Why should our charity go to unknown bargirls of no interest?
[QUOTE=Bkkdog;2255870]Then when it comes time for me to say no, I say this:
Teerak, (sweetie, darling, honey in English). "I don't want you to think that I like another lady. I am here for you and I want to focus all my attention on you. I would prefer to buy drinks for you only from now on. I'm here to support you and not another lady". After saying this to a girl, I have never had a negative response. After that, I bar fine her, order her another LD and then get the hell out of the bar. That way the LDs stop but in her mind, she has snagged a good customer. Back in the room, I get what I want most of the time and pay a fair price.[/QUOTE]"Paak Waan Mak-Maak 555" (Such sweet bullshit). I think some of them are smart enough to see through your ploy, but it is immaterial since avoids the hard angry negative. Thais like a bit of sweet bullshit.
Girls who work "well" are trying to get customers to buy drinks for mamasan, their friends without a customer, the waitress, the manager, etc. We can't look after them all, unless we have far too much money.
These days, I just tell the girl, I buy drinks for my favourite person (s) which could be 1 or 2 girls, and if she has a friend (of no interest to me), then she can buy her friend a drink or give away her own drink commission (some do), but I have no reason to do so. I can't support the entire bar, I won't be ringing the bell. These girls know me and know I won't be so stingy when comes to pay for the sex. They get paid very fair even with bonus on occasion of having to work extra hard for my cum.
Girls get rewarded for being very useful to me, not for being a nuisance hanging around. We can't afford to set a precedent by rewarding undesirable behaviour. When would it end?
We can't afford to be too generous before we see the girl doing very well for us. This means if intending to BF, better make sure she wants to go early on, rather than getting bad news after several drinks gone.
So I agree with rewarding girls generously based on what they deliver. If we rip them off, there is little chance of a next time seeing the girl in a good mood. If the girl was crappy, then there clearly won't be a next time anyway. Guys regular in a bar will get a reputation for being stingy or generous or balanced in between. Their is definitely plenty of gossip. Even girls never fucked will have a fair idea. Mamasans will know too. Gossip may even extend to was the guy a good or lousy fuck, although maybe some girls are too shy to get into that. Does he fuck hard or too long, etc. Some girls heard exaggerated stories about me and were a bit scared or worried, later admitting to be surprised I was not like what she was expecting. Much nicer than expected of course.
Sometimes they push too hard
Am I the only one who has walked out after agreeing to a hotel session because the girl pushed too hard for tips and drinks for other girls, mamasans, and waitresses?
The total amount of money involved probably isn't much, but I hate feeling like an ATM.