky if they experience the positive.[/QUOTE]Hey I have no problem getting a gf 1 and 2 in the west. Just I can have 4 gf in Philippines. And they can all live together. But as you put it maybe I see different side. But I enjoy what I see and have. The west the girls are not as good for me as the ones I know in the pi. In pi I get hotter and younger girls