[QUOTE=Henio]I do not know of any club that allows a lady guest that is not a "worker" there to have sex with other men than the one she arrived with. Please tell.
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Hi Henio,
What you say makes complete sense, so let me reconsider a moment.
Firstly I have, somewhat belatedly, come the conclusion that time of day and of week makes an enormous difference to the experiences within a club, and the relative merits between clubs. Those whose general habit is to arrive at 23:00 for a few hours with a club in full swing have a very different set of experiences to someone who might see the same club on a cold wet Wedesday afternoon, or yet again a warm sunny Sunday afternoon.
I frequently enjoy extended visits during the daytime. I, and perhaps all of us, should take more care to state explicitly the times of particular experiences, and to avoid making false inductions about an experience that might vary on a different occasion. Nowhere is this more evident than the arguments over the relative merits between GT (excellent during the day, too crowded at night) and the alternatives PHG, LR, VV, YY, Acapulco (frequently too quiet during the day but better ratios at night)
So, I must clarify that I don't think I have ever seen couples during peak busy times, only at daytimes but mostly at weekends. I may have wrongly induced how frequently this occurs, and may have misadvised Chesaning if he was expecting to take his GF to Oase on a Friday night!
The more interesting specific point is about "non-workers" having sessions with men. I agree, it doesn't make sense for the clubs to allow this, and it is pretty much inconceivable to imagine at a heavily managed club like GT.
I can only recall one(?) occasion of this, that which I mentioned at Oase. It made a strong impression upon me, and I have always cherished the memory as a charming example of what is right about FKK land. Maybe that dream is about to fade.
It was a pleasant winters Sunday afternoon at Oase. I had enjoyed a couple of nice relaxed sessions, and went outside to the sauna areas to relax and recover a while. In the large sauna (on the left as you come out) there was one older woman, surrounded by a gaggle of guys. I went in, and it became clear that one of the guys was her partner. The other guys were hovering around like guys do at a swingerclub, hoping for some action. The woman was pleasant, but a little old, and a little fleshy, just like the majority of women in the real world or in a swinger club.
I stayed for a while out of interest. I do not speak enough German to have joined in the conversation. Eventually, I left the sauna area without detailed discussion, and I did not session with the woman. At other times, intermittently, over the afternoon she remained in the quieter areas, gently flirting with a varying group of guys.
Since I did not session with her, or explicitly ask her what she was doing, I can only make assumptions which may prove to be wrong.
That said, I still find it hard to draw a different conclusion. One does see older providers sometimes at the big clubs. There is the red-haired Englishwoman at World (that I always assume is Cordelia), and she weaves her magic in a particular way with her favourites: but one would never doubt that she was a provider. With due respect, I would not expect her to attract a circle of horny admirers as the lady in Oase did. The dynamic was different. I don't know why we (men) would treat a non-pro differently, but that was how it felt. It is also unusual for a provider to "hold court" in an out of the way area, without prowling the public spaces.
Anyway those are the facts. There may be other explanations, but I can't think of any. I just smiled to myself, and enjoyed the image of relaxed, tolerant sexuality that I perceived.
Short question, long answer.
Have fun.
PL
