Story time: The Elusive Girl
Part 2.
Two months later in October, it's Pattaya time again. I've given up on Sandy so I do not text her. I'm in Soi 6 on the Second Road end and start walking down in the direction of the beach. I am passing Sexy in the City and who do I see standing outside? It's Sandy. WTF again!. Sandy and I were meant to meet again in Soi 6. It's our destiny. She's looking at me the whole time. So do you remember me now? I'm the guy you refused seven months ago. I immediately grab her hand and enter her bar. Acting like my girlfriend, she says why didn't you text me that you are in Pattaya. I ignore everything she says because I am totally fixated on fucking her. Over a drink, I say to myself, "It's now or never. " I put my hand on her upper thigh and say, "Boom boom". It's not a question this time. It's a directive. I expect her to say no. But she says nothing and looks straight ahead. (We are sitting side by side.) I see London falling. So I double down and I start stroking her crotch with my pinky finger and say boom boom again. Then, she says, "5 tequila". What 5 tequila? Then, she says, "5 tequila first". Then, it hit me. Should I have offered her 5 tequila when I had first met her back in March? But I do not believe her. So I say, "Boom boom first. Then I buy you 5 tequila. " Of course, I'm planning to ditch her after fucking her. But also of course, that obvious trick doesn't work. You can't win with this girl. She is one of those types who always gets what she wants. That's immense pussy power that she possesses over men. Well, I have no choice. I have to buy her the 5 tequila and risk the chance that she will ditch me and go sit with another customer for more drinks. But that is not the only conundrum that I am facing at this moment. Even if we do go upstairs, how am I going to fuck her with my erectile dysfunction?
Sandy returns from the counter with a rack of 5 tequila shots. The whole time, my hand rests on her upper thigh with my pinky finger stroking her crotch. She does not seem to mind at all. I ask her if she is going to get drunk after downing the 5 tequila shots. She answers in the negative. I let her drink the shots at her own pace. I do not want her to start throwing up. She finishes the 5 shots in about 30 minutes. Well, it's judgment time now. I've made my move. What is she going to do next? I patiently await her next course of action. Sandy reaches for the bin and picks up the invoice.
To be continued.
Pattaya Mongering: No Drama, No Stress
Pattaya is a city where there's something for everyone, no matter your style, your budget, or your attitude toward the game. Some guys like to buy lady drinks, some don't. Some bar fine, some just have a chat and move on. Some use apps like ThaiFriendly or Tinder to set things up, others prefer to walk into a bar and see what happens. No right, no wrong, just personal choice.
There's too much negativity floating around about how much you should spend or how others do it. Don't get caught up in the price police or the "don't spend a baht more than necessary" crowd. If you want to go big, go big. If you want to play it simple, do that. If you're somewhere in between, that's fine too.
Be respectful to the girls, do your thing, and don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Pattaya has a place for the budget hunters, the high rollers, and everybody in between. Post your experiences, have some laughs, and remember, the only wrong way to monger here is to let someone else tell you how you should enjoy your trip, your time or how to spend money.
Is BBBJ really dying out?
[QUOTE=Rocko20;2996855]The gatekepers and pocket watchers will never accept these facts, which is why I don't bother mentioning prices in any of my trip reports. Having mongered in multiple countries over the course of a decade, price isn't even the real problem.
It's service and talent. Many working girls (particularly freelancers) don't even want to give bareback blowjobs anymore and the talent (number of hot women in a bar or disco) has fallen off a cliff compared to Pattaya 10-15+ years ago.
But Pattaya is still 100x better than anything else, so I will continue to go regardless of prices, service, and talent compared to what it was 10-15+ years ago.[/QUOTE]What's the point of a blowjob if there's a condom involved? I get it with sex. Sure, condom, why not. But for a blowjob? This sounds like a scary and sad development.