Getting caught up on reports
I just got back yesterday from a disappointing trip to Bogota and read the last eight pages of Cartagena reports. Seems like the same old arguments going on with a few good reports. Main thing is to have fun. I will be submitting a report later on Bogota but want to say that all those that say Cartagena is expensive, just go to Bogota for sticker shock.
I was looking forward to going to Cartagena in mid-April, but because of our great bureaucratic Nazi embassy in Bogota, my wife and son will not be leaving Colombia. So there is no need for me to visit in April to bring them home. After close to eight years of marriage, joint bank accounts, shared ownership of property in Colombia, and emotional support for many personal tragedies in our families, the embassy (one lady in particular) decided we did not have a valid relationship.
I am sorry to hear that Playa Hollywood has shrunk, but in a way that is OK. On those hot days, it was difficult to run to the beach without burning the feet. Although Tony can be a pest, he did well for me and get me quality. He must still be battling illness if he has lost weight.
It is very difficult to get a BBBJ in Bogota and have had no problem getting this in Cartagena. Also, in Bogota, I had to pay extra for DATY. Does not make much sense because the girls are the ones that get the enjoyment, plus it gives them a chance to lay back and let us do the work. It is sort of like paying a plumber to sit back while you apply the pipe wrench.
I will write my report on Bogota tomorrow, so if you are interested in going there, I have new information on some new places to go and some that appear to be closed.
Hopefully, I will be meeting some of you in person in the future and have a drink. My wife will be starting a business in our neighborhood near one of the universities. It will be a bar / hot dog stand / mini market place that attracts many of the college students going to and from class. Previously, it was run by a friend of hers. It is kinda of a great place to sit back and cool out while young college girls stop by. My wife knows many of the beauties and they would like to meet some gringos for dinner and drinks and some quality alone time with her new novio. I hope my wife is able to take pictures to provide to anybody wanting to visit. More later in a few months.
Time to go to Plan B, C, D, and E
[QUOTE=Caliguy 2010;1133517]Otiers, I am sorry to hear that. I have read most of your posts here on this site and know you have been dealing with this for a long time.[/QUOTE]Caliguy and Tiny12,
Yes it has been an ordeal, but looking back, if I had been more insistent with my wife to come back after six mionths I would not have the problem today. Easier said than dne with a head strong Colombiana. Family is very important to her and she sacrifices her self for them.
We decided to re-open the cafe / bar and she thought it would be a good place for a gringo or other foreign men to sit, relax, and talk to the young ladies that stop and drink, relax after school in the evening. It might not be for everybody, but some guys like to kick back in a relaxed atmosphere and get to know the culture away from the beach and tourist area. That is how I fell in love with the place, but it certainly is not Kansas.
Follow up report on trip. Non pros
I posted after my first day in Cartagena around February 17. I mentioned hooking up with a girl I met on Cupid and wondering if she was a pro or not. This was a 20 year old very cute girl that was pretty sexual with me very quickly on msn. For background info I'm in my mid 30s and in pretty good shape, speak spanish very well one on one but get lost in groups, am a very good flirt but can't dance worth a damn.
My first day I met Victoria out for lunch and within about an hour we were back at my apartment and about 30 minutes later having sex. She was great and a very cool fun girl. I hung out with her 4 times in my first 10 days in Cartagena and it was hard limiting her to that many days. I know a lot of guys reading this have ideas of hooking up with tons of local non pros. But as I have previously stated this gets very exhausting as they all work and are all free and expect to go out the exact same time and have an amazing way of making you feel guilty when you blow them off. Only real issue I had with Victoria was that she was very young and looked the part and some part of me felt uncomfortable walking around with her. I also definitely got the vibe that she has worked before and maybe was just hoping I would be a different kind of score. After I started to blow her off she called and mentioned needing money to pay for next semester of University but at that point I had already gotten tired of her so I just said sorry I don't have cash on me.
My second day I met another girl that works at the University. Her name is Jesika and she is about 26 but only like 4 ft 9! I love spinners! Again within 2 hours of meeting we were back at my apartment and having sex. While not as hot as Vicky I felt very comfortable that this was just a nice sweet girl that I had a lot more to talk about. She didn't want or try to spend a dime or order anything that was not the cheapest thing on the menu in the 3 times I was out with her. While she was cute and seemed resigned to the fact that it was just good company and sex. Her only complaint was that I always made her leave as I was going out with other friends whenever I'd see her.
Also hooked up with a girl I met the year before on a trip again nice girl and offered sex up the first time I saw her.
I also hooked up with non pros I met in Santa Marta and Barranquilla on this trip.
At the end of the day I think the following:
1 If you are smooth and have success with women at home you will likely have success in Colombia. Spanish is a great help. But if you are good looking and can dance its not absolutley necessary as my friend that met me towards the end of the trip couldn't say 2 words but still hooked up with some cuties.
2. Unless you really put some work into it and the girl thinks you will marry her and take her away (which ends up being more work and more expensive than paying for a pro) you are likely to hook up with the same caliber of talent as you do in your home. Maybe up a level or down a level. For the most part absolutely gorgeous girls arent' giving it up to guys that don't either 1 pay them or 2 are just as attractive as they are.
3. While it is still possible to hook up with cute non pros in Cartagena it has to be the worst city in the country for it. Locals are exposed to too many tourists to make you exotic and they know most single men come to just have sex. Also, although there are plenty of beautiful locals in Cartagena I think the talent in every other city I have been to absolutely kills Cartagena.