[QUOTE=Mdemde;2284557]It's a numbers game, for every 200 messages I sent out[/QUOTE]Interesting thanks for the detail. Were you looking for free hookups? I'd say you did pretty good.
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[QUOTE=Mdemde;2284557]It's a numbers game, for every 200 messages I sent out[/QUOTE]Interesting thanks for the detail. Were you looking for free hookups? I'd say you did pretty good.
[QUOTE=NaughtyDogBKK;2284412]Just as a bit of feedback here I'm actually a gold member. The cost is pretty trivial to me by comparison to even a single trip out to a gogo or whatever, so if I score out of it even once a month I'm ahead. There are a couple of benefits of gold. One is that you get daily "super likes". As far as I can tell (I'm not 100% sure) when you super like someone she can see it without having to match with you. So it has a much better chance of response. You get five of them a day, and I definitely don't use them all. The other advantage is "boosts". Boosts push you up to the first profile in people's phones for half an hour. You get one a month. I clicked on the button not knowing what it did, and it resulted in a fucking flood of likes. And more than a few matches.
-snip-[/QUOTE]Thanks for the tip. I will check it out to see what happens when I do that. Actually, I have a report for what happened for me earlier this evening with my brand new Tinder Gold Membership:
First of all, let me hit all the usual addendum; YMMV, Luck Matters, Maybe This Was a One Off, This Isn't For Everyone, etc.
This afternoon I decided to give a full year Tinder Gold membership a try. It cost me $149.99 USD on my credit card, bringing the cost down to $12.99 USD per month. As you said, that isn't going to break me and if I get one decent fuck per month out of it, it would be worth it.
Well, gents, the girl I got and the experience I had just a few hours ago more than justified this month's $12.99 USD. Who knows if the way I handled it mattered or not but here is what I did. I laid it all out in my "About (me)" portion of the profile. Brutally direct. I mean I confessed that I would not be able to have sex with a condom but I'd gotten a vasectomy and always have a recent blood check document to show if you want to see it. I was even able to fit into the limited amount of characters allowed to mention that a girl having a shaved pussy is my preference. I then closed with a very polite, "If you are not comfortable to have sex with me this way, please move on to the next man. Thank you."
Honestly, I no longer have patience for the round about approach with these online girls. It is all too easy for them to waste your time chatting for hours over the course of a few days before you find out that what you really want is not going to happen anytime soon. And, obviously, I am primarily looking for straight up P4P girls on Tinder, not sweet young virgins looking for a husband. If there are only 10 of them within 26 kilometers of where I am on lower Sukhumvit on a given night, those are the ones I want to talk to.
I included three recent photos and added one of those 3 second video clips of my adorable smiling face in my profile.
Almost right away I got several Likes and Matches. I wrote a message to the one that looked most interesting to me for tonight on the order of "Hi. Did you read my profile? Want to meet?" She replied yes, we exchanged Line info and from there got to the particulars about how much, where do I live and what time. I told this one 2,000 Baht, 2500 Baht if no rush and she was extra sweet to me. She earned the 2,500 Baht on this night.
Her? She was easily one of the top 2-3 best looking African girls I have seen working in Bangkok. Actually, I don't know if I have seen her on the street. She says she usually goes to the clubs with her girlfriends, Pullman Hotel's bar and lounge being where she happened to be heading to tonight. She would fit right in at one of the more upscale clubs and bars, I think. 23 years old. Fine, sexy African female body, nothing extreme or weird about her at all. Nice full breasts. Great butt. Beautiful face. No apparent baby damage and I did not ask. She came across as being very confident in her dress and general demeanor but in the room was kind of shy in a very sexy way for my tastes. She took a shower of course and tasted just fine during a lovely round of DATY, which she seemed to genuinely enjoy. Fantastic BBBJ as oral foreplay. Deep throat. I will definitely want to test out if and how she finishes that next time. At the finish, as sweet a True GFE as I've had with almost any P4P girl in Thailand.
Could I have gotten her in this way for less? Maybe. But my experience with African girls in Bangkok, of which there are few left these days, is I have never had one that looked acceptable agree to BBFS+CIP for any amount of money. This one was far and away more than "acceptable" looking.
I have no idea if it is reasonable to expect something like this to happen once a month or more. If it does, then that was $149.99 USD well spent in my case. I suppose I could have gotten this same result with the same methods I applied to my profile and photos even without paying for Tinder Gold. But if I did, I would have ponied up for Tinder Gold after tonight anyway! I won't be doing this every night or even every week. I am still quite busy with other "regular" non pro girls these days. But I will post updates on anything notably good or bad as they come along when I do.
[QUOTE=EihTooms;2285032]]Honestly, I no longer have patience for the round about approach with these online girls. It is all too easy for them to waste your time chatting for hours over the course of a few days before you find out that what you really want is not going to happen anytime soon. And, obviously, I am primarily looking for straight up P4P girls on Tinder, not sweet young virgins looking for a husband. If there are only 10 of them within 26 kilometers of where I am on lower Sukhumvit on a given night, those are the ones I want to talk to.
I have no idea if it is reasonable to expect something like this to happen once a month or more. If it does, then that was $149.99 USD well spent in my case. I suppose I could have gotten this same result with the same methods I applied to my profile and photos even without paying for Tinder Gold. But if I did, I would have ponied up for Tinder Gold after tonight anyway! I won't be doing this every night or even every week. I am still quite busy with other "regular" non pro girls these days. But I will post updates on anything notably good or bad as they come along when I do.[/QUOTE]Subscriptions to Tinder and the dating sites are worth it if only to make yourself available and to have women accessible to you. Because the apps are mobile, you can take it with you to any of the bars or strolling walking street. It is very convenient. The main negative is obvious bait and switch at which point give up 100 baht to send them the other direction. Time wasted, sure, but more good than bad can come of it.
With regards to Tinder, too many LBs on there, but they (usually) state as such in their profile. There's a lot to be filtered out and a bit less reliable. With that said, its cost is small in the general scheme of things. Glad to read about your success story. Said it before, but the scene is moving out of the bars and more on the streets than ever and on apps.
TCupid has been most successful in my experience. Lots of fish in the sea, so to speak. Still use the other sites if only to at least have access.
[QUOTE=Mdemde;2284557]Here are 4 pics of 2 girls I met on Thai Friendly about a year ago, I would class them as semi-professionals, there are 2 pics of a 21 year-old student, really pretty, she asked for 3 k ST but settled for 2.5 K. We arranged a meet, and she then said she was a 'little bit pregnant' and asked me if that would be a problem, I said no. When we met she was wearing a very baggy top, and I only saw just how far gone she was when we got to the room (ST hotel) and she took her top off! It looked to me like she was about 7 months pregnant. The other 2 pics are of a 27 year old, we settled for 2 k ST. I only met them once.[/QUOTE]Great!
I would have paid extra! So would some others. Hard to find preggos willing to sex for money in LOS.
[QUOTE=IMembr;2285101]Subscriptions to Tinder and the dating sites are worth it if only to make yourself available and to have women accessible to you. Because the apps are mobile, you can take it with you to any of the bars or strolling walking street. It is very convenient. The main negative is obvious bait and switch at which point give up 100 baht to send them the other direction. Time wasted, sure, but more good than bad can come of it.
With regards to Tinder, too many LBs on there, but they (usually) state as such in their profile. There's a lot to be filtered out and a bit less reliable. With that said, its cost is small in the general scheme of things. Glad to read about your success story. Said it before, but the scene is moving out of the bars and more on the streets than ever and on apps.
TCupid has been most successful in my experience. Lots of fish in the sea, so to speak. Still use the other sites if only to at least have access.[/QUOTE]Tinder is a gold mine for me. But not for working girls! I just stick to regular girls on there and how much effort I put into meeting them is totally up to me. The longest it's taken me to fuck a girl on there is two meetings and she became a gik immediately after so it was worth it. I advise any decent looking guy living here with a job to get tinder, if not you're just passing on untold amounts of pussy (and/or ass).
[QUOTE=IMembr;2285101]Subscriptions to Tinder and the dating sites are worth it if only to make yourself available and to have women accessible to you. Because the apps are mobile, you can take it with you to any of the bars or strolling walking street. It is very convenient. The main negative is obvious bait and switch at which point give up 100 baht to send them the other direction. Time wasted, sure, but more good than bad can come of it.
With regards to Tinder, too many LBs on there, but they (usually) state as such in their profile. There's a lot to be filtered out and a bit less reliable. With that said, its cost is small in the general scheme of things. Glad to read about your success story. Said it before, but the scene is moving out of the bars and more on the streets than ever and on apps.
TCupid has been most successful in my experience. Lots of fish in the sea, so to speak. Still use the other sites if only to at least have access.[/QUOTE]Yes, that is the way I would use my subscription as well. Something to check out while I'm out, perhaps better to meet someone at a nearby bar or shop for the purposes of screening rather than set up a formal meeting at my apartment first. Easier to thank them for their interest and move on. However, I have noticed a lot of the Ladyboys don't identify themselves. Maybe they would if we shifted to Line. But I am very comfortable about left swiping (rejecting) the ones that look enough like Ladyboys to warrant it.
While still on the subject, I should clear up something about what I said in my earlier report since I have gotten a PM asking about it. Regarding my "About (me)" profile write up, when I said, "I was even able to fit into the limited amount of characters allowed to mention that a girl having a shaved pussy is my preference," I should have pointed out in my report here that I did not use the word "pussy" in that write up. I only used it here out of habit. In my profile I merely said something general like "being shaved is a plus", nothing more graphic than that. I have no idea what the graphic description limitations are on Tinder. Maybe none at all. But I was just being honest and matter of fact about what I put in my profile, not anything like engaging in "dirty talk". I did not use words like "penis/dick/cock", "vagina/pussy/ass", "cum/jizz" and so on. I tried to keep it non P4P girl-friendly, so to speak. I think a girl would have to be extremely prudish to complain or report what I wrote. Of course, it is always possible I suppose, especially when we factor in translation issues.
Interesting that ThaiCupid is working best for you now. For me, that is the one that triggered my curiosity in trying Tinder again. Seems like I have only been inspiring Interest from ladies much older than my stated and filtered age range on that app and very, very few from the ones I would want to have sex with. And the ones I would want to have sex with are way the hell out in the other provinces. Which can often mean they aren't the least bit into actually having sex with me for love or money, just interested in wasting my time on other pursuits. ThaiFriendly was also getting to be that way for me. However, these things do occur in waves and I assume it is just a temporary trend. My Tinder experience last night was much better than any of the new experiences I've had from either of those other sites in the past 2-3 weeks.
[QUOTE=Zman429;2284996]Interesting thanks for the detail. Were you looking for free hookups? I'd say you did pretty good.[/QUOTE]When I first started using it I was only looking for a girlfriend, and as I met more and more girls it progressed to free hookups as well as paid-for sessions.
Yes, I had the same experience with Thai Cupid. I received multiple responses from older woman outside of my age requirements and most of them were from northern provinces. Very few in fact in Bangkok. I am only here for another month so once my tinder expires in the next few weeks, I am not going to renew my plan. TF has proven to me to be a complete bust. At least with Tinder I get some matches, though cutting through the LB's has proven to be problematic.
On that subject, there appears to be an explosive profusion of LB's almost reaching epidemic proportions since my last stay in Bangkok in the winter of 2016. I notice them everywhere. Wandering up and down my Soi at night, on the BTS, in the mall etc. Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were eyeing a girl at a food kiosk when the Thai woman with us said 'oh, that is an LB'. Oops! It can be that hard to tell at times.
On GG's, I find that if you cut to the chase and ask them what they are looking for on Tinder, it expedites the entire process. At least, the one American girl I had been conversing with asked me that question and we got right down to price after that. I am currently conversing with a cute 20 year old Thai who admits to be freelancing. Last night, I was not near my apartment but will prob attempt contact tonight.
On lbs, you're right, sometimes it's so hard to recognize them.
That's why I never tried Freelancer so far, though they're standing right outside my soi, just don't want to take chance seeing matching balls.
[QUOTE=Tomasb;2285185]Yes, I had the same experience with Thai Cupid. I received multiple responses from older woman outside of my age requirements and most of them were from northern provinces. Very few in fact in Bangkok. I am only here for another month so once my tinder expires in the next few weeks, I am not going to renew my plan. TF has proven to me to be a complete bust. At least with Tinder I get some matches, though cutting through the LB's has proven to be problematic.
On that subject, there appears to be an explosive profusion of LB's almost reaching epidemic proportions since my last stay in Bangkok in the winter of 2016. I notice them everywhere. Wandering up and down my Soi at night, on the BTS, in the mall etc. Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were eyeing a girl at a food kiosk when the Thai woman with us said 'oh, that is an LB'. Oops! It can be that hard to tell at times.
On GG's, I find that if you cut to the chase and ask them what they are looking for on Tinder, it expedites the entire process. At least, the one American girl I had been conversing with asked me that question and we got right down to price after that. I am currently conversing with a cute 20 year old Thai who admits to be freelancing. Last night, I was not near my apartment but will prob attempt contact tonight.[/QUOTE]
Friday: arrive Bangkok, Admiral Suites 3 nights.
My first trip to Bangkok was about 2 years ago in September.
The Admiral Suites on soi 22 was Basically what I expected. 50 USD includes breakfast. It's a 3-star Hotel. Helpful staff. I had a room facing the empty lot, was not as noisy as I expected. Rooms are very large, plenty of room to move around, king size bed, refrigerator, balcony. I got there at 0900, too early to check in. Had breakfast.
Went and got a real massage at Araya massage. Very good hour and a half. Ate lunch. Came back and checked in. Fell asleep for 5 hours.
Walked over to the Bunny massage at 730 pm. Got a nice session for 2500. Use the room with the jacuzzi. Good-sized room, with a jacuzzi plenty of room to move around. Could have been 2300 without the jacuzzi. Leta. Amazing ass. Very petite 24 years old, I would do her again. No come in mouth. They lined up about 15 women, looks like several places in this alley are tied together. Found out the next day the price could have been 2,000.
Went out and had some beers, had a bite to eat.
[QUOTE=EihTooms;2285148]Interesting that ThaiCupid is working best for you now. For me, that is the one that triggered my curiosity in trying Tinder again. Seems like I have only been inspiring Interest from ladies much older than my stated and filtered age range on that app and very, very few from the ones I would want to have sex with. And the ones I would want to have sex with are way the hell out in the other provinces. Which can often mean they aren't the least bit into actually having sex with me for love or money, just interested in wasting my time on other pursuits. ThaiFriendly was also getting to be that way for me. However, these things do occur in waves and I assume it is just a temporary trend. My Tinder experience last night was much better than any of the new experiences I've had from either of those other sites in the past 2-3 weeks.[/QUOTE]It may just be recency bias on both our parts. TC, TF, and Tinder are all viable options. It seems TC has a bigger pool that will allow for more connections. The quality of the connection is up for debate. But it can be agreed on to use all the outlets you can because ultimately dating apps are not real huge time sinks. You can flip through your phone and send a canned greeting to a number of women and reply with another canned response to know what to expect. On a side note, you do have very specific needs.
Oddly enough, the best for the weekend was from TF and walking down Sukhumvit. For the later, it was more the matter of wanting to stay inside with a / see but turned out fantastic. Sometimes luck plays a part in this.
[QUOTE=Tomasb;2285185]On that subject, there appears to be an explosive profusion of LB's almost reaching epidemic proportions since my last stay in Bangkok in the winter of 2016. I notice them everywhere. Wandering up and down my Soi at night, on the BTS, in the mall etc. Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were eyeing a girl at a food kiosk when the Thai woman with us said 'oh, that is an LB'. Oops! It can be that hard to tell at times.[/QUOTE]Too many LBs indeed. They are opening another LB gogo at Soi Cowboy which is a sign of things to come. LBs wouldn't be an issue except some can be aggressive in approaching when all you want to do is take a stroll for an actual woman.
Just ask? I always do. Lbs are usually quite proud of the fact they are (otherwise they wouldn't have done it, right?) and in my experience always tell the truth. If you're worried about annoying the girl in question by asking, you're asking in the wrong way. There's a few different ways to approach it lightheartedly and over the years I've only seriously annoyed one girl which ended up in me not sealing the deal as a result. Plus she wasn't a wg. If they are a wg they will a) be totally used to the question and b) should just answer as part of the job anyway to close a customer and get on with it.
[QUOTE=Gargano19;2285306]On lbs, you're right, sometimes it's so hard to recognize them.
That's why I never tried Freelancer so far, though they're standing right outside my soi, just don't want to take chance seeing matching balls.[/QUOTE]
I have always stopped in to CH when I'm here and was never impressed. But now the girls are all 8 and 9's. Very impressive. They were being scooped up by the Japanese boys quickly.
I also like the painted dancers act. One girl, Apple was fantastic. She has snake glow in the dark paint and her short hair, punk style is great. I sat at the dance floor. And put money in front of me and she put her sweet pushy in my face.
Also they have a balloon dart show, ala Pat Pong style. This is a cheap act and should not be allowed but they are trying to attract the Asian guys who have not seen this before.
Everything changes and Cowboy coyotes just sit and looked bored. I'm off to Phuket and I hope it's not as crowed as Bkkis. Never come to Bkk during Chinese New Year. They are like ants everywhere.
RL.
[QUOTE=RobertLong;2285717]I have always stopped in to CH when I'm here and was never impressed. But now the girls are all 8 and 9's. Very impressive. .[/QUOTE]But did they ask you to buy a fire cracker or pre pay for a drink before you entered?