Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

Cousin and friends joining the first meeting have turned out extraordinarily well for me. There is no perfect formula.

[QUOTE=Sammon;1893571]Learn few things before going for non hookers.

1. Do not believe anything the girls say.

2. If mother, aunt, friend etc has to be there when you meet the girl it is seldom you will get to fuck her.

3. Hope you have not sent any money or gifts. Never send anything. Plan to do that only after you enjoy her.

4. There are plenty of girls out there who will fuck your brains out. No reason to dote on one.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Dg8787;1893784]BTW, 99% of the posters here are saying the pinays don't like the big ones and it hurts them and makes them bleed! Do the pinays in Canada have bigger pussies? Or are you using a shoe horn to aid entry?[/QUOTE]Neither am I head over heels for fucking some Pinays. A lot of times their tight pussies make my dick hurt. Think of sliding a rubberband on and off your dickhead to and from the shaft a couple hundred times.

[QUOTE=XMan;1893851]Cousin and friends joining the first meeting have turned out extraordinarily well for me. There is no perfect formula.[/QUOTE]Cousins, BFFs ad mothers all have been good in part for also XMan.

Of course there is the time when it is horrible and I agree with Sammon but there have been wonderful threesomes with mom / daughter or cutie / BFF etc which cannot be ignored.

But I general I try to dissuade until the second date when I have had a chance to see the picture of any cousin, mother etc and decide.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1893857]Neither am I head over heels for fucking some Pinays. A lot of times their tight pussies make my dick hurt. Think of sliding a rubberband on and off your dickhead to and from the shaft a couple hundred times.[/QUOTE]Yep. Pinay pussy is so tight that it rolls up and rolls down my condom while I am stroking it!

I am Ronald, 58 year old but still handsome and slim, from Holland. 50% of time in the Philippines.

I spent so much time in the Philippines that I get sick of Pinay!

I spent so much time in the Philippines that I don't see a difference anymore between a street hooker or a dating girl.

I am handsome and old (58 year) but all seem to be to lazy to swim or walk and just want to jump in bed with me and have sex.

I give them all a little money after they dressed again and I ask them all if they like to go out with me barhopping in Angeles and all most do it till about 10 pm.

Next day most girls (Even DE dating girls who went with me to bed) don't react on texts.

I spent so long time to find out "why" the girls don't return. Yes I like young things like.

I start to figuring it out after I met 25 yo skinny hot "Barbie Ash" on DIA (a not so reliable dating site) from Manila!

Barbie came all the way from Tondo (poor area of Manila) to meet me in Angeles at SM-Clark.

Whole the time she was "detecting" that other man looked to her (talked about that) and whole the time she was chatting while smiling on two smartphones with "mama".

After while I peeked on her phone and saw texts like "can you sneak away" , next day again all text with foreigners.

When I sad to her to stop that while she was me she get "Sad" and did not say a word anymore.

She was just chatting. Not meeting- the other man.

A white man (big, old) I saw on her facebook she called "just a friend who had already a Pinay girlfriend".

Yeah just a friend who she only gave blowjob together with another girl!

She called me crazy and jealous!

I start to believe that all hot girls just want to meet the average tourists, need the attention, need the excitement like the average tourists does.

The second meeting is not so interesting so they forget you.

Exactly what the average tourist like.

And that's why I start to hate Pinay, I like a hot chick to come back every day to me and they just find all kind of excuses to go away or not to come back!

One other hot chick (19 yo) streetwalker Lyka I met in Davao asked 30.000 p each month to stay with me cause her "sick" (I call it dumb) parents have 12 younger kids.

I boom boomed her (including with other "girlfriends" of her) a lot of times and she always left me in the middle of the night cause she needed the "excitement of the hunt".

Javier from Spain is making money over and she said to me she would stay whole night with him, threat someone she never met better then me who she already 10 x met.

Yeah they break you're heart they forget you next day they want to threat the next foreigner better then you.

My problem is I think I am to smart for this country, I see all plays and lies.

And the Pinay hate a man who are seeing what they are doing, cause all woman also in the Philippines want to in control.

Thanks for reading and thanks for comments, please from people who spent also a lot of time already in the Philippines and preferable from people who have hooked a pretty young Pinay.

[QUOTE=Retgilpo;1894298]I am Ronald, 58 year old but still handsome and slim, from Holland. 50% of time in the Philippines.

I spent so much time in the Philippines that I get sick of Pinay!

I spent so much time in the Philippines that I don't see a difference anymore between a street hooker or a dating girl.

I am handsome and old (58 year) but all seem to be to lazy to swim or walk and just want to jump in bed with me and have sex.

I give them all a little money after they dressed again and I ask them all if they like to go out with me barhopping in Angeles and all most do it till about 10 pm.

Next day most girls (Even DE dating girls who went with me to bed) don't react on texts.

I spent so long time to find out "why" the girls don't return. Yes I like young things like.

I start to figuring it out after I met 25 yo skinny hot "Barbie Ash" on DIA (a not so reliable dating site) from Manila!

Barbie came all the way from Tondo (poor area of Manila) to meet me in Angeles at SM-Clark.

Whole the time she was "detecting" that other man looked to her (talked about that) and whole the time she was chatting while smiling on two smartphones with "mama".

After while I peeked on her phone and saw texts like "can you sneak away" , next day again all text with foreigners.[/QUOTE]What you say is not that unusual. Different culture, different attitudes. As a 58 yr old your getting sex with young women, something you can not do back in Holland. You want more, but there is no more, at your age, LOL. You say you give them "little money" , maybe too little. The fact they do not return indicates they can get better elsewhere, otherwise they would return to you.

Just go with the flow, get the sex and move on like they do. If you want them to stay you will most probably have to start dating women in their 40's, someone more compatible, but for sex with young women, Phils is still tops.

You say your getting tired of Filipinas. That's natural enough. Too much of anything is not a good thing. A person can eat just so much ice cream. The Phils is a candy store, there is just so much candy a person can eat, at any one time. Have a break from the land of plenty (sex) , leave the Phils and when the hunger returns, do it all over again (in Phils).

I have observed people from your part of the world try and change the Filipinos. That will not happen. You might be trying to discipline them, change them, thus they do not return after one experience with you. Enjoy what they have to offer right now, and forget the rest, LOL.

Have a break, return to sanity, Holland, then when ready dive in again (Phils).

At 58 yrs, you look handsome to women? Lucky you, LOL. Perhaps they do not return to your room cause they find someone handsome at 38 yrs? Adjusting to the reality of ageing will help you, methinks.

[QUOTE=Retgilpo;1894298]My problem is I think I am to smart for this country, I see all plays and lies.

And the Pinay hate a man who are seeing what they are doing, cause all woman also in the Philippines want to in control.

Thanks for reading and thanks for comments, please from people who spent also a lot of time already in the Philippines and preferable from people who have hooked a pretty young Pinay.[/QUOTE]What, exactly, are you looking for?

Dear Mr. Holland,

Not every girl is a hooker. You don't see the difference because of the severe rejections you have experienced and are looking thru bitter lens.

58 is old and no longer handsome to many young girls. Social economics make you better looking to some pinays.

Most guys would not complain if the girls forgoes preliminary events and goes straight to bed. Seems like you are looking for something else.

A little money does nothing.
A little money does nothing.
A little money does nothing.

These girls have to eat and survive and take care of their family. You have failed to understand this and probably the main reason you are not repeatable. It looks like you need the money more than the girls. You are no catch. Handsomeness does not put food in the stomach nor pay the 1500 pesos a month rent for the family.

Hint #1. This is not Holland.

Hint #2. This is not Holland.

Hint #3. This is not Holland.

I have repeated it 3 times hopefully you will get the hint. I don't think you have yet and you are still comparing with your standards and values.

I would bet 10,000 pesos you have had this problem in finding a relationship in your mother land too. Simple deduction is if you can't find one here in Phil then you can't find one anywhere.

One of the problems is that you think you are too smart. Let me tell you the pinays are smarter than you. You have the empty bed.

The fact is that it is all about you! Even the pinays can see that and run like hell. In their eyes you do not provide a future. If you want a future then you need to understand her needs and her family needs.

You may be suffering from Handsomeness / Beautiful syndrome where as you got things handed to you in the younger years and now, nothing and having a hard time surviving.

You are in Philippines, understand the cultural and the people.

Abby.

[QUOTE=Retgilpo;1894298]

She called me crazy and jealous!

I start to believe that all hot girls just want to meet the average tourists, need the attention, need the excitement like the average tourists does.

The second meeting is not so interesting so they forget you.

[/QUOTE]Two thoughts. First, I've come across many girls here who believe conflict is a way to demonstrate affection. If you don't care, you won't get jealous, angry, etc. Barbie's texting other blokes in front of you may be a tactic to see how you react. (It can also be a power play to show you she has options.) Because I usually don't care, I flip the script and start texting other women in front of them, and then I up the ante by telling the girl about the other girls and the funny things they do. Keep it humourous. Some girls get offended. Other girls, who are accustomed to fellas denying and lying, become intrigued. My gambit is to become their confidant, their partner in crime so to speak. This can establish an emotional bond they want to continue.

Second, within some groups of women there is a competition to see who can attract the most admirers and the goodies that come with admiration, such as lavish dinners, holidays at luxurious resorts, gifts, etc. I have a girl introduce her facebook friends by asking her to tell me about them. If you start hearing a lot of "This is Jenelle, she has a German boyfriend. He took her to Palawan (photo) and bought her an iPhone 6 (photo), etc." If this continues with the other friends she describes then you're dealing with a woman who's using you to advance herself within her social group. Her attachment is to the competition within the group, the esteem she gains through their admiration, the happiness she feels knocking down a rival, and you're just a means to that end. Dealing with a person like this is pain, and since she isn't a family member there's really no need to get pulled into it. Play along if you want, but if you're not giving her the tangible evidence she needs to show to her frenemies she'll move on.

I know we hear a lot about asking if the barfine girl is on mens, reds etc. I wonder if it is just an excuse or convenience.

Walk into any bar in Angeles and 1 in 6 girls, waitress, etc are menstruating. 4-5 days per month out of 28 day menstrual cycle.

It's always worth asking, as the girls can't go off the roster just for mens. Besides they don't get barfined every night, so they can still get their day rate plus a few lady drinks and tips.

So, on my last trip to AC, had two girls in bed where the fact they were menstruating was something they were prepared to still have sex. One asked for a towel on the bed, the other asked to continue in the shower so the blood would go straight down the sink. These were dating site girls not barfine girls.

Previous trips a girl that met me at the airport, didn't let me go down on her pussy as she still had some spots. Another provincial girl her menstruation didn't seem to curtail her youthful enthusiasm.

So, menstruation is not the end of sex, although I wouldn't go down on a menstruating pussy.

The more pinay you take, the more you will hit the cycle.

Thoughts, opinions and advice.

BD.

[QUOTE=Retgilpo;1894298]And that's why I start to hate Pinay, I like a hot chick to come back every day to me and they just find all kind of excuses to go away or not to come back![/QUOTE]Yes, it is unbelievable that these young pinays do not have the brains to queue up to you for a chance to avail themselves of your 58 year old dick. I say, it is a shame they do not offer to pay you for the honour to be fucked over and over again by an old (but still handsome) Ducthman!

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1894626]Two thoughts. First, I've come across many girls here who believe conflict is a way to demonstrate affection. If you don't care, you won't get jealous, angry, etc. Barbie's texting other blokes in front of you may be a tactic to see how you react. (It can also be a power play to show you she has options.) [/QUOTE]No normal self-respecting Pinay is going to be chatting with/texting other guys in your presence. A hooker or gold-digger may do that (and I encourage them to do so because I am nosey and want to see the game being played out), but not a regular chick.

And they must do believe confict is a way of showing affection. But I am not a conflict person. I will give her time to cool off or change her attitude. Especially after reading about Filipinas and tampo. A couple of weeks ago my girl started shit for absolutely no reason at all. I just agreed with her and gave her a few days to get back to normal.

[QUOTE=Wolvenvacht;1895135]Yes, it is unbelievable that these young pinays do not have the brains to queue up to you for a chance to avail themselves of your 58 year old dick. I say, it is a shame they do not offer to pay you for the honour to be fucked over and over again by an old (but still handsome) Ducthman![/QUOTE]I find it a little strange that he makes a point of telling us twice in the same post how handsome he is, and has said the same on other boards. He really does sound unable to submerse himself in local culture. Mate -- we really don't care, and neither do they as long as you don't think 58 is some sort of bonus to them. As others have pointed out, it's not. There are plenty of younger men, who look better to be seen with, probably treat them in a way that makes them feel a bit like equals, and pay what you pay. They might be 'escorts', but when they walk around or hang out with a much older man it's like wearing a great big sign that everyone can see advertising that they are being paid for sex.

Pinays generally are not highly sophisticated. I've always found common sense works well with them. They generally do not seem to have some well-understood code of escorting that might be found in Thailand or Europe, or much beyond whatever bar they work in imposes. Interact with them as human beings rather than just numbers-for-pay and results can be quite heartwarming (especially outside of AC).

[QUOTE=Perchie15;1891755]Hey guys,

I been talking to a Filipinas off and on since January and I'm finally going to Phil hang with her few days and then tour on from there. But first time I ever heard of this as I am now going to Phil she tells me I have to sign some kind of respect paper from her mother? Is this sound sketchy? And not a secret marriage certificate. I'd for sure read it but it will probably be in Tagalog and I don't know many words.

Thanks for any help first time that I've come across this.[/QUOTE]Dear Perchie15,

I lived 8 years in the Philippines, and never was "alone". In this 8 years I had many friends from Europe, US and Australia. But this I even never heard before! Sign a document. Really, even never heard about that!

First of all: never sign a document that you do not understand. Not from girlfriend or her mother, but too, not from police or anybody! And specially not in the Philippines, because in the Phils English is the official language for everything that is official, contract, documents etc.

To your attention, in the Phils you have as a foreigner, if it comes to something like an problem, in practice, as good as no rights! Except, for (a lot of) money you can buy off the problem. You will pay a lot of money and that will be shared. If not, it comes for a judge. In 6-10 months. And till then you will wait for the trial in jail.

I strongly advise you not to sign any paper, document. And in the Phils you need no "contact". As soon as you are there you will have immediately contact.

I guarantee that to you. In the bar, but too in the local hamburger restaurant Jolibee, in the mall where you drink a coffee, talk and ask expats and ong time tourist and you will get advice. Let us say it this way: can you swim without getting wet? Same in the Phills, you cannot go around in the Phils without having contact with women. From bar girls till salesladies. Do not worry.

Do not be a drunk, stay far away from drugs, cloth conventional (no shorts, no underwear). Be friendly, smile, do not argue, certainly not with police!

[QUOTE=BrainDrain;1895118]I know we hear a lot about asking if the barfine girl is on mens, reds etc. I wonder if it is just an excuse or convenience.

Walk into any bar in Angeles and 1 in 6 girls, waitress, etc are menstruating. 4-5 days per month out of 28 day menstrual cycle.

It's always worth asking, as the girls can't go off the roster just for mens. Besides they don't get barfined every night, so they can still get their day rate plus a few lady drinks and tips.

So, on my last trip to AC, had two girls in bed where the fact they were menstruating was something they were prepared to still have sex. One asked for a towel on the bed, the other asked to continue in the shower so the blood would go straight down the sink. These were dating site girls not barfine girls.

Previous trips a girl that met me at the airport, didn't let me go down on her pussy as she still had some spots. Another provincial girl her menstruation didn't seem to curtail her youthful enthusiasm.

So, menstruation is not the end of sex, although I wouldn't go down on a menstruating pussy.

The more pinay you take, the more you will hit the cycle.

Thoughts, opinions and advice.

BD.[/QUOTE]1. There are girls that love sex during menstration. Some have bigger O's during mens.

2. Always have hydrogen peroxide handy to get the red out of the sheets.

3. Go down on her and earn your Red Wings sir.